Hit a Wall for Punting

[Newbieguy2025]

Been going pretty heavy for a little over a year now, usually around 2 to 3 times a week. the only real break i took was a couple of months off after catching something from a bbbj (stupid mistake, sorted it out, but yeah).

Latetely though, it’s just got so stale. the buzz is completely gone and every visit feels identical. it honestly just feels like an expensive routine at this point rather than something i actually look forward to.

what really hurts is looking at the money. i sat down and thought about what i’ve dropped over the last 12 months and it’s honestly sickening and i easily could’ve funded a massive trip overseas with that cash.

Anyone else hit this point after a year or two? does taking a long break actually bring the fun back, or is the novelty just dead for good once it gets like this? lowkey wondering if i should just pack it in and book a flight.

[Hedonisticfun]

Been going pretty heavy for a little over a year now, usually around 2 to 3 times a week. the only real break i took was a couple of months off after catching something from a bbbj (stupid mistake, sorted it out, but yeah).

Latetely though, it’s just got so stale. the buzz is completely gone and every visit feels identical. it honestly just feels like an expensive routine at this point rather than something i actually look forward to.

what really hurts is looking at the money. i sat down and thought about what i’ve dropped over the last 12 months and it’s honestly sickening and i easily could’ve funded a massive trip overseas with that cash.

Anyone else hit this point after a year or two? does taking a long break actually bring the fun back, or is the novelty just dead for good once it gets like this? lowkey wondering if i should just pack it in and book a flight.

Yes Newbie , had the same stale feeling but got it back after about a fortnight of no punting and stuck with various preforming regulars than hit and miss (more miss) new tryouts.

As to finances have gone over the $100k mark this year alone , not including hotels for callouts but as stated before at my age (late 60s) just part of my lifestyle now . Like gambling , don't punt if you can't afford it .

Take that holiday , come back refreshed and punt occasionally

[HiredGoon]

sex in itself is cuckoldry unless it's with someone your intend to be with for the rest of your life and you have sex for procreation..

Jesus Christ dude, read a dictionary!

[Hedonisticfun]

I've said this before and I'll it here. Paying for sex is cuckoldry and sex in itself is cuckoldry unless it's with someone your intend to be with for the rest of your life and you have sex for procreation. Seeing prostitutes fulfils none of those criterias. Glad to see a fellow brother waking up.

Also, make sure to report it to the manager that you caught an STI from someone working there.

Huh ?!?! Nothing wrong with paying for sex if that's all you want without the chase , lip service , and a long term relationship which may or may not work with predicable boring sex let alone ending up divorced with even less opportunity to satisfy yourself

Be very careful reporting where you PRESUME you got an STI especially if you're a frequent punter , allegations unfounded or presumed do nobody any good

[noshirts]

I've said this before and I'll it here. Paying for sex is cuckoldry and sex in itself is cuckoldry unless it's with someone you intend to be with for the rest of your life and you have sex for procreation. Seeing prostitutes fulfils none of those criterias. Glad to see a fellow brother waking up.

Sex is a biological drive. Satisfying it is a choice for people to make. Some people eat expensive food and some people eat inexpensive food. The same goes for cars, holidays, clothes, and every other consumer choice. Everyone can make their own choices how they spend their money and which urges they satisfy, as long as it is legal.

This is an unusual choice of forum for you to express judgemental views like you just did.

[CharlieM]

I know how you feel Newbie. Today Saturday, my usual routine. Just finished work and scrolling through the rosters. Have a few hours to spare as the wife won't get home till later. Like yourself, its a bit like going through the motions and when my regulars aren't working, like today, I find it difficult to get the motivation to try out some new pussie.
Make a booking, drop a blue pill, shower up and drive out to a shop to drop $300 for a maybe shit punt. I can afford 2 punts a week but like yourself, when I do the sums, it hits me how much cash I've outlayed on punting over the past year.
I'm in my early 60s, but because I run and train heaps, my testosterone levels are very high and I have a big sexual appetite and am addicted to punting. Every time I say I'm gonna take a break, the most i last is 2 weeks.

