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bistro
24-08-2024, 10:39 AM
Just had a session with a massage girl.
When she asked me what service did i want, i asker her back what are the services she offered?
Then she said handjob or blowjob.
I paused, because i remembered her profile said, open minded, which usually means OK to have sex.
I asked again, any more other services?
She said no...
Being polite customer, then i opted for blowjob.
During the blowjob sessios, she took her bra off but her undies stayed on.
Question:
Does open minded means 100% allow sex?
Because this girl is so hot, and i just want to bang her so bad...
Johny77
24-08-2024, 10:50 AM
Open minded doesn’t necessarily mean sex. It just means, more than massage may be on offer. In this case, bj.
If you are that into her, try visiting a few times. Who knows, she might open up a little more.
Kawaiionnanoko
24-08-2024, 10:58 AM
Open minded doesn’t necessarily mean sex. It just means, more than massage may be on offer. In this case, bj.
If you are that into her, try visiting a few times. Who knows, she might open up a little more.
Best answer from my understanding and depending with girl’s liking ymmv
rooter
24-08-2024, 11:25 AM
Open minded means a girl offers more than what standard service is generally offered at that particular shop.
So if standard service at a shop is just HJ - then open minded could be just CBJ or BBBJ.
If standard service includes CBJ then open minded could be BBBJ or pussy slide or pussy play etc.
If standard service includes BBBJ then open minded could mean full service.
If standard service is full service then open minded could mean anal or kinky service or whatever.
There is no simple answer. But it helps if you know what services are usually offered as standard at that particular shop.
And then ultimately it just depends on what the girl wants to do with that particular customer on that particular day, especially in R&T shops.
carmen farquis
24-08-2024, 12:36 PM
Just had a session with a massage girl.
When she asked me what service did i want, i asker her back what are the services she offered?
Then she said handjob or blowjob.
I paused, because i remembered her profile said, open minded, which usually means OK to have sex.
I asked again, any more other services?
She said no...
Being polite customer, then i opted for blowjob.
During the blowjob sessios, she took her bra off but her undies stayed on.
Question:
Does open minded means 100% allow sex?
Because this girl is so hot, and i just want to bang her so bad...
She might've had her period
trampslikeus55
24-08-2024, 01:34 PM
Open minded means a girl offers more than what standard service is generally offered at that particular shop.
So if standard service at a shop is just HJ - then open minded could be just CBJ or BBBJ.
If standard service includes CBJ then open minded could be BBBJ or pussy slide or pussy play etc.
If standard service includes BBBJ then open minded could mean full service.
If standard service is full service then open minded could mean anal or kinky service or whatever.
There is no simple answer. But it helps if you know what services are usually offered as standard at that particular shop.
And then ultimately it just depends on what the girl wants to do with that particular customer on that particular day, especially in R&T shops.
Sums it up pretty well Rooter. There are a lot of ML now taking open minded out of their profiles simply because punters are expecting it to mean FS is available. It is never a guarantee. YMMV still applies in the R&T world. Looks and cleanliness will take you a long way, pocket full of cash will help but it is upto the ML to get you over the line. 😎
kpopcity
24-08-2024, 01:47 PM
Open minded means she does not have an iron clad opinion on LGBT, abortion and gun right issues.
11Bravo
24-08-2024, 05:38 PM
IME, open minded means she will CONSIDER offering additional services, BUT, as rooter says, it's dependent on that customer, on that day {of the month: both physically - "time of month" and financially - "rent due?", possibility of repeat business, etc.) Individual decision based on the indivudualS involved.
bistro
25-08-2024, 09:52 AM
Good to hear...
After listening to your opinion, now i have some glimpse of hope being able to bang her one day, she is chinese but she looks like one of the kpop girls group that is not so popular and probably has died down after covid, hence the eagerness to come back for more attempts...
Period might take the 1st spot because when she walks around in her undies, i now remembered her pad seems a little thicker than normal ML... times must be so tough, i never thought i would see ML working during her period....
11Bravo
25-08-2024, 10:04 AM
Period might take the 1st spot because when she walks around in her undies, i now remembered her pad seems a little thicker than normal ML... times must be so tough, i never thought i would see ML working during her period....Why, a period doesn't make her an invalid. Just ONE service temporarily removed. One ML, when I messaged her to book, gave me a head's up that she was limited duty. Given she had other talents, not really a problem.
Axeman123
25-08-2024, 12:47 PM
Just had a session with a massage girl.
When she asked me what service did i want, i asker her back what are the services she offered?
Then she said handjob or blowjob.
I paused, because i remembered her profile said, open minded, which usually means OK to have sex.
I asked again, any more other services?
She said no...
Being polite customer, then i opted for blowjob.
During the blowjob sessios, she took her bra off but her undies stayed on.
Question:
Does open minded means 100% allow sex?
Because this girl is so hot, and i just want to bang her so bad... Wouldn't have been 2 pope st Friday Arvo by any chance would it?
iamthewalrus
25-08-2024, 12:49 PM
Open minded means a girl offers more than what standard service is generally offered at that particular shop.
So if standard service at a shop is just HJ - then open minded could be just CBJ or BBBJ.
If standard service includes CBJ then open minded could be BBBJ or pussy slide or pussy play etc.
If standard service includes BBBJ then open minded could mean full service.
If standard service is full service then open minded could mean anal or kinky service or whatever.
There is no simple answer. But it helps if you know what services are usually offered as standard at that particular shop.
And then ultimately it just depends on what the girl wants to do with that particular customer on that particular day, especially in R&T shops.
Good summary.
The ML's are free to choose what they provide above standard HJ , when, with whom etc., at their discretion.
