Barebacking/BBFS

[levarfarmer]

I'm curious what everyone's appeal to bare backing is?

Is it the appeal that someone is risking it all with you? And hence the emotional/exclusive feeling (especially with a sex worker whom is more reserved?)

Is it the feeling downstairs? And if so what is most important to you? The sensations of texture, the wetness?

Anyone tried it before? And how to go back to Doms after you have a BB session with a worker?

[it ain't me]

I'm curious what everyone's appeal to bare backing is?

Is it the appeal that someone is risking it all with you? And hence the emotional/exclusive feeling (especially with a sex worker whom is more reserved?)

Is it the feeling downstairs? And if so what is most important to you? The sensations of texture, the wetness?

Anyone tried it before? And how to go back to Doms after you have a BB session with a worker?
It's quite common, you could say a natural progression with a reg. Try getting a dinner date or bbfs and c which one u get first.

[harry444]

The appeal is the natural animal instinct to procreate. Which produces pleasure and satisfaction from a job well done. Which, of course, can not happen with a condom.

[Milokerrigan]

Would you rather touch a woman with your bare hands or with gloves on.

[Bento]

It's quite common, you could say a natural progression with a reg. Try getting a dinner date or bbfs and c which one u get first.

Very interesting, natural progression, how quickly does the progression generally happen? And do people partake regularly?

Is this something every punter tries at least once? How many people are able to resist the urge and halt the action and ask for the dom?

Also, a completely different question, how come f/s with a Dom on feels so good at a massage place, almost indistinguishable to raw at home with the missus. But when i put the dom on at home, I feel almost nothing and struggle to cum?

[edireva]

I've tried it before with one of the Japanese escorts in CBD. It was someone I saw twice before and had good chemistry. Didn't have anything to do with trust in thinking she was clean or anything like that, they always offer it with their extras on first visit. It was a desire for it to feel as "real" as it could be.

Haven't done it since, because with the money spent it's basically spending a whole extra punt on one girl just to not use a condom. I can't speak for all men but the risk of STD and the extra cost is enough to stop me. I didn't get anything from that one time I did it so thankfully no regrets.

Also, yeah condoms may be different or thinner but it's a completely different environment, different girl, different personality, there's curiosity and mystery with a stranger. Just everything is novel and different. Maybe even the "taboo" behind what you're doing is a turn on.

[toga]

Also, a completely different question, how come f/s with a Dom on feels so good at a massage place, almost indistinguishable to raw at home with the missus. But when i put the dom on at home, I feel almost nothing and struggle to cum?

I agree. I feel no difference fucking your wife raw at your home either. Lol.


You left yourself wide open for that one.

[Bingle37]

One of the best moments in my punting life happened when we start dom on and ML pulls it off herself a few minute later ! We end up CIP . It’s happened three times . Life is good in moments like these .

[blake_ly]

do not recommend given how rampant fs is avail atm; speaking from personal experience years ago when FS wasn't as readily avail and a treatment of ceftriaxone.

[thunder545454]

It's one of those things, you say you won't do it if offered, but find yourself immediately agreeing when it is offered, immediately regret it after vowing to never do it again, but find yourself booking the same girl again soon after know full well it's going to happen again.

Why because we are stupid and it feels really really good to dump a hot load into a 23 year old tight little japanese girl.

It's definitely a risk and you will eventually get stung with something, if you do it often, if married or have a serious girlfriend it's not the play, because once you get stung you won't find notice it will well after you have already given it to her, then your fucked.

[FredWard63]

I can understand the attraction to bbfs. But you all need to know that there is an increasing risk of infection in Brisbane. Recent trend data shows that when corrected for location and testing frequency, incidence of some STIs is on the increase in Brisbane. This is particularly the case for Gonorrhea and Chlamydia. Syphilis is also starting to leak into the general Brisbane population and frequency is on an upward trend. So, if you do partake and don't get tested regularly, then you are an idiot. What's more, you are part of the problem. The reason is that most infections show no symptoms at all. So if you are doing bbfs then you can be a source of infection for the next ML not to mention partners. So get tested.

[newbiejones]

Yes get tested. No doctor visit needed. Can complete the below and go to QML or similar to supply a sample.

https://www.qld.gov.au/health/staying-healthy/sexual-health/chlamydia-test

[FredWard63]

Yes get tested. No doctor visit needed. Can complete the below and go to QML or similar to supply a sample.

https://www.qld.gov.au/health/staying-healthy/sexual-health/chlamydia-test

And it's free, anonymous and no medicare card needed. There are also multiple threads that give further, more comprehensive, testing information.

[it ain't me]

Yes,it's a tricky situation but the fact of the matter is it's not going to go away. Girls willingly do it with reg customers because they can make as much in an hr session doing that as they can doing 2 or 3 standard sessions. Prob no need to do massage, 30 min of action and then a nice rest and chat with your bestie customer and if your lucky a bj in the shower just to show how much she loves you. I can think of 8 shops off the top of my head where i have been offered. Prices ranged from $200 to 1k but that was for overnight.

[SGBAnnerley]

I think it is because it obviously feels good, it's more "sensual" also tbh.

Some men don't care about the risks, I suspect it's because of advanced medical services/technology in places like Brisbane, or a perception of that. The fact is that most STD s can be treated fairly easily here. It is more problematic for men who have a long term GF or a wife though, you are risking more in that case.

There is risk in all sort of activities. Plenty of people still picking up in bars/clubs etc, doing ONS without protection, with strangers, or people they really don't know well. I don't see how that is any different.

[Bento]

It's one of those things, you say you won't do it if offered, but find yourself immediately agreeing when it is offered, immediately regret it after vowing to never do it again, but find yourself booking the same girl again soon after know full well it's going to happen again.

Why because we are stupid and it feels really really good to dump a hot load into a 23 year old tight little japanese girl.

It's definitely a risk and you will eventually get stung with something, if you do it often, if married or have a serious girlfriend it's not the play, because once you get stung you won't find notice it will well after you have already given it to her, then your fucked.

How do you know they are 23 or not lol, I can barely judge early 20s vs early 30s, especially if they have make up

[Sleeeper]

As an asian, we can slightly guess how old they are. Depends on your background.

[Shagspear]

People don’t understand, there is such thing as HIV/AIDS; it is not something that strong doses of antibiotics can fix….. every time you do BBFS you are playing Russian roulette with HIV.

[thunder545454]

How do you know they are 23 or not lol, I can barely judge early 20s vs early 30s, especially if they have make up

Well she said 19, I added a few years by my own estimation, mutton dressed up as lamb you can tell by their skin on their neck its a give away.

Other things obviously their vag tightness is a strong indicator of youth as are tits are they young and perky or not so perky, if they are young usually don't have money or need for fake tits yet, sporting a pair of nice fake tits is an indicator of age, so perky undoctored tits good sign, unless you see their passport though it's all guess work, but when all the boxes tick you know their young or not.

[Shiney15]

BBFs afterwards I hear voice in head are you effin crazy at end of day shoot in sock and stay safe is my motto unfortunately I have slipped up a few times but heyho

[Dr Grafton Everest]

IMO, amd experience, vag tightness isn't a strong indicator of youth...

[carloss]

People don’t understand, there is such thing as HIV/AIDS; it is not something that strong doses of antibiotics can fix….. every time you do BBFS you are playing Russian roulette with HIV.

Yep, while rates in Australia are quite low, they're obviously much higher in SWs. Thailand is by far the worst country people should be worried about - over 1% of the population has it.

Dom up idiots.