Virgin help

[batman12]

New guy here looking to lose my v card at ginza in the next couple weeks. Dont really care about it being special, since im honestly just horny. Im a pretty skinny person though so i definitely have some anxiety being naked (afraid i might be off putting for the ladies). For context im 21, 175cm, 50kg and 5.5 inches.

Any of you guys got recommendations for anyone at ginza? Im looking to book around an hour. Also how busy are the shops normally? Any tips for first time or do I just rock up and hope for the best haha

thanks

[crhaayn]

Book ahead. Check roster the previous day around 5:30pm. Go for an experienced girl that can speak English. Let them know it's your first time. I think they would be better equipped to lead you. Going with an inexperienced girl may lead to disappointment as you might be expected to lead.

Don't worry too much about how you think you'll be perceived. In the room, it's just you and her, and you would've paid already so she's there to service you. However, it'll definitely help if you go there clean and groomed (groin, ass, breath, underarm).

Don't overthink it. If you go for the hour, and you pop early, you'll have time to go for a 2nd or even 3rd round. If you can't cum, you have time to chat a little/get more comfortable/get a massage, then try again.

Looking at the roster for tomorrow, K Jessie @ Ginza Club is on. I would reckon she'd be a great pick for your first time.

[thefatness]

Let me save you an absolute fortune and recommend you go with the most grotesque looking thing you can find on escortsandbabes or some other classifieds listings. Let the experience put you off so much that you will never do it again. Punting is honestly like a hard drug. It is so addictive.

[ironmonk]

If it's your first time then don't expect too much, it'll likely be underwhelming.

If you're going to Ginza then go with a girl who speaks fluent or near fluent English.

[Jack-Jack]

New guy here looking to lose my v card at ginza in the next couple weeks. Dont really care about it being special, since im honestly just horny. Im a pretty skinny person though so i definitely have some anxiety being naked (afraid i might be off putting for the ladies). For context im 21, 175cm, 50kg and 5.5 inches.

Any of you guys got recommendations for anyone at ginza? Im looking to book around an hour. Also how busy are the shops normally? Any tips for first time or do I just rock up and hope for the best haha

thanks

if ur really 21 they gonna love u bro the girl gonna be like come here sweetie pie hahahhaaha

nah in all honestly defs book and dont just rock up

Browse the girls profile on website and check the reviews section to come up with a short list or shopping list

And then from ur girls and list of criteria go:

Hey bro i want a {insert body type or size} that is {insert nationality} and insert {cup size and experience} and how long u wanna stay and see what you answer u get and go from there


example Hey bro i'm after slim petite japanese that is more young and inexperienced for 45min who u recommend?

or I was thick curvy korean top service or really good service for 1 hr who u recommend

something like that ....

[Jack-Jack]

Book ahead. Check roster the previous day around 5:30pm. Go for an experienced girl that can speak English. Let them know it's your first time. I think they would be better equipped to lead you. Going with an inexperienced girl may lead to disappointment as you might be expected to lead.

Don't worry too much about how you think you'll be perceived. In the room, it's just you and her, and you would've paid already so she's there to service you. However, it'll definitely help if you go there clean and groomed (groin, ass, breath, underarm).

Don't overthink it. If you go for the hour, and you pop early, you'll have time to go for a 2nd or even 3rd round. If you can't cum, you have time to chat a little/get more comfortable/get a massage, then try again.

Looking at the roster for tomorrow, K Jessie @ Ginza Club is on. I would reckon she'd be a great pick for your first time.


very well said and great advice in the bold


Hahahaha he might get raped by Jessie unless he goes sorry this is my first time at shop pls look after me and my lil one

I think in terms of service queens and being looked after he cant go wrong with either K Jessie or J Mio but it could come down what his preferences are too

would be interested to know who he ends up with ..... there should be a thread for tips for newbies breaking FS cherry



Been a few accounts now asking for similar stuff the most annoying is the punters provide a decent response and advice and never hear back from them lol

[Jack-Jack]

Let me save you an absolute fortune and recommend you go with the most grotesque looking thing you can find on escortsandbabes or some other classifieds listings. Let the experience put you off so much that you will never do it again. Punting is honestly like a hard drug. It is so addictive.

he may be scarred from women/sex for a while hahaha

controlled punting is fun esp if u can afford it yes its expensive but so are the fine things in life

these days a nice dinner with a date can cost you over a $100 easy and sex is not guaranteed not to mention things like hotel room if needed

if ur horny and can afford it FS still better value than RnT IMO

[Jack-Jack]

If it's your first time then don't expect too much, it'll likely be underwhelming.

