would you mary a escort if she make you feel very comfortable?

[jimmyhard]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

[Icegodofhungary]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

Love? Aw man, don't do it, you think it's love but it's not. Or maybe it is, but either way it can't end well.

[woodland]

why not? she's human after all.

[TiredOfOnaholes]

Would she quit being an escort if you marry her?

If not, can we experience falling in love too?

[dewayne]

If you were actually in love enough to seriously consider marriage with someone you'd be thinking about her more as a person (aka a human you know) and not an escort (which is a job)

[Supersmashbros]

Is she in love with you? Will she quit escorting? Will you be able to support her financially? Prob 100 other things to consider before taking the leap.

[local]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

A mate many years ago. he was hot for her and she claim the reverse.
She gave up the game and moved in with him as a defacto. He found her a normal job.
The actually had a living contract drawn up for 20 months.
At the end of those twenty months they sat down and went thru everything and decided they did love each other and wanted kids etc.
They went on normally with both families (who didn't know how they really met and her job at the time).
After 20 years together, they were both "itchy" and started to really explore their kinks and decided to open their relationship.
They are now stronger as a couple than ever before. the 25 year age difference has never been an issue and unless you knew, you would never guess.
I knew her background before the wedding (I was best man) and can say that they are probably more a couple than most married people.

Its probably rare, but they worked it out. Most guys think only of the sex and not of the "couple".
I also know quite a few where once they got the PR the next step was divorce. Yet all appearance weould say it was working, except it was deception.

[Hedonisticfun]

Would she quit being an escort if you marry her?

If not, can we experience falling in love too?

Why is it SHE has to quit being an escort ? Regular comment . As someone once said to me * as long as I get my rocks off with her I don*t care what she does *

[Hedonisticfun]

Again the double standards , as if an escort who has paid sex with multiple partners for living is of a lesser person than a punter who pays for sex with multiple women. Same could be asked of a sex worker , would she marry a punter

[CantCme]

100% you should marry her. Sounds like a keeper if she makes you feel all warm and fuzzy

[jfoldbar]

im sure shes already married

[suka03]

it’s all about the income. If the income is good, the WL/ML mindset will still continue. Only smart girl would do is bank-in quick and invest with their savings into property, shares, business etc.

Otherwise it is just a hobby for them like us punters it’s hard to stop.

[Daysgone]

Once upon a time, when I was more naive, I'd have said "Why not? It's just a job." But now I know that it's not a job like any other. WL are exposed to way more violence, drugs, extortion and blackmail than the average woman, so it's going to take a lot of emotional work, commitment and discipline from both sides. Don't look for love in a brothel.

There is only really one WL that I could imagine ever settling down with, but frankly, she is way out of my league. ;)

[fnmfnmfnm]

Possible to be friends, but if and when times get tough she’s gonna GTFO there as quick as she can. Personally could never trust a whore

[andrewv]

Foolish game to fall in love or consider a relationship with any woman that has worked in the industry.

The word trust plays a role, and no matter what, it eventually comes up and breaks relationships.

In the last 5 years, I have met 2 women on seeking dot com who I discovered were in relationships (one married, the other living with a guy for 4 years) ..... Asking them questions, they had stints before their relationships working in massage shops/and escorts. They then went "clean" and settled down, but then started the sugarbaby game because they needed the cash.

In the end, women getting paid for sex creates a massive trust issue for men.

I recommend you find a woman to fall in love with who has no past baggage in the game.

[putsputs]

Possible, extremely unlikely, but possible.

[ChadThunderrcock]

Possible to be friends, but if and when times get tough she’s gonna GTFO there as quick as she can. Personally could never trust a whore

This sounds like something even normal girls will do. Ever heard of wives taking the kids and leaving the husbands in the middle of the night when times get tough. Or if he loses his job

[ChadThunderrcock]

No rich, successful handsome man will even consider a WL/ML

Like I always say, only a very low value man would even consider a relationship or marrying a WL/ML or any girl who has been involved the sex industry. Very low value man

You will become a Cuckold like Cassie's current husband after hearing about all of her "Freak-Offs" with P.Diddy

[Kiryu0]

I'd marry a WL for sure and would prefer her to keep working!

I have a kink and would love it more if the girl tells me all the dick she has to ride and all the stuff she has to do her customers.

[Icegodofhungary]

Is Mary her name?

[Kiki kong]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

Have you showered her with gifts, extra cash her way? Treat her to expensive dinners, flights to places, hotels and etc...?

If you haven't then possibly she might be into you. But we don't know how she actually reciprocates effort, time and money back to you.

[pmmeyourknee_]

You must be crazy. Even marrying a normal woman is highly risky these days. 50%+ of marriage failed, even more if you count the dead marriages. Now, marrying a prostitute is another level of danger. They are emotionally abused and broken and have massive trust issues.

[Wank_Somemore]

Just don't be like the 43yo Korean male who found out his 23yo Viet wife was a WL and contracted 4 STD's. There's a clip floating around TikTok recently. Whether its true or not, its possible.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I'd marry a WL for sure and would prefer her to keep working!

I have a kink and would love it more if the girl tells me all the dick she has to ride and all the stuff she has to do her customers.
LOL WTF. This is like self cuckold-ry

[ChadThunderrcock]

You must be crazy. Even marrying a normal woman is highly risky these days. 50%+ of marriage failed, even more if you count the dead marriages. Now, marrying a prostitute is another level of danger. They are emotionally abused and broken and have massive trust issues.

This is true. Marriage is a minefield for men now. I read a study saying that a high percentage of prostitutes develop trauma, bipolar, depression during their time as a sex worker because of all the emotional/sexual abuse that they experienced from their customers. What you said is true. Alot of these girls are damaged & broken. Marry at your own risk


Just don't be like the 43yo Korean male who found out his 23yo Viet wife was a WL and contracted 4 STD's. There's a clip floating around TikTok recently. Whether its true or not, its possible.

BS. As if !! I think that he knew she was a WL/ML. Theres a place in Ho Chi Minh city called Little Japan/Korea. Full of massage parlours with alot of young pretty Viet ML's that Japanese & Korean men go to. He probably met her there as a customer.

This Korean guy was most likely an ex-customer who started dating his Viet WL/ML, then married her and now claims that he didn't know...

[ditchtheboss]

i think it’s ah ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

I have female friends who make me comfortable and we are not getting married. One of our lovely Korean service queens, we are very good friends outside the shop, once told me that WLs are professional liers. Including herself.

You dont need to get married, you need a psychologist. If you don’t think you do now, you will in the very near future.

[Kiryu0]

LOL WTF. This is like self cuckold-ry

That's it! LOL.

[andrewv]

As a couple of punters posted above, it is a sign of low self-esteem for a man to even consider a long-term relationship with a woman who sold her body for money.
A confident man who is successful in business or his career and has great family and friends would not for one second consider marrying a former prostitute.

Let's use the proper English word: prostitute.

Imagine your family members and friends asking, "How did you guys meet?"
Oh... the truth is, "he came to the massage shop/brothel where I worked and after many visits of me taking his $$$ to give him hand-jobs and/or sex, we fell in love."

[CFH]

only if she was filthy, stinkin' rich.

[Kiryu0]

As a couple of punters posted above, it is a sign of low self-esteem for a man to even consider a long-term relationship with a woman who sold her body for money.
A confident man who is successful in business or his career and has great family and friends would not for one second consider marrying a former prostitute.

Let's use the proper English word: prostitute.

Imagine your family members and friends asking, "How did you guys meet?"
Oh... the truth is, "he came to the massage shop/brothel where I worked and after many visits of me taking his $$$ to give him hand-jobs and/or sex, we fell in love."

Man... This is some real alpha/Tate shit.

[Candy1234]

Oh no, why falling in love?

I’ve heard countless stories from WL about how all these guys will take em out of the job with all these promises of a home, money etc. Years later I’m still here fucking the girl. It got me thinking maybe some of the guys are smarter than we think, he’s doing this so he can get free access 😉 obviously the home never came, money still in his pocket hence her legs are still open for business.

