ML Personal Phone Numbers

[Itsnotimportant]

Ok, I am new to this game, and would ask f some more experience punters opinons, I now have two personal numbers from two ML's in the same shop (they both asked me for my number). So today i booked ML one the official way (via shop we chat), only to almost immedatly get a personal text message from ML number 2, to ask why i am not seeing her.

It resulted in a long series of back and forth messages between us.

Is the outcome of this ever going to be good for anyone?

[half]

Can I ask from what shop? Some places actively discourage this, probably for the bs drama you just encountered.

[Itsnotimportant]

Can I ask from what shop? Some places actively discourage this, probably for the bs drama you just encountered.

SSDS, i booked via a personal direct message with the other ML last week only to run into Jackie when entering the shop, - I dont think she was very happy with either of us, but she still got her money - which is what Jackie seems to value most.

[Messo]

SSDS, i booked via a personal direct message with the other ML last week only to run into Jackie when entering the shop, - I dont think she was very happy with either of us, but she still got her money - which is what she seems to value most.It's ALL they value.
This is lesson #1.
Lesson #2 - never forget lesson #1.

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[Itsnotimportant]

It's ALL they value.
This is lesson #1.
Lesson #2 - never forget lesson #1.

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Indeed.

Jackie is the shop manager of course, so bookings made outside her offical system - do make her job a little more difficult.

I usually ask these girls if they like their job, as a means of making conversation with them, and mostly they say they do not.

I just wish the wechat bookings were kept secret between shop manager and requested ML, - I had no idea it was circulated throught every girl at the shop.

[tab123]

Most girls have access to the shop mobile phone.

[Zag Dez]

Why would you give a girl your number ?

[iida]

I have a bunch from payid.
One who became a regular outside of the shop.

These girls work for money.

So some are happy to oblige. $90 shop fee and they charge $250 FS. Offer them $300 to meet outside.
More money for them, less for you.

It can be a win win.
Most shops the ML share the phone to help as the owner isn't always there. Some will never re ply to a txt.
YMMV.

Being polite goes a long way.

[Itsnotimportant]

Why would you give a girl your number ?

Well, If you have had sex with the same women a few times, and she asks for it, i for one are just too polite to say no.

[Fungus the Bogeyman]

You got a phone number? Wow. Did you touch her boobs too?

[Itsnotimportant]

You got a phone number? Wow. Did you touch her boobs too?

Hey - its the local comedian, keep up the good work mate.

I highly doubt you will ever be in a position where you get a direct text message from and ML telling you she is to quote "Heartbroken" - within about 30 seconds of making a conscious consumer decision to book with someone else.

[macsnuggets]

Hey
I highly doubt you will ever be in a position where you get a direct text message from and ML telling you she is to quote "Heartbroken" .

haha...let me guess .. her working name there starts with M. Sorry but I think her phone is full of all the punters she's seen there & elsewhere..

[Itsnotimportant]

haha...let me guess .. her working name there starts with M. Sorry but I think her phone is full of all the punters she's seen there & elsewhere..

Well at least there is someone here who actually tries to give some good advice - without totally been a toxic idiot.

That makes sense as mentioned i am new to all this this, and gaining this kind of knowledge is why i am asking in the question in the first place. - you have nothing to be sorry about at all, its exactly the sort of thing i wanted to know.

It was actually very annoying what happend yesterday - its why i put up the question - so time to block the number and spend my money elsewhere.

[Sanuk555]

Itn Reality, it's Good you see others in the Shop. And not Stuck on one
And it's Good that she Knows, because if she wants you as a Regular, she has to Work Harder to keep you.
It's simply the Competitive nature of the Business.

[Mr Robot]

Well at least there is someone here who actually tries to give some good advice - without totally been a toxic idiot.

That makes sense as mentioned i am new to all this this, and that is why i am asking in the first place. - you have nothing to be sorry about at all, its exactly the sort of thing i wanted to know.

It was actually very annoying what happend yesterday - so time to block the number and spend my money elsewhere.

Confirming @Macsnuggets take on this. Same lady I'm sure.

I'm sure I and plenty of others have "broken" this lady's heart too. Ignore her guilt trip.

She'll probably message you asking when you're coming to see her too.

Nice girl, but she seems to think you should only see her.

[Itsnotimportant]

Confirming @Macsnuggets take on this. Same lady I'm sure.

I'm sure I and plenty of others have "broken" this lady's heart too. Ignore her guilt trip.

