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gedinsyd
30-08-2025, 12:45 PM
This is a bit of a rant more than anything...I was helping one of my regulars contact her bank yesterday because one of her customers had cancelled a payment due to a "mistaken transaction".
The bloke had entered the shop, got the services he asked for, which included FS, and left after 30 minutes. The shop is a fairly quietish suburban massage shop in Parramatta, so the girls tend to be a bit more flexible with allowing payment methods other than cash, so she allowed him to pay by payid in good faith. He paid on the spot but had cancelled it by the next day. The same sort of problem happened to another of my ML friends recently, and I can only assume it is happening a fair bit, as the banks basically return the funds to the customer without question, with some bullshit email sent to the girl saying the bank is satisfied the transaction was made in error. There is clear CCTV footage of the guy entering and leaving the shop. Anyway, I am sure she learned a lesson from this, and I am sure most of us try to do the right thing, but for those who are wanting payment options other than cash, dudes like this are ruining it for everyone...

Mirko
30-08-2025, 12:51 PM
I guess this is why ML’s and WL’s prefer cash, not only do they pay no tax but it is guaranteed income.

Linza Giz
30-08-2025, 01:02 PM
There are scammers everywhere. This is such a Low act. Girl has provided services and he is ripping her off. He probably knows nothing will happen though. Alot of these girls are not working here legally so her options are limited. Hopefully the shop bans this jackass.

Mirko
30-08-2025, 01:08 PM
There are scammers everywhere. This is such a Low act. Girl has provided services and he is ripping her off. He probably knows nothing will happen though. Alot of these girls are not working here legally so her options are linked. Hopefully the shop bans this jackass.
100% agree. This type of low act is almost like rape.

Wlso
30-08-2025, 01:10 PM
Wonder if it could have been a fake payment to begin with. Usually the senders bank has to request a refund from the other bank which requires receiver confirmation. Always a risk because they can just say no

gedinsyd
30-08-2025, 01:12 PM
Yeah, the bloke clearly knew he was taking advantage of a vulnerable sex worker, and the girl was reluctant to get the police involved - my other ML friend has PR and even she was reluctant about telling the police. It is indeed a low act that simply makes the girls more wary - as Mirko said, it is effectively rape given she would not have consented to the act without payment...

Paison
30-08-2025, 01:35 PM
This is why one of the thai chicks at PBM specifically said "cash" to me and not "payid". Thought it was a bit weird as I always pay cash only lol.

gedinsyd
30-08-2025, 01:38 PM
This is why one of the thai chicks at PBM specifically said "cash" to me and not "payid". Thought it was a bit weird as I always pay cash only lol.

I likewise only pay cash, and only see my regulars these days so no such discussion about payment takes place, but I can fully understand why the girls would emphasize this point

justincase
30-08-2025, 06:51 PM
It’s a scam and has been known about by most workers for a while.

Hedonisticfun
30-08-2025, 07:19 PM
This is a bit of a rant more than anything...I was helping one of my regulars contact her bank yesterday because one of her customers had cancelled a payment due to a "mistaken transaction".
The bloke had entered the shop, got the services he asked for, which included FS, and left after 30 minutes. The shop is a fairly quietish suburban massage shop in Parramatta, so the girls tend to be a bit more flexible with allowing payment methods other than cash, so she allowed him to pay by payid in good faith. He paid on the spot but had cancelled it by the next day. The same sort of problem happened to another of my ML friends recently, and I can only assume it is happening a fair bit, as the banks basically return the funds to the customer without question, with some bullshit email sent to the girl saying the bank is satisfied the transaction was made in error. There is clear CCTV footage of the guy entering and leaving the shop. Anyway, I am sure she learned a lesson from this, and I am sure most of us try to do the right thing, but for those who are wanting payment options other than cash, dudes like this are ruining it for everyone...

