Ethnicity and sex - first time - would you have made a dif choice?

[Marlin212]

Have been following a few ethnicities in the sex industry, and I have moved between a few in terms of pref over the years.
I was very young, when I got pulled into a punt situ when I was in India for work. Very unregulated, very crass, and to an extent filthy. Walking past a bunch of cheap hotels trying to change between a train and a bus ride, I was beckoned by a middle aged guy who showed how a finger enters a hole made by the thumb and index finger.. and then..
Guess was enough to attract me with 2 hrs to go for the bus.
Took the punt, cost me a few cents to see the lineup, and selected a fit looking lady.. managed to have a conversation with her after sex.. not much until then, except for sign language - not the structured one - and got to learn why she has a tattoo on her forearm.
Not many years ago, most kids from some parts of rural India would have their name carved in tattoo form on their forearms, just in case they were lost in crowds. At least the finder knew the name lol..
Anyways, next one was at KL in the night club next to the Crown Hotel in KL CBD, was surprised that the girl was actually Vietnamese and actually 32 yr old.. end of session she asked me how old do you think I am, and I said 26, she said I am 33 and have one baby in Viet.
Shocked, I learnt from the exp..
Did many Asians in KL, stories another day.
Sorry, can't be bothered to edit, my second was actually in The York at Dubai.. Uzbek girl, negotiated price with her mother (real, trust me) and great sex all the way once finances were settled.
I am now to an extent inclined to the Indian ethnicity due to the first exp possibly, but have been thru a long phase of Cauc - esp Scot / Irish lineage for some time.
Throw your stories in.😜

[OrangeSoda]

I did it in thailand as you do. On a wooden floor with some cushions on the ground and seperated from the hallway with just a curtain. I seem to like places like that now with the curtains walls and what not. Always wondered what it would be like in europe with cauc girls. They are always at a premium here in australia that ill never justify

[11Bravo]

First never an influence on subsequent.

York: CITYS. Add 'Snake. Not the first time, but Great times.

KL: BC (RIP).

[Marlin212]

First never an influence on subsequent.

York: CITYS. Add 'Snake. Not the first time, but Great times.

KL: BC (RIP).

Ok.. what's CITYS? is that the place in Bur Dubai down the street from Choitrams?
Loads of Black girls there, many for free..
I fingered a girl there for a good 5 mins, saying I am checking if she is wet enough. She was, but I picked an Uzbek instead.
She took me to her dorm, which had cardboard separations between """"rooms""". We were screaming away and girls next screen at 3 am were babbling in early morning nonsense to stop the din and noise of orgasms.
Days.. rather nights.. don't know which it is..
EDIT: end of session the girl told me she was a gymnast, and that's why she could wiggle into the dorm space to pull her legs all the way above her head while I did her ttttightttttt pussy.

[11Bravo]

Ok.. what's CITYS? is that the place in Bur Dubai down the street from Choitrams?
Ah, no. Standard reply to those asking where to go. IYKYK (old-timer DXB residents).


Loads of Black girls there, many for free..I fingered a girl there for a good 5 mins, saying I am checking if she is wet enough. She was, but I picked an Uzbek instead.
Must say, typical Indian behavior. Why York charged an entrance fee for non-members (of western countries) to reduce the fondle for free types, the dog packs. It's why providers leaving afternoon's TGIT had to be escorted past the gauntlet of smirking head-bobbers by civic minded civilians. It's why many providers wouldn't go with TCN's, "no money, no respect, entitled, not safe". Just sayin'

[Marlin212]

Ah, no. Standard reply to those asking where to go. IYKYK (old-timer DXB residents).


Must say, typical Indian behavior. Why York charged an entrance fee for non-members (of western countries) to reduce the fondle for free types, the dog packs. It's why providers leaving afternoon's TGIT had to be escorted past the gauntlet of smirking head-bobbers by civic minded civilians. It's why many providers wouldn't go with TCN's, "no money, no respect, entitled, not safe". Just sayin'

Ha ha. Those were the early days for me. BTW, not Indian, just lustful. The black girl had approached me on her own, and started the conversation with how horny she was.. and so it went from there. The Uzbek girl earned 120 dirham for the romp, but she had her reg taxi guy and I got the taxi ride back to Savoy for free.

[11Bravo]

Ha ha. Those were the early days for me. BTW, not Indian, just lustful. The black girl had approached me on her own, and started the conversation with how horny she was.. and so it went from there. The Uzbek girl earned 120 dirham for the romp, but she had her reg taxi guy and I got the taxi ride back to Savoy for free.

Didn't say you were Indian. Perhaps, like a little duckling, you imprinted on the first sex worker experience, Indian. Likewise, maybe you also imprinted on the entitled attitude prevalent in that clime.:cool2:

"The black girl had approached me on her own, and started the conversation with how horny she was.. Yea, it's called marketing. If I wasn't interested, I cut them off short. When a provider (most likely African) would grab me in a club, I'd simply tell her, "I don't touch you, don't touch me! It's disrespectful." (Plus a good way to deter pickpockets). If I wasn't interested in the current marketer, I'd simply tell her "No thank you", and she'd move on. If that was insufficient, I'd just say that she would be "just losing time". Most would depart. If not, then it was the nuke option, calling over a waitress, saying this girl is bothering me (bar ejection). Harsh? No. It's like an airport, if a plane's parked at the gate, no other planes can land. A girl impinging on another, that's how trouble starts, she just won't. So have to clear the gate. I don't waste their time, I don't want them wasting mine. I'm a professional, so are they; mutual respect. You don't want to be known as a "Lookie-Lou".

