What do you do after the sex/shower activities are completed?

[MrPB]

All,

As the title suggests, curious to hear what happens after the action has been completed, both have cleaned up, etc.

I often find myself either awkwardly putting clothes back on in silence (I try to time it so the girl and I are putting clothes on at the same time).

Sometimes it even feels like the "shame" from the morning after a night out.

Generally just curious.

[yunglean]

Depends whether the girl is any fun to talk to. I find 60 min sessions risky for this reason as I usually can't nut twice in an hour and it doesn't take me more than 30 min to nut.

J Natsumi at No 5 Marrickville was down for a chat. You can also ask for a massage from most girls, no guarantee on quality though. I actually prefer this in some RnTs where I just want to get the nut off as a priority. Like I would facefuck V Natalie and then just have her massage me for the next 40 minutes

[putsputs]

Most of the time, chatting. If a repeat, asking about how her life has been, what's new.

If the vibe is right, round 2. But usually only for 60 min or longer

[jedibear]

I GTFO...main reason why people punt is not to have the emotional strings right?

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[11Bravo]

In RnT's, I always book an hour. The good providers will fill a small gap with a head or foot massage, THEN hit the showers. As I'm getting dressed, she's prepping the room. A bit of chat/banter. For regulars, amazing what they'll remember from previous conversations, building on those (advantage of a regular - you don't have to start from 0). With some, I'll show her some of my phone photos, she'll share some of hers.

The only question I have is as she's helping me put on my shoes, is that out of kindness, pity thinking I can't tie my own shoelaces, or perhaps eager for me to leave... You never know :question:

[MrPB]

Most of the time, chatting. If a repeat, asking about how her life has been, what's new.

If the vibe is right, round 2. But usually only for 60 min or longer

You are a man of good principle!


I GTFO...main reason why people punt is not to have the emotional strings right?

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I see this perspective too.


In RnT's, I always book an hour. The good providers will fill a small gap with a head or foot massage, THEN hit the showers. As I'm getting dressed, she's prepping the room. A bit of chat/banter. For regulars, amazing what they'll remember from previous conversations, building on those (advantage of a regular - you don't have to start from 0). With some, I'll show her some of my phone photos, she'll share some of hers.

The only question I have is as she's helping me put on my shoes, is that out of kindness, pity thinking I can't tie my own shoelaces, or perhaps eager for me to leave... You never know :question:

Hit the nail on the head, chat and banter. And I suppose also what sort of relationship you want to build as well - will she walk the other way if she see's you on the street sort of question.

[MrPB]

Depends whether the girl is any fun to talk to. I find 60 min sessions risky for this reason as I usually can't nut twice in an hour and it doesn't take me more than 30 min to nut.

J Natsumi at No 5 Marrickville was down for a chat. You can also ask for a massage from most girls, no guarantee on quality though. I actually prefer this in some RnTs where I just want to get the nut off as a priority. Like I would facefuck V Natalie and then just have her massage me for the next 40 minutes

Very insightful, I metaphorically sit on the see saw of face fuck and leave ASAP, or face fuck and emotionally relate

[HiredGoon]

I teach them how to play knucklebones.

https://youtu.be/vuyoHfTg-0A?si=XjZ_Cjbz8KqC0gsC

[Daffy]

The ladies are people too. I had an awesome chat with Stella at M5 about what video games we are playing and what we both do for work.

And building that rapport with her over a number of visits has lead to making the sessions a bit more fun

[11Bravo]

Hit the nail on the head, chat and banter. And I suppose also what sort of relationship you want to build as well - will she walk the other way if she see's you on the street sort of question.
Regardless of any type of relationship, it's understood in the civilian environment, we're strangers, ignoring each other (well, perhaps with an almost imperceptible nod of the head if we pass). No avoidance necessary, at least from me, though I can see that for some other whiners here. Bottom line, it is BUSINESS, and in business, you understand the boundaries.

[Jack-Jack]

All,

As the title suggests, curious to hear what happens after the action has been completed, both have cleaned up, etc.

I often find myself either awkwardly putting clothes back on in silence (I try to time it so the girl and I are putting clothes on at the same time).

Sometimes it even feels like the "shame" from the morning after a night out.

Generally just curious.

