Experiences inviting a ML to your house?

[dewayne]

A few weekends from now my housemates will be traveling and I'll have the place to myself, and was thinking of texting and inviting my ATL ML over for a few drinks and dinner and a couple good deep dickings after hours, fully compensated of course. (I've known her for years and trust her and all that)

But I was wondering if anyone here had done anything similar and how it turned out? Positive or negative, and would you do it again?

And before you ask, it's not a catching feelings thing, it's an "I want to fuck her brains out a few times, unrushed, in the comfort of my house" thing

[bobhappy888]

I would say make sure your neighbours don’t see her come in/out - in case they might mention to your roommates hahahaha

[ditchtheboss]

I have done it with 2 of our lovely Asian WLs. One of them in particular I met outside the shop coincidentally and we became good friends. She stayed at my place many many times and I have been to her place as well.

In my experience, they need to trust you. These girls have a low level of trust as they perceive that we want to fuck them for nothing outside the shop. So getting them to your place I think is a matter of trust on her part.

Did it go bad for me at any point? No. She has asked to come to my place at times but never showed up without prior communication. She also offered me to stay at her place when it is convenient to me. It is a fantastic experience to be friends with a WL and know her outside the shop. It made the sessions in the shop super extra special.

I’d encourage you to do it but you need to trust her as well. Only you can know that.

Enjoy

[Roydemeo]

Remember you’re not paying them to fuck you’re paying them to leave.

[Rogeryou]

Mate just book a hotel room, done it plenty of times. Why bring worker into your home and private life.

[andrewv]

It might backfire big time. Invite only girls to your home who are likely to be romantic partners, not paid sex providers.
There is a huge difference between the two.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I wouldn't do it.

You don't know how many trouble exe's she has. How many crazy customers/stalkers she has. You don't know how crazy she is or if she has any drug/addiction problems.

Bringing them into your personal home & life is just asking for trouble. And a disaster waiting to happen.

Just see them in the shops. At least you have the safety of the shop/management to speak to if any problems arises with her

[HiredGoon]

Done it a bunch of times, never any problems. You gotta use your judgement though, no ice smokers etc. I've had ginza girls stay over lots of times, they just want someone to hang with, eat with, sleep next to and have sex with like any other girl. And then after a few weeks or months they fly back home.
But yeah, choose wisely.

[AJJ]

Don't do it mate!
I've done a few times without any harm but had this one thai girl go crazy.... Came banging on the door in the middle of the night many times as she remembered the address.
Ice addict that was definitely not visiting me for a fuck! Wanted money and somewhere to stay.
Was a bad situation as I always felt uneasy when not at home.
Luckily she moved away i was told and fingers crossed 🤞 never see her again!
I will never take this risk again!!

[HiredGoon]

Don't do it mate!
I've done a few times without any harm but had this one thai girl go crazy.... Came banging on the door in the middle of the night many times as she remembered the address.
Ice addict that was definitely not visiting me for a fuck! Wanted money and somewhere to stay.
Was a bad situation as I always felt uneasy when not at home.
Luckily she moved away i was told and fingers crossed �� never see her again!
I will never take this risk again!!

You must've known she was into the ice?

[Peza]

Booked a hotel for few hours and organised one of my regulars for a day of swimming, sauna, lunch and of course main menu.

Hotels in Sydney CBD can be booked using cash and don’t ask questions website Dayuse.com .

Much safer than getting caught by neighbours.

[AHLUNGOR]

Assuming the OP is single and unattached ? you don't have a lot of assets or with a high paying job on a senior position ?

[ChadThunderrcock]

Done it a bunch of times, never any problems. You gotta use your judgement though, no ice smokers etc. I've had ginza girls stay over lots of times, they just want someone to hang with, eat with, sleep next to and have sex with like any other girl. And then after a few weeks or months they fly back home.
But yeah, choose wisely.

Good on you bro. If these girls are doing it for free & you don't have to pay for their time, you probably look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth

[HiredGoon]

Good on you bro. If these girls are doing it for free & you don't have to pay for their time, you probably look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth

Nah I’m an old, bald, fat farang. Girls love that shit.

[AJJ]

You must've known she was into the ice?
Mate not initially! This was after she went off the rails. She seemed quite stable when I met her. It honestly turned into a nightmare for me!!!

[HiredGoon]

Mate not initially! This was after she went off the rails. She seemed quite stable when I met her. It honestly turned into a nightmare for me!!!

Yeah it's some fucked up shit. Especially common at the lower budget shops where they just start smoking to get through the long shift.

[11Bravo]

A few weekends from now my housemates will be traveling and I'll have the place to myself, and was thinking of texting and inviting my ATL ML over for a few drinks and dinner and a couple good deep dickings after hours, fully compensated of course. (I've known her for years and trust her and all that)

But I was wondering if anyone here had done anything similar and how it turned out? Positive or negative, and would you do it again?

And before you ask, it's not a catching feelings thing, it's an "I want to fuck her brains out a few times, unrushed, in the comfort of my house" thing

Can't speak about SYD, but offshore, back in the day, it was the SOP. Never had a problem.

My advice? I'd ask her if she'd be willing to cook as you'd like some authentic [fill in the nationality] food. Next time you see her beforehand, if she's willing, say you'll buy the food AND the spices. Give her $20-$30 for the spices up front as she'll have to go to one of her markets to find those. Tell her you'll take her grocery shopping on the day, letting her pick the vegetables. Let her know what you want for the main course (for the spices), and she and you will pick whatever up on the day. If she wants to use her market for the veggies, no problem.