[Massagecreep]

A few quotes come to mind:
- you pay them to leave;
- it’s just a transaction;
- if you start copping the feels, cut it off straight away.
OP needs to admit himself into a psychiatric ward

[ChadThunderrcock]

Oh no, why falling in love?

I’ve heard countless stories from WL about how all these guys will take em out of the job with all these promises of a home, money etc. Years later I’m still here fucking the girl. It got me thinking maybe some of the guys are smarter than we think, he’s doing this so he can get free access 😉 obviously the home never came, money still in his pocket hence her legs are still open for business.

True. Some guys are smarter than we think. It seems some punter's have smartened up and is one step ahead of the game. Playing and beating the girls at their own game

Good to see some Old Bald Fat Farangs are no longer falling for the Sick Buffalo stories from the Thai ladies 555


I have female friends who make me comfortable and we are not getting married. One of our lovely Korean service queens, we are very good friends outside the shop, once told me that WLs are professional liers. Including herself.

You dont need to get married, you need a psychologist. If you don’t think you do now, you will in the very near future.
Yes they are professional liars. Their job is to extract as much money out of you as humanely possible. Then move on to the next sucker.

The only exception to this rule is if the guy is young and handsome AF. And looks like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth. Its the only time I seen these WL's actually being genuine and giving "free" sex. With no expectations of money in return, whether in the short or long term

I'm sure the lies are easy to spot. If the guy is an old, bald fat Farang and she tells him that she likes him. Then its up to his own judgement whether he thinks its true or not 555

[ChadThunderrcock]

As a couple of punters posted above, it is a sign of low self-esteem for a man to even consider a long-term relationship with a woman who sold her body for money.
A confident man who is successful in business or his career and has great family and friends would not for one second consider marrying a former prostitute.

Let's use the proper English word: prostitute.

Imagine your family members and friends asking, "How did you guys meet?"
Oh... the truth is, "he came to the massage shop/brothel where I worked and after many visits of me taking his $$$ to give him hand-jobs and/or sex, we fell in love."
Is that you Andrew Tate? Word. This is one of the realest posts I seen.

Too many of our fellow punters here are just lacking so much in looks and skills to attract & court a woman in the real world. That they have to resort to and even consider a relationship with a "prostitute" 555

[I_luv_doggie.]

No I would not.
I have an ex WL that is a friend (no never done the deed with her).
Love her to death as a genuine friend but god help anyone that ever marries her.

[Hedonisticfun]

As a couple of punters posted above, it is a sign of low self-esteem for a man to even consider a long-term relationship with a woman who sold her body for money.
A confident man who is successful in business or his career and has great family and friends would not for one second consider marrying a former prostitute.

Let's use the proper English word: prostitute.

Imagine your family members and friends asking, "How did you guys meet?"
Oh... the truth is, "he came to the massage shop/brothel where I worked and after many visits of me taking his $$$ to give him hand-jobs and/or sex, we fell in love."

fucking funny .. how did you guys meet .. a confident successful business career man , fucking funny .. like not more commonly your typical horny , perverted , social retard , fat ugly fuck that can only pay to women fuck him would be just as embarrassed if his family , relatives and friends if he has any found out . confident successful business career man .. fuck Pretty Woman with Richard Gere was a movie not a documentary

[Hedonisticfun]

only if she was filthy, stinkin' rich.

good start to the marriage , a poor money hungry exploiter with no emotional ties .. yep can see that working out

[Hedonisticfun]

Oh no, why falling in love?

I’ve heard countless stories from WL about how all these guys will take em out of the job with all these promises of a home, money etc. Years later I’m still here fucking the girl. It got me thinking maybe some of the guys are smarter than we think, he’s doing this so he can get free access �� obviously the home never came, money still in his pocket hence her legs are still open for business.

yep , might be free access but not 24/7 .. can*t imagine her fucking all day then going home to perform pretty much like doing your job as a mechanic or clerk then going home and working on your own car or doing paperwork . More likely similar characters , interests .. smoking pot , single parents , easy money etc. Years later I*m still here fucking the girl .. nothing like regular income coming in and probably says a lot more about you eh

[Hedonisticfun]

You must be crazy. Even marrying a normal woman is highly risky these days. 50%+ of marriage failed, even more if you count the dead marriages. Now, marrying a prostitute is another level of danger. They are emotionally abused and broken and have massive trust issues.

haha , funny at all levels .. a normal woman , prostitute another level of danger , emotionally abused and broken .. applies to male divorcees , and as if a seasonsed punter is a stable partner AND what person doesn*t have some baggage or a quirk these days

[Hedonisticfun]

Possible to be friends, but if and when times get tough she’s gonna GTFO there as quick as she can. Personally could never trust a whore

haha .. yeah trust a seasoned punter for a stable relationship and a pillar of society

[HiredGoon]

You must be crazy. Even marrying a normal woman is highly risky these days. 50%+ of marriage failed, even more if you count the dead marriages. Now, marrying a prostitute is another level of danger. They are emotionally abused and broken and have massive trust issues.

Nah I read somewhere it's just entertainment.

[justincase]

A low value man also pays for sex at a brothel. You really think tate is paying a bunch of hookers at a shop like most of us. Lol

His women are not glamours they’re podgy pudgy tarts. The glamours are the arm candy when they show off a car and then soon flicked. Go delve into their lives a lil bit closer.

[justincase]

You must be crazy. Even marrying a normal woman is highly risky these days. 50%+ of marriage failed, even more if you count the dead marriages. Now, marrying a prostitute is another level of danger. They are emotionally abused and broken and have massive trust issues.

Who doesn’t have trust issues? Though I will say the older you get the less you care. There are so many women out there it’s pick and choose.

[hedonist]

What about testing the water first? It seems there are several intermediary stages you can explore fist. From exchanging cash for sex to walking down the aisle is a huge leap.

[justincase]

Every sex worker I’ve dated has gotten a free ride, free lunch, free dinner, free holidays, free gifts and free cash.

Why be married to one if it’s you who is always paying? If I’m paying I want variety and as much sex as I want and when I want it.

I’ve bought up the discussion with one I liked in particular, that if we were living together it’d be sex before she went to work, sex when she came home and sex when ever I wanted it. Consequently the relationship went nowhere, I ended up dumping her and I’m of the conclusion sex workers don’t have such an active home sex life, that being the case it’d be pointless marrying one.

If any punter can come back with a tale of great sex with a WL they married do tell…

[Hedonisticfun]

Every sex worker I’ve dated has gotten a free ride, free lunch, free dinner, free holidays, free gifts and free cash.

Why be married to one if it’s you who is always paying? If I’m paying I want variety and as much sex as I want and when I want it.

I’ve bought up the discussion with one I liked in particular, that if we were living together it’d be sex before she went to work, sex when she came home and sex when ever I wanted it. Consequently the relationship went nowhere, I ended up dumping her and I’m of the conclusion sex workers don’t have such an active home sex life, that being the case it’d be pointless marrying one.

If any punter can come back with a tale of great sex with a WL they married do tell…

haha , finally the reality hits home sex sex sex .. no sex worker is going to give it 24/7 but most punters pardon the french are too fucking stupid to realise that and live in a fantasy porn world. Once you take the sex out of the equation the same in any relationship its what*s left that makes it or breaks it. Plus what woman is going to be a slave to give it 24/7 .. just fucking dreaming

[putsputs]

haha , finally the reality hits home sex sex sex .. no sex worker is going to give it 24/7 but most punters pardon the french are too fucking stupid to realise that and live in a fantasy porn world. Once you take the sex out of the equation the same in any relationship its what*s left that makes it or breaks it. Plus what woman is going to be a slave to give it 24/7 .. just fucking dreaming

Reminds me of that hoax of that javstar Rola Takizawa, getting paid millions for a 10 year exclusive contract with a businessman

[GoldfishMan]

Lol, her GFE must be very good, now OP wants to turn it into Wife Experience.