She'll probably message you asking when you're coming to see her too.

Nice girl, but she seems to think you should only see her.

Thanks again.

Some days I look at the roster and realise I have already had a F/S massage with everyone on the roster (across both shops)- so why would you not choose the person you think is best?

I will certianly say she is good at her job once you get in there with her, i would not even bother if she was not, the guilt thing is something i prefer did not happen, but will assume it won't be the last time it happens either.

[VFlowers]

Well, for what it's worth, my strategy has always been to not have more than one regular per shop/chain and see other girls at a particular shop/chain only on days my regular is not rostered.

[JJBeck]

My approached as well but can be frustrating if you want to see a girl and your regular is working

[Fungus the Bogeyman]

Hey - its the local comedian, keep up the good work mate.

I highly doubt you will ever be in a position where you get a direct text message from and ML telling you she is to quote "Heartbroken" - within about 30 seconds of making a conscious consumer decision to book with someone else.

Thanks for making me laugh. I needed that.
They don’t care about you. Get over yourself.
They care about whats in your wallet and will say and do anything to get it.

I’m trying to be cruel to be kind. If they see you as a soft touch, you are dead.
It’s a transaction. If she gets upset you see someone else, imagine her fucking 5 other guys that day and use her jealousy against her. Her problem is the other bitch stole “her” guy. Let them fight it out. And then see neither again.

It’s a business transaction. Here’s some cash to fuck me.
Done.

If you are going to leave your brain in the car and let your heart and dick take over, just stop doing this.

[Itsnotimportant]

Thanks for making me laugh. I needed that.
They don’t care about you. Get over yourself.
They care about whats in your wallet and will say and do anything to get it.

I’m trying to be cruel to be kind. If they see you as a soft touch, you are dead.
It’s a transaction. If she gets upset you see someone else, imagine her fucking 5 other guys that day and use her jealousy against her. Her problem is the other bitch stole “her” guy. Let them fight it out. And then see neither again.

It’s a business transaction. Here’s some cash to fuck me.
Done.

If you are going to leave your brain in the car and let your heart and dick take over, just stop doing this.


So i will take it your opinon is, no its not a good idea to get an ML's phone number?

[Fungus the Bogeyman]

So i will take it your opinon is, no its not a good idea to get an ML's phone number?
No, not at all.
But it’s to your advantage, not hers.
If you like her, ask her to reserve the specific time you want. Or where she’s working on wednesday etc.

They may attempt to engage in pleasantries or even up selling. Ignore that. Business.
If they are looking for visas, a private arrangement or just want to bore you with talk about their boyfriend, their family or whatever, do not get on the hook.
Everything on your terms or no reply.
Do not think this makes you a preferred customer, a potential boyfriend or her knight in shining armour.

She provides freebies, then you can take her more seriously. But not that seriously. She’s a sex worker.

[Itsnotimportant]

No, not at all.
But it’s to your advantage, not hers.
If you like her, ask her to reserve the specific time you want. Or where she’s working on wednesday etc.

They may attempt to engage in pleasantries or even up selling. Ignore that. Business.
If they are looking for visas, a private arrangement or just want to bore you with talk about their boyfriend, their family or whatever, do not get on the hook.
Everything on your terms or no reply.
Do not think this makes you a preferred customer, a potential boyfriend or her knight in shining armour.

She provides freebies, then you can take her more seriously. But not that seriously. She’s a sex worker.

Thats better advice.

I have already played the role of the knight in shinny armour a few times (not with any ML however) - and most certainly are not in any hurry to ever do it again.

My main reason for asking the question in the first place is, I don't want to have to continually put up with the BS i had on thursday - if thats the normal result.

These girls certainly do have their prefferd clients - even in my short time i have had an experience of walking into a shop at the same time as a guy who was possibly 15 years older and 40kg heavier than me, and then wathching a rather tense verbal arguement between two ML's about who will see who. (The bigger older guy just got up and walked out in the end). Of course the trick is to work out if you are a preffered client and how to best use it to your advantage.

[RLC]

My advice is to rotate through a few different chains/shops so that you are more that occasional friendly acquaintance vs regular friends. Generally, if they want my number I just offer my WeChat so I can then ignore messages and choose to reply at my convenience with the good old I never check it much line but best way to contact me.

There is an irony on many levels that these women who, assuming they work a whole year, have sex with say 500 different guys yet expect monogamy from you a paying customer.