How do you guys approach getting all these free extras?

[firingfury]

I'm still fairly new to this but i see so many reviews for the cheaper places and everyone seems to get an extensive list of extras for no added cost like BBBJ and other stuff.What are you guys doing differently or is it just better brothels?Like i could spend 160-180 and get covered bj and normal protected sex with nothing else special but some of you get a long list of extra stuff.

If it helps you answer this is what i normally do , i see the girl and ask straight away for BBBJ and how much it costs and thats it , i normally only take 200 with me and i'm often able to get the BBBJ and a full hour for that price.

[fnmfnmfnm]

I'm still fairly new to this but i see so many reviews for the cheaper places and everyone seems to get an extensive list of extras for no added cost like BBBJ and other stuff.What are you guys doing differently or is it just better brothels?Like i could spend 160-180 and get covered bj and normal protected sex with nothing else special but some of you get a long list of extra stuff.

If it helps you answer this is what i normally do , i see the girl and ask straight away for BBBJ and how much it costs and thats it , i normally only take 200 with me and i'm often able to get the BBBJ and a full hour for that price.

Don’t ask how much it cost. If it comes to BJ time tell her no condom. Be clear with what you want and expect from a service. If she gets an indication that she can squeeze extra $ out of you, she will. Given your pricing you might be going to the cheaper shops where it’s hit or miss

Failing that, go to trustworthy shops with high quality control like Ginza. Every girl there is told BBBJ and CIM is a standard.

[fixatedperson]

What extra stuff? Anal? CIM? I get extras only if the girl is open to it and they aren't free. I pay like everyone else. These girls aren't a charity.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I'm still fairly new to this but i see so many reviews for the cheaper places and everyone seems to get an extensive list of extras for no added cost like BBBJ and other stuff.What are you guys doing differently or is it just better brothels?Like i could spend 160-180 and get covered bj and normal protected sex with nothing else special but some of you get a long list of extra stuff.

If it helps you answer this is what i normally do , i see the girl and ask straight away for BBBJ and how much it costs and thats it , i normally only take 200 with me and i'm often able to get the BBBJ and a full hour for that price.

It depends how much she likes you...

In other words, if you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth

Or if you're a fat old-middle aged bald/balding dude

[critical brain mass]

I'm still fairly new to this but i see so many reviews for the cheaper places and everyone seems to get an extensive list of extras for no added cost like BBBJ and other stuff.What are you guys doing differently or is it just better brothels?Like i could spend 160-180 and get covered bj and normal protected sex with nothing else special but some of you get a long list of extra stuff.

If it helps you answer this is what i normally do , i see the girl and ask straight away for BBBJ and how much it costs and thats it , i normally only take 200 with me and i'm often able to get the BBBJ and a full hour for that price.

Are u saying u get bbbj for the whole hour? I mean that’s a pretty good deal for $200.

[justincase]

I’ve only ever been offered a cup of free water and even then the WL wasn’t paying for it, the brothel was.

Once as a joke I said “that they should pay me” to a group of WLs I was with, it was a joke but none of them reacted at all, the joke went right over their heads.

The money thing is a one way transaction and once the time is up they walk. Even at shops when they tell me it’s quiet and I tip there is no extra time, no extra nothing.

Same goes for them with my number, a lot have it. They never contact me, it’s me contacting them, chasing them, paying for them one way or another, being it for dinner, an experience somewhere, shopping etc etc etc

If in a dating relationship that’s why it’s very easy to dump them, there is no love and you get sick of paying, paying with no respect, the sex eventually becomes bland as they take you for granted and fresh stock is needed.

She could be a glamour but once the tide turns she means nothing. Nothing at all, so easy to wipe. Then they wonder why you dumped them.

I see them post on social media wearing the clothes I bought them, at the restaurants I took them to or at the places we went to. I’m never in the pics of course, just out of shot.

So one Chinese WL showed me photos of her European trips, her middle eastern trips, her US trips and the pics were beautiful. All I could think was “who is the guy who paid for it who is just out of shot”?

One even went as far as telling her family she had me as a BF just to cover up her income steam as a WL and the money she was sending back OS. Sent them pics of me, got me on the phone with her mother etc etc. Said I supported her lol.

