Cyber Bashing

[harry444]

I'm sure we have all witnessed the verbal attacks on some posters recently. Just wondering what others think. If you read Sydney threads, they seem a lot more civil and they have a huge presence. Which may come from a combination of mateship and of course population. I would like to see support on forum for these punters who get verbally brutalised
before we lose them and the forum.

[Justlooking5150]

100% agree can be a little daunting for a newbie to come on and worry about saying or doing something wrong. I think the long-time members forget they were a newbie once too. I just came here as I was recommend but tbh too nervous to say a word 🤣🤣 if we make a mistake just tell us doing abuse us I am sure we will learn.

[Pdaddy]

I know what you’re talking about. There’s a bunch of fuckwits on this board that are somehow still not kicked off by the admins. They don’t contribute anything to the discussion, just bash others with abuse. I had that on some of my reviews, especially the first ones. Any post that was positive about an ML or WL would get replies like „I bet she’s a boiler”, „he must be her pimp” etc.
Other boards have a much, much better vibe but I do get some info here too, which is why I post across a few boards.
Admins need to clean this place up.

[ABCguy]

I agree for one part where name calling is unnecessary but I also think toxic positivity needs to be called out as well.

People also get offended too easily on this forum where if you say something negative as constructive criticism or feedback then they get upset easily. But then again that ends up hurting their reputation anyway. Would be good to have a balance - but that is wishful.

[Hi666]

I agree with a lot of what's been said already, I was a member for two years before my first post. Not entirely due to the negatively but it played a role.
We definitely need to encourage more ppl to post as it's sometimes a ghost town in here, especially compared to the Sydney threads. (But don't be fooled, they still have their fair share of trolls and negatively.)
On the other hand it is frustrating when there's an unbroken chain of posts along the lines of 'pls PM me details too' from mbrs who haven't value added with reviews themselves. Equally frustrating are the posts that ask for info that is readily available further up the same thread or easily searched for on the site or even through a basic google search. I must say though, I had trouble searching the site initially. I got a new phone and reached five posts around the same time so unsure which made searching easier 🤔.
As ABCguy stated, there needs to be a balance.

[Sirlunchalot]

Yes, it certainly goes on here. You make a positive review or comment you have people message and say you are spruiker / pimp. It gets tiresome.

[Nick007]

That is why I stop posting. Really do not need the negative views from some of the top contributors which seems to be untouchable.
Other sites are far better monitor and regulate.

[Holdan427]

I agree about needing to cut back on the abuse. On the other side of the coin though, why do people get upset by something someone wrote FFS? People have become hyper sensitve these days. The others have no idea who you so why get upset what they say??

[harry444]

It's not that simple Holdan. Like the people who get hyper sensitive about being bullied in the school yard. Just get over it, they say. These are the same bullies in different situation.

[Holdan427]

It's not that simple Holdan. Like the people who get hyper sensitive about being bullied in the school yard. Just get over it, they say. These are the same bullies in different situation.

Fair call Harry

[VFlowers]

We urgently need to set up a GoFundMe page for the snowf......ehm victims to receive some counseling.
Copping some flak on an adult punter forum is at least as terribly traumatising as being mispronouned, or being barked at by the neighbour's dog.

[Up2me]

I personally don't see the need for some of the abusive responses on here, they just don't add anything more constructive to the forum than the post/poster they are responding to. There are also newbies that don't know the lay of the land as yet and are learning on the run and they could probably be cut some slack or at least be responded to civilly in the first place rather than be treated like a social outcast.

That being said, there are also some lazy cunts who come here and just want things handed to them on a silver platter or call out genuine contributors as being frauds or pimps so i do understand that sometimes a retort is to be expected and justified.

As VFlowers alluded to, we are all adults, we come on to an adult sex forum to discuss blow jobs, facials, butt fucking, ass licking, white pussies, brown pussies, tight pussies, shaved pussies, load swallowing and even chicks with dicks get a run so i think it is somewhat delusional to think a place like this is going to operate with the same decorum and political correctness as a book club or chess society.