If you're going to Ginza then go with a girl who speaks fluent or near fluent English.

45mins is the sweet spot i think its best that OP really does some research into making sure he gets the right fit girl as much as possible

walking in for a line up or calling to book an hr before his punt is a recipe for disaster and disappointment

[batman12]

very well said and great advice in the bold


Hahahaha he might get raped by Jessie unless he goes sorry this is my first time at shop pls look after me and my lil one

I think in terms of service queens and being looked after he cant go wrong with either K Jessie or J Mio but it could come down what his preferences are too

would be interested to know who he ends up with ..... there should be a thread for tips for newbies breaking FS cherry



Been a few accounts now asking for similar stuff the most annoying is the punters provide a decent response and advice and never hear back from them lol

Dont worry bro i appreciate all the answers. Ill probably write up who i choose and how it goes at some point when i do it. Been lurking around and K jessie seems to be considered the GOAT here lol. Ill definitely do more research though

[legitl]

Honestly I reckon don't do it or just get a rub n tug if you're horny. This is an expensive hobby you're going to get into and taint/affect how you view sex in life.

[Rub101]

Why? To lose your virginity? It's nothing special. You're 21, im assuming you don't have much expendable income. But if you really want to, there's some great advice here already.

If you're anxious about your weight - invest your money into your health. I used to be scrawny like you, im a bit shorter but also used to weigh 50kg. Hit the gym and eat more. If you want to, set yourself a consistent gym goal and if you hit it reward yourself with a punt. Better to waste your money punting than get a loan for a new car and crash it the next year imo

Also the ladies don't care about what you look like. I've seen people the age of John Howard in the waiting room before. I'm impressed they can still get it up

[hornedbeast]

As the old saying goes, 'Young, dumb and full of cum'

[Niceguy11]

Let me save you an absolute fortune and recommend you go with the most grotesque looking thing you can find on escortsandbabes or some other classifieds listings. Let the experience put you off so much that you will never do it again. Punting is honestly like a hard drug. It is so addictive.

My thoughts exactly. I do not regret starting but punting is addictive. Over 8 months straight last year, I was seeing my regular 4 times a week. Blew a whole heap of $$$ but it was fun. The thrill and enjoyment is starting to go away yet I still find myself going to shops. Have cut back over the past 2 months.

To OP, give it a go but do not let it ruin you.

[Merlyn666]

For the your first time, I'd actually recommend a private girl - I don't know but I tend to find privates sessions make for a more intimate experience. Your first time having sex is going to be awkward so you'll need someone to help guide you. Find one thats experienced, maybe mid to late 20s. These girls can help you become more confident in having sex like teach you how to make out, how to eat pussy and show you different positions. Just communicate that you're new to sex and they'll help you out.

As for the body anxiety thing, you gotta hit the gym bro, 50kg on a 175cm frame is skinny. I would suggest tracking how much protein you're hitting (2.5*BW=2.5*50= 125g of protein per day is a good place to start) and start working out atleast 2 times a week (maybe more if you're not doing any other type of physical activity). If 2x/week do 2 full body days, if 3x/week do PPL (Pull Push Legs), if 4x/week ULUL (Upper/Lower/Upper/Lower) or like a bro split. Ideally, you should go with someone who's been working out so they can help with your form and also help keep you accountable for consistent training.

[woodland]

would recommend a massage first. there's plenty of massage shops that offer a handjob. start there before moving on to WL.

[Supersmashbros]

would recommend a massage first. there's plenty of massage shops that offer a handjob. start there before moving on to WL.

Recommend this also

[11Bravo]

New guy here looking to lose my v card at ginza in the next couple weeks. Dont really care about it being special, since im honestly just horny. Im a pretty skinny person though so i definitely have some anxiety being naked (afraid i might be off putting for the ladies). For context im 21, 175cm, 50kg and 5.5 inches.

Any of you guys got recommendations for anyone at ginza? Im looking to book around an hour. Also how busy are the shops normally? Any tips for first time or do I just rock up and hope for the best haha

To re-quote myself:

Advice that won't be taken


My advice to all young'ens: don't start. If you've started, stop. Take the money you save and go have some REAL LIFE experiences, some REAL LIFE relationships. With a real relationship, real emotions, I think all your problems will disappear. And if they don't, it'll be fun working through them with an emotional PARTNER.

