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andrewv
19-01-2025, 11:21 AM
One thread that might be missing here is about how some of us punters might have managed to pick girls for quick fun interactions (i.e. not long-term relationships).

Let's share.

Mine was 2 times, once at a council library which started with a brief chat then going for coffee nearby, then a few days later ending up in bed. We met 4 other times for sex.

The other time was swapping IG details at Coles.

Both were Chinese, late 20s, mid 30s.

What was yours.

Roydemeo
19-01-2025, 11:38 AM
This thread is like burly to whatever pseudonyms Vinnie has running at the moment

rjdin
19-01-2025, 11:13 PM
Mine was a few times at nightclubs & bars around Sydney. The Ivy, Sanctuary, Pontoon and so one.
Picked up 18-19 year old Korean girls. Chinese. Japanese tourist girls. Few Thai & Viet.
And some blonde girls from Sweden & Norway

Its pretty easy to pick up. You just have to be very handsome and fit. No need for confidence or money either. They will come to you & pick you up instead

Do you go home with them the same night or have repeat encounters?

Axeman123
20-01-2025, 07:21 AM
Way back ('80's) I did my customary overseas travel as you did, staying in backpackers. Plenty of sexperiences were had then. I applied that same thing here in Sydney or anywhere else. Females travelling are open to a lot.

klikandplau
21-01-2025, 10:52 AM
As a second gen immigrant, I find it easier to pick up girls of the same heritage. They find it cute that I can speak the language fluently, with a bit of aussie inflection. Had my fair share of other nationalities as well. Don't just stick to cuisine and capital cities when talking, reel them in by going with authors or cultural practices.

I reckon it also helps that I look culturally ambiguous so no one can actually place me anywhere, and that's an icebreaker in itself.

Double_Adapter
21-01-2025, 03:15 PM
When it comes to hooking up with random chicks there ain't no such thing as a panacea of techniques or a list of tips, tricks, and hacks. It all comes down to the chicks preference in men and the 'ickiness' of the bloke.

For a bad boy, he simply needs to have edge and be rough around the edges. Chicks go horny and get wet over a bad boy, especially if it's that time of the month when she's ovulating (a primal thing).

For handsome dudes, he just has to be handsome and ripped. There's literally thousands of research papers, studies and findings on chicks going raw only with blokes they find attractive (again it's a primal thing).

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6532962/

As for old bald fat farangs, the only prerequisite is to be clean, well groomed, carry a wad of pineapples, and be prepared to visit a bothel or RnT.
Note: For OBFFs raw dog is directly proportional to the quantity of pineapples, the age and (level of) promiscuity of the chick.

It doesn't get any simpler than that.......all the other horse shit is superfluous.

andrewv
22-01-2025, 05:39 PM
When it comes to hooking up with random chicks there ain't no such thing as a panacea of techniques or a list of tips, tricks, and hacks. It all comes down to the chicks preference in men and the 'ickiness' of the bloke.

For a bad boy, he simply needs to have edge and be rough around the edges. Chicks go horny and get wet over a bad boy, especially if it's that time of the month when she's ovulating (a primal thing).

For handsome dudes, he just has to be handsome and ripped. There's literally thousands of research papers, studies and findings on chicks going raw only with blokes they find attractive (again it's a primal thing).

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6532962/

As for old bald fat farangs, the only prerequisite is to be clean, well groomed, carry a wad of pineapples, and be prepared to visit a bothel or RnT.
Note: For OBFFs raw dog is directly proportional to the quantity of pineapples, the age and (level of) promiscuity of the chick.

It doesn't get any simpler than that.......all the other horse shit is superfluous.

Thanks for the link to that survey. "Women’s perceptions of men’s attractiveness influence their condom use intentions"

Of course, no surprises there. Attractive men are perceived to be good sperm donors (for getting pregnant)..... It is instinctive in women to procreate.

