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filthycasual
03-03-2025, 06:36 PM
Hi fellow brothers,
I am relatively new to the punting scene, only have a handful of visits under my belt. I have seen AR reviews where fellow brothers have had a very good time and the WL are very wild, but when i go girls most seem very passive towards me. I am always respectful of the WLs, but maybe because i am really shy they tend to be quite passive with me. I've always been to shops but i also want to ask, how safe is it to visit WL in apartments? like the WLs managed by PCD and stuff. If any seasoned fellow punters have any advice or tips for the punting game, this young grasshopper would be eternally grateful.
JJBlows
03-03-2025, 07:20 PM
They are passive because they probably think you are too boring, shy, too nice or..........ugly or dorky. Woman love to talk and laugh so work on that and maybe you'd become more confident enough to take the lead on what you want and they will know how to follow.
Like any other situation when going to a strangers house you should always keep your wits about ya but maybe other punters can recommend the safer legit apartment agencies instead of a gamble on E&B. I saw a thread on N5M having a korean girl work out of a apartment so try that but I don't think a WL working out of a shop verses an apartment is going to change the experience if your the common denominator, not being rude just honest
Stay a away from punting at a young age, date a few woman first before you realise what bullshit is involved and then come to punt
asam46
03-03-2025, 07:30 PM
Hi fellow brothers,
I am relatively new to the punting scene, only have a handful of visits under my belt. I have seen AR reviews where fellow brothers have had a very good time and the WL are very wild, but when i go girls most seem very passive towards me. I am always respectful of the WLs, but maybe because i am really shy they tend to be quite passive with me. I've always been to shops but i also want to ask, how safe is it to visit WL in apartments? like the WLs managed by PCD and stuff. If any seasoned fellow punters have any advice or tips for the punting game, this young grasshopper would be eternally grateful.
Hey Filthy,
From my personal experience, I prefer to go to massage shops. The entry price is lower, and you’ll get off, but maybe not what you want if you’re used to visiting WLs. There’s lots of FS available in massage shops, don’t worry. Anyway, shop around, visit different girls, find a girl you maybe click with, and see her a few times. Once you build rapport you can usually get more services and personally I prefer seeing a regular who knows and likes me. If she’s devoted to good customer service she will learn what you like and give you that. It might help with the nerves and shyness. A good regular will not be passive unless you want her to. Be respectful, give her an extra $20 tip over what she asks you for, it goes a long way.
Also, perhaps don’t read ARs as being exact descriptions of what happened in the room, and also don’t feel bad or left out if you didn’t want to or couldn’t have sex with the girl in 6 positions and cum twice. Find a girl who wants to do what you like. There are dozens of girls out there that are perfect for you. I wish you the best in finding them.
filthycasual
04-03-2025, 06:18 AM
Thanks for the pointers, will take it onboard on my quest to find the holy grail.
orangewhitecat
04-03-2025, 02:29 PM
I always feel like WL are super awkward and not as friendly with me because I’m a super awkward and nervous person. I’ve found things have gotten better as I have more experience
ChadThunderrcock
04-03-2025, 02:32 PM
Depends on your chemistry and how you get on with the girl. If you both awkward, then it ain't gonna go well
robnorth
04-03-2025, 04:05 PM
I know this sounds super generic but just honestly be yourself and be open with them about what you like and giving that feedback.
JJBlows
04-03-2025, 05:37 PM
I always feel like WL are super awkward and not as friendly with me because I’m a super awkward and nervous person. I’ve found things have gotten better as I have more experience
Was told by one WL that those customers are the equivalent of "having to carry the conversation" situations in social settings, it gets exhausting for them
Springwaterr
05-03-2025, 02:38 AM
Find yourself someone with good service and just indulge in it. If its a girl of your type, seeing them multiple times will help. Surprisingly WL have a pretty good memory (if you see them enough).
Never be afraid to ask questions respectfully
some good info on here for someone that just starting out
11Bravo
09-03-2025, 10:36 AM
Believe it or not, you're not the first newbie who's posted the very same questions, e.g. (Strommer amongst others). Plenty of advice exists already for those who put in the time to do the reading. All good advice in this thread's previous posts. A good time requires both to participate. Helps if you take the initiative to break the ice, engage in some banter, allowing her to feel like a person.
