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AUSSIEHOTGUY
28-02-2026, 11:55 PM
How do you stay in control and resist the urge to bareback?

I find it easy to fuck dommed with women where there's little or lack of chemistry.

But impossible to do when there's strong chemistry with the slut. Got nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm fucken out of control when its like that. I suck out and swallow their saliva during DFK. Eat pussy in 69 and raw dog like an apeman.

IDOTHAT
01-03-2026, 01:00 AM
How do you stay in control and resist the urge to bareback?

I find it easy to fuck dommed with women where there's little or lack of chemistry.

But impossible to do when there's strong chemistry with the slut. Got nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm fucken out of control when its like that. I suck out and swallow their saliva during DFK. Eat pussy in 69 and raw dog like an apeman.

Hm, have you ever caught anything? that might be a deterrent?

HiredGoon
01-03-2026, 01:13 AM
Hm, have you ever caught anything? that might be a deterrent?

I keep reading your name as IDIOT HAT

jedibear
01-03-2026, 04:10 AM
How do you stay in control and resist the urge to bareback?

I find it easy to fuck dommed with women where there's little or lack of chemistry.

But impossible to do when there's strong chemistry with the slut. Got nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm fucken out of control when its like that. I suck out and swallow their saliva during DFK. Eat pussy in 69 and raw dog like an apeman.Simple...i don't like to be pissing razor blades and having pus leak out of my cock...

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Vegopus
01-03-2026, 07:42 AM
Tell me about it! I give into that urge too many times.
On a good day I will settle for a massage with bbbj and cim finish.
But unfortunately, most of the time it's BB pussy or BB anal with CIP or cia finish with the occasional ATM.

Abracadabra
01-03-2026, 09:29 AM
Not that difficult ~ just think of the possible consequences of that 15 mins and weigh it up!

andrewv
01-03-2026, 09:43 AM
Playing Russian roulette time and time again means that getting a live bullet is 100% guaranteed in the long run.

You should read some forums of STI sufferers talking about their experience with infections.

When tempted, think about that for 30 seconds then reach for a condom.

Vegopus
01-03-2026, 09:51 AM
It's probably better for you to stay home and jerk off if you are that paranoid 😉


Playing Russian roulette time and time again means that getting a live bullet is 100% guaranteed in the long run.

You should read some forums of STI sufferers talking about their experience with infections.

When tempted, think about that for 30 seconds then reach for a condom.

johncitizen
01-03-2026, 09:53 AM
How do you stay in control and resist the urge to bareback?

I find it easy to fuck dommed with women where there's little or lack of chemistry.

But impossible to do when there's strong chemistry with the slut. Got nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm fucken out of control when its like that. I suck out and swallow their saliva during DFK. Eat pussy in 69 and raw dog like an apeman.

I don’t get this urge. For me, the urge is just to fuck. Doesn’t matter if a dom’s on.

speranza
01-03-2026, 11:06 AM
I remember there was a punter on this forum a few years ago, maybe 'Boater'? who said he'd been punting for 40 years, 90-95% bbfs, never had a problem. proves nothing of course, except the 100% guarantee isn't necessarily true either.

I_luv_doggie.
01-03-2026, 11:16 AM
It's probably better for you to stay home and jerk off if you are that paranoid ��

Free country and whatever floats your boat at the end.

But if you do go BBFS etc, then do yourself a favour and get tested regularly say every 3months.

Up to you.

IDOTHAT
01-03-2026, 11:53 AM
I keep reading your name as IDIOT HAT

hahahahahah that made me laugh. my names open to interpretation

Fallinlove
01-03-2026, 11:59 AM
Mate I fucken love bareback ! My fetish is creampies and cia the thought of me drilling them then my load filling up their pussies gets me horny everytime ! I’ve been lucky to try it with some of the k queens definitely a highlight

AUSSIEHOTGUY
01-03-2026, 12:12 PM
Simple...i don't like to be pissing razor blades and having pus leak out of my cock...

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Yeah man. I’ve had that last year. I could not squeeze more than a few drops at a time was wriggling in so much pain on the toilet seat. Plus swollen glands in my throat and eyes infected and red like a devils.

It’s not worth it but the dumb cunt in me still does it.

J3ffrey
01-03-2026, 01:12 PM
Better to control and stay safe and regret it later on.

keebab
01-03-2026, 03:45 PM
How do you stay in control and resist the urge to bareback?

I find it easy to fuck dommed with women where there's little or lack of chemistry.

But impossible to do when there's strong chemistry with the slut. Got nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm fucken out of control when its like that. I suck out and swallow their saliva during DFK. Eat pussy in 69 and raw dog like an apeman.

You've started a thread about not being able to stop jerking off, now you've started another about how you can't control not going bareback.

Is it a flex or kink for you to advertise your lack of self control?

