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bnewolf
02-07-2025, 03:23 PM
Lately, I’ve been thinking — should I stick with one regular girl from a shop, or just keep meeting someone new each time?

Every time a regular girl leaves, I find myself trying so hard to accept it. I keep telling myself to just move on to the next, but deep down it honestly hurts. It feels more like I’m forcing myself to let go than truly moving on.

I do well financially, but I don’t have a steady partner — and that’s probably why this hits me harder than I expect.

Would love to hear how others deal with this. Anyone feel the same?

gpeck80
02-07-2025, 04:19 PM
Bare in mind, if you had a wife, you wouldnt be doing well financially anymore, and even moreso if you were dumb enough to wife up an ML/WL.

toga
02-07-2025, 04:57 PM
Similar thoughts discussed in this thread:

https://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?141394-Should-we-see-MLs-regularly-or-not

Eric_li
04-07-2025, 08:42 PM
Totally get you, mate. Been there myself. It’s hard not to get attached when there’s no one steady in real life. I try to remind myself it’s part of the deal — enjoy the moment, expect the end. Still hurts though, no shame in that.