It's just the way life is, if you get into an octagon or a square ring, you have to be prepared to get hit, if you can't handle being hit, don't get in there in the first place or get the fuck out of there as quick as you can and take up badminton instead.

[Doug-the-Slug]

Adult forums tend to have adult responses

[Bed Wrecker]

We urgently need to set up a GoFundMe page for the snowf......ehm victims to receive some counseling.
Copping some flak on an adult punter forum is at least as terribly traumatising as being mispronouned, or being barked at by the neighbour's dog.

Im feeling very triggered Mr V Flowers, if that is your real name.
We should all be spreading joy, happiness and chlamydia.

Im going to see my favourite lady today with a bunch of flowers and box of chocolates.
I will let her talk for the whole hour as i wouldnt want to oppress her by doing acts of microaggression.
The shop should be her safe space where toxic masculinity cannot be tolerated for her mental well being.

If im lucky maybe shes transitioning genders. I would need to support her in this endeavour.
Inclusivity matters and we should respect all ages, sizes, shapes, colours, creed and gender upon visiting these wonderful places

[Lovearubntug]

We urgently need to set up a GoFundMe page for the snowf......ehm victims to receive some counseling.
Copping some flak on an adult punter forum is at least as terribly traumatising as being mispronouned, or being barked at by the neighbour's dog.

Couldn't agree more.. All the soft cocks commenting on this post should go and start their own warm fuzzy forum..

Harden up dipshits... You are adults aren't you..??

[harry444]

We are all free to worship in our own way. Some prefer a warm fuzzy forum. Others prefer to threaten, intimidate and abuse. All should be equal, except some are more equal then others. eg, above post

[Justlooking5150]

Couldn't agree more.. All the soft cocks commenting on this post should go and start their own warm fuzzy forum..

Harden up dipshits... You are adults aren't you..??

Perfect example of the tossers being referred to. No need for that comment. Pull your head in. If you want to be a keyboard warrior going do it somewhere else hero...

[Nick007]

Animal Farm it is

[Justlooking5150]

We are all free to worship in our own way. Some prefer a warm fuzzy forum. Others prefer to threaten, intimidate and abuse. All should be equal, except some are more equal then others. eg, above post

Don't think anyone wants warm fuzzy to be honest. Just not the drama of someone with an inferiority complex who gets off throwing the abuse from behind a screen. Type of guy who would run home crying to his mother if it was face to face...

[dt333]

This thread is leading down towards a dangerous path of advocating for censorship. Sensitive Sallys should just grab a box of tissues and scroll along.

[harry444]

I don't think it's about censorship. Since I started this thread, I've had a few PM'S from people basically saying that they don't post because of the negative comments they get. I think it's more about keeping a healthy base of contributing members by keeping a civil, respectful attitude. Even if you disagree with the poster.

[Justlooking5150]

100% agree mate

[Pdaddy]

This thread is leading down towards a dangerous path of advocating for censorship. Sensitive Sallys should just grab a box of tissues and scroll along.

Just about getting rid of rubbish posters really. If all someone contributes is “fuck off dipshit” in most of their posts, then what’s the point of having them here.
Too many cunts that don’t contribute anything besides bashing others. Little dweebs sitting in their mums basements, frustrated they have no money to punt or get a real girlfriend.

[dt333]

I'm sure the OP intent wasn't about censoring but that's how the convo starts when A doesn't like B's post, B doesn't like A and the solution moves towards censorship. But who then becomes the arbitrar of right and wrong. Just like the governments dislike for a person's views and using it as a pretext for the bs censorship bill disguised as a misinformation/disinformation bill.

[BrisbaneSwede]

Personally I get more tired of the people who message you and expect you to give up intel after you've done a review or made a comment without something in return.

Or literally haven't even googled the address of a place and want you to hold their hands as they enter.

[Justlooking5150]

Ok well I've seen enough didn't join here for the drama. Time to move to another forum I think. Thanks to those who were welcoming of a newbie.

[Pdaddy]

I'm sure the OP intent wasn't about censoring but that's how the convo starts when A doesn't like B's post, B doesn't like A and the solution moves towards censorship. But who then becomes the arbitrar of right and wrong. Just like the governments dislike for a person's views and using it as a pretext for the bs censorship bill disguised as a misinformation/disinformation bill.

