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jandross45
10-12-2024, 10:35 AM
greetings fellow punters,

I am after some advice.

I have been given the opportunity to date a WL I have recently been seeing. I am in my 60's retired, living off my giant super from a public service job that does not exist anymore and my family does not talk to me or let me see my grandkids for obvious reasons. I have made multiple trips to Thailand recently and always went to the same place and never took any photos. I love Indian food. I have told all this information to the WL before she proposed that we should date.

Questions:

1. Firstly I want to know how it feels every day when she comes home and you have to kiss her on the lips knowing that she has been doing disgusting things with other men. She said that she wont do sex anymore if we date but I don't 100% trust her but men will still be groping her nude, giving HJ and probably the occasional BJ

2. She knows what my finances are like, would she dump me if I ran into financial problems or should I ask her to go back to FS if things get tough?

3. Her social media is a very new account with no friends and family and mainly just photos of only her that barely show her face! is there a possibility she has a bf somewhere else?

4. Should I leave all this pathetic behaviour behind me and admit to my family that I am lonely and try to revive a relationship with them?

Sexkniight
10-12-2024, 10:48 AM
She knows your finances so she’s likely just in it for money, once that runs out she’ll be out too.

As said above, don’t do it

Bman619
10-12-2024, 10:56 AM
A bit too risky. She may milk you for all you're worth. You allow her to live with you for a year and she's a de facto and may be able to go for your money or assets of you split. Worse if she claims she's not on the pill and you get her pregnant and leaves you.

Too shady with the social media too.

You may eventually get bored with her. So best to just keep going to see other ladies to keep things interesting. More variety to enjoy.

Try talking to family again and see how that goes for you but at least you won't have to deal with a headache WL who may be hiding things from you and using you for money or a visa.

dodgybastard2
10-12-2024, 11:00 AM
Dude! don't do it. there's not much of a foundation to build on between you and trust will always be an issue.

Not worth it at all. its going to end badly.

suka03
10-12-2024, 11:02 AM
that’s a risk. you there for the fun unless you looking for a real wife, then again men won’t know if she is a gold digger. I rather pay for the services or just make friends only while you there, you may get the benefit.

mn69
10-12-2024, 11:11 AM
greetings fellow punters,

I am after some advice.

I have been given the opportunity to date a WL I have recently been seeing. I am in my 60's retired, living off my giant super from a public service job that does not exist anymore and my family does not talk to me or let me see my grandkids for obvious reasons. I have made multiple trips to Thailand recently and always went to the same place and never took any photos. I love Indian food. I have told all this information to the WL before she proposed that we should date.

Questions:

1. Firstly I want to know how it feels every day when she comes home and you have to kiss her on the lips knowing that she has been doing disgusting things with other men. She said that she wont do sex anymore if we date but I don't 100% trust her but men will still be groping her nude, giving HJ and probably the occasional BJ

2. She knows what my finances are like, would she dump me if I ran into financial problems or should I ask her to go back to FS if things get tough?

3. Her social media is a very new account with no friends and family and mainly just photos of only her that barely show her face! is there a possibility she has a bf somewhere else?

4. Should I leave all this pathetic behaviour behind me and admit to my family that I am lonely and try to revive a relationship with them?

Are you an Old, Bald, Fat Farang

I_luv_doggie.
10-12-2024, 11:11 AM
1. No choice really as this typically comes with the territory for a WL.
2. Yes she would run away and then the 2nd part of your question is not relevant.
3. Speaks for itself really. A fake profile.
4. Probably as you only have upside from this if works out.

DDT
10-12-2024, 11:21 AM
Been there, very painful. Don't !

Candy1234
10-12-2024, 11:35 AM
Are you an Old, Bald, Fat Farang
Haha never fail to add that in ey.

Yeh don’t put yourself in that shitty situation. I’ve done in a few WLs that have “bf”, I always wonder how the bf accept it, or even handle it everyday.

Nelly69
10-12-2024, 11:49 AM
by reading what you wrote, you know in your head what you need to do. You are just asking fellow punters to tell you to stop listening to your dick.

asnabc
10-12-2024, 12:00 PM
Sorry OP, you are the typical Farang which these WL targets. DON'T do it, you have already listed the red flags and understand the risks.

Try to take your mind off things, put more energy mending your relationship with your family. It'll be hard but worth the effort.

AHLUNGOR
10-12-2024, 12:11 PM
To the OP, I'm interested to know why your family won't talk to you ??

Punting ? or something else you did ?