[ChadThunderrcock]

A low value man also pays for sex at a brothel. You really think tate is paying a bunch of hookers at a shop like most of us. Lol
Elite men also pay for sex. Probably pay for sex more than us regular blokes. Just look at all the escort & prostitution scandals with celebs that are on the news recently

[ChadThunderrcock]

Brother the only girls going for Brad Pitts and Chris Hemsworths are old 35 plus boilers. These young girls are not lol
I'm sure these young girls would still fangirl over them if they saw them in real life.

Maybe in this case, Leonardo DiCaprio for young girls. Especially prime Leo in Titanic

Or Daniel Henney, Jackson Wang, BTS Jimin/V, Siwon (SuperJunior) more appropriate for these young J girls.

But point is, the punter/customer has to be super handsome for the girls to genuinely like them. These girls are young and in their physical prime. So punter cannot be an ugly ass mofo and expect her to like him for real.

[Migala]

would you mary a escort if she make you feel very comfortable?

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

Yeah, of course yes. Why not?

[fixatedperson]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

Come on who is she? Don't leave us all hanging.

[jimjamm]

if boundaries are set and respected just like any other relationship, i don't see why not

[alphaomega8384]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

Marriage is a “trap”.. if you are genuinely in love, you don’t need marriage to attest that.. best case scenario is just live together, enjoy the life, be happy with whatever makes both of you happy but never marry.. once married you will start to feel obliged and expectations grow.. go into something like this without any expectations and be ready to accept the fact that once a WL, always she will be unfortunately. Be ready to accept the reality and build the trust slowly.. and enjoy while it lasts and I hope the best for you, that it lasts forever!

[Double_Adapter]

Some blokes here have been watching too many Disney movies and reading a few too many Mills and Boon novels. There ain't no fucken thing as 'happily ever after' it's a big marketing con wrapped in fucken fairy dust.

So whether you marry a tradie, a civvy or a working chick, it makes diddly squat difference as chicks are chicks, and relationships are relationships - all require effort, money and hard work!

Happy endings? Sure, they happen all the time and working chicks excel in this area. But “happily ever after”? Yeah… nah

[Joun23]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

Why not? Are you or we different to them?
Is it because they are prostitutes? But they get paid for sex and we pay for sex, same thing.
They all are human beings like us.
I'd consider if I find one but never had one yet who I wanted to be my partner.

[JJBlows]

if boundaries are set and respected just like any other relationship, i don't see why not

Pfffft, i seen a Korean girls phone log filled with the same name and a ❤️ next to it and I've given her multiple creampies all the times i seen her, i only saw it when she went to show me something on her phone.

Yea its not good to assume but that there leaves little to the imagination when I saw it

[Backdraft69]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.YOU pay them to make sure you feel comfortable.
SHE does the same for every other client!!!!

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[ChadThunderrcock]

Pfffft, i seen a Korean girls phone log filled with the same name and a ❤️ next to it and I've given her multiple creampies all the times i seen her, i only saw it when she went to show me something on her phone.

Yea its not good to assume but that there leaves little to the imagination when I saw it

Nearly all the Thai, Viet or SE Asian WL's I seen have a boyfriend. A customer they met in the shop

If they work regular hours and finish by around 6pm or 7-8pm. She has a BF that they want to spend time with after being f*cked all day other other guys.

The BF is usually some Old Bald Fat Farang that they met as a customer. Or some Old Fat Balding Asian guy 555

[JJBlows]

Nearly all the Thai, Viet or SE Asian WL's I seen have a boyfriend. A customer they met in the shop

If they work regular hours and finish by around 6pm or 7-8pm. She has a BF that they want to spend time with after being f*cked all day other other guys.

The BF is usually some Old Bald Fat Farang that they met as a customer. Or some Old Fat Balding Asian guy 555

She's the type to not date that stereotype you mentioned, most likely a normal Asian guy she is with

[ChadThunderrcock]

She's the type to not date that stereotype you mentioned, most likely a normal Asian guy she is with
The Korean girl? I think I know who you're talking about.

Yes, usually K or J girls dont date those stereotypes I mentioned.

The Old Bald Fat Farang or Old Fat Balding Asian guy is more of a Thai/SE Asian girl thing to do....

[justincase]

Last year I’ve dated a Japanese WL, a Thai WL and a Chinese WL from the top three brothels listed here, three Thai MLs from shops in the city and north shore also listed here, a Thai MTF from a shop I won’t say where and another Thai MTF private. I’m not bald fat hairy or ugly. I’d say my success rate is good and I consider all of them attractive otherwise I’d have never asked them out.

Out of those seven there were two that were keepers, the Thai WL who is still entangled so why should I wait and the Thai MTF.

The Thai MTF asked me to marry her, the J girl wanted to live with me and quite frankly I make all the decisions not them.

In the end I dumped them all. There have been other WLs along the way but I’m not into bringing up someone else’s kids so we never got to dating.

When spring comes around I’ll go again on a quest. I’ll post about it and this time please don’t shoot me down. It’s not flexing just putting my life down for all to read, thx.

Oh and I’d never marry one, live together yes but if the sex drops off she’s gone.

[HiredGoon]

Last year I’ve dated a Japanese WL, a Thai WL and a Chinese WL from the top three brothels listed here, three Thai MLs from shops in the city and north shore also listed here, a Thai MTF from a shop I won’t say where and another Thai MTF private. I’m not bald fat hairy or ugly. I’d say my success rate is good and I consider all of them attractive otherwise I’d have never asked them out.

Out of those seven there were two that were keepers, the Thai WL who is still entangled so why should I wait and the Thai MTF.

The Thai MTF asked me to marry her, the J girl wanted to live with me and quite frankly I make all the decisions not them.

In the end I dumped them all. There have been other WLs along the way but I’m not into bringing up someone else’s kids so we never got to dating.

When spring comes around I’ll go again on a quest. I’ll post about it and this time please don’t shoot me down. It’s not flexing just putting my life down for all to read, thx.

Oh and I’d never marry one, live together yes but if the sex drops off she’s gone.

Live together long enough and you're basically married in terms of the law.

[banong]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

who is she? where she work? can i try 1 hour first before you marry her ?

[1inchguy]

who is she? where she work? can i try 1 hour first before you marry her ?

Yes let's all try.
Maybe set up a hens night for her to remember

[GoldfishMan]

Some blokes here have been watching too many Disney movies and reading a few too many Mills and Boon novels. There ain't no fucken thing as 'happily ever after' it's a big marketing con wrapped in fucken fairy dust.

So whether you marry a tradie, a civvy or a working chick, it makes diddly squat difference as chicks are chicks, and relationships are relationships - all require effort, money and hard work!

Happy endings? Sure, they happen all the time and working chicks excel in this area. But “happily ever after”? Yeah… nah

Oh but there IS a happily ever after, it's just not for us here on this forum. Punters and puntees, 2 sides of the same coin. They can't keep their legs closed, we can't keep our dicks dry. Our lives revolve around sex, but to get "happily ever after", you'd need to embrace everything else that comes with it.
That's a hard ask from here.

[andrewv]

Many couples, sooner or larer after they first meet, ask or try to work out the "body count" of their new partner. Believe it or not, most men and women entering relationships think of this concept -- body count being a newish expression meaning "How many people have you had sex with before we met?

I guess a woman who has earned a living in a brothel might need a calculator.

..."I only did this job for 18 months, and usually only did 6 shifts per week, and on average saw 9 punters each shift."

Let me see now. 18 x 4 weeks x 6 shifts x 9 punter = that's only 3,888 dicks fucked. Not much, ain't it. But you are the one I love so none of these 3,000+ men mattered. The vast majority of them were covered sex anyway. They don't count.

Man: No worries, love. I can emotionally deal with that. Just promise not to be tempted to do it behind my back when you need a bit of extra cash from time to time.