It’s really up to you bro

It’s “your” session as much as it is theirs

If you really don’t feel like you click with them why sit their in silences just for a few mins just leave and move on

Most of the time the girls are just like any other human being and if you make the effort and treat them nice and respectfully they’re only more than happy to do the same

Even with English being a language barrier I’ve had many girls just pull out translator use sign language and body language mixed with very basic words

I can’t rmb who it was but we were chatting and I said I like this and she did the ok song with one hand and finger with her other hand basically imitating her finger fucking a hole she made with the other hand

Food and drinks is a very easy way to break the ice too

Touch them like you would your partner or wife and compliment them no girl says no to a compliment

Touch their skin and go wow smooth

Touch their tattoo and go cool pretty

Don’t touch their hair if you’re not close or she doesn’t initiate

Comment her abs or bum or other physique…again just treat them like you would a human you interact with at the park bar or concert etc

Does she look tired? Give her an energy drink or snack or food

The long hrs some of them work I’m sure they are more than happy to chat with you last 5-10mins instead of having to suck you or you go round 2…..

[Jack-Jack]

Op if this is something you crave instead of just curious suggest you pick girls that are known to be super gfe or have good English can communicate etc in their profile or ask reception

[11Bravo]

It’s really up to you bro

It’s “your” session as much as it is theirs

If you really don’t feel like you click with them why sit their in silences just for a few mins just leave and move on

Most of the time the girls are just like any other human being and if you make the effort and treat them nice and respectfully they’re only more than happy to do the same

Even with English being a language barrier I’ve had many girls just pull out translator use sign language and body language mixed with very basic words

I can’t rmb who it was but we were chatting and I said I like this and she did the ok song with one hand and finger with her other hand basically imitating her finger fucking a hole she made with the other hand

Food and drinks is a very easy way to break the ice too

Touch them like you would your partner or wife and compliment them no girl says no to a compliment

Touch their skin and go wow smooth

Touch their tattoo and go cool pretty

Don’t touch their hair if you’re not close or she doesn’t initiate

Comment her abs or bum or other physique…again just treat them like you would a human you interact with at the park bar or concert etc

Does she look tired? Give her an energy drink or snack or food

The long hrs some of them work I’m sure they are more than happy to chat with you last 5-10mins instead of having to suck you or you go round 2…..

Excellent advice. Those translation apps work a wonder. One girl I know, those last 5 minutes, we're passing her phone back and forth for a conversation.

One easy topic is travel and where she's from, a bit more specific than just country. One girl, she mentioned where she's from, I'd been there, recognized its unique features and her specific heritage. Another, who'd used a major city as reference, in more detail, she actually lived in a smaller city an hour away which I'd also been to; kind enough to send me a couple of photos of her back home when she went on vacation. I'm still amazed at the one girl who was trying to explain where she'd been on holiday, drawing triangles on the pillow. I finally realized she was talking about Egypt.

Or food. Another regular, when I asked about a certain dish, she changed into civvies, took me to the shop where I could buy, and bought for me.

Certainly helps if YOU'VE traveled. Even if not, knowing something about geography helps.

Even the smallest thing - learn how to say "hello", "thank you", "you're welcome" in her language (THAT helps EVERYWHERE).

As I often say, if you treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice. If you treat her like a person, she'll be a person.

[AHLUNGOR]

I guess language is one of the biggest deal breaker here. This old man had mainly punted with the Asian market over the years, majority were Chinese girls, and even some were from Singapore and Malaysia, they all spoke Mandarin or Cantonese.

And there would be definite differences between a FS vs RnT sessions. Due to financial constraints, 99% of my fucking sessions were just 30 min. So shower before and after with everything else throw in the middle , there ain’t not much time to socialise, right ? But then again, with my lack of stamina, usually cum very quickly. Then got clean up and shower again, got dressed and one final bear hug or a quick squeeze of those big tits and I would be on my way.

There was one favourite WL at 5 Star - the infamous Singapore lady Milo, she was very special and I must say, she would be the only WL whom I have had the pleasure to meet in multiple sessions including a few at the Penthouse near World Square. Milo would give me an excellent firm massage after the cum shot and waited until the alarm before shower me again to complete. What a beautiful person. And those were really the good old days.

Then with the RnT sessions, again. With the good old days I mostly were having a one hour session. So there were plenty of time to chit chat. Nowadays, with a 30 min quickie, and mostly seeing my regulars like Candy, Coco (Oasis), Susan and Yuki. The whole session was like one big friendly catch up and they all look after me so well that no time were wasted. But that’s just me.

