Negotiating Extras

[orangewhitecat]

Hello friends,

just wanted to get your input on negotiating extras. Really getting the urge to bust all over a petite body again and in the process of setting this up except going to one of those shops where it’s not standard service

Never actually negotiated any of this shit so just wondering how do I actually do this, like just say to her up front “hey can I cum on your body for an extra $50” and give her the $50 up front?

Sorry I’m a bit dumb regarding this cause used to go through agency in NZ where you could just negotiate everything on the phone ahead of time

EDIT: sorry forgot to mention this is a western style brothel with western chicks not massage

[jackdaniels]

I think transparency is the best course. If there is a specific extra just ask. Personally I don't like to haggle. If the number she throws out is unreasonable to you move on.

[fixatedperson]

From my experience, if they ask you to turn over, they are offering extras. They will ask you what you want to do and you go from there.

[LostShadow]

Still relatively new to punting and I usually ask what's on offer after the flip. If nothing was negotiated before flipping I've found that MLs will usually ask if I'm after any extras.

Some MLs do ask before starting the massage, and I'll ask what's on offer then. If it's an ML that I regularly see and know what's on offer I'd ask for the extra before starting.

[themort]

Don't negotiate, make an offer, if they counter and you don't want to pay the counter just decline.

[Double_Adapter]

Bro, you need to negotiate like an Indian, here's some tips to get you started.

https://tim.blog/2007/12/11/how-to-negotiate-like-an-indian-7-rules/

[Mr Nice]

Yep I take this approach too. If I feel the money is too high I just go with a HJ or B2B. But sometimes I will take the high offer if it feels like it will be a wild fuck. If it is I return, if not find another...


I think transparency is the best course. If there is a specific extra just ask. Personally I don't like to haggle. If the number she throws out is unreasonable to you move on.

[johncitizen]

how do I actually do this, like just say to her up front “hey can I cum on your body for an extra $50” and give her the $50 up front?

Yes. Just say it upfront.

[11Bravo]

Really getting the urge to bust all over a petite body again
IME, you definitely want to avoid her hair because she will be VERY UNHAPPY if any lands there. Having to wash hair mid-shift is a big no-no.


and in the process of setting this up except going to one of those shops where it’s not standard service
I'm a bit confused, you want to go to where it's not standard (I'd think bad move because there is a reason girls work those shops), or you want where it's standard? The former sounds a bit "entitled"...


Sorry I’m a bit dumb regarding this cause used to go through agency in NZ where you could just negotiate everything on the phone ahead of time

You have a voice, right? I don't see any difference, except you are cutting out the middleman and dealing directly with the "manufacturer", in person.


Never actually negotiated any of this shit so just wondering how do I actually do this, like just say to her up front “hey can I cum on your body for an extra $50” and give her the $50 up front?
Damn, you always pay MSRP? Never bought "used"? e-bay? I really don't understand why so many have such hangups with "negotiations".

What IS the big deal?
"Oh, it breaks the mood" - it's BUSINESS.
"I don't like to" - go to a brothel, problem solved (unless it's anal).
"Gee, in kindergarten, they just handed me my milk. Why do I have to ask the price outside?" - Independent contractor



like just say to her up front “hey can I cum on your body for an extra $50” and give her the $50 up front?
I'd say this would be a poor move, coming across as rude and insulting. Yes, if it's important, ask up front. You can start slow, asking what her extras are, then how much. Then specify what you are looking for in particular. Or just ask directly but a little less directly, first the "spec" then ask for a price quote. "How much for Spanish?" I would also make it CLEAR it would NOT be FACE. They've heard it all before (unless it's a not standard shop service, and then she just might run out of the room screaming... bad scene that). I wouldn't just assume $50 would be sufficient. Make it clear what you're looking for and ask her how much. Know the going rates. If she quotes OTT, like someone said, that's her way of politely saying "No thank you". You can always make a counter offer and see if it's accepted.

As I've said, I treat her like a person, not an orifice.

Just like negotiating with a gardener... how much to mow and edge, weekly? Monthly? How much extra for some weeding? Leaf raking?... Asking a plumber how much to replace the toilet floor gasket? The electrician to add another circuit? It's merely another service to agree on a price with a provider.

[BiggieSmalls]

Hello friends,

just wanted to get your input on negotiating extras. Really getting the urge to bust all over a petite body again and in the process of setting this up except going to one of those shops where it’s not standard service

Never actually negotiated any of this shit so just wondering how do I actually do this, like just say to her up front “hey can I cum on your body for an extra $50” and give her the $50 up front?

Sorry I’m a bit dumb regarding this cause used to go through agency in NZ where you could just negotiate everything on the phone ahead of time

EDIT: sorry forgot to mention this is a western style brothel with western chicks not massage

If it’s a western brothel this won’t be standard and some/all WLs may not offer it. I’d suggest getting the line up and asking each one if they offer COB. If they do they’ll say their price. You can try and bargain with each one or just choose the WL based off attraction / cost ratio.

[xxls7xx]

Most of the crap around this just comes down to being straight with each other.

If you want extras just say what you want and accept they might say no. If the price doesn’t work then move on, no point carrying on or trying to get one over someone.

Some girls don’t want to negotiate and stick to a set price, fair enough. Makes it easier for everyone. Where it usually goes wrong is when nothing’s clear before the booking.

Be straight up, be respectful, and you’ll avoid most of the hassle.