[justincase]

It’s a very high number! Mentally how does a WL cope?

[Double_Adapter]

Two sides to every coin!

Every chick wants a 6-6-6 and every bloke wants a 0-0-0 chick aka Zero Body Count, Zero Fat, Zero Drama; but every bloke knows those type of chicks are as rare as unicorns. This is why some cultures particularly the Middle East and the sub-continent are so anal and big on arranged marriages ie the bloke is guaranteed a 000.

The other thing is that blokes only focus on the physical whereas chicks focus on the emotional; so if a bloke finds out his main chick is cheating on him the first thing he'll ask her is 'did you have sex with him' whereas if a chick finds out her man is cheating on her she'll ask him 'do you love her'.

So chicks don't give a fuck about body count but blokes do.

[mariee]

So chicks don't give a fuck about body count but blokes do.

just gonna put my two cents out there, but as a woman, yes we do care, we actually care A LOT, we just tend to be more forgiving with it. I guess because women seem to want or perhaps need the love/romance/stability of a relationship more than men do. also because the fact that sex is not really shamed for men means it’s harder to find compared to women.

the more pure you are as a woman, the more you care about your partner having a lower body count. and the more partners you’ve had as a woman the less you care because you’ve done the same. so if you’re meeting a lot of women who don’t seem to care about body count, you can probably decipher why…

women care about men’s body count mostly because once you frame your brain to work a certain way (i.e. you are used to indulging in casual sex, having variety, etc) it is very hard to switch that “off” and be a 100% faithful partner. and most (if not all) women get very hurt by cheating, infidelity, etc. Also it can show us a lack of discipline, self control, we fear being compared or not being the best in some aspect (performance, looks, etc), and probably fears about the ability to bond or whether your partner CAN bond after viewing sex as something so casual rather than special/intimate. like, if i hand my body over to you, are you just gonna use me like you did with the other 100 girls, what makes me really that special?


so yeah, maybe as women it’s not the same, we don’t feel humiliated or embarrassed by our partners having a high body count, which I imagine men feel, but it definitely does affect a relationship and we definitely do care (especially the good women).

just my humble opinion haha

[fixatedperson]

WLs don't fuck every week of the month, they take one week off because of their period. Some of their customers would be repeats which reduces the number of unique visits even more.

So 9 punters a shift for 6 shifts a week for 18 months = 9 X 6 X 3 X 18 = 2916

If we assume a third of these are repeats that equals 1944 cocks in 18 months.

[MindTheGap]

Why buy the cow and maintain it when you can buy the milk.

I used to date a Physio. Never had a single massage in the two years we were together. Unless I went into the clinic

[andrewv]

WLs don't fuck every week of the month, they take one week off because of their period. Some of their customers would be repeats which reduces the number of unique visits even more.

So 9 punters a shift for 6 shifts a week for 18 months = 9 X 6 X 3 X 18 = 2916

If we assume a third of these are repeats that equals 1944 cocks in 18 months.

You made me feel much better. I am happy to fall in love and marry a prostitute who has been paid to fuck 1,944 men in 18 months, but not 3,888 😂😂😂

[Supersmashbros]

You made me feel much better. I am happy to fall in love and marry a prostitute who has been paid to fuck 1,944 men in 18 months, but not 3,888 😂😂😂

You may be able to quit your job if you do, as she will be clearing almost 400k lol

[andrewv]

You may be able to quit your job if you do, as she will be clearing almost 400k lol

If I become her agent (aka pimp), I could charge 25% agency fee. It’s what agents for Hollywood stars charge. The opportunity is beginning to look very attractive.

Phase 2: I can change religions and marry 4 prostitutes … 400k x 4. = $1.6 million
Then list in the ASX.

[dt333]

It's pretty much a guarantee she'll cheat on you. It's nothing personal they've developed a habit of fucking multiple men over time, tough habit to give up on, like giving up smoking or changing your diet.

[Niceguy11]

Pfffft, i seen a Korean girls phone log filled with the same name and a ❤️ next to it and I've given her multiple creampies all the times i seen her, i only saw it when she went to show me something on her phone.

Yea its not good to assume but that there leaves little to the imagination when I saw it


WL's with boyfriends will always put the customer first. Poor bastards. Dating a WL and think she doesn't offer BBFS to customers? Yeah right. One WL I did anal with did not offer it to her boyfriend.

[pmmeyourknee_]

Mate you are bragging about pulling prostitutes after paying them and dumping them like you're some sort of top tier male. But whatever floats your boat!

[Vader]

I can't see the big deal. You have no idea on how many men or women your wife or girlfriend have fucked before you met them so why worry. Just enjoy your life and look forward, not back.

[pmmeyourknee_]

Pfffft, i seen a Korean girls phone log filled with the same name and a ❤️ next to it and I've given her multiple creampies all the times i seen her, i only saw it when she went to show me something on her phone.

Yea its not good to assume but that there leaves little to the imagination when I saw it

The amount of WLs I've fucked recently while their phones were ringing non-stop with messages from WeChat, WhatsApp, LINE, Kakao, etc is pretty high. It's worse than normal ladies on Tinder, because if she is not texting you then she is getting pounded by an old balding man.

[andrewv]

I can't see the big deal. You have no idea on how many men or women your wife or girlfriend have fucked before you met them so why worry. Just enjoy your life and look forward, not back.

I assure you that unless your wife/partner worked as a prostitute in the past, there is *no way* she had sex with 3,000 men (her ‘body count’) before meeting you.

There are ample statistics to show this.

[pmmeyourknee_]

I assure you that unless your wife/partner worked as a prostitute in the past, there is *no way* she had sex with 3,000 men (her ‘body count’) before meeting you.

There are ample statistics to show this.

Yup. And it's not just 3,000+ "normal" attractive men her age. It's 3,000+ of a combination of old, bald, fat, and ugly. Half of them are foreigners she can't even have a conversation with. About 20% were rough enough to leave physical or emotional marks on her. It's honestly sickening.

[pmmeyourknee_]

The risk of HIV transmission is about 0.04%, or 1 in 2,500 men. If she’s been with over 3,000 men, there’s a good chance she’s picked up some pretty nasty stuff along the way.

[JJBlows]

I assure you that unless your wife/partner worked as a prostitute in the past, there is *no way* she had sex with 3,000 men (her ‘body count’) before meeting you.

There are ample statistics to show this.

Oh some girls body count are up there, although not as high as a WL but some normal girls are more of a whore than a WL because of what they have gotten up to.

[justincase]

The amount of WLs I've fucked recently while their phones were ringing non-stop with messages from WeChat, WhatsApp, LINE, Kakao, etc is pretty high. It's worse than normal ladies on Tinder, because if she is not texting you then she is getting pounded by an old balding man.

Two phones usually and they scroll up to hide the messages. Then again which punter doesn’t cheat and do similar? Or the WL/ML you take out to lunch or dinner and she’s videoing her meal with her but not you in it. Or taking selfies at whatever activity you’re doing together but you’re not in the pics. Quite a regular occurrence and I even hold the phone sometimes as IDGAF.

It’s become my belief that whenever a SW shows you any pics of her lifestyle, there’s always some guy in the background who is just out of screenshot paying for it. Occasionally they do show you the other guys they’re dating which is interesting as I like to compare appearances.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I assure you that unless your wife/partner worked as a prostitute in the past, there is *no way* she had sex with 3,000 men (her ‘body count’) before meeting you.

There are ample statistics to show this.

I reckon even non-WL's body counts are up there. Maybe even more than a WL. Have you all seen how active girls are nowadays with social medica/dating apps and the hook-up culture.

Maybe average guys wont get much action, but if you're a good looking handsome guy & look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, you will see how promiscuous modern women are nowadays

[ChadThunderrcock]

Yup. And it's not just 3,000+ "normal" attractive men her age. It's 3,000+ of a combination of old, bald, fat, and ugly. Half of them are foreigners she can't even have a conversation with. About 20% were rough enough to leave physical or emotional marks on her. It's honestly sickening.