Treat them well, respect their boundaries and you may reap dividends if they like you etc.
jaquedm1307
25-08-2024, 03:26 PM
Be aware some of the MLs I've spoken with don't even know what's been written about them so it can be the shop trying to entice you in - then the discussion starts in the room so as other OPs have said be kind and respectful
I've been told open minded can mean FS but not necessarily DATY just one of the variables
Timeis629
25-08-2024, 04:02 PM
I asked an ML once if it was OK if I wrote a review - she replied I’m open minded it’s OK. My interpretation always has been YMMV - however if you are respectful and prepared to pay the price - up to 3 pineapples - the world literally is your oyster. I guess like everywhere good manners and respect does help to Open the Mind to a good FS service. Respect is just not in the words you use and engaging in some respectful Chit Chat (and not only in what you say but how you say it) and also in the way you are groomed - smell good physically and orally and be clean on arrival.
bistro
26-08-2024, 07:54 AM
Wouldn't have been 2 pope st Friday Arvo by any chance would it?
Who are you? Are you her? Hahahaha
Mr69punt
26-08-2024, 10:46 AM
Open minded means open to more than hj...but I guess if your wallet is open enough, they ll open everything for u too =P
Axeman123
27-08-2024, 07:39 AM
Who are you? Are you her? Hahahaha No...well not the last time I looked anyway !!
bistro
27-08-2024, 09:41 AM
No...well not the last time I looked anyway !!
Thank Goodness.. i already feel like im getting caught while visiting hahahaha....
If you are not her... does this mean you had the same story as me on Friday arvo at the place? Hahaha...
Axeman123
27-08-2024, 09:53 AM
Thank Goodness.. i already feel like im getting caught while visiting hahahaha....
If you are not her... does this mean you had the same story as me on Friday arvo at the place? Hahaha... "We" had a little cleaning up to do. Nothing like a surprise!! I must've been the last for that month.
GoldfishMan
28-08-2024, 09:01 AM
Happened to me before but I did it differently and got a different outcome. I straight up asked for FS. In my case the ML declined, explained that she was on the rags and very strongly emphasized that I should go back to see her when it's over so we can fuck. I got her WeChat and after that, I would always message her before booking to check if she had her period. Everytime I messaged her and asked about her "visiting big second auntie" she would reply with a cheeky emoji because it would remind her of how we "met", lol! Needless to say she became one of my all time fave regular girls.
If the girl was advertised as "open minded", it generally means there's no need to beat around the bush. Just ask for what you want and if declined, you can always bring up that she was advertised open minded and see if you get an explanation why it was declined.
bistro
28-08-2024, 03:37 PM
Happened to me before but I did it differently and got a different outcome. I straight up asked for FS. In my case the ML declined, explained that she was on the rags and very strongly emphasized that I should go back to see her when it's over so we can fuck. I got her WeChat and after that, I would always message her before booking to check if she had her period. Everytime I messaged her and asked about her "visiting big second auntie" she would reply with a cheeky emoji because it would remind her of how we "met", lol! Needless to say she became one of my all time fave regular girls.
If the girl was advertised as "open minded", it generally means there's no need to beat around the bush. Just ask for what you want and if declined, you can always bring up that she was advertised open minded and see if you get an explanation why it was declined.
That is very Chinese Mandarin direct translation "Da Yi Ma Lai Le" hahaha...
Now both of you confirmed it, i feel like i was 20 years old once again and have to wait for my girlfriend to turn 18 and legally able to do things... hahaa...
Oh, well... that's life.
Axeman123
28-08-2024, 03:56 PM
That is very Chinese Mandarin direct translation "Da Yi Ma Lai Le" hahaha...
Now both of you confirmed it, i feel like i was 20 years old once again and have to wait for my girlfriend to turn 18 and legally able to do things... hahaa...
Oh, well... that's life.The amount of times I opt for a massage parlour so I can end up " dry humping" at a hand job fee. It's because it takes me back to those formulative years. If there's a couch in the room that's my bench car seat.
bistro
28-08-2024, 04:41 PM
Happened to me before but I did it differently and got a different outcome. I straight up asked for FS. In my case the ML declined, explained that she was on the rags and very strongly emphasized that I should go back to see her when it's over so we can fuck. I got her WeChat and after that, I would always message her before booking to check if she had her period. Everytime I messaged her and asked about her "visiting big second auntie" she would reply with a cheeky emoji because it would remind her of how we "met", lol! Needless to say she became one of my all time fave regular girls.
If the girl was advertised as "open minded", it generally means there's no need to beat around the bush. Just ask for what you want and if declined, you can always bring up that she was advertised open minded and see if you get an explanation why it was declined.
The amount of times I opt for a massage parlour so I can end up " dry humping" at a hand job fee. It's because it takes me back to those formulative years. If there's a couch in the room that's my bench car seat.
I know what you mean, mate.... same here...
Do you do that Asian Karaoke stuff as well? I think there are few shops in CBD who offered this type of service...
You book a room and choose the girls, then after so many drinks ordered and so many songs you sang, you can attempt to grope or kiss the girl, feels like chasing a normal girl, but of course you can take her or them home, if you like....
Very pricey though... :(
bleekpit
29-08-2024, 11:53 AM
What about "naughty girl"? I've recently seen a massage parlour use this description. Some girls described as naughty girl and others open minded. Sometimes both. Anyone else seen this?
Backdraft69
29-08-2024, 12:13 PM
What about "naughty girl"? I've recently seen a massage parlour use this description. Some girls described as naughty girl and others open minded. Sometimes both. Anyone else seen this?Just words to get you into the shop.
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