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Pattyherb
10-12-2025, 06:33 PM
I'm in my 30s and when cash is excess I go for a punt, sometimes I have a few months break.

However, most of my sexual life is outside of punting. I have gfs that I last on average a few months and frequent ONS. I do very well outside of punting sexually and last for a minimum of 20-30 mins beforr cumming and have never had an issue with girls from tinder etc.

Further, when I go for a punt: mainly fs at rnt places I last only a few minutes and very recently have been Cumming in a minute or two with a handjob. WTF!!! But when I fuck a girl I'm seeing the next day I do her for like 30 mins then a few hours later do her again for around the same time

Has anyone else had this issue?

Fourbrows
10-12-2025, 06:37 PM
I last only a few minutes and very recently have been Cumming in a minute or two with a handjob. WTF!!!

Probably just that these ML's are literally professional cock jerkers. They've spent years trying to get men to cum ASAP and get them out the door.

If you're getting a massage before the HJ, I wouldn't discount that half/full hour beforehand. Especially if there is teasing involved. It's all foreplay/anticipation that's building you up.

Pattyherb
10-12-2025, 06:54 PM
Probably just that these ML's are literally professional cock jerkers. They've spent years trying to get men to cum ASAP and get them out the door.

If you're getting a massage before the HJ, I wouldn't discount that half/full hour beforehand. Especially if there is teasing involved. It's all foreplay/anticipation that's building you up.

Not really, after a 50m massage they massage my balls and dick and before it even gets fully erect... I cum... there is nothing magical about what they do. I've had tinder girls do the hawk twua, and the mouth on top pepper grinder and I can last atleast 5-10 mins trying to cum as fast as I can.

fixatedperson
10-12-2025, 07:31 PM
Too many variables to tell. Maybe it is the thrill of someone new making you finish faster.

Rdlr84
10-12-2025, 07:47 PM
How do the tinder girls compare looks wise to the MLs. I’ve found the same, with MLs I tend to last much shorter than outside and feel it’s just the novelty and physical attributes of the MLs that make me release much quicker.


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chatswood2067
10-12-2025, 10:00 PM
time
time gives you pressure

cos30
10-12-2025, 10:08 PM
Never had an issue with MLs, very rare that I cum super quick. Just tell them to slow down ;)

AUSSIEHOTGUY
10-12-2025, 10:19 PM
OP where do you mostly score your roots outside of punting?

jenlai29
11-12-2025, 08:05 PM
ML girls are so different though. From the way they turn you on and then building you up until your release. I consider them professional artists especially if they have a routine.

Folcis
12-12-2025, 06:02 AM
Haven't had this issue but it is most likely psychological. You see the women you pick up as conquests and the MLs solely as cum extractors. The women you pick up might react negatively to a one pump chump while the MLs are actively cheering on you cumming as soon as possible so their job is over and they can move on to the next punter. Different mental process in approaching each leads to a different outcome I suppose.

GoldfishMan
12-12-2025, 06:15 AM
Can't say I've had this problem but I can totally see it happen depending on your situation.
When you punt, you get to choose the girl that suits your taste the most. Body shape, size, colour, looks, reviews, etc. Ok now you're all set with the best girl out of the lot, you don't need to impress her with anything, just book her, pay and voila, you get to fuck her. Little bro will be so happy... Too happy in fact!

Hookups on the other hand is obviously not so straightforward. You can go for the hottest girl in the room but your game might not be good enough to impress her. So you go for second best, or third or fourth best. Your little bro might disapprove of what you ended up with.

Also don't underestimate the power of "preparedness". When you go for a punting sesh, you'd know very well that "this hour is all about fucking / cumming / pleasuring me".
Go for a hookup, there are a million things that can happen before you get to fuck. Girl gets hungry, thirsty, needs a shower, or you drank too much at the pub, got into a fight, the list goes on.

Cairns
16-12-2025, 05:27 PM
Definitely psychological, but it has happened to me on some occasions.

justincase
16-12-2025, 06:37 PM
The WL~ML mission objective is to get you to cum ASAP. Hopefully you’ll leave early and short time the punt and they’re onto the next punter.

Rlks1
16-12-2025, 07:32 PM
Yeah mate it’s all in the head.

For me it’s the whole build up. Looking at rosters, finally picking someone, driving there knowing what I’ll be getting up to

Hearing the girls heels coming down the hallways then stopping infront of the room I’m in gets the blood pumping

I used to actually get disappointed. But she’s happy, you’re happy so it is what it is

madness123
20-12-2025, 08:43 AM
Sex with condom vs lubed up HJ massive difference. The dom makes you last.