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?79-Easy-get-useful-information-Thread-Display-Option-Prefix-Search&p=3047467&viewfull=1#post3047467
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?79-Easy-get-useful-information-Thread-Display-Option-Prefix-Search&p=2805733&viewfull=1#post2805733
Hint: google aus99 newbie
No replacement for YOUR eyes and BOTG as only you can rate "success" and what works for you.
tezzaman18
09-03-2025, 04:23 PM
Never had safety issues visiting WLs in apartments run by PCD and Angel4You or heard any members with issues, for that matter. The safety issue is really the WL's own safety as they are by themselves. No pimps floating around in another room waiting to fleece you while you are being entertained . Lol
Expecting to hear of your experiences ..........
Hi fellow brothers,
I am relatively new to the punting scene, only have a handful of visits under my belt. I have seen AR reviews where fellow brothers have had a very good time and the WL are very wild, but when i go girls most seem very passive towards me. I am always respectful of the WLs, but maybe because i am really shy they tend to be quite passive with me. I've always been to shops but i also want to ask, how safe is it to visit WL in apartments? like the WLs managed by PCD and stuff. If any seasoned fellow punters have any advice or tips for the punting game, this young grasshopper would be eternally grateful.
11Bravo
09-03-2025, 04:35 PM
Never had safety issues visiting WLs in apartments run by PCD and Angel4You or heard any members with issues, for that matter. The safety issue is really the WL's own safety as they are by themselves. No pimps floating around in another room waiting to fleece you while you are being entertained . Lol
I normally steer clear of privates, not for my safety, but for price. Bait and switch doesn't bother me except for the loss of time; I know how to say "no thank you". But I did avail myself of a couple this year, and no problems*, clean apartments, services rendered as described. AR's posted.
*FULL disclosure, there were a couple of problems:
1. Train work action slowed my arrival
2. Not being familiar with security elevators here, not intuitively obvious (to ME) which button on the keypad to press after entering the code, further delaying my arrival.
The first common to any destination, the second unique to privates.
Bottom line: if OP is looking for FS, pick a brothel. Fred69 has some good advice. Just have realistic expectations as to provider (PSE's tend to be delivered by more experienced providers).
If you're not adverse to a bit of risk, try RnT. Yes, there might be a bit of negotiation, a bit of the unknown, but, for me, that's part of the fun.
Believe it or not, you're not the first newbie who's posted the very same questions, e.g. (Strommer amongst others). Plenty of advice exists already for those who put in the time to do the reading. All good advice in this thread's previous posts. A good time requires both to participate. Helps if you take the initiative to break the ice, engage in some banter, allowing her to feel like a person.
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?79-Easy-get-useful-information-Thread-Display-Option-Prefix-Search&p=3047467&viewfull=1#post3047467
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?79-Easy-get-useful-information-Thread-Display-Option-Prefix-Search&p=2805733&viewfull=1#post2805733
Hint: google aus99 newbie
No replacement for YOUR eyes and BOTG as only you can rate "success" and what works for you.
thanks for the advice mate - just browsing through the various threads and ARs
great functionality to have in the AR section where u can filter by shops and latest post date xD
Mr Pineapple
12-03-2025, 12:24 PM
Just be yourself, go to a shop with a decent line up so you can see all of them, see their faces if theyre welcoming or resting bitch face, and also you can ask them questions about what you want in the session and what they do or don't do.
Try a non asian place that doesn't have different tiers, like a Claudias Penthouse, Ma Belle Cherri, Midnight Delight (under $300 an hour).
The cheap asian places can sometimes see a shy guy and will take your money and waste your time even if you chose Diamond class.
Remember its your hard earned money so tell them what you want and take lead in the bedroom, Don't let them waste time showering or massaging you for half the session. Some higher end places u can have a few drinks to ease the nerves at the bar and get into conversation.
Privates are tricky as its all pre booked and just basing yourself off the few blurred photos you have seen on their profile. Buyer beware
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