I agree with the idea and of course it’s not in anyone’s interest to censor views. Someone likes Asians, another black girls, someone likes grannies, trannies etc. It’s not about preferences, or establishing what’s right and wrong or world views. Merely about kicking out keyboard warriors that contribute nothing at all to the forum.
It’s easy enough to open someone’s profile and view latest posts. There are people on here that have nothing but comments bashing others. What’s the point of keeping them on any forum?

[maxa]

I get tons of PM asking for info, I would not reply if they haven't done a review. This is a review discussion forum. It is ok to say one ML/WL is good or not. It may improve service as they all read this forum. I would say there are some agender sometimes with reviewer but you can believe it or not, no one is asking you to believe it 100%. The more posting with reviews are better. I don't understand the holding back of info as the law have changed, if poster don't want to say what service was provided, that is fine. just say if he feel if he/she wants to return or not and why. as YMMV no girls are the same each time or to each customers.

[VFlowers]

....This is a review discussion forum......

It isn't.
This is a forum to discuss everything related to 'punting', which can include many different topics. Reviews of sexual services received form PART of it, hence there is an 'after report' section. There is also a 'general talk' section, where all sort of topics can be discussed, from venereal diseases to how to best hide your double-life from wife, friends and family, and many things inbetween.
Some people like to post reviews for every of their punts, some like to boast how many times a week they make professional sex workers have orgasms. Other people like to participate in the 'general talk' sections, because maybe they've had bad experience with sharing their insights in the public threads. Some people even had to start new accounts - I'm one of them, and I know a few more.

Discussion includes debating different view points, challenging each other, scrutinising claims, and this can include for example questioning the necessity of a new thread, questioning the intentions of a poster, calling out people who expect to be provided information on a silver platter without bothering to read through existing threads, or bothering to read through the forum tutorial.
If you can't handle that, stay in whatever cozy echo chamber you feel comfortable in.

Ad hominem attacks, excessive use of swearing, name calling, threats of violence etc. however, shouldn't be part of a civilized debate culture.

[Digby]

I’m from Sydney and I suggest hang in there.

[funinqld]

I think its blue balls and sexual frustration. Brisbane is a hard market for a punter. If I want to see a lady in Brisbane I have to search hard for what I want and maybe....just maybe the lady is available. Trying to get info on this forum and a straight answer is painful compared to other sites.....no offence to anyone
In Sydney I have to narrow down the choices and can get what I want straight away for half the price and the only extra I pay for is anal...which in some cases is a 50

[Lovearubntug]

Perfect example of the tossers being referred to. No need for that comment. Pull your head in. If you want to be a keyboard warrior going do it somewhere else hero...

Oh thats so sweet.. Now get mummy to tuck you in, give you a kiss and nite nite..

[Justlooking5150]

Oh thats so sweet.. Now get mummy to tuck you in, give you a kiss and nite nite..
😂😂😂 what a tosser.. took you all that time since I commented to come up with that.. very disappointing, I must say...

[Lovearubntug]

Ok well I've seen enough didn't join here for the drama. Time to move to another forum I think. Thanks to those who were welcoming of a newbie.

Oh sweetheart don't go...:cry:

[Justlooking5150]

😂😂😂 your a tosser mate... grow up...

[Lovearubntug]

������ what a tosser.. took you all that time since I commented to come up with that.. very disappointing, I must say...

Nah mate, first time on the forum since then.. Unlike yourself I have a life outside of my dimly lit bedroom.. Your keyboard must be so oily..

[Lovearubntug]

������ your a tosser mate... grow up...

Thought you were leaving..??:haha:

[Justlooking5150]

You have been on this site for 11 years... damn.. 🤣🤣.. you would think you would nit be such a tosser posting your kind of replies....

[Justlooking5150]

Aww it's ok I know you would miss me too much

[Justlooking5150]

Haha not what your post history says mate... grow up mate... go back into mommy's basement...