P4P is just sex, NOTHING more. BUSINESS. It's an orgasm, nothing more. No emotional investment. As you're dressing, you can think of what groceries you need to buy on your way home. Too often, the inexperienced confuse sex with love. You need a real life foundation to keep you grounded when you're adding additional stories, and that's all P4P is.

Neither real life nor P4P is like porn. Porn, they're paid to be actresses, just like ML/WG's, but porn is pure fantasy. It has no basis in fact. It's for 2D stimulation, not 3D. It skews your expectations. Nothing wrong with it as long as you UNDERSTAND what it is.

Real relationships are work, 2 way streets. You have to be supportive, not financially, but emotionally. You have to take her good and bad, have to be there when you want to and when you don't. P4P is one-way, that's why you're paying. IMO, those who have too little real experience with the former, too much experience with the latter, they bring the P4P attitudes to the real world. Guaranteed to make your real short, few, and far between. On the other hand, bringing a bit of real into P4P gives you a bit of empathy for the provider, enhancing YOUR experience. Simply put, you treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice. Treat her like a person, she'll be a person.


Advice that might be taken


Lower your expectations, enjoy HER experience; it's just sex.

Check out the rosters, here and on Locanto. Get WeChat for rosters. Check out the photos. Yes, I know all about photos, but find someone who you find attractive in some way. NOT perfect, just something that intrigues you (nice rack, cute face, nice shape, nice smile). Rather than SYT's, I'd suggest older, at the lesser shops (heresy I know). But there, you have more of a chance to be seen as an INDIVIDUAL, rather than just another widget on the assembly line to be processed.

Book an hour. Take your time, relax, enjoy. For me, I don't consider the massage time wasted; it's relaxing, and can be quite nice. Or brothel path, enjoy the foreplay. My experience, older equates to more experience, better chance of a PSE experience if that's your thing, or even GFE. She appreciates the business and will work WITH you. See her more than once, so you feel comfortable with her. Be honest; they've heard IT ALL. Have realistic expectations; don't expect miracles, fireworks, angels singing. Like riding a bicycle. You fall a lot at first, but then, just pedal along and enjoy the ride, the scenery. Enjoy the trip; you'll come (pun intended) to the destination.


WADR, your asking for recommendations is part of your problem - choose for yourself, who intrigues YOU. An attractive woman is an attractive woman; nationality only pertinent if you're there for language school. There is no "best" nationality; it's all about personal dynamics.

Lastly, to repeat, P4P doesn't teach you anything about REAL LIFE relationships, doesn't prepare you for REAL LIFE. It's just a facade; recognize it as such.


Don't call me "Sir"; I work for a living.

You want to punt? Why? To get laid? To prove you're a "man"? What's the big deal? It's just sex. No real effort; just pay the fee and have sex. Just like playing a video game, it's NOT REAL.

And who said anything about a "meaningful" relationship. Spend your time and money going out and having fun with real girls, NOT somebody you're PAYING to spend time with you. Anybody can hit a home run with a lob pitch; it's when you hit one out of the park on a fastball that counts. Lob pitches don't count as hits. You have to get in the REAL LIFE game, get some history and some strong foundations in real relationships so you can tell the difference between fantasy and reality. If you don't, then reality can be elusive. Instant gratification and short term highs become an addiction rather than the ups and downs of real life.

Don't believe the hype, losing your virginity is NOT life changing, just like having your first beer wasn't. And REAL friends won't be impressed if it's with a working girl.



Seriously, at your age, I'd say don't. You're too young, no need. Go out, have some REAL relationships, with all the heart thrills and breaks. Punting is just sex, it's BUSINESS, never forget that. Without having some SOLID life foundation, too easy to confuse sex and love, and it becomes too easy to confuse the two. Punting sex becomes all too easy, a simple cash payment for an hour's pleasure. With real sex, and everything that goes with it, that's what life is about. Don't shortchange yourself by taking the easy road... IMHO.

Bottom line: there are societal standards about not paying for sex. Some may be misled by reading here, thinking it's the norm. And it is legal here. But in society in general, it's not done. I'd say it's looked down on by the general populace. Why do shops have back doors? You're not going to win any accolades by discussing your sexual forays in polite society. Sure, in the boys locker room... but around the watercooler in a mixed office... Moral turpitude can be grounds for dismissal. Also for losing a security clearance. The thing is, it's a line. And once crossed, it becomes easier and easier to cross again, and again. My advice has always been, DON'T start. And while some gf's/wives might be understanding, I'm thinking not so many, even if it was past history. Because their thinking will be, if he's done it once...

Consistency... as it's not the first time this question has been asked.