Moving forward, If I do see a new ML for the first time, then the whole building of rapport thing would have to start from scratch and that ain’t something I want to invest my time and effort on these days. Besides, the only reason or incentive that I would see a new ML nowadays would be for two big reasons only.

And you all should know what they are…….. haha


Just for those who are new here: E or Double D Cups + are the answers ( . )!( . ) ……. lol ��


Cheers

[putsputs]

Excellent advice. Those translation apps work a wonder. One girl I know, those last 5 minutes, we're passing her phone back and forth for a conversation.

One easy topic is travel and where she's from, a bit more specific than just country. One girl, she mentioned where she's from, I'd been there, recognized its unique features and her specific heritage. Another, who'd used a major city as reference, in more detail, she actually lived in a smaller city an hour away which I'd also been to; kind enough to send me a couple of photos of her back home when she went on vacation. I'm still amazed at the one girl who was trying to explain where she'd been on holiday, drawing triangles on the pillow. I finally realized she was talking about Egypt.

Or food. Another regular, when I asked about a certain dish, she changed into civvies, took me to the shop where I could buy, and bought for me.

Certainly helps if YOU'VE traveled. Even if not, knowing something about geography helps.

Even the smallest thing - learn how to say "hello", "thank you", "you're welcome" in her language (THAT helps EVERYWHERE).

As I often say, if you treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice. If you treat her like a person, she'll be a person.

Culture and language specific topics always help in filling up the time not spent in the activities.

And that last paragraph, so true.

[crhaayn]

If the WL doesn't initiate anything after sex (e.g. massage), then it's always a chat for me. My preference for 1 hour sessions are so the last 15-20 minutes are spent chatting. But of course if they're down for round 2 and I'm able to get hard again, then round 2 it is.

With new girls, Jack-Jack's got it spot on. Superficial chit chat, very friendly conversations. If I liked the WL and wanted to see her again, it helps with a future session, as it built a bit of rapport with her and I would have come off as having a friendly vibe. Just as we have a hesitation with a new punt that the girl might not provide good service, I'm sure WLs would feel anxious about a new customer being rough and rude.

With my regulars, it's pretty much become a therapy session, for the both of us. I have learnt a long time ago not to involve romantic feelings, so the sex is all lust, and everything else is just on a friendly level.

[Pattyherb]

Ask them what their relationship is like with their biological father

[11Bravo]

If I liked the WL and wanted to see her again, it helps with a future session, as it built a bit of rapport with her and I would have come off as having a friendly vibe. Just as we have a hesitation with a new punt that the girl might not provide good service, I'm sure WLs would feel anxious about a new customer being rough and rude.
Very true, and I'd add entitled to rough and rude... IME, that friendly vibe goes a long way...


Ask them what their relationship is like with their biological father
IME, that's a western attitude that doesn't apply to most Asians. (Actually more that just the obvious - given the importance of blood, biological is redundant). Importance of family, respect for parents ingrained in the culture. It's known as "repaying the mother's milk". You just don't see many Asian parents being warehoused in old folks homes. A number of houses here are built with ADU's, either separate or attached for that reason. Thank you Confucius.

[CFH]

get dressed. pay any extra money then leave.

[ergoproxy]

If it is someone new I’m seeing for a first or a few weeks, mostly chatter. I usually go for 45min bookings and I don’t shoot til the 30-35 min mark. A few chats about their stay here. Where they’re from etc. nothing more than what have been said above.

But to some whom I’ve been seen for a while now, the chats become personal at times. Whether true or not, I do buy them especially when they share it with photos to back up. Some we’d look at presents for a girl friend like purses, bags etc. or even look at places they’re looking to move in to.

[GoldfishMan]

Ask them what their relationship is like with their biological father

Mate, as crazy as it sounds, I actually did have such a convo with a now retired ML who was a J X Aussie mix.

I wasn't looking to talk about it, just asked her about her time visiting here, just some small chitchat I thought.

Lo and behold, she became emotional and opened up, telling me that her reason being here was partially to reconnect with her deadbeat Aussie dad whom she hasn't seen for years. I vaguely recall she also explained about things on her mom's side in Japan wasn't looking good, etc.

I get it she was being very open and honest but gee whiz it was an awkward end to a session. Truly memorable but not really for the right reasons.