Advantage? Makes her feel like a person, not an orifice. Some of the best times I've ever had.

This is assuming that 1)she knows how to cook, and 2)you have a decent kitchen with utensils (I had to spend extra to buy a rolling pin for the scratch dumplings and noodles; that rolling pin was used for years by various chefs).

[GoldfishMan]

A few weekends from now my housemates will be traveling and I'll have the place to myself, and was thinking of texting and inviting my ATL ML over for a few drinks and dinner and a couple good deep dickings after hours, fully compensated of course.

I've got a couple of questions here. Why would you need to have your housemates out of the house before you could bring over a girl? They don't need to know where or how you met her.

And what the heck is ATL?

[keebab]

Can't speak about SYD, but offshore, back in the day, it was the SOP. Never had a problem.

My advice? I'd ask her if she'd be willing to cook as you'd like some authentic [fill in the nationality] food. Next time you see her beforehand, if she's willing, say you'll buy the food AND the spices. Give her $20-$30 for the spices up front as she'll have to go to one of her markets to find those. Tell her you'll take her grocery shopping on the day, letting her pick the vegetables. Let her know what you want for the main course (for the spices), and she and you will pick whatever up on the day. If she wants to use her market for the veggies, no problem.

Advantage? Makes her feel like a person, not an orifice. Some of the best times I've ever had.

This is assuming that 1)she knows how to cook, and 2)you have a decent kitchen with utensils (I had to spend extra to buy a rolling pin for the scratch dumplings and noodles; that rolling pin was used for years by various chefs).

This is a great SOP and I can attest that it works.

I like to be "coached" on new techniques so I've been able to learn a few different Thai and Phillipino dishes, including desserts. They'll usually enjoy playing the boss and telling you what to do. Just be sure the Papaya salad doesn't have too many fresh chillies before she kicks off the BBBJ.

[dewayne]

I've got a couple of questions here. Why would you need to have your housemates out of the house before you could bring over a girl? They don't need to know where or how you met her.

And what the heck is ATL?

Ah sorry, ATL was supposed to be ATF as in my All Time Fav. And I do bring the occasional regular girl home, but I'd rather not field questions about how I know this particular woman etc. Would rather not deal with all that.

[dewayne]

Can't speak about SYD, but offshore, back in the day, it was the SOP. Never had a problem.

My advice? I'd ask her if she'd be willing to cook as you'd like some authentic [fill in the nationality] food. Next time you see her beforehand, if she's willing, say you'll buy the food AND the spices. Give her $20-$30 for the spices up front as she'll have to go to one of her markets to find those. Tell her you'll take her grocery shopping on the day, letting her pick the vegetables. Let her know what you want for the main course (for the spices), and she and you will pick whatever up on the day. If she wants to use her market for the veggies, no problem.

Advantage? Makes her feel like a person, not an orifice. Some of the best times I've ever had.

This is assuming that 1)she knows how to cook, and 2)you have a decent kitchen with utensils (I had to spend extra to buy a rolling pin for the scratch dumplings and noodles; that rolling pin was used for years by various chefs).

This is fantastic advice, thank you

[Double_Adapter]

WTF! You're there to root the chick not fucken put on a master chef show. Next thing some bloke will invite the chick to clean his house.

[11Bravo]

This is fantastic advice, thank you

As Nike advises, Just Do It.

If you don't have an apron, offer her one of your old (CLEAN) T-shirts to use while she's cooking. Appreciated by BOTH parties - her to save her clothes, you when she strips before putting on the T. Nothing like seeing her standing on tip-toes, leaning over to reach the back burner, the T rucked up, showing her T...

The biggest problem I ever had was trying to convince her (multiple) to just put the dishes and pans in the dishwasher rather than do them herself.


WTF! You're there to root the chick not fucken put on a master chef show. Next thing some bloke will invite the chick to clean his house.
IME, that's an inherent auxiliary service that's often included... Very nice when you consider the why...

[justincase]

I’ve had a WL I was a regular with move to two streets away from my house only a month ago. I just don’t know if she did it on purpose. Anyway after she did that I backed way off and never contacted her again.

There never was any intention on my behalf of going any further than punting her as she slipped up once and started txting me as Steve… which is not my name and no doubt it’s one of you guys… who cares, right? Obviously she was playing the field and that put the nail in her coffin.

[Jack Hammer]

I’ve done this with 3 different birds over the years. Had been to see them in their shops many times before we did it. Ended up having great relationships with them. They probably were seeing me hoping for love, marriage and visas and I obviously had my intentions.
I really enjoyed these times and so did they. I didn’t even pay them, it was just 2 people hanging out. The relationships fizzled out over time but we had a ball together.
Well worth it. As old mate said about Nike “just do it”

[jackdaniels]

I only to go the ML's residence, never under any circumstance the other way around.

[daibintai]

I have done it with 2 of our lovely Asian WLs. One of them in particular I met outside the shop coincidentally and we became good friends. She stayed at my place many many times and I have been to her place as well.

In my experience, they need to trust you. These girls have a low level of trust as they perceive that we want to fuck them for nothing outside the shop. So getting them to your place I think is a matter of trust on her part.

Did it go bad for me at any point? No. She has asked to come to my place at times but never showed up without prior communication. She also offered me to stay at her place when it is convenient to me. It is a fantastic experience to be friends with a WL and know her outside the shop. It made the sessions in the shop super extra special.

I’d encourage you to do it but you need to trust her as well. Only you can know that.

Enjoy

very well said and analysis

Definitely alot of trust needs to be taken into consideration