They lie to the punter and they lie to their families.

[Harp0]

It depends how much she likes you...

In other words, if you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth

Or if you're a fat old-middle aged bald/balding dude
Broken record matey.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I’ve only ever been offered a cup of free water and even then the WL wasn’t paying for it, the brothel was.

Once as a joke I said “that they should pay me” to a group of WLs I was with, it was a joke but none of them reacted at all, the joke went right over their heads.

The money thing is a one way transaction and once the time is up they walk. Even at shops when they tell me it’s quiet and I tip there is no extra time, no extra nothing.

Same goes for them with my number, a lot have it. They never contact me, it’s me contacting them, chasing them, paying for them one way or another, being it for dinner, an experience somewhere, shopping etc etc etc

If in a dating relationship that’s why it’s very easy to dump them, there is no love and you get sick of paying, paying with no respect, the sex eventually becomes bland as they take you for granted and fresh stock is needed.

She could be a glamour but once the tide turns she means nothing. Nothing at all, so easy to wipe. Then they wonder why you dumped them.

I see them post on social media wearing the clothes I bought them, at the restaurants I took them to or at the places we went to. I’m never in the pics of course, just out of shot.

So one Chinese WL showed me photos of her European trips, her middle eastern trips, her US trips and the pics were beautiful. All I could think was “who is the guy who paid for it who is just out of shot”?

One even went as far as telling her family she had me as a BF just to cover up her income steam as a WL and the money she was sending back OS. Sent them pics of me, got me on the phone with her mother etc etc. Said I supported her lol.

They lie to the punter and they lie to their families.
I think that joke just went over their heads as these girls have a different sense of humour. I don't think they understand sarcasm or sarcastic jokes. But if she at least likes you, she would've pretended to laugh at your jokes.

It seems she doesn't like you and not even
interested in you as a person.

You're just an in-animate walking-talking ATM machine for her

I dont "date" or go out with any WL's/ML's. But they would always initiate everything. Even just a small message asking "How are you?". If you're not even getting this from them, they really not into you...

Even when they return to Aus. They always bring me something small from their country.

[justincase]

Yes the joke went over their heads and that’s another thing, none of them are smart.

I’d classify “how are you” as a spam txt and one they broadcast out to half a dozen guys waiting to see who has what going on for the weekend. Then they select the best option and go with that. For example if I said “I was going to Perisher for the weekend skiing do you want to come along”? What do you think the response would be? But if I said “I’m doing nothing”…

I don’t classify “how are you” as a txt per se. It’s an open ended question looking for a response that they may or may not follow up on. They’re fishing for the best opportunity.

At least once a week I get asked, “ what are you doing later/tonight or are you going home? Where do you live? Or they say “I want to party/go out” etc Wednesday night was the last time I was hit up. I decline because I don’t like women putting it on me. I select who I want, not them selecting me and I control the situation not them.

So if I want them yes I’ll chase till I get, but besides the sex, dinners and spending time together they all are the same. Eventually they become boring.

One WL knew every top end restaurant in Sydney and had been there. Admittedly I’ve been to a few but no doubt her male friends have taken her and just how many do you have to go to before you start getting fat?

That Thai ML I wrote about in a thread, the one I dated started getting a lazy belly. I thought I didn’t sign up to be with a fat woman even if it’s just a bit of fat on her belly. She even went as far as telling me she uses filters on social media… I said “ you always look different” now I know why. If I’m maintaining my physique I expect whoever I date to do the same otherwise they can FO.

[ChadThunderrcock]

Yes the joke went over their heads and that’s another thing, none of them are smart.



One WL knew every top end restaurant in Sydney and had been there. Admittedly I’ve been to a few but no doubt her male friends have taken her and just how many do you have to go to before you start getting fat?

That Thai ML I wrote about in a thread, the one I dated started getting a lazy belly. I thought I didn’t sign up to be with a fat woman even if it’s just a bit of fat on her belly. She even went as far as telling me she uses filters on social media… I said “ you always look different” now I know why. If I’m maintaining my physique I expect whoever I date to do the same otherwise they can FO.

As soon as you said ML, money. High end restaurants. Social media.

I knew she was Thai....

