Budget

[5700]

Fellow punters, I’d like to know what everyone’s budget is for this expensive sport. Personally I can only afford once every 3-4 weeks. I don’t know how some of you can go multiple times a week. If you find a regular will they drop their rate so you can come back more frequently?

[Iloveit67]

Fellow punters, I’d like to know what everyone’s budget is for this expensive sport. Personally I can only afford once every 3-4 weeks. I don’t know how some of you can go multiple times a week. If you find a regular will they drop their rate so you can come back more frequently?

At my peak of punting I was making 1K/day so 3 x a week @ $300 was pretty easy. Age has slowed me down these days.

[RonanJazzHands]

Bit of a loaded question - everyone’s different , almost like asking how long is a piece of string. Some might only blow small portion of their pay while others prob the whole thing. Some like to visit often while for me it’s just to scratch that itch on occasion. Saying that, personally I try not to spend over $300 per visit. However have gone as high as $400 for some, but always seem to get buyers remorse after so I try not to over indulge.

[Puntersclub]

Interestedly, the price rise ( for me ) is largely due to the increase in services available. It wasn’t that long ago that NHJ was top of the pops, so $100 in today’s money. (Plus house fee), so a weekly visit was in the budget. Now the menu has more options with FS running to $250 (average) so 150% increase. Personally, I like to eat from the more expensive part of the menu and go less often.

[flamejob]

Back in the day, my average punting investment was about $1k a week. Most I spent in a week was around $2k between shops and privates. Not all regulars gave discounts, but there were some who did. More often though, I'd get a bit of a bonus like BBBJ, rimming, anal, for no extra charge. There were a few over the years who I started seeing regularly outside of the shops so I wasn't paying cash for those, although dating comes with it's own costs - not always financial. I still go out with one of my old MLs who's since retired, and we still have a lot of fun. In terms of punting I couldn't be fucked a lot of the time these days, only indulging 2 or 3 times a month.

[Iloveit67]

Back in the day, my average punting investment was about $1k a week. Most I spent in a week was around $2k between shops and privates. Not all regulars gave discounts, but there were some who did. More often though, I'd get a bit of a bonus like BBBJ, rimming, anal, for no extra charge. There were a few over the years who I started seeing regularly outside of the shops so I wasn't paying cash for those, although dating comes with it's own costs - not always financial. I still go out with one of my old MLs who's since retired, and we still have a lot of fun. In terms of punting I couldn't be fucked a lot of the time these days, only indulging 2 or 3 times a month.

Ahhhh, a man after my own heart. I shared the same experiences as you flamejob. I loved the ones who gave there all and who wanted that extra as I sort. Over the years I realised they were chasing the same thing I was, a genuine passion. Seems they are just as messed up mentally as us punters.
I had 3 long term relationships. The first was an African woman from Sierra Leone. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever met unfortunately the war in her country finally took its toll on her mental health and she ended up in permanent care. The second was a Greek woman, probably the most sane woman I ever met. Lasted 12 months. She ended the relationship due to her daughter. The last is a thai woman. That was fantastic and lasted 7 years. Unfortunately she wanted variety, and I didn’t.
I never punted during the times I was in a relationship. I guess I had what I wanted.
I old now and honestly, I’m starting to not really give a fuck about much.
In case anyone else is wondering, obviously I have some mental issues and I contribute that to my military life.
Everyone punting has mental issues, whether you want to admit it or not.
Happy punting fellas.

[flamejob]

Hey Iloveit67, that's pretty intense. My ML relationships were fairly chilled, not too much drama. For me, I never quite learned to not punt regardless of the relationship/s that I was in at the time. I guess there's the addiction to variety no matter how good the relationship is.

[Deadman]

I normally budget around $250 plus the room fee each visit. Might chuck in an extra $50 here and there if it’s a good one.

[Iloveit67]

Hey Iloveit67, that's pretty intense. My ML relationships were fairly chilled, not too much drama. For me, I never quite learned to not punt regardless of the relationship/s that I was in at the time. I guess there's the addiction to variety no matter how good the relationship is.