Double_Adapter
22-01-2025, 07:38 PM
Thanks for the link to that survey. "Women’s perceptions of men’s attractiveness influence their condom use intentions"

Of course, no surprises there. Attractive men are perceived to be good sperm donors (for getting pregnant)..... It is instinctive in women to procreate.

100% Bro, we just need to figure out what chicks perceive as being an attractive (which is not necessarily the same as what men perceive to be attractive). Different generational (bb, x, y, z, a) groups have differing opinions in what each group perceives as being attractive.

Eg A lot of older cauc chicks think the current crop of male k-pop groups are ugly and feminine, yet they find blokes like Danny Trejo attractive - go figure.

rooter
22-01-2025, 07:54 PM
drink spiking usually works pretty well ... oh the joy of fucking an unconscious chick ...

bummer
22-01-2025, 10:25 PM
Way back ('80's) I did my customary overseas travel as you did, staying in backpackers. Plenty of sexperiences were had then. I applied that same thing here in Sydney or anywhere else. Females travelling are open to a lot.

reminds me of the yha in rockhamption 89/90's whole place turned into a bbgb

Double_Adapter
23-01-2025, 07:11 AM
Here you go lads, for completeness and to add to the 'Punters Compendium'

Random Chicks Bad Boys and going Raw
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11703912/

Random Chicks Handsome Dudes and going Raw
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6532962/

Random Chicks Old Bald Fat Farangs and going Raw
Yeah nah....the jury is still out on this baby.


The perfect combo - a handsome bad boy

suka03
23-01-2025, 09:13 AM
too much effort here in Aus lol go to Asian countries younger, hotter and easier.

2000BahtLongTime
23-01-2025, 12:13 PM
too much effort here in Aus lol go to Asian countries younger, hotter and easier.
This is true. But still have to have some game. If a guy struggles with girls here, it will be the same even overseas.

rooter
23-01-2025, 03:43 PM
Get a job at the morgue or funeral home.
Lots of talent comes in every day.

holi_day
24-01-2025, 08:23 AM
There is one technique that works best...Be rich...

Double_Adapter
24-01-2025, 08:39 AM
too much effort here in Aus lol go to Asian countries younger, hotter and easier.

The new crop of millennial chicks have too much emotional baggage and daddy issues, most are delusional and narcissistic, they feel entitled, and are disconnected from reality. White cauc millennials are the worst offenders. Take this chick for example.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pyzg3biuz1Q

2000BahtLongTime
24-01-2025, 05:57 PM
There is one technique that works best...Be rich...

I'll do you one even better. One that trumps money & being rich...
1. Be Handsome
2. Don't be ugly

robnorth
24-01-2025, 09:17 PM
drink spiking usually works pretty well ... oh the joy of fucking an unconscious chick ...

giggity. allllrighhh.,....

andrewv
24-01-2025, 10:41 PM
I've been told by women several times over the years that a not-so-good-looking rich guy is more "attractive" than a young good looking guy who earns a basic wage.
I rest my case...... money talks and nobody walks.

2000BahtLongTime
24-01-2025, 10:49 PM
I've been told by women several times over the years that a not-so-good-looking rich guy is more "attractive" than a young good looking guy who earns a basic wage.
I rest my case...... money talks and nobody walks.
They will f*ck the broke young hot guy for free straight away but will make the "not-so-good-looking" rich guy pay.

What women say and what they actually do are 2 different things 555

Double_Adapter
25-01-2025, 08:38 AM
They will f*ck the broke young hot guy for free straight away but will make the "not-so-good-looking" rich guy pay.

What women say and what they actually do are 2 different things 555

Facts bro, fax

Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. So a chick may find a 'rich' old bald fat farang attractive but her definition of attractiveness may not necessarily be a physical one but it could be his personality, confidence, character, humour, intelligence, money, wealth etc BUT the chick won't sleep with the fat ugly rich bloke for free. And yeah chicks will raw dog a ripped, hot and good looking dude any day of the week for free.
As the chicks get older and lose their beauty they realise that hot sex with a hot but broke stud won't get them a boob job, a Gucci handbag or a Hermes leather belt, so they settle for the rich old bald fat farang; and if the sex with the OBFF is boring she'll cheat and raw dog the young bloke who cleans their pool.