And where is your wife, ex-wife or partner ?



my family does not talk to me or let me see my grandkids for obvious reasons.

Elbortomorton
10-12-2024, 12:14 PM
Why is it important to share you love Indian food? I mean sure enjoy the food but I don’t get what that has to do with anything lol

wilisno
10-12-2024, 12:16 PM
greetings fellow punters,

I am after some advice.

I have been given the opportunity to date a WL I have recently been seeing. I am in my 60's retired, living off my giant super from a public service job that does not exist anymore and my family does not talk to me or let me see my grandkids for obvious reasons. I have made multiple trips to Thailand recently and always went to the same place and never took any photos. I love Indian food. I have told all this information to the WL before she proposed that we should date.



Seems like you have grown old very quickly…


jandross45 replied to a thread [General Talk] Bad punting days - regular closed/raided, refused service in Sydney - General Talk
I'm just a young bloke looking to have a crack in life and trying to get my ding dong played with. And I brought out all the butthurt senile boomers...

Robstorie44
10-12-2024, 12:18 PM
Why is it important to share you love Indian food? I mean sure enjoy the food but I don’t get what that has to do with anything lol

Because in another thread he was complaining about being refused service for being too big, and his 'friend' was refused service for being Indian, yet he wasn't Indian himself.

I suspect he just likes to start random threads to see where it all goes....

BTW, I am not a Jandross hater, just an independent observer, like Switzerland

Keeping Up
10-12-2024, 12:22 PM
This was from the OP in a previous post.


‘I'm very well dressed, clean, late 20's, 6 ft, gym three times a week, I'm not ugly but not a Brad Pitt either... so I might look intimidating... I don't drink, smoke, do drugs or gamble so I think this pleasure investment is well deserved once a week from my end as the time invested in Tinder, chatting, drinks, dinner is not worth it anymore.’

Now he tells you he’s retired and 60. Making shit up.

So now we know he is actually a total bullshitting piece of garbage. Absolute lying wanker. Don’t engage this prick. Looks straight from the Vinnie playbook.

11Bravo
10-12-2024, 12:42 PM
greetings fellow punters,

I am after some advice.

I have been given the opportunity to date a WL I have recently been seeing. I am in my 60's retired, living off my giant super from a public service job that does not exist anymore and my family does not talk to me or let me see my grandkids for obvious reasons. I have made multiple trips to Thailand recently and always went to the same place and never took any photos. I love Indian food. I have told all this information to the WL before she proposed that we should date.


Na. It's simpflation I'm a younger punter and I never pay more than $200 for fs, and I'll pay 200 Max if she is young and pretty.


I will also state that I am Caucasian late 20's, fit and well dressed.


I'm just a young bloke looking to have a crack in life and trying to get my ding dong played with.


I'm very well dressed, clean, late 20's, 6 ft, gym three times a week, I'm not ugly but not a Brad Pitt either... so I might look intimidating... I don't drink, smoke, do drugs or gamble so I think this pleasure investment is well deserved once a week from my end as the time invested in Tinder, chatting, drinks, dinner is not worth it anymore.

TROLL ALERT. Perhaps he's aged due to all the flak he's received, but then, age is all in how you feel. Myself, I think brain damage is more likely.

MY advice? Get a life. And yes, I do have a life, punting and otherwise. I'm also very adept at using the tools available to point out BS.

Suggestion to Moderators: when this troll pops up again, put him on moderation... a perpetual newbie.

jandross45
10-12-2024, 12:53 PM
@bravo

Ahhhh I was waiting for you.

Like flys to shit

The butthurt will continue.

GoldfishMan
10-12-2024, 12:54 PM
Lol, he calls himself shit!!....

Zoobender
10-12-2024, 01:14 PM
greetings fellow punters,

I am after some advice.

I have been given the opportunity to date a WL I have recently been seeing. I am in my 60's retired, living off my giant super from a public service job that does not exist anymore and my family does not talk to me or let me see my grandkids for obvious reasons. I have made multiple trips to Thailand recently and always went to the same place and never took any photos. I love Indian food. I have told all this information to the WL before she proposed that we should date.

Questions:

1. Firstly I want to know how it feels every day when she comes home and you have to kiss her on the lips knowing that she has been doing disgusting things with other men. She said that she wont do sex anymore if we date but I don't 100% trust her but men will still be groping her nude, giving HJ and probably the occasional BJ

2. She knows what my finances are like, would she dump me if I ran into financial problems or should I ask her to go back to FS if things get tough?

3. Her social media is a very new account with no friends and family and mainly just photos of only her that barely show her face! is there a possibility she has a bf somewhere else?

