Is punting a sex act or love making?

[Revenant]

When punting are you there for the sex act as a release or are you there to make love to a woman? I’m asking because there seems to be two lines of thought, well possibly three. You may be there just for companionship and to talk.

I’m more interested in the sex act-love aspect. So I’ll start first and say it’s always been the sex act. That if a WL or ML during a punt asked me to make love to her I wouldn’t and possibly couldn’t as to me love making means something that’s relationship based, is more centred on pleasing the woman and I’ve only paid for a period of time to please myself and we are not having a relationship. Some may call it selfishness but that is why we are there isn’t it, to please ourselves?

I’m curious how many guys of their own volition make love to a sex worker or are they there for the sex act only. If they were asked to make love would they devote the time and energy during a punt. The touching, feeling, kissing, caressing, the kinder softer gentle closeness, the whisper in her ears, the seduction then the sex.

All that takes time, time is a paid for commodity. Getting back to forthrightness, they all carry lube or are already lubed up so why go through the motions? Is time in the saddle more important than their emotional content? We’re both engaging in a sex transaction, nothing more so why bother?

I know there’s GFE and PSE but recently I was asked to make love and declined. Now I’m questioning my choice as to what would have been different? Do punters get asked this?

[jedibear]

[emoji848] I don't know what to make of this? *cough* vinnie *cough*

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[Revenant]

There’s a cough going round, it’s that time of year you see, even I have it. Have you tried Vinnie’s Vapodrops, they’re great for coughs and sore throats so the ad says.

Anyway I thought you may have stopped at 500 posts, maybe numbers mean nothing to you? The last hour I’ve been perusing your forum background (coincidence?) and I was going to comment on something of yours but got distracted on another thread. Then jumped forums, checked the opposition and came back. Opposition is stale.

A forum is what you make of it you see. You have no idea how many posts I’ve written up here then hit cancel. Perhaps I’ll change that.

[ian010]

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[Zoobender]

It's neither, it's just cunting

[amigo]

It has nothing to do with love it's purely lust

[ian010]

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[Revenant]

Thx for the link to the thread @ian010, my takeaway was don’t punt too much. This is due to the fact I was getting desensitised to lust, still got hard but felt obligated to go through the motions and turn up for some reason. Quite possibly that’s why I strayed over to dating. Still the same obligation but more intimacy and longer periods of connectivity.

Regarding the love making, I was asked by a WL to make love to her at the shop. This is why I started the thread, why would a WL request that? Maybe she doesn’t like hard and fast for an hour, maybe she was sore from a previous customer, maybe she wanted a break, maybe it was her way of seduction or maybe I’m overthinking? I declined and she still performed like a champion and is one of my best fucks to date. The next time I booked her and was waiting in the room she suddenly wasn’t available which I took as a brush off so I never followed up with a third booking. I know she doesn’t do group activity so she never got invited to those.

Do WLs generally ask punters to make love?

[Smolex]

The closest thing you could place it to love is intimacy at best. You can get to know some of these women quite well on an emotional and intellectual level that would otherwise take a while, and I'd even say there's some conversations and experiences I've had that left a long lasting impression. But at the end of the day it's a transaction for their time and attention. True love is unconditional, and in this case it just plain and a simple isn't unconditional.

[ian010]

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[Abracadabra]

Man if you can't get this right, it's highly likely you have a considerable problem ....

[Johny77]

Stop feeding the troll who starts threads to satisfy his hunger for attention.

[JJBlows]

Stop feeding the troll who starts threads to satisfy his hunger for attention.

Really starting to wish that admin can give some sort of access to ban/delete threads to the most reputable members here in order to avoid this garbage.

Admin has his own life and can't be here 24/7 so something like how reddit has a moderator team could be useful as basically someone is "always on shift" to oversee here

[Revenant]

Stop feeding the troll who starts threads to satisfy his hunger for attention.

So now Johny77 you’re instructing members when they should post?