My punting was trying to fill a void. I had 2 shit marriages. I’m not sure if other can relate but in both marriages that tap was turned off on the wedding night and the two didn’t know each other but they both did the same thing. They turned the tap off, on the wedding night. All I could think was “what the fuck”. Generally they were passionless relationships and as most guys can relate that’s what we’re after isn’t it? So naturally when I found that passion then I stopped, unconsciously, punting.

[fommy]

I always have about 400 plus shop fee. Sometimes a reg will be ready to go the extra step and i like to be prepared.

[5700]

Thanks guys,

Some pretty big numbers you guys are putting out there, you guys must be the business men of the economy.

[Iloveit67]

Thanks guys,

Some pretty big numbers you guys are putting out there, you guys must be the business men of the economy.

I think we’re just pissing all our cash up against the wall. Or more appropriately blowing our cash off in a wet spot.
It’s depression, man. Some might call something else but let’s be real if we weren’t depressed we wouldn’t be doing this shit if we had relationships that were working these women would be out of work. We’re all in the situation because of fucking shit relationships.

[Lothario1]

I think we’re just pissing all our cash up against the wall. Or more appropriately blowing our cash off in a wet spot.
It’s depression, man. Some might call something else but let’s be real if we weren’t depressed we wouldn’t be doing this shit if we had relationships that were working these women would be out of work. We’re all in the situation because of fucking shit relationships.Sorry to hear of your situation, but it ain't mine, nor every guy. Boys just wanna have fun.

[5700]

For me it’s settling down with the wife too early and not getting the curiosity of different kinds of women out of my system.

I’ll punt for a little while longer but my curiosity is almost satisfied.

I will say that my confidence has gone up since punting. I should have done this when I was 18, but with what money.

[flamejob]

Thanks guys,

Some pretty big numbers you guys are putting out there, you guys must be the business men of the economy.

Well I did have several businesses. Most of them failed. I wonder why! :rolleyes: The businesses provided opportunities for travel and let's say ... "networking" ... and of course, entertainment.

[blake_ly]

TBH, if you're not in a middle to upper income bracket (minimum) you probably shouldn't be punting regularly.

[nambour]

I think we’re just pissing all our cash up against the wall. Or more appropriately blowing our cash off in a wet spot.
It’s depression, man. Some might call something else but let’s be real if we weren’t depressed we wouldn’t be doing this shit if we had relationships that were working these women would be out of work. We’re all in the situation because of fucking shit relationships.

I don’t think anyone in a permanent relationship that remains loyal is sexually fulfilled. It’s unnatural for man to stick to one woman.

[Iloveit67]

I don’t think anyone in a permanent relationship that remains loyal is sexually fulfilled. It’s unnatural for man to stick to one woman.

Not the case for me. When I have been in a sexually fulfilling relationship I was loyal without even trying. It came naturally.
I know everyone’s different and I respect that.

[bucketsandchains]

Ahhhh, a man after my own heart. I shared the same experiences as you flamejob. I loved the ones who gave there all and who wanted that extra as I sort. Over the years I realised they were chasing the same thing I was, a genuine passion. Seems they are just as messed up mentally as us punters.
I had 3 long term relationships. The first was an African woman from Sierra Leone. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever met unfortunately the war in her country finally took its toll on her mental health and she ended up in permanent care. The second was a Greek woman, probably the most sane woman I ever met. Lasted 12 months. She ended the relationship due to her daughter. The last is a thai woman. That was fantastic and lasted 7 years. Unfortunately she wanted variety, and I didn’t.
I never punted during the times I was in a relationship. I guess I had what I wanted.
I old now and honestly, I’m starting to not really give a fuck about much.
In case anyone else is wondering, obviously I have some mental issues and I contribute that to my military life.
Everyone punting has mental issues, whether you want to admit it or not.
Happy punting fellas.

Thankyou for your service.