Does all married men cheat?

[bistro]

As im entering my 50 years (well, in 2 more years), everything i worked hard for, has come into fruitition...

Stable income, 3 Investment Assets, main mortgage all paid up, Kids are all in teen years..in short, im at a good stage of my life...

One day i met this young lady who is the owner of a Korean Restaurant, have a few chat, somehow the conversation escalate and we got closer to each other. And lately i have sexual fantasy about her... and its so hard to not thinking about her at all...

Im still loyal to my wife and will definitely will always be (apart from brothel visits now and then, which i believe does not considered as cheating)

But then again, i want to ask all the husbands/daddies in this group in their 50s, are we all experienced the same situation as we got to this age??? Or is it just me?

[Abracadabra]

Wow!
Brothel visits not cheating?
You must have very interesting and flexible internal justification protocols!
Or just straight out lying to yourself.....

[Candy1234]

Visit any private and if they get comfy they will tell you most of their clients are married. Stories like have to come this time so the Mrs thinks he’s at work or dropping off the kids bla bla bla but he’s a nice person lol come on, nice to a hooker but an ass to his wife by sneaking around paying for a bang. Pisses me off cos I want to try 9am too but always booked out lol.

[Double_Adapter]

To cheat, lie, steal, destroy, & repeat is to be human

[tezzaman18]

I can see why you (in your justification) do not consider this as cheating . A lot of a married man visit brothels out of need as they are now forced to go outside their marriage to fulfil their sexual, intimacy ,etc needs. As you know there are other options but going to brothels is considered uncomplicated provided you have clear boundaries . If you are a Christian it's a mortal sin.

The bigger issue is this owner of a Korean Restaurant. If she consents , it becomes an extra marital affair , and by all accounts this will break your marriage.


As im entering my 50 years (well, in 2 more years), everything i worked hard for, has come into fruitition...

Stable income, 3 Investment Assets, main mortgage all paid up, Kids are all in teen years..in short, im at a good stage of my life...

One day i met this young lady who is the owner of a Korean Restaurant, have a few chat, somehow the conversation escalate and we got closer to each other. And lately i have sexual fantasy about her... and its so hard to not thinking about her at all...

Im still loyal to my wife and will definitely will always be (apart from brothel visits now and then, which i believe does not considered as cheating)

But then again, i want to ask all the husbands/daddies in this group in their 50s, are we all experienced the same situation as we got to this age??? Or is it just me?

[Zoobender]

I agree with what the other members said about brothel being cheating... Only exception here is if your wife knows and accepts you visit brothels then it's not cheating. I had a partner that was happy with this but she didn't want me to see any chicks of her nationality and I wasn't allowed to fuck anyone irl. I agree and we dated for 2 years.

My personal recommendation is to keep going to the brothels and don't get involved irl with women. The brothel girls fuck for money and usually they don't get feelings and emotions to the point where they want to take revenge, contact your family etc. This is because they are also trying to hide their situation and job from their families and often they have more to lose in coming forward. In my experience cheating with someone IRL leads to way more issues and pain for you and your family. This is because once their partners find out they have nothing left to lose, and in your case that other dude will do everything in his power to fuck you over, and if the reason she got found out is because of you then she will also do everything in her power to screw you.. And not in the good way where you have sex lol. Jobs are lost, money is squandered and you mental health is ruined at home in all the senarios.

At some point that chick/her partner / her kids/friends/her family will contact your wife or family and then her old ass pussy won't be worth it. Just fuck a 21 yo Jap or Korean chick and all her friends at the shop.

The best scenario is you go through with all that and you guys destroy everything and everyone and end up together.... Then she will never trust you lol she will always be just a side chick and she will always have the power in the relationship because you will forever be trying to make up for a mistake that was a just as much her fault but you will be paying the price for it. This imbalance of power will limit your ability to be a man in the relationship and ultimately will lead to her leaving you for a real man (in her opinion)

[11Bravo]

No, I'm not cheating; doesn't everyone have an ace up their sleeve?

As tezzaman18 says, one might view, using Dante, of different levels:

brothel = pay for sex. It's just sex, nothing more, but still cheating

relaltionship = whole other ball game, there's emotions there, on BOTH sides.

You can bs yourself all you want, try and justify all you want, look for approval all you want, but consider this: on a P4P site, seems a majority is calling it: CHEATING

Rhetorical question: if you found out your wife was seeking companionship elsewhere, would she be cheating?

[GoldfishMan]

Hard to answer that question. There are so many factors involved. But sometimes in a person's lifetime, they get into a situation where they meet their "ultimate partner" after they had already thought they did. Then it gets a bit messy...

[mn69]

I can't speak for all men. But alot of married guys I know punt or cheat in one way or another.

You can't blame them as alot of marriages are sexless. I know of one guy who hasn't had sex with his wife for 8 years now. And counting...

[Octane79]

If the husband isn't getting Sex for 8 years from the wife, does that mean the wife is getting it elsewhere? Women get cravings as well...


I can't speak for all men. But alot of married guys I know punt or cheat in one way or another.

You can't blame them as alot of marriages are sexless. I know of one guy who hasn't had sex with his wife for 8 years now. And counting...

[Jamez11]

I can't speak for all men. But alot of married guys I know punt or cheat in one way or another.

You can't blame them as alot of marriages are sexless. I know of one guy who hasn't had sex with his wife for 8 years now. And counting...

You should stop obsessing about married blokes, Indian blokes, Chris Hemsworth/Brad Pitt, it’s just getting creepy at this point.

If the majority of your mates are cheating on their partners/mothers of their children with prostitutes it probably says more about them than it says about marriage/their wives.

[tonystark]

Successful people always tend to have women following them. However, I honestly think it's fine as long as you don't give them your heart and only satisfy your desires. Our wives can't always fulfill all of our needs, right? lol

[roooter]

If u think it not cheating wtf you seeking validation in this forum

[holi_day]

Define "creating" first then we can discuss.

There are many street interviews on YouTube in Japan. Most of the women don't consider their husband or boyfriend going to brothel is cheating.

[yellow_sub]

Doesn’t matter what you or any of us think. If the wife decided you are cheating, breathing is cheating.

[Double_Adapter]

Doesn’t matter what you or any of us think. If the wife decided you are cheating, breathing is cheating.

not dying is a form of cheating death

[Double_Adapter]

You should stop obsessing about married blokes, Indian blokes, Chris Hemsworth/Brad Pitt, it’s just getting creepy at this point.

If the majority of your mates are cheating on their partners/mothers of their children with prostitutes it probably says more about them than it says about marriage/their wives.

Not sure which is creepier? mn69 obsessing over the aforementioned shit or you obsessing over mn69 who for all intents and purposes could be some old bald fat farang.

...I'm getting the ick vibe from you bro

[Zoobender]

Successful people always tend to have women following them. However, I honestly think it's fine as long as you don't give them your heart and only satisfy your desires. Our wives can't always fulfill all of our needs, right? lol

Give them your heart? Wtf are you talking about man. You sound like a woman or a poof.

[Double_Adapter]

Give them your heart? Wtf are you talking about man. You sound like a woman or a poof.

tonystark doesn't have heart he's got an arc reactor but nevertheless I hear you bro, there's a lot of blokes here that tick that box

[ColesBag]

Punting is safer than fucking the owner of some Korean restaurant. Women ( i.e wife ) can sense vibes. Punt instead.