Oh some girls body count are up there, although not as high as a WL but some normal girls are more of a whore than a WL because of what they have gotten up to.

LOL anyone with abit of cash can access these girls pussies now and get her to spread her legs. Even Old Bald Fat Farangs can access her. And Indians too if she see's everyone

A body count of more than 1 is already too high for me 555

[MindTheGap]

What are you going to tell your kids? And family? And work colleagues?

[Vader]

I assure you that unless your wife/partner worked as a prostitute in the past, there is *no way* she had sex with 3,000 men (her ‘body count’) before meeting you.

There are ample statistics to show this.

How do you know she wasn't involved in the sex industry before you met her?

[ChadThunderrcock]

How do you know she wasn't involved in the sex industry before you met her?

This is true. Alot of these WL's look just like normal girls. If I met them on the streets, I would have no idea they are WL's & that they have been ran through more times than the Holland tunnel (quote Coach Greg Adams)

[MindTheGap]

Oh some girls body count are up there, although not as high as a WL but some normal girls are more of a whore than a WL because of what they have gotten up to.

I do hope your calculation of extras is better than this.

No normal girl (non sex worker) is fucking 2 new guys every week for 30 years, which is what it would take to have a body count over 3,000.

[JJBlows]

I do hope your calculation of extras is better than this.

No normal girl (non sex worker) is fucking 2 new guys every week for 30 years, which is what it would take to have a body count over 3,000.

As i said and like Vader mentioned "not as high" as a WL but there are grisl who got passed around the soccer team, and then later the cricket team and then finger banged at a music festival and then goes home with some random guy etc etc we've all heard the stories.

A old friend of mine who is married was a mad slut in her twenties, her words not mine were once "i fucked so many guys in Europe it's not funny" but she did her because she was 21, living life.

Man in my early twenties when we would just get fucked up, i remember we had a house party where my mate brought a girl and in return for free coke she let us run a train on her, literally walk out the room, party for a bit and walk back in and go for round 2 or 3 and she didn't care, she just loved getting fucked.

So like i said is that some WL aren't as much as a whore as what some normal girls are but they have racked up a body count still, they just did it for free.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I do hope your calculation of extras is better than this.

No normal girl (non sex worker) is fucking 2 new guys every week for 30 years, which is what it would take to have a body count over 3,000.
I would say normal girls are more sluttier than WL's. At least WL's are doing it for money and no emotions involved

I think you underestimate how slutty modern women are now

I know so many normal girls who have taken part in threesomes, foursomes Gangbangs, Orgies. Just because she wanted to for fun and not for money. They slept around for free

Modern women are Mega-Sluts. The girl you end up marrying probably has a few hundreds/thousands of cocks already under her belt.

Even if you are dating her. When you are not with her, she is banging some other guy's cock. Even if you are with her, you look away for 10 secs, and she just quickly sucked some other guys cock in the 10 secs you weren't looking

[MindTheGap]

The best and the filthiest sex I’ve ever had is with normal girls having their boundaries pushed to places they never thought they would go in reality. I’ve not disputed that.

I do dispute that normal girls will fuck more guys than prostitutes. Let’s ground this in some reality.

[pmmeyourknee_]

It's very very unlikely for any non sex worker to have a body count more than a thousand mate. It's a big number. It's about 3 years worth of sex every single day with a different man.

Even Bonnie Blue, the biggest OnlyFans slut, had only less than 2000 as of April 2025. If you don't know how much of a slut she is, please Google her name.

Crazy to think that some of these WLs surpassed Bonnie Blue, LOL.

https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/who-is-bonnie-blue-gk-barry-podcast-backlash-over-onlyfans-star-67211748d3bb9.jpg

[dewayne]

I once dated a girl, when in my early 20s, who was ***THE*** slut in our age group growing up. And we had the body count conversation, and while mine was only 10 or so at the time hers was only around 40. I think it's hard to get in the triple digits at a young age without being paid.

She was a really good fuck though, I'll give her that.

[fnmfnmfnm]

The best and the filthiest sex I’ve ever had is with normal girls having their boundaries pushed to places they never thought they would go in reality. I’ve not disputed that.

Completely agree. There is nothing like a filthy one night stand or a fuckbuddy on the 3rd rendezvous with a bit of alcohol in her after she feels comfortable with you. Civilian women on the hunt for a fuck will, in my experience, do nearly anything in the right circumstance.

That said, one my most depraved fucks was with the infamous V Lan/Enosa which involve some activities I’ve not had the pleasure of doing with anyone else since

[forgotmyumbrella]

Completely agree. There is nothing like a filthy one night stand or a fuckbuddy on the 3rd rendezvous with a bit of alcohol in her after she feels comfortable with you. Civilian women on the hunt for a fuck will, in my experience, do nearly anything in the right circumstance.

That said, one my most depraved fucks was with the infamous V Lan/Enosa which involve some activities I’ve not had the pleasure of doing with anyone else since

For me, FWB is the best because there are no feelings involved, just pure sex. Paying will never be the same, no matter how much you spend, because she's not actually into you. I was lucky enough to experience real sex when I was young

[JamesS]

i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.

Why not, if it feels right.

I've been seeing a private who lives with a partner. People need to move beyond their conditioning and expectations of others.

[Smack]

Depending on how good of a cook she is!!

[Cm888]

Are you even dating her at the moment?
If not just try that before u even start thinking of marriage.

[MindTheGap]

Completely agree. There is nothing like a filthy one night stand or a fuckbuddy on the 3rd rendezvous with a bit of alcohol in her after she feels comfortable with you. Civilian women on the hunt for a fuck will, in my experience, do nearly anything in the right circumstance.

That said, one my most depraved fucks was with the infamous V Lan/Enosa which involve some activities I’ve not had the pleasure of doing with anyone else since

Absolutely - once a woman feels comfortable with and if she has a mind to explore taboos it can get freaky.

So do tell about the wild experience? 🙌

[Laziboi88]

And this is how i met your mother

[ChadThunderrcock]

WL's with boyfriends will always put the customer first. Poor bastards. Dating a WL and think she doesn't offer BBFS to customers? Yeah right. One WL I did anal with did not offer it to her boyfriend.
Of course. These WL's are all about the money. The BF is just there for moral support 555

I would rather be a customer than a boyfriend/husband

As the other's have said, why buy the whole cow and maintain it, when you can just get the milk


Mate you are bragging about pulling prostitutes after paying them and dumping them like you're some sort of top tier male. But whatever floats your boat!
Only a very low value man with very low self esteem would date or marry a prostitute

[ChadThunderrcock]

Completely agree. There is nothing like a filthy one night stand or a fuckbuddy on the 3rd rendezvous with a bit of alcohol in her after she feels comfortable with you. Civilian women on the hunt for a fuck will, in my experience, do nearly anything in the right circumstance.

That said, one my most depraved fucks was with the infamous V Lan/Enosa which involve some activities I’ve not had the pleasure of doing with anyone else since

V Lan at No5 was one of the best and dirtiest f*cks I have had. She was just a pure 100% slut

[Icegodofhungary]

And this is how i met your mother

Haha, gold. That show but instead of telling his kids about all the women he dated, it’s all the WLs he fucked at different brothels.

[Hedonisticfun]

Only a very low value man with very low self esteem would date or marry a prostitute[/QUOTE]

..and there's the pot calling the kettle black..oh the irony *a very low value man..* but does punt and is a forum member. Typical high flyer and a pillar of society looking down on others

[Double_Adapter]

As the other's have said, why buy the whole cow and maintain it, when you can just get the milk



Sure, but when you’ve got your own cow, you’re milking it whenever you want — morning, noon, or middle of the night - no waiting, no fuss, no booking, milk on tap 24x7

If you got no cow, then you’re bone dry till the shop opens the next day, and by the time you get there there's a line of blokes queuing up, when you finally get the milk it ain't as fresh as what you thought.