Had same with a regular WL . Punter paid got FS from her and then the transaction was cancelled . She contacted the Police but even the driver*s licence he produced was a fake as she wanted verification before the incall and accepting transferred funds from him as she usually only does cash or deposit then full cash payment . Ruining it ??? low life scum may get a freebee but that*s why those that complain about putting down a deposit may now know one of the reasons why . *as Mirko said, it is effectively rape given she would not have consented to the act without payment...* as stated in another reply , she had no qualms going to the police to lodge a complaint .

Hedonisticfun
30-08-2025, 07:22 PM
100% agree. This type of low act is almost like rape.

Is rape without consent .

Hedonisticfun
30-08-2025, 07:25 PM
I guess this is why ML’s and WL’s prefer cash, not only do they pay no tax but it is guaranteed income.

Not all avoid paying tax . Prostitution is not illegal and some do actually list as Sex Workers as a business with an ABN with all the benefits allowed by the Tax Department , condoms , health checks etc. Business is business

11Bravo
30-08-2025, 08:13 PM
Well, when you're traveling, and she demands pay BEFORE (cash) rather than the punter preferred pay AFTER (cash)... as others have pointed out, this is why. Or punters pay with cash - some strange unknown foreign currency with a LOT of 000's. Naive girl accepts, goes to exchange... chump change. Or currency that has been taken out of circulation, no longer valid...

Why it helps to have a good rep.

Scammer scum on both sides.

bung72
30-08-2025, 10:00 PM
I only pay cash, but it's really for my benefit - no trail! But, I'm not a thief who would deny payment for something I've received.

qtron
31-08-2025, 10:54 AM
Was he Indian or Arab?

gedinsyd
31-08-2025, 11:11 AM
I only pay cash, but it's really for my benefit - no trail! But, I'm not a thief who would deny payment for something I've received.

Exactly - I try not to leave any trail, but like you say, regardless of the payment method, she has provided a service in good faith and we have no right to deny her payment for that

gedinsyd
31-08-2025, 11:13 AM
Well, when you're traveling, and she demands pay BEFORE (cash) rather than the punter preferred pay AFTER (cash)... as others have pointed out, this is why. Or punters pay with cash - some strange unknown foreign currency with a LOT of 000's. Naive girl accepts, goes to exchange... chump change. Or currency that has been taken out of circulation, no longer valid...

Why it helps to have a good rep.

Scammer scum on both sides.

The good rep goes a long way for sure - I haven't had to discuss financials for quite some time now, and the girls never need to ask for prepayment. They can simply trust that the payment will happen.

gedinsyd
31-08-2025, 11:18 AM
Had same with a regular WL . Punter paid got FS from her and then the transaction was cancelled . She contacted the Police but even the driver*s licence he produced was a fake as she wanted verification before the incall and accepting transferred funds from him as she usually only does cash or deposit then full cash payment . Ruining it ??? low life scum may get a freebee but that*s why those that complain about putting down a deposit may now know one of the reasons why . *as Mirko said, it is effectively rape given she would not have consented to the act without payment...* as stated in another reply , she had no qualms going to the police to lodge a complaint .

Yeah, given the bank's response, there is little choice left but to go to the police - hopefully the low life pays for it in some way in the end

11Bravo
31-08-2025, 02:11 PM
The good rep goes a long way for sure - I haven't had to discuss financials for quite some time now, and the girls never need to ask for prepayment. They can simply trust that the payment will happen.
Advantage of regulars, both providers, and being one of a shop's regulars. You're known, and that first price is the continuing price.


Yeah, given the bank's response, there is little choice left but to go to the police - hopefully the low life pays for it in some way in the end
Unfortunately, scum like this just think how clever they are, getting one over on the stupid providers, while the fools are paying for it. Just another form of entitlement. On one forum, new member posted about how he was using worthless bills to pay, suggesting others follow suit. Happy to say he did not receive the accolades he was expecting... drowned in a chorus of boos, never to be seen again.