This is a genuine thread and I’m seeking genuine answers.

Who are you Johny77 to decide what is and what isn’t trollish behaviour? To barge in guns blazing isn’t respectful to a forum member. I started this thread and the very first post of yours Johny77 is to attack me.

If you don’t like the thread don’t read it.

Go do battle with someone else, I ain’t buying it.

[Revenant]

Really starting to wish that admin can give some sort of access to ban/delete threads to the most reputable members here in order to avoid this garbage.

Admin has his own life and can't be here 24/7 so something like how reddit has a moderator team could be useful as basically someone is "always on shift" to oversee here


You’re reading like a control freak. Here’s a suggestion, go start your own forum and let’s see how that goes. You’d have control over everything, so easy.

[Johny77]

Yawn ��………………….

[jedibear]

Punting is...I feel horny, I visit a massage parlour, see how far the girl's services go, and let her get the poison out. Yeah, if we click, we'll get into it...but it's always in and out. Don't get emotionally attached...you can get attached to her technique, physique or look, but love is not made in a punt

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[Niceguy11]

It always will be sex and no love. In saying that, connection to me is important but that does not mean love. If I get a long with the WL and she gets along with me, we are going to have a good time.

Jedibear, I didn't even read what you said but yeah, what you said. My thoughts are exactly what you said bro.

[jedibear]

It always will be sex and no love. In saying that, connection to me is important but that does not mean love. If I get a long with the WL and she gets along with me, we are going to have a good time.

Jedibear, I didn't even read what you said but yeah, what you said. My thoughts are exactly what you said bro.100% it's just a good time...no feelings attached bro. And always keep it that way even if the WL/ML doesnt...

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[PussyBonpensiero]

I think you can fuck someone and feel love for them as a person in that moment. It makes for better sex imo. Otherwise you're just cunting.
Doesn't mean you're "in love" with them.

[jedibear]

I think OP was asking if punting can involve lovemaking. Yes, you might enjoy the company of the ML/WL...but could you ever feel the intense emotions you would with a significant other?

For me, never...maybe for the moment I'm fucking her, I feel sexual attraction and lust, and maybe I admire her beauty, but post nut clarity always kicks in after it's done...

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[1inchguy]

neither, its advance physio

[schloong]

I think you can fuck someone and feel love for them as a person in that moment. It makes for better sex imo. Otherwise you're just cunting.
Doesn't mean you're "in love" with them.

How can you tell when you're in love?
When she taps you on the arse & says "You're In, love"...

[jedibear]

How can you tell when you're in love?
When she taps you on the arse & says "You're In, love"...Good one schloong!

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[Jack-Jack]

There’s a cough going round, it’s that time of year you see, even I have it. Have you tried Vinnie’s Vapodrops, they’re great for coughs and sore throats so the ad says.

Anyway I thought you may have stopped at 500 posts, maybe numbers mean nothing to you? The last hour I’ve been perusing your forum background (coincidence?) and I was going to comment on something of yours but got distracted on another thread. Then jumped forums, checked the opposition and came back. Opposition is stale.

A forum is what you make of it you see. You have no idea how many posts I’ve written up here then hit cancel. Perhaps I’ll change that.

Vinnie vapour drops?? Wtf

Man what candy you selling dude….

[Jack-Jack]

Man if you can't get this right, it's highly likely you have a considerable problem ....

Bahahahahhahahhaha

[Jack-Jack]

Man if you can't get this right, it's highly likely you have a considerable problem ....


Stop feeding the troll who starts threads to satisfy his hunger for attention.


Really starting to wish that admin can give some sort of access to ban/delete threads to the most reputable members here in order to avoid this garbage.

Admin has his own life and can't be here 24/7 so something like how reddit has a moderator team could be useful as basically someone is "always on shift" to oversee here

Ohhhhh FFs is this another manifestation account of Vinnie and Reginald or what ever he choose to call his new account each time he’s banned…..