Threesome success

[arnie]

Hi guys

Not really a punting question but I figured an audience full of horny misfits may just offer some gold anyway.

I've lined up a threesome (unpaid and of their own free will) with a couple. The female is keen (hence why it's been lined up) but could get cold feet when the moment is here. I'd love to hear about any effective icebreakers that can help calm her nerves and ease her into it. Obviously if she really wants to back out then no prob on my part, i will only be supportive.

Please share your wisdom

[andrewv]

1-Book a hotel room.
2-Get some wine and put on a porn movie while drinking. Don't start right away with anyone touching anyone.
3-Start by playing a game. For example, get the timer going on your phone for 4 minutes and every 4 minutes she moves between you and the other guy and do things 1-on-1 like kissing and fondling. So don't get both guys to start on her right away. After 20 minutes she will be more relaxed and playful as this is a "game".
4- end up in bed 45 minutes later and start a spit-roast with her blindfolded so she has to guess which dick she has inside her and which one she is sucking.
5- Never push or speed up the event.

[arnie]

1-Book a hotel room.
2-Get some wine and put on a porn movie while drinking. Don't start right away with anyone touching anyone.
3-Start by playing a game. For example, get the timer going on your phone for 4 minutes and every 4 minutes she moves between you and the other guy and do things 1-on-1 like kissing and fondling. So don't get both guys to start on her right away. After 20 minutes she will be more relaxed and playful as this is a "game".
4- end up in bed 45 minutes later and start a spit-roast with her blindfolded so she has to guess which dick she has inside her and which one she is sucking.
5- Never push or speed up the event.

Thanks!
Point 1 already sorted.
Love the creativity of the game

[Rookiestones]

Care to share the back story of how you even managed to organise a threesome in the first place?

[arnie]

Care to share the back story of how you even managed to organise a threesome in the first place?

Let me get it done first so I don't jinx it

[Roydemeo]

Get a blue pill to help you though it + for more power because in the pressure of the moment the ole one eyed custard chucker might fail you

[keebab]

Thanks!
Point 1 already sorted.
Love the creativity of the game

If you don't already know, its important to get a sense of the vibe between them. A big part of this fantasy for them is him watching her. So whatever you do, show her off and keep her body between you so she's always the centre of attention.

[gco0307]

So much depends on how the discussion started and who has led the chatter for the threesome chance but comfort for all is critical as is the setting of any clear boundary (ie. is it MFM, MMF etc) so to avoid any uncomfortable moments that may occur (ie. touching of the male bodies).
If the play has been openly discussed with all, take a set and see approach, she may lead, her partner may lead or simply things may happen but good atmosphere will help.
As example, showers can be a good ice-breaker, particularly if one or all have been out for the afternoon (ie. dinner etc) and just want to freshen up. Alternately, playful massages can help and if this is more about her (ie. her idea, her fantasy etc) then have both guys massage her. The guys could start clothed of all naked, who cares as long as comfort is the key, and of course if all start clothed the removal of clothes is both an indication of positives and hell erotic when done with the play.
Big thing is to not push either of them but let it just happen as thing progress, and keep an eye out for any negative signs ............. they may appear from anyone involved.
Big thing as well, if this is their fantasy also know your place as they may start wanting you involved but may find them concentrating on each other with you as a 'bit player', which if it happens then let it as some people need to progress to 3somes slowly and it may well start with fucking in front of others. So essentially, also think of next time and opportunity as there could well be future chances.

Big thing is though, be careful and mindful as I have seen many times where 3somes go wrong because when you are all in the room, the fantasy now may well be to real for 1 or all.

Else, have fun

[arnie]

So much depends on how the discussion started and who has led the chatter for the threesome chance but comfort for all is critical as is the setting of any clear boundary (ie. is it MFM, MMF etc) so to avoid any uncomfortable moments that may occur (ie. touching of the male bodies).
If the play has been openly discussed with all, take a set and see approach, she may lead, her partner may lead or simply things may happen but good atmosphere will help.
As example, showers can be a good ice-breaker, particularly if one or all have been out for the afternoon (ie. dinner etc) and just want to freshen up. Alternately, playful massages can help and if this is more about her (ie. her idea, her fantasy etc) then have both guys massage her. The guys could start clothed of all naked, who cares as long as comfort is the key, and of course if all start clothed the removal of clothes is both an indication of positives and hell erotic when done with the play.
Big thing is to not push either of them but let it just happen as thing progress, and keep an eye out for any negative signs ............. they may appear from anyone involved.
Big thing as well, if this is their fantasy also know your place as they may start wanting you involved but may find them concentrating on each other with you as a 'bit player', which if it happens then let it as some people need to progress to 3somes slowly and it may well start with fucking in front of others. So essentially, also think of next time and opportunity as there could well be future chances.

Big thing is though, be careful and mindful as I have seen many times where 3somes go wrong because when you are all in the room, the fantasy now may well be to real for 1 or all.

Else, have fun

Very wise words.
Cheers

[ironmonk]

Big thing is though, be careful and mindful as I have seen many times where 3somes go wrong because when you are all in the room, the fantasy now may well be to real for 1 or all.

You able to share some stories of what went down - friendly fire? trading blows?

[Kiryu0]

Make sure you lick your finger and rub the guy's arsehole at the start to make him feel comfortable and get rid of any awkwardness.

Why are you the only one to bring up playing with other guy's asshole? Is it something you really want to do?

[Kiryu0]

Otherwise, glad there is less people jumping on the 'it's so gay' wagon...