Need Advice

[stongdick]

Hey bros, a brother is in need of support, recently has been dating a WL but stopped seeing her (she is a very popular WL) could say I caught feelings...happy to share details pm me just wanted to know if anyone else has similar experiences.

[Ron the rimmer]

Hey bros, a brother is in need of support, recently has been dating a WL but stopped seeing her (she is a very popular WL) could say I caught feelings...happy to share details pm me just wanted to know if anyone else has similar experiences.

No never . Why would anyone date a hooker? Popular or not

[PJD]

Nothing wrong with feelings as long as you aren't jealous, feelings are mutual, you don't want her to stop working and everyone understands it'll end eventually if they're not local.

Things get bad otherwise and cutting it off is best. But if the above is true, enjoy, life is too short to not have a good time because you're afraid of a little pain down the line. Easiest way to think about it is you're in a poly/open relationship but they have way more physical, if not emotional, partners than you do.

[stongdick]

Wasn’t my intention started off as a fun kinda thing

[DevilJin]

Bro that sucks that happened to you but remind your self she's a WL a the end of the day its money they want the most not your feelings or emotions, I try to always be respectful but they are WLs damage is already been done they been fucked more times than you can count let her go bro.

[H2O]

Hey bros, a brother is in need of support, recently has been dating a WL but stopped seeing her (she is a very popular WL) could say I caught feelings...happy to share details pm me just wanted to know if anyone else has similar experiences.

Must be one of the Ginza girls. Stop doing DFK bro, that can be a danger zone/sucking your soul.

[phamily]

Catching the dreaded feels!

It’s a tricky situation and depends a whole heap on the circumstances between the 2 people involved imo

Unable to share any personal experiences here but have found myself in this situation with ML’s in past

Although one could argue that ML and WL are SWers at the end of the day, i do feel there are subtle nuances that differentiate the 2

[Thrillseeker69]

Take care brother. Long road of pain ahead :(

[Hedonisticfun]

Funny timing .. heading that way myself . Very popular WL is considering retiring and has developed strong feelings for me . Considering giving up punting as well as we definitely click , sexually and socially .Couldn*t care less if she wants to treat me as a ATM but I*m bit smarter than that and hasn*t shown any attempts at doing that . As far as WLs in the industry and basic women , no difference , all comes down to ethics and character . For all the naysayers , bit rich putting down WLs while on this punting website .. oh the hypocrisy

[GoldfishMan]

Nothing wrong with feelings as long as you aren't jealous, feelings are mutual, you don't want her to stop working and everyone understands it'll end eventually if they're not local.

Things get bad otherwise and cutting it off is best. But if the above is true, enjoy, life is too short to not have a good time because you're afraid of a little pain down the line. Easiest way to think about it is you're in a poly/open relationship but they have way more physical, if not emotional, partners than you do.

I agree. In itself, there's nothing wrong with having a relationship with a WL. It becomes a problem if the guy is the "needy" type.

Does he normally struggle to hookup with non-WLs, so he's almost hanging on to this one relationship that he's got with the WL for dear life? Without the WL, he's back to single guy for life?

He's in way over his head if he's this type. It's a lose-lose situation!

[11Bravo]

As far as WLs in the industry and basic women , no difference , all comes down to ethics and character . For all the naysayers , bit rich putting down WLs while on this punting website .. oh the hypocrisy
Some of the nicest people I've met have been providers. The job doesn't define the person; character does. Seems there are some that have to denigrate the providers to make themselves feel superior. Of course, that attitude is reflected in the providers' view of them.

[11Bravo]

Hey bros, a brother is in need of support, recently has been dating a WL but stopped seeing her (she is a very popular WL) could say I caught feelings...happy to share details pm me just wanted to know if anyone else has similar experiences.So you're human, had feelings for another person (job immaterial). In ANY breakup, I've found it helps to write down all your feelings. Not for anyone else, but just to get a handle on them. You keep the pages yourself. Write as much and as often as required. Eventually the need to write dissipates. The writings are strictly for you, they're NOT to be sent to anyone. Life moves on, and so will you. You can trash the pages later, keep them to smile at decades later, or leave them for your biographer.

[face_diver]

Some of the nicest people I've met have been providers. The job doesn't define the person; character does. Seems there are some that have to denigrate the providers to make themselves feel superior. Of course, that attitude is reflected in the providers' view of them.

Totally agree.
So many self righteous cunts on here and in general.

[Double_Adapter]

Catching the feels for a chick with make-up, who wears sexy lingerie, who you know fuck all about, who you can barely communicate with without using google translator, and who you only see for one hour a week with maybe 5–10 minutes of actual action is fucking easy! Plenty of cunts can do that with their eyes closed.

Now try living with the chick 24/7.

See her first thing in the morning without makeup, no lingerie, hair all messed up, experience her early morning farts and dragon breath. Survive her rag cycles, hormonal mood swings, random arguments over fuck all, and the 24/7 barrage of DMs from the needy, clingy, thirsty, and desperate cunts trying to romance and date her.

