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dubberjas
12-04-2025, 12:13 PM
Hey guys just wondering has anyone reached out to an ml on SMS after doing payid? Thinking of asking if she wants to earn some extra coin on the side.

thunder545454
12-04-2025, 01:11 PM
Hey guys just wondering has anyone reached out to an ml on SMS after doing payid? Thinking of asking if she wants to earn some extra coin on the side.

Very inappropriate and creepy.

If your so keen why don't you just book another session and ask her in person like you are a normal person.

Ive seen plenty outside of shops, but you won't achieve it by acting like a cheap stalker.

dubberjas
12-04-2025, 01:32 PM
Fair call and hence why I hadn't. Just my little brain was doing my thinking

Pome
12-04-2025, 03:45 PM
If you want to ask her something, just ask. If she doesn't want to reply she won't....No need to overthink..

cn6666
12-04-2025, 05:11 PM
Ask her in person not by sms

jimmyp
13-04-2025, 02:26 PM
I say go for it.

I once had a girl get my number off the shop phone to see me out of hours and pocket all of the money instead of splitting it with the shop.

And her apartment was a lot nicer than the shop!

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Masscon
13-04-2025, 03:33 PM
I say go for it.

I once had a girl get my number off the shop phone to see me out of hours and pocket all of the money instead of splitting it with the shop.

And her apartment was a lot nicer than the shop!

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While that may be true in your case,it is best not to contact them unless you’ve explicitly gotten their consent. They gave you their number for payment purposes.

Falcon2005
13-04-2025, 04:07 PM
Ask in person the first time. Not many really see you outside the shop but happy for you to book them directly. She may not remember you anyways.

Bed Wrecker
13-04-2025, 05:49 PM
Hey guys just wondering has anyone reached out to an ml on SMS after doing payid? Thinking of asking if she wants to earn some extra coin on the side.
Just be honest during transaction.
Can i message you on this number?
Is she says no, dont push it.

What are you after with your messages?
Setting up bookings is fine
If you have a long established connection. Fine.
Otherwise too prone to misunderstandings, poor english and unrealistic expectations.

Some mls will do outside stuff, most wont. Especially after one visit.
Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

JJBeck
13-04-2025, 08:23 PM
Agree, my regular complaint that she a punter trick her and paid via payid to get her number and now he message her constantly.

APL
14-04-2025, 09:43 AM
Just be honest during transaction.
Can i message you on this number?
Is she says no, dont push it.

What are you after with your messages?
Setting up bookings is fine
If you have a long established connection. Fine.
Otherwise too prone to misunderstandings, poor english and unrealistic expectations.

Some mls will do outside stuff, most wont. Especially after one visit.
Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

Finally we agree on something not pointing at anyone in particular

Can I buy some punctuation here?

Bed Wrecker
14-04-2025, 11:00 AM
Theres way too many crazy guys out there.

Finally we agree on something not pointing at anyone in particular

Can I buy some punctuation here?
You get your message punctuation spot-on first.

Hardagan
15-04-2025, 12:56 PM
Listen, mate... you don’t take a number. You earn it.
Just ‘cause you paid for a session and flashed a smile, she’s not obligated to hand over access to her private world?

You ask her like a man with respect in your voice and a little fear in your heart.