[Sfornication]

Marry a WL?

Mate… that’s not a question. That’s a cry for help disguised as a love letter wrapped in a midlife crisis.

Now I know some of you are coming from the heart. “She makes me feel comfortable,” you say. Comfort? Bro, so does my weighted blanket and that doesn’t charge me three-fiddy for a happy ending and a bottle of pump lube.

Let’s be real. The punter-WL love story is older than Newtown’s last indie bookstore. Guy walks in, gets a GFE so convincing he thinks this one’s different. She laughs at his jokes, touches his thigh, says, “You’re so sweet.” And boom — his brain starts playing Coldplay and rewriting her body count as a romantic montage.

Now I ain’t knocking feelings. Hell, I caught some myself once. Thought I was special. She let me raw-dog — turns out it was Bring Your Own Condom Week and I didn’t get the flyer. My bad.

But here’s the psychology, boys — and pay attention, ‘cause this is the part where I pretend I’ve got a TED Talk and a black turtleneck.

You’re not falling for her. You’re falling for how she makes you feel. And that’s not love. That’s branding. She’s curated an experience. She’s the Apple Store of intimacy — sleek, expensive, and you leave feeling slightly violated but weirdly satisfied.

Now I hear the Alphas in the back going, “Only low value men marry hookers.” My guy, you just dropped four hundred bucks to get told you’re handsome by someone who’d charge extra to say your name twice. You’re not on the podium here.

Let’s flip the script. Imagine she started a thread: “Would you marry a punter if he made you feel secure, paid on time, and didn’t fart mid-CIM?” You think she’s not roasting us in a group chat somewhere? Every punter thinks he’s the one she’ll retire for — like she’s a stripper in a Drake song and you’re the baritone knight in a Toyota Corolla.

And yet, I get it. There’s something raw, vulnerable, even honest about falling for someone who saw you naked in every sense. That’s the paradox, right? You pay for fake intimacy and somehow it hits more real than half the shit on Hinge.

But marriage?

Only if I get a receipt that says “No Refunds — Even If She Goes Back to No. 5 After the Honeymoon.”

Moral of the story?

Since when did dopamine — or some incel with a YouTube playlist called “Truth About Modern Women” — get to decide who’s worthy of love or marriage?

We’re pointing fingers at WLs like they’re broken for putting a price on intimacy, while the same blokes preaching morals are handing over cash, heart, and occasionally their car keys for a shot of synthetic affection. Who’s more guilty — the payee or the payer?

She’s offering a service. You’re buying the illusion. And somehow she’s the one catching judgment?

If anything, WLs have clearer contracts than most marriages: you know what you’re getting, how long it lasts, and who’s cleaning up the mess. Try finding that kind of honesty in a Tinder situationship.

So again, not “Would you marry a WL?”
Ask yourself: Would she even want to marry a punter who needs a receipt to feel validated?

Because at the end of the day, a body count is just arithmetic.
But hypocrisy? That’s spiritual.

She sold a service.
You sold yourself a dream.
One of you walked away with cash.
The other’s still on page six of a forum thread asking strangers if it was real.

[ChadThunderrcock]

Sure, but when you’ve got your own cow, you’re milking it whenever you want — morning, noon, or middle of the night - no waiting, no fuss, no booking, milk on tap 24x7

If you got no cow, then you’re bone dry till the shop opens the next day, and by the time you get there there's a line of blokes queuing up, when you finally get the milk it ain't as fresh as what you thought.

Alot of blokes who bought the cow said the cow eventually stops producing milk. And does not give milk anymore.

But when the cow leaves, the cow can also leave with half...

[alphaomega8384]

Marry a WL?

Mate… that’s not a question. That’s a cry for help disguised as a love letter wrapped in a midlife crisis.

Now I know some of you are coming from the heart. “She makes me feel comfortable,” you say. Comfort? Bro, so does my weighted blanket and that doesn’t charge me three-fiddy for a happy ending and a bottle of pump lube.

Let’s be real. The punter-WL love story is older than Newtown’s last indie bookstore. Guy walks in, gets a GFE so convincing he thinks this one’s different. She laughs at his jokes, touches his thigh, says, “You’re so sweet.” And boom — his brain starts playing Coldplay and rewriting her body count as a romantic montage.

Now I ain’t knocking feelings. Hell, I caught some myself once. Thought I was special. She let me raw-dog — turns out it was Bring Your Own Condom Week and I didn’t get the flyer. My bad.

But here’s the psychology, boys — and pay attention, ‘cause this is the part where I pretend I’ve got a TED Talk and a black turtleneck.

You’re not falling for her. You’re falling for how she makes you feel. And that’s not love. That’s branding. She’s curated an experience. She’s the Apple Store of intimacy — sleek, expensive, and you leave feeling slightly violated but weirdly satisfied.

Now I hear the Alphas in the back going, “Only low value men marry hookers.” My guy, you just dropped four hundred bucks to get told you’re handsome by someone who’d charge extra to say your name twice. You’re not on the podium here.

Let’s flip the script. Imagine she started a thread: “Would you marry a punter if he made you feel secure, paid on time, and didn’t fart mid-CIM?” You think she’s not roasting us in a group chat somewhere? Every punter thinks he’s the one she’ll retire for — like she’s a stripper in a Drake song and you’re the baritone knight in a Toyota Corolla.

And yet, I get it. There’s something raw, vulnerable, even honest about falling for someone who saw you naked in every sense. That’s the paradox, right? You pay for fake intimacy and somehow it hits more real than half the shit on Hinge.

But marriage?

Only if I get a receipt that says “No Refunds — Even If She Goes Back to No. 5 After the Honeymoon.”

Moral of the story?

Since when did dopamine — or some incel with a YouTube playlist called “Truth About Modern Women” — get to decide who’s worthy of love or marriage?

We’re pointing fingers at WLs like they’re broken for putting a price on intimacy, while the same blokes preaching morals are handing over cash, heart, and occasionally their car keys for a shot of synthetic affection. Who’s more guilty — the payee or the payer?

She’s offering a service. You’re buying the illusion. And somehow she’s the one catching judgment?

If anything, WLs have clearer contracts than most marriages: you know what you’re getting, how long it lasts, and who’s cleaning up the mess. Try finding that kind of honesty in a Tinder situationship.

So again, not “Would you marry a WL?”
Ask yourself: Would she even want to marry a punter who needs a receipt to feel validated?

Because at the end of the day, a body count is just arithmetic.
But hypocrisy? That’s spiritual.

She sold a service.
You sold yourself a dream.
One of you walked away with cash.
The other’s still on page six of a forum thread asking strangers if it was real.

Well said mate!

[Double_Adapter]

Alot of blokes who bought the cow said the cow eventually stops producing milk. And does not give milk anymore.

But when the cow leaves, the cow can also leave with half...

Can't argue with that.

But for blokes who look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, it's a different game - they get access to cows, goats, powdered, soy, almond and oat milk like its going out of style.

[Hedonisticfun]

Alot of blokes who bought the cow said the cow eventually stops producing milk. And does not give milk anymore.

But when the cow leaves, the cow can also leave with half...

.. ah the fantasy dream continues .. 24/7 sex sex sex .. AS IF !!! ... and when she leaves , she also leaves with half .. half a carton haha . Not sure of the socio-economic situation of most of the punters here but from some of the ARs I get a picture of mostly bargain hunters haggling for reduced rates that favour asians at cheap establishments and are predominately single though a few are married . The punter might be cruising comfortably but I doubt he*s a Kerry Packer , Lindsay Fox , Richard Pratt and his latest model Holden or Ford is his prime possession

[Hedonisticfun]

Can't argue with that.

But for blokes who look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, it's a different game - they get access to cows, goats, powdered, soy, almond and oat milk like its going out of style.

not sure about that .. I see all the large contract footy players getting the women (WAGS) but then how many of those guys end up being single again , even Hoges has bitten the dust

[justincase]

How many of you have a “roving eye”? It doesn’t matter who you’re with you always want more. So why get tied down to one women who will never be enough? I can see the only reason being if she’s accepting to an open relationship.