Internationally, we're less tolerant of those who ask questions without RTFF (most recent 20 PAGES of a thread common advice). Many feel it's disrespectful to those who take the time, make the effort, to write and post FR's. The "I don't have the time to read", yea, BUT, bet you have time to take the punt. The "I just want an answer", OK, but nobody's paid staff, and many questions have already been answered; it's self-serve, THEN ask. Too many "Where to go?", "I need contacts".

CITYS - isolated here, but on a DXB thread, for those who'd done the reading, the mnemonic would be clear:
Cyclone
Imperial Suites
TGIT - Astoria Hotel
York
Seaview

Plus the ole (Rattle)'Snake at the Metropolitan.

Those were the days...

[Happy13]

I’m stuffed if I can remember my 1st time. Must have been good! Anyway, it’s definitely not had any influence on me moving forward.

[Marlin212]

Didn't say you were Indian. Perhaps, like a little duckling, you imprinted on the first sex worker experience, Indian. Likewise, maybe you also imprinted on the entitled attitude prevalent in that clime.:cool2:

"The black girl had approached me on her own, and started the conversation with how horny she was.. Yea, it's called marketing. If I wasn't interested, I cut them off short. When a provider (most likely African) would grab me in a club, I'd simply tell her, "I don't touch you, don't touch me! It's disrespectful." (Plus a good way to deter pickpockets). If I wasn't interested in the current marketer, I'd simply tell her "No thank you", and she'd move on. If that was insufficient, I'd just say that she would be "just losing time". Most would depart. If not, then it was the nuke option, calling over a waitress, saying this girl is bothering me (bar ejection). Harsh? No. It's like an airport, if a plane's parked at the gate, no other planes can land. A girl impinging on another, that's how trouble starts, she just won't. So have to clear the gate. I don't waste their time, I don't want them wasting mine. I'm a professional, so are they; mutual respect. You don't want to be known as a "Lookie-Lou".

Internationally, we're less tolerant of those who ask questions without RTFF (most recent 20 PAGES of a thread common advice). Many feel it's disrespectful to those who take the time, make the effort, to write and post FR's. The "I don't have the time to read", yea, BUT, bet you have time to take the punt. The "I just want an answer", OK, but nobody's paid staff, and many questions have already been answered; it's self-serve, THEN ask. Too many "Where to go?", "I need contacts".

CITYS - isolated here, but on a DXB thread, for those who'd done the reading, the mnemonic would be clear:
Cyclone
Imperial Suites
TGIT - Astoria Hotel
York
Seaview

Plus the ole (Rattle)'Snake at the Metropolitan.

Those were the days...
Yes. Now you remind me Imperial it was..
And yes, I did actually go there with the intention of just being a lookie lou, and ended up giving in to the temptation. 🤣

[11Bravo]

Yes. Now you remind me Imperial it was..
And yes, I did actually go there with the intention of just being a lookie lou, and ended up giving in to the temptation. ��

Cyclone had the best quality and the best selection (with prices to match) - legend - even got a line in a major movie, Syriana (hey George Clooney and Matt Damon). When I saw that movie in the theatre, heard the line, busted out laughing (totally inappropriate).

Seaview had the best combo: BEST band (Cherie on bass or guitar, Sweet Child of Mine), decent food, nice selection of entertainment. Everything you could want.

A few ex-DXB'ers around will remember.

[Marlin212]

Cyclone had the best quality and the best selection (with prices to match) - legend - even got a line in a major movie, Syriana (hey George Clooney and Matt Damon). When I saw that movie in the theatre, heard the line, busted out laughing (totally inappropriate).

Seaview had the best combo: BEST band (Cherie on bass or guitar, Sweet Child of Mine), decent food, nice selection of entertainment. Everything you could want.

A few ex-DXB'ers around will remember.

Haha, just checked, Cyclone apparently closed down in 2007. My first trip to DXB was 2010. 5 trips followed, and a few punts. Was very keen on doing an Arab, was told off by my local mate there.

[11Bravo]

Haha, just checked, Cyclone apparently closed down in 2007. My first trip to DXB was 2010. 5 trips followed, and a few punts. Was very keen on doing an Arab, was told off by my local mate there.

Yes, a sad day indeed. Punting flags were lowered to half-staff for a week out of respect. Many punters wore sackcloth and ash, there was a lot of gnashing of teeth, rending of cloth.:cry::cry2:

Truly LEGENDARY... Never matched. 'Snake picked up some slack, but DXB was never the same. Another lesson on the importance of collecting contacts.

From my understanding, the scene and methodology has really changed post Covid.