Newbieguy2025
01-03-2026, 03:53 PM
Im pretty sure if you have been through what I just had to go through the last 2 weeks, you wouldn't be barebacking hookers nomore.

andrewv
01-03-2026, 04:10 PM
It's probably better for you to stay home and jerk off if you are that paranoid 😉

No buddy. I go to shops and use condoms.
It’s not “paranoia”. It’s using my brain.

MrPB
01-03-2026, 04:18 PM
Whilst the primal urge is there to enter raw, evolution and brains has taught it is a big no.

Ron the rimmer
01-03-2026, 04:19 PM
No buddy. I go to shops and use condoms.
It’s not “paranoia”. It’s using my brain.

Good idea.
It’s not hard to figure out even for those that don’t have a brain.

DevilJin
01-03-2026, 05:59 PM
I’m pretty new to this can’t imagine, if a WL lets me bb definitely letting other bb too does the risk worth the reward?

Hedonisticfun
01-03-2026, 06:52 PM
How do you stay in control and resist the urge to bareback?

I find it easy to fuck dommed with women where there's little or lack of chemistry.

But impossible to do when there's strong chemistry with the slut. Got nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm fucken out of control when its like that. I suck out and swallow their saliva during DFK. Eat pussy in 69 and raw dog like an apeman.

My sentiments exactly Aussie , can empathise and sympathise with you , worse still when that hot slut AND good looking , rips off the dom herself and goes full tilt , fucking impossible to resist

Hedonisticfun
01-03-2026, 07:02 PM
Playing Russian roulette time and time again means that getting a live bullet is 100% guaranteed in the long run.

You should read some forums of STI sufferers talking about their experience with infections.

When tempted, think about that for 30 seconds then reach for a condom.

.. can imagine what they've posted even though I haven't read Andrew and Russian roulette it definitely is.
Had only twice pissed razor blades , once in the army , no sex involved just traversing putrid stagnant water during an exercise and second time I'm sure it was sexually related either but a couple of tablets fixed it in a day or two .. actually wrote a thread now that I remember.
Either way only bareback with regulars now that to date I haven't caught anything off .
Even now at my age (late 60s) prefer a HJ finish at times

strongboi
01-03-2026, 07:39 PM
nothing quite beats an old fashion

VERY VERY_HARMSUP
01-03-2026, 07:41 PM
You've started a thread about not being able to stop jerking off, now you've started another about how you can't control not going bareback.

Is it a flex or kink for you to advertise your lack of self control?

Perhaps it’s an evolutionised Chad in his prime... still trying to work it out have you seen his posts……? $160 to bang a 30yo ExShenzen model and $160 to bbfs with a fit future mature HK Slut… if it’s indeed $160 all up I’d be avoiding that shop/girl at all costs … price is cheaper 30 mins at most shops and it was for an hr session to do all that and bbfs?

bung72
01-03-2026, 09:24 PM
I was offered bareback today for the first time at a shop... *and* the girl was an absolute stunner, and I had enough on me to cover it.... politely declined, I was happy with the included BBBJ, added a bit for CIM.....

BiggieSmalls
01-03-2026, 09:36 PM
I was offered bareback today for the first time at a shop... *and* the girl was an absolute stunner, and I had enough on me to cover it.... politely declined, I was happy with the included BBBJ, added a bit for CIM.....

Yes, I’ve only been offered a couple of times and always for extra. If it was free I’m not sure I could say no but I’m not paying for it. Also, I figure if WL is offering it then she is to everyone and many will be taking it up. That makes the risk much greater.

I realise if she is offering it for free then it’s probably more risky but I just don’t know if I could say no in that case.

bung72
01-03-2026, 09:44 PM
After she put the condom-or-not-sex to me first, I asked about BBBJ - I was so stoked that was free, that I stopped thinking about the BBFS anyway. Then CIM was only 50, so added that for sure. I was pretty pent up, and she got a good mouthful! :)

AUSSIEHOTGUY
01-03-2026, 09:56 PM
You've started a thread about not being able to stop jerking off, now you've started another about how you can't control not going bareback.

Is it a flex or kink for you to advertise your lack of self control?

You seem to know a lot about my threads. Must like them huh?

bummer
01-03-2026, 10:23 PM
You've started a thread about not being able to stop jerking off, now you've started another about how you can't control not going bareback.

Is it a flex or kink for you to advertise your lack of self control?

sounds like he cant decide whether to jerk off with or without a condom !

AUSSIEHOTGUY
01-03-2026, 11:24 PM
sounds like he cant decide whether to jerk off with or without a condom !

Hahaha. Most of you millenial pindicks wouldn't know how to feed pussy if it sat on your face.