Biggest Gold-Diggers in the world

[HiredGoon]

Yes the joke went over their heads and that’s another thing, none of them are smart.

I’d classify “how are you” as a spam txt and one they broadcast out to half a dozen guys waiting to see who has what going on for the weekend. Then they select the best option and go with that. For example if I said “I was going to Perisher for the weekend skiing do you want to come along”? What do you think the response would be? But if I said “I’m doing nothing”…

I don’t classify “how are you” as a txt per se. It’s an open ended question looking for a response that they may or may not follow up on. They’re fishing for the best opportunity.

At least once a week I get asked, “ what are you doing later/tonight or are you going home? Where do you live? Or they say “I want to party/go out” etc Wednesday night was the last time I was hit up. I decline because I don’t like women putting it on me. I select who I want, not them selecting me and I control the situation not them.

So if I want them yes I’ll chase till I get, but besides the sex, dinners and spending time together they all are the same. Eventually they become boring.

One WL knew every top end restaurant in Sydney and had been there. Admittedly I’ve been to a few but no doubt her male friends have taken her and just how many do you have to go to before you start getting fat?

That Thai ML I wrote about in a thread, the one I dated started getting a lazy belly. I thought I didn’t sign up to be with a fat woman even if it’s just a bit of fat on her belly. She even went as far as telling me she uses filters on social media… I said “ you always look different” now I know why. If I’m maintaining my physique I expect whoever I date to do the same otherwise they can FO.

So basically you think they're only after one thing and don't really care about you and then you brag about treating them like shit because you don't really care about them. so you're both really the same. Sounds awesome.

[firingfury]

Not the entire hour , maybe like 30 minutes worth , rest was massage and other stuff. I'm still pretty new to this stuff and i still want to explore more options but i will return there probably every fortnight.

[firingfury]

Are u saying u get bbbj for the whole hour? I mean that’s a pretty good deal for $200.

Not the entire hour , maybe like 30 minutes worth , rest was massage and other stuff. I'm still pretty new to this stuff and i still want to explore more options but i will return there probably every fortnight.

[MasterPaizuri]

Best I've gotten is a CBJ for free. I paid for B2B with titty fuck and tit sucking.

I just said no massage.

She immediately played with my lil bro and then I heard her open a condom - I was confused and when she put my dick in her mouth I go "but I didn't pay for this"

She sucked a few times and said "it's ok, I like" then did it for about 5 mins lol

Having said that, I've defs been ripped off by other ML's I'll never return to cause service wasn't great (my experience) but this one ML just didn't care

Probs wanted me to return and drop more money

[pmmeyourknee_]

Never free, usually a discount or something they don't offer to anyone. I doubt they are willing to do something for free.

[Hedonisticfun]

What extra stuff? Anal? CIM? I get extras only if the girl is open to it and they aren't free. I pay like everyone else. These girls aren't a charity.

Oh contraire , I suppose it comes down to the connection between the punter and the WL/ML. Having had some regulars the ante has been raised , just recently had an overnighter for the second time and the WL got so heated she didn't put the raincoat on the second insertion . ML first the one after a few visits introduced her friend and both together provided FS WITHOUT condom.
Yes , I'm a big tipper but connection has a lot to do with it , manners , high personal hygiene , looks all contribute

[pmmeyourknee_]

Oh contraire , I suppose it comes down to the connection between the punter and the WL/ML. Having had some regulars the ante has been raised , just recently had an overnighter for the second time and the WL got so heated she didn't put the raincoat on the second insertion . ML first the one after a few visits introduced her friend and both together provided FS WITHOUT condom.
Yes , I'm a big tipper but connection has a lot to do with it , manners , high personal hygiene , looks all contribute

Tipping means you paid for it mate

[Wank_Somemore]

Nothing is for free. I've gotten free sex, free bbbj and during covid lockdowns, had hours long sessions for the same price as 1 hour. But its not really free as I've already paid for that someway somehow over a period of time prior to receiving anything for free. From personal experience, frequently be a regular.

[firingfury]

Nothing is for free. I've gotten free sex, free bbbj and during covid lockdowns, had hours long sessions for the same price as 1 hour. But its not really free as I've already paid for that someway somehow over a period of time prior to receiving anything for free. From personal experience, frequently be a regular.

