Help with lasting longer

[shtoopid_head]

I hate to admit it, and I try my best to hold it as long as I can for the girl, in these cases WL or ML, but I am usually a 10 second warrior as soon as the little guy goes in. Few pumps and I am already ready to blow. I tend to need to pause, but any movement the guy will release and that's the end of my session. Which then makes the girl not get anywhere, and also the session too short.

I've tried wanking before a session, but then they makes it harder for me to get hard when I'm at the session, flop faster, or don't even cum.

What're your recommendations on lasting longer?

[CFH]

think unsexy thoughts...think unsexy thoughts...think unsexy thoughts

[Pattyherb]

If you have a porn addiction, quit and wait atleast afew months before your libiddo comes back.

If you don't watch porn, have a bat in the shower a few hours before (don't use porn) and relax. It may be anxiety because you're nervous about the place and the wl because it's new... this is normal, only go when you're relaxed, in a good mood and have a middy of beer or something before to calm the nerves.

[Manboobs]

I used to do my 3 times table in my head to distract myself!!!

[Zhangwao]

Priligy take two of them and a viagra and you will struggle to blow your load for the next two days

[robnorth]

I've blown my load early couple times and its felt shit and have to agree it mostly due to nerves. I'm not a nervous guy, but apparently those days I was. my 2c is just think its just another sex session/nothing special and it'll calm the little dude down.

also wrinkly grandma arm fat and boiled cabbage works too :D

[crhaayn]

I don't like the idea of having to think ugly/disgusting thoughts to hold my cum in. That defeats the purpose of enjoying a session, right?

How about treating the session as a 2-shot or even 3-shot event for yourself? If you do 1 hour sessions, maybe the first 20 minutes is dedicated to your 1st shot, then 5-10 minutes rest, then the last half hour is for your 2nd shot?

Personally, I had the opposite problem, and it got worse depending on the sex act/position, i.e. I can't cum when receiving a BJ (still can't), and for the longest time, I could only cum by being on top. No matter how good the girl looked, face or body, me being able to cum was based on what I was doing. Maybe the opposite can work for you? As in, focus on the positions which gives you the least stimulation to cum?

[Supersmashbros]

Visit the adult warehouse and talk to the staff at the counter. There are many things they can give. Also quite a few guides online regarding diets which can help give you a boost

[Kiki kong]

Possibly practice edging at home?
Stop just when your about the blow and restart after the sensation dulls down.

Also the nerves on your cock starts to get a little desensitised over time so you can last much longer.

BTW I think stress doesn't help, I had an issue before when I'm super stressed and would only last 5 min.

[ironmonk]

Use a fleshlight and try to build stamina and reduce sensitivity.

[Rdlr84]

Try to consciously lose tension around the belly. Almost intentionally bloating your tummy. Go slow and pause pumping if you feel you're close. A few seconds break and then get back to it. Unsexy thoughts or mental math just doesn't work for me.

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[Miclop]

Try to consciously lose tension around the belly. Almost intentionally bloating your tummy. Go slow and pause pumping if you feel you're close. A few seconds break and then get back to it. Unsexy thoughts or mental math just doesn't work for me.

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There's always the medicinal approach as well, dapoxetine, marketed as Prilig,
Or available to purchase online in many forms mixed with an ED drug (viagra/cialis, etc).
I've tried Super Kamagra tablets and gels in the past from kamagraoioioi, and they helped.
But. I don't use anything anymore, now focus on improved lifestyle, and letting it rip early when I need to, then go for a round two!

[PleadInsanity]

I hate to admit it, and I try my best to hold it as long as I can for the girl, in these cases WL or ML, but I am usually a 10 second warrior as soon as the little guy goes in. Few pumps and I am already ready to blow. I tend to need to pause, but any movement the guy will release and that's the end of my session. Which then makes the girl not get anywhere, and also the session too short.

I've tried wanking before a session, but then they makes it harder for me to get hard when I'm at the session, flop faster, or don't even cum.

What're your recommendations on lasting longer?

Checked your PM..

[bistro]

I hate to admit it, and I try my best to hold it as long as I can for the girl, in these cases WL or ML, but I am usually a 10 second warrior as soon as the little guy goes in. Few pumps and I am already ready to blow. I tend to need to pause, but any movement the guy will release and that's the end of my session. Which then makes the girl not get anywhere, and also the session too short.

I've tried wanking before a session, but then they makes it harder for me to get hard when I'm at the session, flop faster, or don't even cum.

What're your recommendations on lasting longer?


Drink double shot espresso 15 mins before you have a session.....

[Icegodofhungary]

Often these things improve with time and (lots of) practise.

Sometimes a change of rhythm and some mind over matter is enough. Sometimes pausing for a couple of seconds or a slow withdraw so you don’t set yourself off, breathing in deeply and holding it for a few seconds might work.