4. Should I leave all this pathetic behaviour behind me and admit to my family that I am lonely and try to revive a relationship with them?

1. Girl doesn't exist so this point is moot.
2. See 1
3. See 2
4. You got some key words correct in point 4. PATHETIC, LONELY, LOSER.

I know you didn't describe yourself explicitly as a loser but it was implied.

Azzkikr
10-12-2024, 02:22 PM
Sounds like another troll story from maybe the same person on a different account.
Seems like we get this every 2 or so months….sigh…

X_ULTRA_X
10-12-2024, 02:48 PM
My read is that he’s copying existing threads and even partially the posts of previous members. No originality but then again only some can and do get away with it.

mn69
10-12-2024, 03:27 PM
I reckon this Jandross character. Vincent or whatever his name is.

He is probably an old bald fat Farang or an old bald fat Chinese guy sitting in his mum's basement somewhere

X_ULTRA_X
10-12-2024, 04:10 PM
I’m of the opinion he’s youngish and trying but just doesn’t make the grade.

Thedogboy
10-12-2024, 04:27 PM
60 years old asking about dating WL!!!!!!
I think your brain damaged OR just troll.
A guy who has lived for 60 years doesn't need advice like this.
he has lived long enough to understand.

B0nkers
10-12-2024, 04:37 PM
This question has been asked so many times. The OP is full of shit. Time to hint the ignore button.

11Bravo
10-12-2024, 04:38 PM
Perhaps this explains these posts, except there's no profit here.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c4gp555xy5ro

Sad really. Mybadwilly22, you are missed.

Footballpunter
10-12-2024, 04:41 PM
why can't vincent just go away....

11Bravo
10-12-2024, 04:48 PM
why can't vincent just go away....

Because he has nothing better to do for amusement. Myself, BOTG; nice to be remembered, be it in bar, cafe, or shop...

Keeping Up
10-12-2024, 05:28 PM
I’m of the opinion he’s youngish and trying but just doesn’t make the grade.

Didn’t take him long to respawn.

Roydemeo
10-12-2024, 05:41 PM
Another Vinnie nom de plume or a lost Indian based upon his previous posts. Either way he deserves the mbw treatment.

stallionmachine123
10-12-2024, 06:06 PM
Didn’t this MF say his in his 20s in another thread he started.

And someone else weeks ago asked the same question about dating a WL.

ColesBag
10-12-2024, 06:49 PM
That bus to Watsons Bay still runs every 10 minutes Vinnie.

Double_Adapter
10-12-2024, 08:44 PM
That bus to Watsons Bay still runs every 10 minutes Vinnie.

Hey bro, this AUS99 bus stop concept—does it work like Yellowstone’s train station?

Doink
10-12-2024, 10:49 PM
Being in love is great. Follow your heart. Especially when it tells you to try something new

softdrink.pp
13-12-2024, 10:48 AM
greetings fellow punters,

I am after some advice.

I have been given the opportunity to date a WL I have recently been seeing. I am in my 60's retired, living off my giant super from a public service job that does not exist anymore and my family does not talk to me or let me see my grandkids for obvious reasons. I have made multiple trips to Thailand recently and always went to the same place and never took any photos. I love Indian food. I have told all this information to the WL before she proposed that we should date.

Questions:

1. Firstly I want to know how it feels every day when she comes home and you have to kiss her on the lips knowing that she has been doing disgusting things with other men. She said that she wont do sex anymore if we date but I don't 100% trust her but men will still be groping her nude, giving HJ and probably the occasional BJ

2. She knows what my finances are like, would she dump me if I ran into financial problems or should I ask her to go back to FS if things get tough?

3. Her social media is a very new account with no friends and family and mainly just photos of only her that barely show her face! is there a possibility she has a bf somewhere else?

4. Should I leave all this pathetic behaviour behind me and admit to my family that I am lonely and try to revive a relationship with them?

1-Do you feel aroused about it? Let's be real... if she is in this industry, everytime you meet her, be sure that she had sucked and fucked half dozen of a guys or more during the day. If she has regulars, she probably give special services for them... bbbj, cim etc.

2-She doesn't care about your finances as long as you keep tipping her.

3-Who knows? That's a good indicator that this is a secondary account. She probably blocked you with her main account and you will never find it.

4-I don't think this attitude is pathetic. You are just too lonely and self illuding yourself in a toxic relationship. And yes, try rebounding with your family.

Sydneyguy101
13-12-2024, 11:22 AM
I would say that’s a terrible idea good sir