[fixatedperson]

Again the double standards , as if an escort who has paid sex with multiple partners for living is of a lesser person than a punter who pays for sex with multiple women. Same could be asked of a sex worker , would she marry a punter

I agree. We are not any better. Punters have body counts too. That is as much baggage as a WL's but the consequences of that are rarely discussed. It goes both ways.

[Double_Adapter]

not sure about that .. I see all the large contract footy players getting the women (WAGS) but then how many of those guys end up being single again , even Hoges has bitten the dust

Yeah but these contract footy players are literally unknowns outside AU so only have access to local cows, but the super mega international celebrities are recognised worldwide and therefore have access to all the cows and all the grazing pastures in every country in the world.

Though a few blokes have been known to contract mad cow disease and that's why they stick to local cows.

[andrewv]

I agree. We are not any better. Punters have body counts too. That is as much baggage as a WL's but the consequences of that are rarely discussed. It goes both ways.

I can tell you from years of knowing many women who are not ML or WL that they immediately avoid men that they think have a massive body count. Even if these men are powerful/rich/good-looking.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I can tell you from years of knowing many women who are not ML or WL that they immediately avoid men that they think have a massive body count. Even if these men are powerful/rich/good-looking.

I thought it was the other way around. Women chase men with higher body counts. And men who have alot of women already.

As it is "social-proof" and means he is already "pre-selected" by alot of other women. So she will sub-consciously think there must be something special about this man that other women want. Think about ugly old rockstars or celebs. They have tons of hot women after them as other women want them too.

Women also chase powerful, rich, good looking men as they have alot of other women already after them. Women don't want the man that no other woman wants 555

[justincase]

Getting women is easy and once you’ve done that what happens? If the game is the pursuit and you’ve done that what use is there keeping them?

[HiredGoon]

I thought it was the other way around. Women chase men with higher body counts. And men who have alot of women already.

As it is "social-proof" and means he is already "pre-selected" by alot of other women. So she will sub-consciously think there must be something special about this man that other women want. Think about ugly old rockstars or celebs. They have tons of hot women after them as other women want them too.

Women also chase powerful, rich, good looking men as they have alot of other women already after them. Women don't want the man that no other woman wants 555

I find your world view fascinating. You do have a podcast right?

[HiredGoon]

Marry a WL?

Mate… that’s not a question. That’s a cry for help disguised as a love letter wrapped in a midlife crisis.

Now I know some of you are coming from the heart. “She makes me feel comfortable,” you say. Comfort? Bro, so does my weighted blanket and that doesn’t charge me three-fiddy for a happy ending and a bottle of pump lube.

Let’s be real. The punter-WL love story is older than Newtown’s last indie bookstore. Guy walks in, gets a GFE so convincing he thinks this one’s different. She laughs at his jokes, touches his thigh, says, “You’re so sweet.” And boom — his brain starts playing Coldplay and rewriting her body count as a romantic montage.

Now I ain’t knocking feelings. Hell, I caught some myself once. Thought I was special. She let me raw-dog — turns out it was Bring Your Own Condom Week and I didn’t get the flyer. My bad.

But here’s the psychology, boys — and pay attention, ‘cause this is the part where I pretend I’ve got a TED Talk and a black turtleneck.

You’re not falling for her. You’re falling for how she makes you feel. And that’s not love. That’s branding. She’s curated an experience. She’s the Apple Store of intimacy — sleek, expensive, and you leave feeling slightly violated but weirdly satisfied.

Now I hear the Alphas in the back going, “Only low value men marry hookers.” My guy, you just dropped four hundred bucks to get told you’re handsome by someone who’d charge extra to say your name twice. You’re not on the podium here.

Let’s flip the script. Imagine she started a thread: “Would you marry a punter if he made you feel secure, paid on time, and didn’t fart mid-CIM?” You think she’s not roasting us in a group chat somewhere? Every punter thinks he’s the one she’ll retire for — like she’s a stripper in a Drake song and you’re the baritone knight in a Toyota Corolla.

And yet, I get it. There’s something raw, vulnerable, even honest about falling for someone who saw you naked in every sense. That’s the paradox, right? You pay for fake intimacy and somehow it hits more real than half the shit on Hinge.

But marriage?

Only if I get a receipt that says “No Refunds — Even If She Goes Back to No. 5 After the Honeymoon.”

Moral of the story?

Since when did dopamine — or some incel with a YouTube playlist called “Truth About Modern Women” — get to decide who’s worthy of love or marriage?

We’re pointing fingers at WLs like they’re broken for putting a price on intimacy, while the same blokes preaching morals are handing over cash, heart, and occasionally their car keys for a shot of synthetic affection. Who’s more guilty — the payee or the payer?

She’s offering a service. You’re buying the illusion. And somehow she’s the one catching judgment?

If anything, WLs have clearer contracts than most marriages: you know what you’re getting, how long it lasts, and who’s cleaning up the mess. Try finding that kind of honesty in a Tinder situationship.

So again, not “Would you marry a WL?”
Ask yourself: Would she even want to marry a punter who needs a receipt to feel validated?

Because at the end of the day, a body count is just arithmetic.
But hypocrisy? That’s spiritual.

She sold a service.
You sold yourself a dream.
One of you walked away with cash.
The other’s still on page six of a forum thread asking strangers if it was real.

You actually should have a podcast if you can talk how you write.

[HiredGoon]

Alot of blokes who bought the cow said the cow eventually stops producing milk. And does not give milk anymore.

But when the cow leaves, the cow can also leave with half...

What if you love the cow? What if it's not a transactional arrangement to get milk? What if they're your best friend? Ever been to the funeral of an 70-80 year old woman and listened to the speech their husband gives about them? Oh you probably think they're low value simps...

[dewayne]

You actually should have a podcast if you can talk how you write.

Kind of reeks of AI to me, what with the extensive use of em dashes and the tone of voice.

Otherwise, if it's not AI, my bad. But I see a lot of it in my line of work and can usually sniff it out

[HiredGoon]

Kind of reeks of AI to me, what with the extensive use of em dashes and the tone of voice.

Otherwise, if it's not AI, my bad. But I see a lot of it in my line of work and can usually sniff it out

Sounds like you'd know better than me. Not familiar with that stuff.

[MindTheGap]

Kind of reeks of AI to me, what with the extensive use of em dashes and the tone of voice.

Otherwise, if it's not AI, my bad. But I see a lot of it in my line of work and can usually sniff it out

It’s clearly straight out of ChatGPT. But don’t tell him how you spotted it!

[Double_Adapter]

Getting women is easy and once you’ve done that what happens? If the game is the pursuit and you’ve done that what use is there keeping them?

If getting chicks was that easy, forums like this wouldn’t exist and blokes wouldn’t be out here shelling out cash for tugs, bj's, and sex. And they definitely wouldn’t be posting soul-searching questions like:

- 'help I'm falling in love with a WL what should I do'
- 'would you marry a WL/ML'
- 'inviting WLs to your place'
- '24hrs with a WL, what do you do'

And just when you thought shit couldn't get any weirder, now we’ve got bots and AI signing up, and in the fucken punting mix! Posting ARs like they’ve actually got junk in their circuits, writing WL profiles, managing shop rosters, dropping advice, and and posting shit that makes you wonder if they’ve been secretly punting in the cloud.
It's all fucked!

[Niceguy11]

If getting chicks was that easy, forums like this wouldn’t exist and blokes wouldn’t be out here shelling out cash for tugs, bj's, and sex. And they definitely wouldn’t be posting soul-searching questions like:

- 'help I'm falling in love with a WL what should I do'
- 'would you marry a WL/ML'
- 'inviting WLs to your place'
- '24hrs with a WL, what do you do'

And just when you thought shit couldn't get any weirder, now we’ve got bots and AI signing up, and in the fucken punting mix! Posting ARs like they’ve actually got junk in their circuits, writing WL profiles, managing shop rosters, dropping advice, and and posting shit that makes you wonder if they’ve been secretly punting in the cloud.
It's all fucked!