[MrPB]

Op if this is something you crave instead of just curious suggest you pick girls that are known to be super gfe or have good English can communicate etc in their profile or ask reception

I can't say I particularly crave something nor am I asking for a solution. I suppose the intent of this thread was for everyone to share what your experiences are, and why, so thank you for sharing yours.


I guess language is one of the biggest deal breaker here. This old man had mainly punted with the Asian market over the years, majority were Chinese girls, and even some were from Singapore and Malaysia, they all spoke Mandarin or Cantonese.

And there would be definite differences between a FS vs RnT sessions. Due to financial constraints, 99% of my fucking sessions were just 30 min. So shower before and after with everything else throw in the middle , there ain’t not much time to socialise, right ? But then again, with my lack of stamina, usually cum very quickly. Then got clean up and shower again, got dressed and one final bear hug or a quick squeeze of those big tits and I would be on my way.

There was one favourite WL at 5 Star - the infamous Singapore lady Milo, she was very special and I must say, she would be the only WL whom I have had the pleasure to meet in multiple sessions including a few at the Penthouse near World Square. Milo would give me an excellent firm massage after the cum shot and waited until the alarm before shower me again to complete. What a beautiful person. And those were really the good old days.

Then with the RnT sessions, again. With the good old days I mostly were having a one hour session. So there were plenty of time to chit chat. Nowadays, with a 30 min quickie, and mostly seeing my regulars like Candy, Coco (Oasis), Susan and Yuki. The whole session was like one big friendly catch up and they all look after me so well that no time were wasted. But that’s just me.

Moving forward, If I do see a new ML for the first time, then the whole building of rapport thing would have to start from scratch and that ain’t something I want to invest my time and effort on these days. Besides, the only reason or incentive that I would see a new ML nowadays would be for two big reasons only.

And you all should know what they are…….. haha


Just for those who are new here: E or Double D Cups + are the answers ( . )!( . ) ……. lol ��


Cheers

Wise words, and even wiser reasons!


get dressed. pay any extra money then leave.

I'm presuming you are just looking for a warm hole. I get it and thats okay. Pump and dump is acceptable in this field (assuming no feelings attached).

[MrPB]

Mate, as crazy as it sounds, I actually did have such a convo with a now retired ML who was a J X Aussie mix.

I wasn't looking to talk about it, just asked her about her time visiting here, just some small chitchat I thought.

Lo and behold, she became emotional and opened up, telling me that her reason being here was partially to reconnect with her deadbeat Aussie dad whom she hasn't seen for years. I vaguely recall she also explained about things on her mom's side in Japan wasn't looking good, etc.

I get it she was being very open and honest but gee whiz it was an awkward end to a session. Truly memorable but not really for the right reasons.

This is something I haven't heard before, I've had girls here for travel, for study and others purely to make business. Sometimes I get girls just before shark week (which oddly feels like you're the one treading lightly).

Your session must have been quite a roller coaster.

[Rustyman1980]

Usually a chat and hugs and body caressing on the small table, some have opened up quite a bit about their family what they're studying etc

Only a few times a ML got me hard again to go round two and three in an hour, it's fun having a chat and I think you get the vibe if they want to or just give generic answers

[fnmfnmfnm]

GTF outta there if there’s any time left. I’m cauc and punt mostly Asian so I don’t really bother with the stunted conversation if they can’t really converse. I’ve probably had maybe 2 WLs in the last 4 years with actual conversational chemistry that makes me wanna hang around.

My thinking is, if I’ve booked 45m and I’m done in 30 and don’t wanna go again then the best thing I can do is give the lady 15mins paid peace and quiet to herself, especially if she’s popular and going back to back with punters all day.

[dewayne]

I actually like the small talk bit afterward. It's nice getting to know the ladies a bit. A couple of my regulars and I get along rather well and make good small talk, sometimes cuddle a bit if we're not in a hurry.

If it's someone new, I make the small talk anyway, and try to even when their English isn't very good. Like in all aspects of life, smiling and making a little polite conversation is never a bad thing. Helps them to remember you for next time, too.

[Erik Shaun]

After shower I usually take her home and she helps me build Ikea furnitures. It's great

[MrPB]

After shower I usually take her home and she helps me build Ikea furnitures. It's great

How much does that cost you?

[Erik Shaun]

How much does that cost you?

Well it depends right, this Saturday we built the BAGGEBO bookshelf which goes for $39 but the day before it was the SKRUVBY storage unit, that one set me back $428. Not cheap these days.