Shifting your focus might work too. Thinking unsexy thoughts kind of defeats the purpose, but looking at the clock or something else in the room for a few seconds to take yourself slightly out of the moment without completely ruining it by thinking about that work deadline or fucking a granny might help slow things down a bit.

The suggestion up thread of trying for a 2 shot session might be a good one if you’ve got a good recovery speed.

Alternatively, try not to stress about it (anxiety about it might make it worse), if it happens it happens. Don’t worry too much about what the girl thinks, they’ve seen it all (and worse) before, and (with some rare exceptions) they’re not looking for their customers for good sex, just to work, have no hassles and get paid.

No need to cut the session short if you don’t want to. Choose a WL or ML you’re comfortable with, and if you cum too soon, either ask them to try for second shot, or just ask for a massage, or cuddle or talk if that’s what you want to do. The more comfortable and relaxed you are with the situation, the better it’s likely to be next time.

[snapjaw]

Google "Edge delay gel" you can get them from Chemist Warehouse, and apparently Woolies and Coles too now!

It works by reducing sensation on your member, but use sparingly as otherwise you hardly feel anything at all! 😂

[Springwaterr]

Google "Edge delay gel" you can get them from Chemist Warehouse, and apparently Woolies and Coles too now!

It works by reducing sensation on your member, but use sparingly as otherwise you hardly feel anything at all! 😂
Does this actually work?

[snapjaw]

Does this actually work?

Yeah mate I've used it before. You need to use it a couple of hours before so it fully absorbs into your skin, you'll get prickly sensations at first as it starts absorbing but that's normal.

Learned the hard way about using even just a bit too much lol. Probably best to try practice runs with wanks to see how the sensation suits you (after a couple of hours like I said above).

[PleadInsanity]

Yeah mate I've used it before. You need to use it a couple of hours before so it fully absorbs into your skin, you'll get prickly sensations at first as it starts absorbing but that's normal.

Learned the hard way about using even just a bit too much lol. Probably best to try practice runs with wanks to see how the sensation suits you (after a couple of hours like I said above).

I second this too. This is what I PM ops. I use this every time I punt. This and a blue pill for us oldies. Work too good sometimes if you use too much. I can enjoy near whole 30min session of bbbj and fucking. Sometime I need to jerk myself off for a cim finish after you apply too much and time is fast running out. Work for me 1 hour before. Cops some flack last time I share this. If there any residue still on your cock, that is why you have a shower before the session so that it wash off. Only problem with sharing this info, all you quick release punter will be wearing out the wl before my turn. :p

[dewayne]

Pull out and DATY for a little bit. Or just pull out and suck on her tits for a bit if that's not an option.

[mrleong]

Try Super Kamagra. Works wonders. If you wanna try, hit me up and i can sell you some (i'm in sydney).

Alternatively focus on the mental and physical side. Breathing, meditation and compound exercises in the gym - squats, deadlifts etc.

[Supersmashbros]

If you want do natural method without any medication, just train for it. Resistance training. Could be a sensitivity issue.

When you get alone time, watch "Try not to cum challenges" on porn sites. Do it to the beat of the music. I remember some videos gave signal signs the exact moment to beat, like guitar hero lol

Progressive overload. Try to beat your high each time.

[GoldfishMan]

I find that I cum too early when I don't have enough energy. Like if I've gone through the whole day without eating anything, then have sex, that's when I feel like my "muscle" down there that controls the cumming is super weak and any little thing can send me over the edge. Like I'm really fidgety after drinking 10 coffees, that kinda feeling. So I always try to get some energy into me before sex. Even an energy bar helps.

ED meds also help. Viagra Kamagra etc. The increased blood flow to that area also strengthens the muscle to control cumming. The flipside is it makes your dick harder and more engorged than usual so you end up feeling more of her pussy!

During the act, the hardest to last long are the times when I'm not wearing a Dom and I'm not allowed to cum inside. Then I usually give up a bit too early to be on the safe side. Otherwise I'll keep myself in there even if a few drops leak out. Pulling out when I'm near the edge is a big mistake because the pulling out movement can easily send me over!

[Abracadabra]

I find that I cum too early when I don't have enough energy. Like if I've gone through the whole day without eating anything, then have sex, that's when I feel like my "muscle" down there that controls the cumming is super weak and any little thing can send me over the edge. Like I'm really fidgety after drinking 10 coffees, that kinda feeling. So I always try to get some energy into me before sex. Even an energy bar helps.

ED meds also help. Viagra Kamagra etc. The increased blood flow to that area also strengthens the muscle to control cumming. The flipside is it makes your dick harder and more engorged than usual so you end up feeling more of her pussy!

During the act, the hardest to last long are the times when I'm not wearing a Dom and I'm not allowed to cum inside. Then I usually give up a bit too early to be on the safe side. Otherwise I'll keep myself in there even if a few drops leak out. Pulling out when I'm near the edge is a big mistake because the pulling out movement can easily send me over!

