Posting an AR when you’re offered BBFS

[BiggieSmalls]

I’ve been offered BBFS a couple of times recently and haven’t posted ARs. Curious to get the thoughts of others on this topic on whether I should post these and whether to disclose the BBFS offer.

1) Post AR with no BBFS offer disclosure
All punters should be aware this happens and even if they don’t take (or receive) the offer there are risks when punting and you need to take that risk into account. But by posting and not disclosing the offer a punter who is cautious may book the WL and get caught off guard when I could have warned them. But including the offer in the AR may open up the WL to BBFS requests they don’t want as I don’t know if they offer to everyone or have a criteria.

2) Post AR with BBFS offer disclosure
It happened, some punters seek BBFS and it warns punters who avoid WLs who offer BBFS.

3) Don’t post the AR at all
It avoids the moral questions above.

Keen to get thoughts and see if there are any points I have missed that should be considered.

[asnabc]

Always 3) don't post AR at all. Everyone should know the risks of BBFS and you can always say no.

There are more questions than answers if 1 or 2 is chosen - its a net negative.

[IDOTHAT]

2) I think it is good to know for punters who want to avoid those type of WLs. The ones who seek BBFS probably already know about her lol.

[Fallinlove]

I don’t post ARs as sometimes the girls don’t give bbfs to every punter so they ask me or tell me “only with you / don’t do this much often” I take it with a grain of salt but I have some regulars that I see I know don’t give others bbfs and gives it to me , I’m a sucker for creampie and seeing my cum dribble out of their cunts. For example some k girls don’t allow bbfs with others and with me it’s ok some of them are popular ones too (k queens) of course most know that J girls are usually more open to suggestions.

[keebab]

I’ve been offered BBFS a couple of times recently and haven’t posted ARs. Curious to get the thoughts of others on this topic on whether I should post these and whether to disclose the BBFS offer.

1) Post AR with no BBFS offer disclosure
All punters should be aware this happens and even if they don’t take (or receive) the offer there are risks when punting and you need to take that risk into account. But by posting and not disclosing the offer a punter who is cautious may book the WL and get caught off guard when I could have warned them. But including the offer in the AR may open up the WL to BBFS requests they don’t want as I don’t know if they offer to everyone or have a criteria.

2) Post AR with BBFS offer disclosure
It happened, some punters seek BBFS and it warns punters who avoid WLs who offer BBFS.

3) Don’t post the AR at all
It avoids the moral questions above.

Keen to get thoughts and see if there are any points I have missed that should be considered.

No need to post an AR. You'll get 50 DMs today asking you directly.

[Sinkie]

It avoids the moral questions above.

I don't think it's moral, but more that it's the law. The shops are against it too. The warnings on the wall are not just for decorations I'm sure of that. I've been offered too, but I never mentioned it, nor I took it. I know there are some creeps out there obsessed with this thing. If you've posted an AR before, they must've approached you. But your body your choice.

[formula44]

I got different experience where the condom left inside, i e. Accidentally BBFS. F*cking freaking me out.

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[neveragain]

There was an AR posted recently where it mentioned that bareback was offered but declined. The review didn't last long before being deleted. Unsure at whose request the deletion was (I imagine it was the shop's).

[GoldfishMan]

OP, unless you actually asked the girl if she would give BBFS to every other punter and whether it would be OK to write about it on the internet, you probably shouldn't write about it.

[tcrawford]

Almost every short stay J girl is doing bbfs.

[strongboi]

its not just short stays, i would say most of the j girls offer bbfs. Surprised to hear some k girls do it, usually they are more closed off on these. Maybe times are tough for them.

[BiggieSmalls]

Always 3) don't post AR at all. Everyone should know the risks of BBFS and you can always say no.

There are more questions than answers if 1 or 2 is chosen - its a net negative.

Yes, based on yours and other’s responses I think I’ll stick to not posting the reviews at all.

[BiggieSmalls]

I don't think it's moral, but more that it's the law. The shops are against it too. The warnings on the wall are not just for decorations I'm sure of that.

I don’t think it’s illegal but condom use may be included in the premises DA with council. All the regulations I’ve seen just require supply of condoms and education of workers and customers.



If you've posted an AR before, they must've approached you. But your body your choice.

To be clear I have not posted any ARs where I was offered BBFS.

[massage addict]

I've always wanted to know the girls that offer this service, so I can avoid them to limit my risk. A few months ago, after a day on the beers, I visited an establishment. During the middle of an extremely passionate service I ended up balls deep, bareback in a very, very, wet pussy, it was insane at the time. Afterwards, she said wow, I've never done that before, no condom, tje connection was wow! of course I didn't believe this and the next three to four weeks were the most stressful weeks of my life the service was incredible but I've been to scared to go back and knowing that this service was given there was no talk about it during or any extra money requested afterwards it just happened in the heat of the moment. I chose not to give an after review.

