Etiquette of reaching out to an ml via mobile

[dubberjas]

Hey guys just wondering has anyone reached out to an ml on SMS after doing payid? Thinking of asking if she wants to earn some extra coin on the side.

[thunder545454]

Hey guys just wondering has anyone reached out to an ml on SMS after doing payid? Thinking of asking if she wants to earn some extra coin on the side.

Very inappropriate and creepy.

If your so keen why don't you just book another session and ask her in person like you are a normal person.

Ive seen plenty outside of shops, but you won't achieve it by acting like a cheap stalker.

[dubberjas]

Fair call and hence why I hadn't. Just my little brain was doing my thinking

[Pome]

If you want to ask her something, just ask. If she doesn't want to reply she won't....No need to overthink..

[cn6666]

Ask her in person not by sms

[jimmyp]

I say go for it.

I once had a girl get my number off the shop phone to see me out of hours and pocket all of the money instead of splitting it with the shop.

And her apartment was a lot nicer than the shop!

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[Masscon]

I say go for it.

I once had a girl get my number off the shop phone to see me out of hours and pocket all of the money instead of splitting it with the shop.

And her apartment was a lot nicer than the shop!

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While that may be true in your case,it is best not to contact them unless you’ve explicitly gotten their consent. They gave you their number for payment purposes.

[Falcon2005]

Ask in person the first time. Not many really see you outside the shop but happy for you to book them directly. She may not remember you anyways.

[Bed Wrecker]

Hey guys just wondering has anyone reached out to an ml on SMS after doing payid? Thinking of asking if she wants to earn some extra coin on the side.
Just be honest during transaction.
Can i message you on this number?
Is she says no, dont push it.

What are you after with your messages?
Setting up bookings is fine
If you have a long established connection. Fine.
Otherwise too prone to misunderstandings, poor english and unrealistic expectations.

Some mls will do outside stuff, most wont. Especially after one visit.
Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

[JJBeck]

Agree, my regular complaint that she a punter trick her and paid via payid to get her number and now he message her constantly.

[APL]

Just be honest during transaction.
Can i message you on this number?
Is she says no, dont push it.

What are you after with your messages?
Setting up bookings is fine
If you have a long established connection. Fine.
Otherwise too prone to misunderstandings, poor english and unrealistic expectations.

Some mls will do outside stuff, most wont. Especially after one visit.
Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

Finally we agree on something not pointing at anyone in particular

Can I buy some punctuation here?

[Bed Wrecker]

Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

Finally we agree on something not pointing at anyone in particular

Can I buy some punctuation here?
You get your message punctuation spot-on first.

[Hardagan]

Listen, mate... you don’t take a number. You earn it.
Just ‘cause you paid for a session and flashed a smile, she’s not obligated to hand over access to her private world?

You ask her like a man with respect in your voice and a little fear in your heart.

[gedinsyd]

I was at my local ML shop yesterday chatting with my regular, who is also a good friend, and this bloke called her on the shop phone - apparently he calls now and again when she is working - and he was asking her out, asking what drinks she likes etc., and she was politely telling him that he can come to the shop if he wants to see her, and that she does not do anything outside the shop with customers. She cut the call after a few minutes when another customer showed up but she was telling me what a nuisance the guy is. He has apparently only seen her in the shop one or two times quite a long time ago, but seems to think he can try his luck with asking her out. This is only one example, but she said there are a number of others who are like this too. She also showed me some nude selfies that some dude who was trying to make a booking sent her...immediate block! Keep it respectful guys.

[harry444]

It's creeps like this that force the girls to move on.
No matter how often it's said, some guys still dont know that 'no' means no.

[hornedbeast]

Plenty of WL and ML available without stalking

[Cmnothingelse]

Probably not a good idea. As others have said, just ask her next time you see her.

That said, I've had one randomly start messaging me. Wasn't annoyed with it (I'm single), but did get a bit pissed off when she started with the 'can you pay for your next massage now' kind of thing. She gives a good massage and fuck, but have scaled back my visits to her a lot now (likely won't go back, unfortunately).

[BrisbaneSwede]

Everytime ive done this ive done it in person after the session, eg hey do you do privates away from the venue.

Thats the bwst way they'll say yay or nay and you won't get blocked.

[Joejohnson8]

I had one I really liked give me her WhatsApp I didn’t ask , she gave it to me. She gave me heaps of tips for who to book. Did I miss a trick ? Lol