So i would be better off finding one or two regulars i like?That makes sense. Repeat business is better and more reliable than one time visitors.

[Hedonisticfun]

Tipping means you paid for it mate

Not if the tipping is LESS than the rates for extras totalled as advertised ISN'T charged maaaate

[firingfury]

Not if the tipping is LESS than the rates for extras totalled as advertised ISN'T charged maaaate

how much are you tipping and what affect have you noticed it to have for your services?

[Hedonisticfun]

how much are you tipping and what affect have you noticed it to have for your services?

Tip a 50 and (didn't tip at all at first ) but anal goes for 200 , gs 100 and another lady (couple) 150 got most of these for free hence why I started tipping for going over and beyond and my gratitude for doing so.. not all in one session plus session goes for longer than paid for 90 minutes turns into 2 hours or a little over sometimes.

[LBW1959]

There are 2 things that may get you "free" extras. Firstly, find a girl you like and become a regular client - 3 or 4 times over a couple of months. Secondly, treat her nice like you would if she was a "friend with benefits".
I've had two ML acquaintances at different establishments who started out as standard R&T and by the 4th visit was getting DFK, BBBJ, ball licking and FS for only an additional $100.
Sure, this is not going to happen with every girl, there has to be some spark between you. And keep in mind that it is really all about the money, it's just than you can make the money go a lot further with the right attitude. Neither of these girls asked me for a specific extra fee - they provided the fun and were happy with what I gave them in return.

[JJBlows]

Man alot of you guys are overlooking the fact that girls notice our hygiene and it's a major factor for them deciding to whether offer extras or not.

[dewayne]

Man alot of you guys are overlooking the fact that girls notice our hygiene and it's a major factor for them deciding to whether offer extras or not.

Yep and you'll notice that most of the guys, not just on this forum but in all of life, who say "girls only go for Brad Pitt hunks" are otherwise just average guys who don't brush their teeth or wipe their ass properly, and that's why they aren't liked.

[Hedonisticfun]

There are 2 things that may get you "free" extras. Firstly, find a girl you like and become a regular client - 3 or 4 times over a couple of months. Secondly, treat her nice like you would if she was a "friend with benefits".
I've had two ML acquaintances at different establishments who started out as standard R&T and by the 4th visit was getting DFK, BBBJ, ball licking and FS for only an additional $100.
Sure, this is not going to happen with every girl, there has to be some spark between you. And keep in mind that it is really all about the money, it's just than you can make the money go a lot further with the right attitude. Neither of these girls asked me for a specific extra fee - they provided the fun and were happy with what I gave them in return.

Summed it up perfectly LBW

[Hedonisticfun]

Yep and you'll notice that most of the guys, not just on this forum but in all of life, who say "girls only go for Brad Pitt hunks" are otherwise just average guys who don't brush their teeth or wipe their ass properly, and that's why they aren't liked.

Nailed it dewayne .. personal hygiene , manners and chemistry

[justincase]

So basically you think they're only after one thing and don't really care about you and then you brag about treating them like shit because you don't really care about them. so you're both really the same. Sounds awesome.

Of course I’m the same, they know it and if they don’t they soon find out and I’m probably one of the few men who give back to them what they dish out. The rest of you don’t and come off second best when they shaft you and I read all about it online, here even.

For that matter how many of you have been done over by your wives or defacto girlfriends? You let it happen. Where is your forward planning, there isn’t.

[justincase]

I think that joke just went over their heads as these girls have a different sense of humour. I don't think they understand sarcasm or sarcastic jokes. But if she at least likes you, she would've pretended to laugh at your jokes.

It seems she doesn't like you and not even
interested in you as a person.

You're just an in-animate walking-talking ATM machine for her

I dont "date" or go out with any WL's/ML's. But they would always initiate everything. Even just a small message asking "How are you?". If you're not even getting this from them, they really not into you...

Even when they return to Aus. They always bring me something small from their country.

The last one I didn’t respond to as she fucked up by calling me Steve which isn’t my name during a txt and then she deleted it. No doubt she was broadcasting she was back from OS and wanted to meet. Stupid woman. Anyway that was enough to not reply as I had already lost interest even though I dated her and she still continued to txt but I never responded, just left her hanging to hopefully realise the stupid mistake she made.