The question is, what is the fucken question? - How to not bareback.

mrleong
02-03-2026, 01:03 AM
I remember there was a punter on this forum a few years ago, maybe 'Boater'? who said he'd been punting for 40 years, 90-95% bbfs, never had a problem. proves nothing of course, except the 100% guarantee isn't necessarily true either.

Was it 'brothelcreeper'? The bloke disappeared, perhaps he got a nasty infection and checked out from the planet!

Personally only have been offered BB once from a aussie/german blonde babe, tempted for 5sec but declined. Two other times was BB when the condom got 'sucked up' and disappeared inside the pussy during sex. Both times by blonde aussies at 'a touch of more class'. For some reason it only happens with blondes with me. I would of thought it would happen when i visit Jap or chinese ladies.

local
02-03-2026, 01:14 AM
I remember many years ago (last century actually) in the YHA - Rockhampton, just about to fuck a Canadian when she ask about a condom, I suggested if she wanted ok, has she got any ? Her responce to expensive to buy in this country.
She ended up travelling with me around Queensland for the next few months, thankfully she was spendng for the pill at least :)

Double_Adapter
02-03-2026, 06:56 AM
Fuck self-control, just go in raw bro!

keebab
02-03-2026, 09:39 PM
sounds like he cant decide whether to jerk off with or without a condom !

He is a deadset wanker, that's for certain.

andrewv
02-03-2026, 10:31 PM
I was offered bareback today for the first time at a shop... *and* the girl was an absolute stunner, and I had enough on me to cover it.... politely declined, I was happy with the included BBBJ, added a bit for CIM.....

All you need to do is think that she has offered barekback to a few guys before you today, and she cannot possibly clean her vagina to a point where your dick would not pick whatever the men before left in it, let alone possible bacteria and/or viruses.

Don't believe me? Go ahead and google what a woman would need to do to clean her vagina after sex to a level that removes all of what her sex partner deposited.

AUSSIEHOTGUY
02-03-2026, 11:35 PM
All you need to do is think that she has offered barekback to a few guys before you today, and she cannot possibly clean her vagina to a point where your dick would not pick whatever the men before left in it, let alone possible bacteria and/or viruses.

Don't believe me? Go ahead and google what a woman would need to do to clean her vagina after sex to a level that removes all of what her sex partner deposited.


This is very true. But I'd rather not know.

Jaded69
02-03-2026, 11:42 PM
.That's definitely the hardest thing so enjoy I say

Jaded69
02-03-2026, 11:43 PM
That's so true when there's the Chemistry it's all about the natural warmth in the woman & same for her. No woman can resist warm jizz 💦 them !

BobsBurgers
02-03-2026, 11:47 PM
there's no way I could ever say yes to bbfs.
especially if you had a missus

AUSSIEHOTGUY
03-03-2026, 12:10 AM
That's so true when there's the Chemistry it's all about the natural warmth in the woman & same for her. No woman can resist warm jizz 💦 them !

Most love to feel appreciated. That they've done their job well and earned their pay.

AUSSIEHOTGUY
30-03-2026, 01:11 AM
I know when she loves it as much as I cos her face turns all rosy and she's smiling and all smitten plus her eyes are watery and shining.

Fuck I love that. It means I've done my part well fucking her, she's earned her pay in arousing me. A week later I'm still happy and not rock steady, focussed and getting good gains in the gym. Before I see her again next week.

ditchtheboss
30-03-2026, 07:05 AM
Those who were around when I was contributing more here know that I don’t encourage bbfs at all for the health of the community but I know it is a naive and hopeless cause for me.

About one year ago I was fucking one of my old timer regulars, went back to see her after quite a while, we have history, chemistry and trust. Off course I had the condom on but as we change positions there was a condom failure and it came off my dick and it was hanging off her pussy, so she told me after, she quickly removed it and did an amazing Asian squat raw. Ended up cip and when I noticed what happed I freaked out but she had the most nonchalant attitude and said that she noticed it and chose to keep going. First time this happened to me in many many years of punting. Thankfully everything was clear and no babies off course.

She actually was texting me everyday checking on me because she was worried about me as I was freaking out, we know each other for many years in and out of the brothel, she was relaxed and I was worried.

Long story short, this single event significantly contributed to my slowing down in punting. Not worth it.

GoldfishMan
30-03-2026, 08:21 AM
This is the worst type of BBFS. You don't even know or realise you're doing it, so you take all the risks without fully enjoying it. What's the point?

ditchtheboss
30-03-2026, 08:24 AM
This is the worst type of BBFS. You don't even know or realise you're doing it, so you take all the risks without fully enjoying it. What's the point?

You are right, I think she enjoyed it more than I did. But not in the way that most of us think or seem to post here. They enjoy bareback because for them it is less friction than the condom. Multiple girls told me that. So I don’t care how many of us think they have the hots for you. It could happen but evidence and data says otherwise.