[AUSSIEHOTGUY]

Nah I wonlt post bb intel on forums. Fuck that.

[RodgHerMoore]

Don't post it. If you truly are one of the few she offers it to would you really want to have her increase her client base of BBFS? There's more risk to you as well of STI though you're willing to accept that.

Those of us like me who don't want the risk of STI will always cover up, not partake in DFK, dining at Y etc

[11Bravo]

Myself, I follow more of a "Vegas" protocol, not a "bros gotta know"; the latter a tinge of entitlement (the "I should know so I can avoid"). I'd say use the same attitude as with firearms; you assume they're loaded and act accordingly.


Who's to say a yea or nay post is accurate. Certainly no punter ever exaggerates. No punter would ever be vindictive, or make a false claim out of self interest ("too many sheep, better thin the flock some with a "wolf" report).


While most say they 'dom up, there's also a number asking/reporting on DATY. I'm sure everyone carries dental dams besides condoms.


And those who check the oil, "she was really wet, FIV", I'm sure the decontamination protocols are followed before eyes, nose, mouth, groin are touched. Fresh latex gloves used for the HJ even if she washed her hands after cleaning herself down there with a wet wipe after the previous encounter.


And yet, even if all protocols are followed, there's still... ... ... just remember what the old gypsy woman told Lawrence Talbot:

“Even a man who is pure in heart and says his prayers by night,
may become a herpee when the virus sheds and the skin on skin is tight.”
(Or something like that).

Like WOPR told Joshua: "The only winning move is not to play".

As we've all heard many times, "Up to you".

[GoldfishMan]

I've always wanted to know the girls that offer this service, so I can avoid them to limit my risk. A few months ago, after a day on the beers, I visited an establishment. During the middle of an extremely passionate service I ended up balls deep, bareback in a very, very, wet pussy, it was insane at the time. Afterwards, she said wow, I've never done that before, no condom, tje connection was wow! of course I didn't believe this and the next three to four weeks were the most stressful weeks of my life the service was incredible but I've been to scared to go back and knowing that this service was given there was no talk about it during or any extra money requested afterwards it just happened in the heat of the moment. I chose not to give an after review.

Bro, if you really want to stay safe just avoid all J girls, it's as simple as that. They're in a different level of risk taking than you're prepared to take.

As for that experience you just described, all I can say is you managed to flip the coin in your way. You had BB sex with her and it turned out OK for you. All the fear-mongering in the world can't change that fact. If it were me I wouldn't do what you did after that but who can debate? It's your body your choice, but one thing it does highlight is you have nothing for her. So all good in the end I guess.

[Double_Adapter]

Think of it like going a vegan or a halal restaurant.

1) Post AR without mentioning BBFS
That’s like writing a review saying the restaurant served halal meat and it was excellent quality, but you don't mention that the waiter quietly told you they also serve pork if customers ask for it.

You’re not lying as the meat you ate was indeed halal. But for someone who only eats halal might read your review and assume the joint is full on halal friendly and doesn’t deal with pork at all.

And that raises another question: if there’s ever a shortage of halal meat, how do you know the kitchen ain't cutting corners? Maybe serving regular meat instead of halal meat, or using the same grill to cook both the pork and halal meat?

In that sense, from a punting pov ignorance is bliss.

2) Post AR and disclose the BBFS offer
That’s like saying: The restaurant had a good vibe, the halal meat was great and the waiter mentioned pork is available if customers request it.

You’re not endorsing it - you’re simply describing the full menu that's available. People who don't eat pork can make that decision for themselves.

3) Don’t post the AR
That’s like deciding not to review the restaurant or the meal because the pork conversation makes people uncomfortable and sparks arguments and shit fights.

No one gets misled but no one gets useful information either.

The conundrum: you're fucked if you do, and fucked if you don’t

[Viktorius69]

By now I just assume 100% of FIFO J girls and majority of existing J girls offer BBFS to at least some punters if not all. Best way to nearly double your earnings if you don't care..

[Migala]

Definitely number two to avoid those girls who give bbfs 😎

[BiggieSmalls]

Don't post it. If you truly are one of the few she offers it to would you really want to have her increase her client base of BBFS?

I’m not going to post them but not for this reason. These were WLs I was seeing for the first time. I don’t think I was something special.



The conundrum: you're fucked if you do, and fucked if you don’t

I think that sums it up perfectly.

[tate]

lol it’s so easy to get Bbfs yall tripping just ask the girl straight up and most time she says yes all you gotta do is tip 50-100 especially the cheaper brothels that are $150-200 hour range