Yep exactly right bro.

I was out with ex workmates with a 3 being Asian (ABC with one an ABG but she's cool). It's been a while since I've been to Ginza and the break has been good. Socialising with normal woman puts a major perspective on punting in a weird way. No issues if I wanted to get a Mrs and the whole reason I punt is because I couldn't be bothered being in one at the moment. Its easy for us bro's when we are are horny to visit a brothel, bust a nut and leave. Recently I deleted all WL contacts and WeChat.

One old regular that quit the game, got married, had a kid, got citizenship then divorced her Australian husband has now started working again. Another broke up with her drug user boyfriend because they kept on getting into arguments. She is now on her 4th relationship and guess what? Its a customer.

The longer I do not punt, the less I feel to do it. Retirement is getting close.

[CanberraGuy]

You are 100% correct.

[ChadThunderrcock]

One old regular that quit the game, got married, had a kid, got citizenship then divorced her Australian husband has now started working again. Another broke up with her drug user boyfriend because they kept on getting into arguments. She is now on her 4th relationship and guess what? Its a customer.


I knew it. The guys that these WL's usually date are their customers

Its tantamount and equivalent to those Old Bald Fat Farangs who go to Thailand and marries a Thai Bargirl (aka Hooker). Then lies to everyone about how they met

As I always say, only a very low value man would date/marry a WL. Very low value man

He can have money and be rich, but he is still a very low value man if he can't court a normal girl & he has to date/marry a WL

[justincase]

I dated 7 sex workers last year.

Pumped and dumped all of them.

Maybe I’ve contributed to their mistrust towards men. Some of my behaviour was bad, but they still repeatedly came back. So what does that say about them?

Pretty soon I’ll be repeating the game.

[fixatedperson]

I dated 7 sex workers last year.

Pumped and dumped all of them.

Maybe I’ve contributed to their mistrust towards men. Some of my behaviour was bad, but they still repeatedly came back. So what does that say about them?

Pretty soon I’ll be repeating the game.

Care to share details? Which shop did you meet them at? PM if you like, I'm in a similar situation.

[Legend2000]

Anyone dumb enough to want to date and ML / WL is not right in the head - been there done that.
Its not worth it.

[Takemymoney]

What are these girls to avoid please. Any details mate

[fixatedperson]

Yes I would.

Yes she is a ML/WL. Yes she fucks men for money.

But she is still a human being. She is still capable of love. She is no less human than the punter who pays money to fuck her and gratify his sexual desires for a time.

Will the relationship be challenging? Of course. Is there a slim chance of success? Of course.

But again, to rule it out because they are a sex worker, as if are incapable of love and conventional relationships like marriage is dehumanising, patronising and naive.

I have observed punters admitting they cannot stay faithful to one partner and that is the reason they punt. I wonder if their skepticism around marrying a ML/WL and discouraging others from pursuing it is a projection of their own inability to sustain long-term relationships.

[andrewv]

Yes I would.

Yes she is a ML/WL. Yes she fucks men for money.

But she is still a human being. She is still capable of love. She is no less human than the punter who pays money to fuck her and gratify his sexual desires for a time.

Will the relationship be challenging? Of course. Is there a slim chance of success? Of course.

But again, to rule it out because they are a sex worker, as if are incapable of love and conventional relationships like marriage is dehumanising, patronising and naive.

I have observed punters admitting they are incapable staying faithful to one partner and that being the reason they punt. I wonder if their skepticism around marrying a ML/WL and discouraging others from pursuing it is a projection of their own inability to sustain a long-term relationships.

Men and women do not get married to anyone just because they are a "human being"! If this were the case, divorce rates would be zero

There are many complex issues involved, including ethics, values, lifestyle, personality, views on money, and the list continues.

A WL is a 'human being' selling her body by the hour (or 30 and 45 minutes) for money. This is her ethics and values for you.

With that, would you trust her not to revert to her profession in secret (behind your back) after you marry her. For the record, I met a sugarbaby on seeking dot com a couple of years ago who I discovered was married and happy to have BBFS, and had no problem in telling me that she keeps her husband blind to her trade. She had a secret SIM card in her handbag which she used to meet sugardaddies. How would her husband feels if/when he finds out? What if he is you???

[ChadThunderrcock]

Anyone dumb enough to want to date and ML / WL is not right in the head - been there done that.
Its not worth it.

Agreed. Good to know there are some sane people on here


Yes I would.

Yes she is a ML/WL. Yes she fucks men for money.

But she is still a human being. She is still capable of love. She is no less human than the punter who pays money to fuck her and gratify his sexual desires for a time.

Will the relationship be challenging? Of course. Is there a slim chance of success? Of course.

But again, to rule it out because they are a sex worker, as if are incapable of love and conventional relationships like marriage is dehumanising, patronising and naive.

I have observed punters admitting they are incapable staying faithful to one partner and that being the reason they punt. I wonder if their skepticism around marrying a ML/WL and discouraging others from pursuing it is a projection of their own inability to sustain a long-term relationships.

It has already been shown by few studies that girls with a sex work background are very damaged. And not suitable for long term relationships. Let alone marriage.

Alot of trauma. Baggage. Having had thousands of cocks. They will not be able to pair-bond with just one man anymore.

Even is she is an Ex-WL/ML, she is just on holidays. Won't take long until she's back on the streets chasing that money.

You can put it any way you want. I agree she is still human at the end of the day. But only a very Low-Value man would even consider a relationship & marriage with a WL/ML/Sex worker.

A man who has to do this does NOT have the looks, charm, game, confidence, social skills & network to be able to meet and attract a normal long term life partner. Any man who has to be a White-Knight & feels he needs to defend/protect/save her is a very Low-Value man.

[Kiryu0]

Agreed. Good to know there are some sane people on here



It has already been shown by few studies that girls with a sex work background are very damaged. And not suitable for long term relationships. Let alone marriage.

Alot of trauma. Baggage. Having had thousands of cocks. They will not be able to pair-bond with just one man anymore.

Even is she is an Ex-WL/ML, she is just on holidays. Won't take long until she's back on the streets chasing that money.

You can put it any way you want. I agree she is still human at the end of the day. But only a very Low-Value man would even consider a relationship & marriage with a WL/ML/Sex worker.

A man who has to do this does NOT have the looks, charm, game, confidence, social skills & network to be able to meet and attract a normal long term life partner. Any man who has to be a White-Knight & feels he needs to defend/protect/save her is a very Low-Value man.

Is this study from the Andrew Tate academy?

Seriously no disputing the studies, but you tacking on the same shit over and over again at the end of each of your posts is getting tiring...

Why are you continuing to engage in this thread when you're just gonna say the same shit?

[I_luv_doggie.]

I don’t see WLs for an off chance of a “relationship”.

This is a hobby to fuck a variety of ladies of different ages, races, shapes and sizes.

Youngest 18 years and oldest late 60s (magnificent set of tatas).

Tiniest was an A cupper with her weighing barely 40kgs and just under 5 feet tall. To some of the biggest that had juggs past their belly button.

Fucked black WLs from USA, PNG, Zambia, Kenya, France, UK, Fuji & Aussie born Africans.

Fucked white WLs from Russia, Ukraine, UK, Malta, Poland, Lebanon, NZ & Aussies.

Fucked Asians from HK, Singapore, Japan, Mongolia, mainland China, fuck knows where from Chinese, Thailand, Vietnam, Korea & Aussie born whatever.

An Indian in there somewhere.

Plus 3 USA pornstars.

Why the fuck would I want to marry one when you got the friggin planet to pick and choice from for this hobby. Barely done 15% of the Earth’s countries.

But if that is where you find “love” then happiness to you.