Jack-Jack
25-01-2025, 08:42 AM
I'll do you one even better. One that trumps money & being rich...
1. Be Handsome
2. Don't be ugly

Yeaaa…. lol u don’t say

Jack-Jack
25-01-2025, 08:43 AM
There is one technique that works best...Be rich...

Lmfaoooo yacht parties and playing tinder butnonnsugar daddy platforms haha

ironmonk
25-01-2025, 01:44 PM
Be desired by other women, respected by other men, live an interesting life, have resources

rooter
25-01-2025, 06:06 PM
Get a job in an aged care nursing home.
Old girls need some sweet lovin' too.
They are horny and up for it and not very fussy who they get it from.
Even if you are an old bald fat farang you are still a young stallion to these geriatric cougars.
They will eat you up!

priapus1966
25-01-2025, 09:28 PM
Get a job in an aged care nursing home.
Old girls need some sweet lovin' too.
They are horny and up for it and not very fussy who they get it from.
Even if you are an old bald fat farang you are still a young stallion to these geriatric cougars.
They will eat you up!

If they're going to eat you up, make sure they take their dentures out first. Old gals with a full set of teeth can be majorly dangerous.

Axeman123
26-01-2025, 07:26 AM
They will f*ck the broke young hot guy for free straight away but will make the "not-so-good-looking" rich guy pay.

What women say and what they actually do are 2 different things 555 Women know what they want and KNOW how to get it.

Elbortomorton
26-01-2025, 09:33 AM
Let’s be honest there is only 1 thing that women want and that’s money.

U can be fat ugly whatever , if u got cash ur in 👍🏻

bummer
26-01-2025, 09:43 AM
Get a job in an aged care nursing home.
Old girls need some sweet lovin' too.
They are horny and up for it and not very fussy who they get it from.
Even if you are an old bald fat farang you are still a young stallion to these geriatric cougars.
They will eat you up!

Becareful !!
STI's are rampant in aged care !!

Double_Adapter
26-01-2025, 09:44 AM
They don't say cash is king for nothing. As for chicks cashflow is queen; and as for credit, let's not go there.

2000BahtLongTime
26-01-2025, 10:03 AM
Let’s be honest there is only 1 thing that women want and that’s money.

U can be fat ugly whatever , if u got cash ur in 👍🏻
No. They want a hot, attractive handsome guy. And money is not needed. They will be with him even if he is dirt poor. Everyone wants someone who is attractive.

If the guy is not attractive & is ugly, then its transactional and they will require money. As a compensation to be with the guy because they are not attracted to him physically. You're basically just a Trick

Its sad when guys have to lead with money...

As I said. You just have to be handsome. No money needed

andrewv
26-01-2025, 11:21 AM
I remember a successful salesman who worked for me long ago who was only 5'6" and overweight.

Yet whenever we had office functions at bars or pubs, we all saw him easily pick up really attractive women.
He was simply good at communication, which is why he was a successful salesman.

Some men are hypnotic with their words --- you may have heard of NLP (neurolinguistic programming)....
It's not all about being funny or a BS artist. Some language and eye contact make women move into an altered state... long before they see your dick or feel your kisses and strokes.

It's a gift/technique I do not possess..... so I have to $$$$ pay for pussy instead.

Double_Adapter
26-01-2025, 12:09 PM
An interesting topic with differing views and one which has been doing my head in, so I've come to the conclusion that old bald fat farangs come in 4 flavours:
- the ugly
- the rich
- the nice guy
- the 'too' nice guy

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/225190811_Young_Women's_Dating_Behavior_WhyWhy_Not _Date_a_Nice_Guy

2000BahtLongTime
26-01-2025, 02:16 PM
An interesting topic with differing views and one which has been doing my head in, so I've come to the conclusion that old bald fat farangs come in 4 flavours:
- the ugly
- the rich
- the nice guy
- the 'too' nice guy

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/225190811_Young_Women's_Dating_Behavior_WhyWhy_Not _Date_a_Nice_Guy
Cheers. A Thai hooker will try to choose the best of the worse choices she has.