Do energy bars interfere with Viagra etc?

[Hi666]

I second this too. This is what I PM ops. I use this every time I punt. This and a blue pill for us oldies. Work too good sometimes if you use too much. I can enjoy near whole 30min session of bbbj and fucking. Sometime I need to jerk myself off for a cim finish after you apply too much and time is fast running out. Work for me 1 hour before. Cops some flack last time I share this. If there any residue still on your cock, that is why you have a shower before the session so that it wash off. Only problem with sharing this info, all you quick release punter will be wearing out the wl before my turn. :p

Another vote for Edge, available at Chemist Warehouse. Generally I find I don't need it when using a dom however if you are having trouble lasting give it a go.

But as others have cautioned, use sparingly. A little bit goes a long way. I also found it gave a burning sensation if too much was applied. After a few uses you should find a happy medium.

Happy punting

[Kiki kong]

When I would attend my long as tattoo sessions, I would apply numit cream to dull the pain a little.

It could possibly work also LOL 😆

[MikeOxlong1]

When I would attend my long as tattoo sessions, I would apply numit cream to dull the pain a little.

It could possibly work also LOL 😆

Could you even get hard with it? Please try and let us know boss!!

[random punter64]

Hi guys going to bali in 2 weeks. have tried viagra and calis took half different times 1hr b4sex and cant seem to blow .I am 69 and need help on this any advice would be good if I have get new things to punt in bali.
cheers

[Supersmashbros]

Try Karmagra jelly if available. Not as strong as viagra. Or just have a small meal before taking the pills.

[GoldfishMan]

Do energy bars interfere with Viagra etc?

They were alright. Very easy to digest, low fat. The few times I used them I allowed at least 1 hr before taking the V.
There was also once where I ate one after the V had kicked in. Wouldn't recommend doing this unless you absolutely have to. Yeah the V worked marvelously but I ended up with massive acid reflux due to my stomach being too empty. Was hurting all day from it!

[GoldfishMan]

I've also used the numbing gels once. Same feeling I got from using dapoxetine. Like a complete idiot having paid $$$ to have a fuck only to reduce my enjoyment of the fuck just so I can last longer. No thanks!

[Abracadabra]

They were alright. Very easy to digest, low fat. The few times I used them I allowed at least 1 hr before taking the V.
There was also once where I ate one after the V had kicked in. Wouldn't recommend doing this unless you absolutely have to. Yeah the V worked marvelously but I ended up with massive acid reflux due to my stomach being too empty. Was hurting all day from it!

When I take V it's on a long emptied stomach ~ no stomach issues, but often have a lack of energy having not eaten for multiple hours ~except for a long black!

May I ask which energy bars you recommend? The protein versions?

[GoldfishMan]

When I take V it's on a long emptied stomach ~ no stomach issues, but often have a lack of energy having not eaten for multiple hours ~except for a long black!

May I ask which energy bars you recommend? The protein versions?

I'm not an expert in energy bars myself. The few times I had them it was more a need than a want because the convenience store near my workplace didn't have anything else. I think I had one of those Carmans ones that had chocolate in it.

If I had a choice I would've gone for a couple of bananas over energy bars.

[Abracadabra]

I'm not an expert in energy bars myself. The few times I had them it was more a need than a want because the convenience store near my workplace didn't have anything else. I think I had one of those Carmans ones that had chocolate in it.

If I had a choice I would've gone for a couple of bananas over energy bars.

Yes, I know those carmans ~ the chocolate was a move they made that got my tick of approval!

Agree re bananas ~ if they don't clog up the V !

[Obama]

I've also used the numbing gels once. Same feeling I got from using dapoxetine. Like a complete idiot having paid $$$ to have a fuck only to reduce my enjoyment of the fuck just so I can last longer. No thanks!

Yeah, haven't used this gel, but you'd need to get it right otherwise it's a costly converse effect!

[Double_Adapter]

Try choking the anaconda - one of Master Mantak Chia’s classic moves - and it works like a fucken charm. You’re basically cutting off or slowing down its blood supply, leaving it gasping for mercy. Just don’t overdo it, or you’ll knock out the bastard cold and end up tapping out yourself.

[GoldfishMan]

Try choking the anaconda - one of Master Mantak Chia’s classic moves - and it works like a fucken charm. You’re basically cutting off or slowing down its blood supply, leaving it gasping for mercy. Just don’t overdo it, or you’ll knock out the bastard cold and end up tapping out yourself.

That's the other thing with pulling out to stop yourself from cumming. Some pussies are tight enough to have this choking effect. I've done before where I thought "shit this is too tight in there, I need to pull out to catch a breather". The moment I pull out I feel the blood rush to my cock, it starts throbbing uncontrollably and I'm gone.

Moral of it all, only pull out when you know you're strong enough to hold it back.