I’m not interested in what they think of me, really I’m not, it’s what they can do for me that matters and once the illusion of them wains or they become too easy a read then they’re gone. I start to see faults and they all have faults one way or another.

So they bring you a lil something? Perhaps they can claim it as business expense. Even if one bought me back a Rolex it’d mean nothing. Would I be loyal? No. Would I show her any more respect? No. So yeah I’m just like them when it comes to receiving gifts though they could never buy me anything I don’t already have so it’d be meaningless.

[ironmonk]

Oh contraire , I suppose it comes down to the connection between the punter and the WL/ML. Having had some regulars the ante has been raised , just recently had an overnighter for the second time and the WL got so heated she didn't put the raincoat on the second insertion . ML first the one after a few visits introduced her friend and both together provided FS WITHOUT condom.
Yes , I'm a big tipper but connection has a lot to do with it , manners , high personal hygiene , looks all contribute

So paying for two overnighters, obviously WL and her friend are happy...but it's mainly due to connection and looks amirte? Why not just "date" them then and ditch if you get bored in that case

[crhaayn]

I only frequent places now that have girls that offer BBBJ as standard, but more than a decade ago, when it wasn't explicit, I found being clean and polite went a long way. Shops I used to go to had CBJ as the norm, but some girls were willing to go BBBJ, and on seeing that I'm clean and well-groomed, some would go straight into it, while some would pull out the condom, and sometimes if I asked politely for no condom, they'd put it aside and give me BBBJ. Of course there are girls that just don't want to provide CBJ to some new customer, and usually I wouldn't give these girls a repeat visit. There were some great WLs that only provided CBJ at first but with frequent visits, provided BBBJ eventually.

Nowadays, I think the market has just caught on that BBBJ can be a paid extra, or at least provided as standard for a "premium" or "diamond" level service.

[HiredGoon]

The last one I didn’t respond to as she fucked up by calling me Steve which isn’t my name during a txt and then she deleted it. No doubt she was broadcasting she was back from OS and wanted to meet. Stupid woman. Anyway that was enough to not reply as I had already lost interest even though I dated her and she still continued to txt but I never responded, just left her hanging to hopefully realise the stupid mistake she made.

I’m not interested in what they think of me, really I’m not, it’s what they can do for me that matters and once the illusion of them wains or they become too easy a read then they’re gone. I start to see faults and they all have faults one way or another.

So they bring you a lil something? Perhaps they can claim it as business expense. Even if one bought me back a Rolex it’d mean nothing. Would I be loyal? No. Would I show her any more respect? No. So yeah I’m just like them when it comes to receiving gifts though they could never buy me anything I don’t already have so it’d be meaningless.

And now here you are bragging about it on a punting forum. Such a boss.

[11Bravo]

As fixatedperson said, it's their BUSINESS, how they put a roof over their head, food on the table, clothes on their back, provide for their family...

Do you have a job? Do you work unpaid overtime? How do you decide which customer, manager, colleague might get a "bit extra" gratis? Same applies...

Know the going rates. If she offers "more" gratis on the first visit, then she knows that will be the expected standard for the future. Same as the first price you pay will be the standard.

Repeat business. Respect. As I often say (F1 key programmed): you treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice. You treat her like a person, she'll be a person.

[firingfury]

Thanks everyone for the advice in this thread , i have used it to great success this was definitely worth asking and for people that come aftmer e i would listen to the more experienced punters on here for a much better experience. This is shown in my latest after report.

[justincase]

And now here you are bragging about it on a punting forum. Such a boss.

Perhaps Steve will learn that she’s not faithful, well to him, myself and most probably a few others. He is a member here after all.

[HiredGoon]

Of course I’m the same, they know it and if they don’t they soon find out and I’m probably one of the few men who give back to them what they dish out. The rest of you don’t and come off second best when they shaft you and I read all about it online, here even.

For that matter how many of you have been done over by your wives or defacto girlfriends? You let it happen. Where is your forward planning, there isn’t.

Wow you seem to think you know a lot about me!