So she will choose the Rich - Old Bald Fat Farang. "Rich" is relative here. He is probably not rich at a Western standard, otherwise he would not need to go Thailand. But rich enough with the help of currency conversion in Thailand

2000BahtLongTime
26-01-2025, 02:18 PM
I remember a successful salesman who worked for me long ago who was only 5'6" and overweight.

Yet whenever we had office functions at bars or pubs, we all saw him easily pick up really attractive women.
He was simply good at communication, which is why he was a successful salesman.

Some men are hypnotic with their words --- you may have heard of NLP (neurolinguistic programming)....
It's not all about being funny or a BS artist. Some language and eye contact make women move into an altered state... long before they see your dick or feel your kisses and strokes.

It's a gift/technique I do not possess..... so I have to $$$$ pay for pussy instead.
A 5'6" overweight guy. I don't think so. It may look like he is "picking up" attractive women at a work function

But he probably got called into HR the next day with sexual harrasment allegations and "unwanted advances" towards female colleagues 555

Mirko
27-01-2025, 11:17 AM
I remember a successful salesman who worked for me long ago who was only 5'6" and overweight.

Yet whenever we had office functions at bars or pubs, we all saw him easily pick up really attractive women.
He was simply good at communication, which is why he was a successful salesman.

Some men are hypnotic with their words --- you may have heard of NLP (neurolinguistic programming)....
It's not all about being funny or a BS artist. Some language and eye contact make women move into an altered state... long before they see your dick or feel your kisses and strokes.

It's a gift/technique I do not possess..... so I have to $$$$ pay for pussy instead.

This is true, a couple of weeks ago I witnessed a Arabic man almost 60, maybe 5”5” at best, not in good shape, bald and unattractive facial structure pick up and hook up with one of the attractive Asian swimming instructors half his age at a pool that I frequent.

dewayne
01-02-2025, 01:44 PM
Making them laugh goes a loooooong way. You can be average in every other way but making a woman laugh is the key. Don't do any of the fake performative masculinity stuff the pick-up artists tell you, just be yourself and make them laugh a bit.

In fact this tends to work for basically every type of relationship you might have with anyone

kingwally
01-02-2025, 06:15 PM
Let’s be honest there is only 1 thing that women want and that’s money.

U can be fat ugly whatever , if u got cash ur in 👍🏻

Prime example...James Packer.

Rookiestones
06-02-2025, 02:21 PM
This is true, a couple of weeks ago I witnessed a Arabic man almost 60, maybe 5”5” at best, not in good shape, bald and unattractive facial structure pick up and hook up with one of the attractive Asian swimming instructors half his age at a pool that I frequent.

Interesting... NPL concepts, negging ... etc anyways basically guys punching above their weight and/or getting chicks who appear out of their league.. wateva you wanna call it. These are the exceptions to good looks and big wallets. There is still hope!

peanuty
06-02-2025, 06:19 PM
This is true, a couple of weeks ago I witnessed a Arabic man almost 60, maybe 5”5” at best, not in good shape, bald and unattractive facial structure pick up and hook up with one of the attractive Asian swimming instructors half his age at a pool that I frequent.

thats very interesting lol wonder how he did it

Viktorius69
06-02-2025, 08:53 PM
One thread that might be missing here is about how some of us punters might have managed to pick girls for quick fun interactions (i.e. not long-term relationships).

Let's share.

Mine was 2 times, once at a council library which started with a brief chat then going for coffee nearby, then a few days later ending up in bed. We met 4 other times for sex.

The other time was swapping IG details at Coles.

Both were Chinese, late 20s, mid 30s.

What was yours.
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