Still at a loss

[Wineglass985]

Nearly 3 weeks after losing my regular ML, I am still at a loss. I have visited 6 to 7 MLs during this period and wasted lots of money. Still unable to find anyone remotely attractive to me. Some are with good looks and great body, but the service or attitude couldn’t turn me on or couldn’t provide what I wanted. Some provided great service but the looks and body are not my type.

The more disappointed I get, the more I miss her because she’s still the only one who ticks all the boxes. I find it even very difficult to find a ML who’s willing to lie down beside me naked after the happy ending to have a little chat with me before I handed out the cash and leave, even when I asked them to do so. My regular did this to me during my first visit to her without me asking her to do so! This is an important reason why she became my regular. All they did was to quickly put on their clothes and waited for me to get the cash out of the pocket. Some of them even laughed at me and felt I was strange to make such a request.

What adds to the pain is the fact that she’s still around. Each week I still asked the shop to send me the weekly roster, hoping to see her name disappear and hope the shop to tell me that she’s gone forever. Unfortunately for me and fortunately for others, her name still shows up every week. The shop is just 3 minute drive from the place where I park my car after work, but I cannot visit her anymore.

Really not sure where my next “perfect” ML is and when I can find her. Fingers crossed!

[jedibear]

Mate, honest words...but have you ever thought of getting a proper relationship (if you are not in one). Feels like you are looking for more than a root...you want love and intimacy

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[Wineglass985]

Mate, honest words...but have you ever thought of getting a proper relationship (if you are not in one). Feels like you are looking for more than a root...you want love and intimacy

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Thanks mate. I will never be in a relationship again, being just divorced and ripped off both emotionally and financially.

My regular ML did give me great comfort when I was with her, probably she acted in a more natural way, making me feel at ease all the time.

[popeye96]

Sounds more like you need professional therapy than a ML.

[Bbb123]

Im confused. Why can’t you see your regular ML again if she is still around and working?

[Wineglass985]

Sounds more like you need professional therapy than a ML.

A professional therapist cannot satisfy me both sexually and emotionally. I am sexually suppressed and emotionally distressed at the moment. My regular was able to satisfy me in both ways, although I know I mean nothing to her.

[Angkorwhere]

Nearly 3 weeks after losing my regular ML, I am still at a loss. I have visited 6 to 7 MLs during this period and wasted lots of money. Still unable to find anyone remotely attractive to me. Some are with good looks and great body, but the service or attitude couldn’t turn me on or couldn’t provide what I wanted. Some provided great service but the looks and body are not my type.

The more disappointed I get, the more I miss her because she’s still the only one who ticks all the boxes. I find it even very difficult to find a ML who’s willing to lie down beside me naked after the happy ending to have a little chat with me before I handed out the cash and leave, even when I asked them to do so. My regular did this to me during my first visit to her without me asking her to do so! This is an important reason why she became my regular. All they did was to quickly put on their clothes and waited for me to get the cash out of the pocket. Some of them even laughed at me and felt I was strange to make such a request.

What adds to the pain is the fact that she’s still around. Each week I still asked the shop to send me the weekly roster, hoping to see her name disappear and hope the shop to tell me that she’s gone forever. Unfortunately for me and fortunately for others, her name still shows up every week. The shop is just 3 minute drive from the place where I park my car after work, but I cannot visit her anymore.

Really not sure where my next “perfect” ML is and when I can find her. Fingers crossed!

Asking for a friend, who was your reg?

[VFlowers]

Good grief, how many more self-pity threads of yours will we still have to endure???
As another user already pointed out in another thread, you're not the only one ever to get divorced, you're not the only one ever to lose a favourite ML - and in your particular instance I can't blame her; I would also refuse to see clients who obviously can't control themselves, get rough, and get way too attached.
Get a grip, FFS!

[Wineglass985]

Sorry for disturbance here. I only meant to share some of my feelings with the fellow punters here. I am feeing very upset recently and unable to share it with anybody in real life. I don’t mean to offend, irritate or hurt anybody.

[Tales]

Mate, I think you'll have to spend a bit of time in Asia, fuck yourself stupid on both whores and regular girls. Have girls for LT, a few days, a week. After a week of waking up by getting sucked off and treated like a king you'll get over this shit. Expand your horizons, you're simply festering in the same shit as before. You'll eventually end up a simp to any girl that shows you attention and they'll put the act on well and take you to the cleaners again and again. It's very obvious that you lacked a lot in your previous life, make up for it now before you get trapped again.

[Tales]

Just remember that the one's who seem nice and charming can turn out to be the biggest bitches of them all. It's an act FFS

[Bed Wrecker]

Good grief, how many more self-pity threads of yours will we still have to endure???
As another user already pointed out in another thread, you're not the only one ever to get divorced, you're not the only one ever to lose a favourite ML - and in your particular instance I can't blame her; I would also refuse to see clients who obviously can't control themselves, get rough, and get way too attached.
Get a grip, FFS!
You heartless bastard.
He is hurting.