Then deal with her frivolous spending, the bills, the mortgage, the arguments, the family drama and relatives back home, and the sick buffalo that needs tending etc

Go ahead and be romantic and amorous with her......especially after she's slogged through a 12–16 hour shift, spent the whole day sucking cocks, rimming and getting rimmed, being groped, kissed, daty'd, slapped, fingered, pearl necklaced, and pounded by a bunch of old bald fat ugly blokes, including getting rag dolled by a self entitled Indian punter.

......Still got the feels?

Note: it works both ways and the reverse is just as true from a chicks PoV.

[stongdick]

Everyone has some points thank you guys

[Sinkie]

Reveal her name. I’ll visit her and write a dirty hot AR about her. If you still have feelings after, then the relationship may work and you should pursue

[totallynotsusofc]

Funny timing .. heading that way myself . Very popular WL is considering retiring and has developed strong feelings for me . Considering giving up punting as well as we definitely click , sexually and socially .Couldn*t care less if she wants to treat me as a ATM but I*m bit smarter than that and hasn*t shown any attempts at doing that . As far as WLs in the industry and basic women , no difference , all comes down to ethics and character . For all the naysayers , bit rich putting down WLs while on this punting website .. oh the hypocrisy

I hope it's not one of my go to WL, regardless hope it works out in the best for all parties.

[Saltorious69]

Hey bros, a brother is in need of support, recently has been dating a WL but stopped seeing her (she is a very popular WL) could say I caught feelings...happy to share details pm me just wanted to know if anyone else has similar experiences.

Been there done that. Got out with self discipline in the end .. not worth the trouble after self reflection. Small chance of working out well, but my calculation at the time was winning the lottery had a higher chance. I can still read ARs on the forum about this WL, and good for her as she is good and popular for a reason. It confirms to me that it was just all in my head. Miss the sex and I haven’t found a WL who could completely replace her yet on this front, but I would make the same decision again and again re walking away. Good luck bro.

[Hemingford Gray]

Catching the feels for a chick with make-up, who wears sexy lingerie, who you know fuck all about, who you can barely communicate with without using google translator, and who you only see for one hour a week with maybe 5–10 minutes of actual action is fucking easy! Plenty of cunts can do that with their eyes closed.

Now try living with the chick 24/7.

See her first thing in the morning without makeup, no lingerie, hair all messed up, experience her early morning farts and dragon breath. Survive her rag cycles, hormonal mood swings, random arguments over fuck all, and the 24/7 barrage of DMs from the needy, clingy, thirsty, and desperate cunts trying to romance and date her.

Then deal with her frivolous spending, the bills, the mortgage, the arguments, the family drama and relatives back home, and the sick buffalo that needs tending etc

Go ahead and be romantic and amorous with her......especially after she's slogged through a 12–16 hour shift, spent the whole day sucking cocks, rimming and getting rimmed, being groped, kissed, daty'd, slapped, fingered, pearl necklaced, and pounded by a bunch of old bald fat ugly blokes, including getting rag dolled by a self entitled Indian punter.

......Still got the feels?

Note: it works both ways and the reverse is just as true from a chicks PoV.

This man speaks truths like fists. Bravo.

[phamily]

Catching the feels for a chick with make-up, who wears sexy lingerie, who you know fuck all about, who you can barely communicate with without using google translator, and who you only see for one hour a week with maybe 5–10 minutes of actual action is fucking easy! Plenty of cunts can do that with their eyes closed.

Now try living with the chick 24/7.

See her first thing in the morning without makeup, no lingerie, hair all messed up, experience her early morning farts and dragon breath. Survive her rag cycles, hormonal mood swings, random arguments over fuck all, and the 24/7 barrage of DMs from the needy, clingy, thirsty, and desperate cunts trying to romance and date her.

Then deal with her frivolous spending, the bills, the mortgage, the arguments, the family drama and relatives back home, and the sick buffalo that needs tending etc

Go ahead and be romantic and amorous with her......especially after she's slogged through a 12–16 hour shift, spent the whole day sucking cocks, rimming and getting rimmed, being groped, kissed, daty'd, slapped, fingered, pearl necklaced, and pounded by a bunch of old bald fat ugly blokes, including getting rag dolled by a self entitled Indian punter.

......Still got the feels?

Note: it works both ways and the reverse is just as true from a chicks PoV.

Now that’s a dose of reality right there

If the gal was a ML, wouldn’t it be different though?

Oh, and you are so right when you say the reverse is just as true. I’ve come across someone ML’s that have a great ability to compartmentalise and remain detached. Split personality of sorts.

They’d be super into it inside the shop because they have adopted a different persona but outside the 4 walls, they are their true selves and just live life normally (and frugally too despite their high earning potential)

[HUMPDAY]

not worth it mate.

not unless you can take her away from that life. I mean no judgement from me at all, you fall for who you fall for and the world be damned but if she stays in the industry its going to mess you AND her up.

[stongdick]

a lot of help and good advices thanks boys

[Shimada]

That’s rough bro you in a tough positions was in a similar position before even got together for a couple of months in the end didn’t end well.