[Lovearubntug]

Haha not what your post history says mate... grow up mate... go onto into mommy's basement...

feel free to copy and paste my post history sweetie. Such a sad little man..
You're not real bright are you.
Nothing better to do than lurk on a punting forum every day.. Now wipe your hands, put your mums pictures away and go to bed.. x x x

[Justlooking5150]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 such wit!

[Justlooking5150]

You really have mummy issues don't you...

[Lovearubntug]

You really have mummy issues don't you...

Wow mate you really are a stalker.. Yep, 11 years and 145 posts.. Take away my sweet talk with you its probably less than 140.
That's an average of 12 per year.. You have more in a week than I have in a year.:)
So yep, I have a life. Now keep saving your pocket money and make sure you study all the forums to make sure you get the best value. It's obviously the only way you will ever get touched by a woman..

[Justlooking5150]

Wow mate you really are a stalker.. Yep, 11 years and 145 posts.. Take away my sweet talk with you its probably less than 140.
That's an average of 12 per year.. You have more in a week than I have in a year.:)
So yep, I have a life. Now keep saving your pocket money and make sure you study all the forums to make sure you get the best value. It's obviously the only way you will ever get touched by a woman..

🤣🤣 you crack me up! .. good chatting with you! 🤣🤣

[Lovearubntug]

[QUOTE=Justlooking5150;3216437]���� you crack me up! .. good chatting with you! ����[/QUO

I really am curious.. You were leaving the forum last week.. What happened..?
Says a lot..

I hope no one else on the forum hurt your feelings today.. Don't be upset sweetie, I'm just teasing you.
Nite nite sweetheart.:red_heart:

[Justlooking5150]

[QUOTE=Justlooking5150;3216437]���� you crack me up! .. good chatting with you! ����[/QUO

I really am curious.. You were leaving the forum last week.. What happened..?
Says a lot..

I hope no one else on the forum hurt your feelings today.. Don't be upset sweetie, I'm just teasing you.
Nite nite sweetheart.:red_heart:

It ok honey not upset at all.. 😘

You take care now... 🙂

[Brissynoms]

What the actual cauliflower did I walk into... this thread is about cyber bashing, and the support in not being toxic and treating each other badly.... and then some crap happened and people going at each other. Is that like an example of the toxicness of this sub forum?

[harry444]

It's a good way to get your post count up.

[APuntingwewillgo]

well this turned nasty didn't it??

[Doorman]

It's a good way to get your post count up.

Yep, that's what it looks like to me.

I've noticed a few negative members but I find it easy to ignore them and move on. Some of them have started to realise they're too negative and driving newer people away so have toned it down.

[Billy Shakespeare]

Yep, that's what it looks like to me.

I've noticed a few negative members but I find it easy to ignore them and move on. Some of them have started to realise they're too negative and driving newer people away so have toned it down.

Ah, to elevate with kind words and noble deeds is a task most virtuous, while the act of tearing down is but a fleeting whim, born of sloth. What gain is found in shrouding hearts in shadows, when the light of encouragement doth illuminate the path?

An eye for an eye leaves the world in darkness. Let us instead be the architects of uplift, sowing seeds of kindness that flourish in the hearts of men, for in this way, we craft a legacy far richer than the mere spoils of derision.

[Herpetalogy]

OMG
Exactly right this forum cyberbash everyone
Many people pick on fights
Sad punters lie their visit
Don't talk my shop now no point

[Jack-Jack]

edit this due to double post

[Jack-Jack]

wow wow .... very interesting thread indeed coming from the Sydney scene...

came across this thread when it appeared in the side bar "Most Popular Forum Threads" and indeed some very interesting stuff mentioned including valid points and behaviour that is scene in the syd thread too

[Jack-Jack]

What the actual cauliflower did I walk into... this thread is about cyber bashing, and the support in not being toxic and treating each other badly.... and then some crap happened and people going at each other. Is that like an example of the toxicness of this sub forum?


well this turned nasty didn't it??

gosh..... is this sort of thing considered normal/common in the Brissie thread?

I agree this thread was originally to call out cyber bullying and bashing and few posts later you get the exact epitome of this...