Seriously wineglass985 you gotta find someone to talk about this shit with. A friend, a guy here with a good ear. Someone. You are heading down a path that isnt helping you. And wasting you money.
You have severe issues that are going to wreck the rest of your life. Do something.
Looking for a surrogate in an ml wont work. These bitches will listen to you for money and fuck you. But they dont hear a word you say or give one single shit.

[VFlowers]

Mate, I think you'll have to spend a bit of time in Asia, fuck yourself stupid on both whores and regular girls. Have girls for LT, a few days, a week. After a week of waking up by getting sucked off and treated like a king you'll get over this shit. Expand your horizons, you're simply festering in the same shit as before. You'll eventually end up a simp to any girl that shows you attention and they'll put the act on well and take you to the cleaners again and again. It's very obvious that you lacked a lot in your previous life, make up for it now before you get trapped again.

Bad advice.
That guy is gonna end up married to, and fleeced by the first bar girl who understands which buttons to push.

[Tales]

Yeah, true but the variety over there might be interesting to him and if he clocks up enough numbers he might get a bit street smart and be able to see through the WG persona.

[hurdur]

Nearly 3 weeks after losing my regular ML, I am still at a loss. I have visited 6 to 7 MLs during this period and wasted lots of money. Still unable to find anyone remotely attractive to me. Some are with good looks and great body, but the service or attitude couldn’t turn me on or couldn’t provide what I wanted. Some provided great service but the looks and body are not my type.

The more disappointed I get, the more I miss her because she’s still the only one who ticks all the boxes. I find it even very difficult to find a ML who’s willing to lie down beside me naked after the happy ending to have a little chat with me before I handed out the cash and leave, even when I asked them to do so. My regular did this to me during my first visit to her without me asking her to do so! This is an important reason why she became my regular. All they did was to quickly put on their clothes and waited for me to get the cash out of the pocket. Some of them even laughed at me and felt I was strange to make such a request.

What adds to the pain is the fact that she’s still around. Each week I still asked the shop to send me the weekly roster, hoping to see her name disappear and hope the shop to tell me that she’s gone forever. Unfortunately for me and fortunately for others, her name still shows up every week. The shop is just 3 minute drive from the place where I park my car after work, but I cannot visit her anymore.

Really not sure where my next “perfect” ML is and when I can find her. Fingers crossed!

Asking for another curious friend, who is she?

[AUlysses]

Well gee, maybe if you weren't so weird to your original ML.

[MSPint]

Nearly 3 weeks after losing my regular ML, I am still at a loss. I have visited 6 to 7 MLs during this period and wasted lots of money. Still unable to find anyone remotely attractive to me. Some are with good looks and great body, but the service or attitude couldnÂ’t turn me on or couldnÂ’t provide what I wanted. Some provided great service but the looks and body are not my type.

The more disappointed I get, the more I miss her because sheÂ’s still the only one who ticks all the boxes. I find it even very difficult to find a ML whoÂ’s willing to lie down beside me naked after the happy ending to have a little chat with me before I handed out the cash and leave, even when I asked them to do so. My regular did this to me during my first visit to her without me asking her to do so! This is an important reason why she became my regular. All they did was to quickly put on their clothes and waited for me to get the cash out of the pocket. Some of them even laughed at me and felt I was strange to make such a request.

What adds to the pain is the fact that sheÂ’s still around. Each week I still asked the shop to send me the weekly roster, hoping to see her name disappear and hope the shop to tell me that sheÂ’s gone forever. Unfortunately for me and fortunately for others, her name still shows up every week. The shop is just 3 minute drive from the place where I park my car after work, but I cannot visit her anymore.

Really not sure where my next “perfect” ML is and when I can find her. Fingers crossed!

I think I understand how you feel right now. Stop looking for another gem(at least until youÂ’ve settled down). Given your current situation, IÂ’m sure you wonÂ’t find a replacement anyway.

Instead, take some time for yourself. Hit the gym and work out hard. As your body gets healthier, youÂ’ll start feeling better, and your mind will follow.

You need to pull yourself out of this situation. Find something new to get into—something that excites you, like a hobby. It doesn’t matter what it is—video games, sports, travel—just something you can enjoy every day.

Time will heal all your wounds.

[Occasional punter]

Thanks mate. I will never be in a relationship again, being just divorced and ripped off both emotionally and financially.

My regular ML did give me great comfort when I was with her, probably she acted in a more natural way, making me feel at ease all the time.

I’m curious as well who she might be can you confirm the shop area or her nationality?