[AJJ]

I got a regular who i often sit down out the back and eat a meal with. Only when she's not busy. Have to admit this took a few sessions to build up this rapport!

[Icegodofhungary]

I generally try to time things so that we're finishing activities just as time is almost up. Not that I don't like to chat or spend time with the girl afterwards, just that I like to try to get my full money's worth of sex or massage or whatever I'm paying for. I like to talk though, so I'll usually pick up or follow up on whatever we were talking about at the beginning of the session while we're showering and getting dressed at the end. If my timing is off and there's 10 minutes or more left on the clock when we've finished (and depending on the girl), I do like to lie naked with the girl on the bed for a bit in post coital glow, holding her and/or with her holding onto me before we shower.

I have on occasion taken the girl out for a meal or a drink or something afterwards if she's a regular and I'm her last customer or she has a break.

[GoldfishMan]

All,

As the title suggests, curious to hear what happens after the action has been completed, both have cleaned up, etc.

I often find myself either awkwardly putting clothes back on in silence (I try to time it so the girl and I are putting clothes on at the same time).

Sometimes it even feels like the "shame" from the morning after a night out.

Generally just curious.

If you've already showered and cleaned up, what's the point of hanging around? You might get "dirty" again and then you're gonna need another shower, lolll...

[bummer]

All,

As the title suggests, curious to hear what happens after the action has been completed, both have cleaned up, etc.

I often find myself either awkwardly putting clothes back on in silence (I try to time it so the girl and I are putting clothes on at the same time).

Sometimes it even feels like the "shame" from the morning after a night out.

Generally just curious.

Funny, on the weekend I did a private who was actually pretty lousy, but in the after show I asked her to wash my back, and she got in and did it, as I turned around I stiole a quick kiss (A no kiss session) and she started on my manhood which certainly reacted, and then she started dfk with me. everything progresses as though it was the start not the end of the session.

The free end half, was the best as she really needed a release and teated me like her bf rather than a client.

I wonder what will happen next time.

[ergoproxy]

Funny, on the weekend I did a private who was actually pretty lousy, but in the after show I asked her to wash my back, and she got in and did it, as I turned around I stiole a quick kiss (A no kiss session) and she started on my manhood which certainly reacted, and then she started dfk with me. everything progresses as though it was the start not the end of the session.

The free end half, was the best as she really needed a release and teated me like her bf rather than a client.

I wonder what will happen next time.

Winning. It’s never truly over until you’re out of the door. I’ve had similar experiences before where they start ice cold, then later melted all over closer to finishing.

[Kiryu0]

I got lucky once or twice when I couldn't get my 2nd shot off by the end of the session the WL managed to get me back up in the shower and helped me shoot my second.

No blowjob or anything, but they let me rub against their ass or pussy slide from behind the finish me off.

Those were great times.

[Misohappy]

Once I'm done - i just leave.
No point sitting around and talking, thats not what I am there for.
Plenty of women on platforms like Tinder if to waste your time with if you just wanna chat and small talk

[Wayne]

it is dangerous territory. I can say, after years of punting, it is best to just leave or talk about something totally neutral. The girls are only there to earn money. Nothing else matters to her or you. End of story. It is simply a financial transaction. Not therapy. If you must chat, talk about the weather or football (Japanese and Koreans all know something about it). Don't ask personal questions, or anything about why she is here. It always goes south. I have had Goldfishman's exact experience: discussing her relationship with her father. I suspect there is some deep psychological reason girls who don't get on with their father end up in brothels. I bet, if you look into the literature, it are only the abused, neglected or traumatised who end up in brothels. Best to leave well enough alone.

[MrPB]

Funny, on the weekend I did a private who was actually pretty lousy, but in the after show I asked her to wash my back, and she got in and did it, as I turned around I stiole a quick kiss (A no kiss session) and she started on my manhood which certainly reacted, and then she started dfk with me. everything progresses as though it was the start not the end of the session.

The free end half, was the best as she really needed a release and teated me like her bf rather than a client.

I wonder what will happen next time.

That's a killer of a story mate, good stuff

[ChadThunderrcock]

After sex & shower, we are pretty much already back on the bed doing foreplay to get ready for a second round

[Axeman123]

If you've already showered and cleaned up, what's the point of hanging around? You might get "dirty" again and then you're gonna need another shower, lolll... And another $300 !!

[jedibear]

Tell her to go heat up a plate in the microwave and chop lines with her.This is the best [emoji1787]

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