[nambour]

For me it takes about 2 years for the hunger to return. Then when it does i go on a sex spree over a few months and have sex with 30 or so prostitutes.

[CharlieM]

Yes Linq, a good number of us on here are married. I was separated for 2 years about 6 years ago and never considered paying for a root in that time as I was doing fine picking up using dating apps. Unfortunately in your case, you are only capable to satisfy your sexual urges when you visit a shop.

[Sinkie]

Eat seafood buffet everyday and you’ll get sick of it.
Go to the Disneyland everyday and you’ll be tired of it.
You need some space to fully appreciate things.

For punting, make it once a week max, better if you can do once per fortnight

[APuntAWeek]

2-3 times a week is insane, not surprised it’s gotten old. Human beings are very adaptable creatures. From a psychological standpoint, we are quick to reset our baseline expectations - meaning when something exciting becomes the norm, it stops being exciting. Even a superyacht would become boring after a few years.

Dial it back per my username. What goes up must come down, and there are no highs without lows.

[Ron the rimmer]

2-3 times a week is insane, not surprised it’s gotten old. Human beings are very adaptable creatures. From a psychological standpoint, we are quick to reset our baseline expectations - meaning when something exciting becomes the norm, it stops being exciting. Even a superyacht would become boring after a few years.

Dial it back per my username. What goes up must come down, and there are no highs without lows.

Twice a week since 1998 . Never have I become bored as the girls I choose to see are all different and from a price point the higher the price is often not the best session .

[11Bravo]

Have to agree with Sinkie, when it becomes habit and not interest, time to change.

For the OP: You haven't bought that plane ticket yet? I've never been anywhere where punting was the prime reason for being there. Work, travel... Punting is a nice addition, but too much to see, to do, to participate in to stay home and waste money that can be put to better use.

Ask yourself this: In 5 years, how many punts will you really remember? Then what about where you've traveled, things you've seen, done, experienced, friends made, horizons broadened, life appreciated. Some say "oh to be young again". Not me. I'm old, but I wouldn't change the experiences and memories I've had for anything. Certainly I've had great punts, it's the providers who've stuck in my memory, but BOTG - those are the memories (klicks and stairs included).

[Ron the rimmer]

Eat seafood buffet everyday and you’ll get sick of it.
Go to the Disneyland everyday and you’ll be tired of it.
You need some space to fully appreciate things.

For punting, make it once a week max, better if you can do once per fortnight

Guess it depends on your budget and also how viral you are .
How many girls both working or not tell the story of soft cocks 😂

[maguro]

Been going pretty heavy for a little over a year now, usually around 2 to 3 times a week. the only real break i took was a couple of months off after catching something from a bbbj (stupid mistake, sorted it out, but yeah).

Latetely though, it’s just got so stale. the buzz is completely gone and every visit feels identical. it honestly just feels like an expensive routine at this point rather than something i actually look forward to.

what really hurts is looking at the money. i sat down and thought about what i’ve dropped over the last 12 months and it’s honestly sickening and i easily could’ve funded a massive trip overseas with that cash.

Anyone else hit this point after a year or two? does taking a long break actually bring the fun back, or is the novelty just dead for good once it gets like this? lowkey wondering if i should just pack it in and book a flight.

I did 2 punts a weeks 2-3 years ago. Sometimes 2 sessions per visit to my regular.

However I deliberately cooled off more than a year ago. I have better self-control now. I only punt occasionally.

I don't take risk with dud punts with new girl or new shop. Always the same 2 girls and same 2 shops.

The most important thing is CONTROL. If you lose it you'll lose a lot.

I went as far as deleting Wechat so that the girls or mamasans won't be able to contact me.

It is easy said than done. It takes a lot to be able to kick the punting addiction.

[nambour]

I stopped when it occurred to me that paying for sex with some 30+ year old is cuckoldry and that most SWers aren't even that good looking AND even the young ones aren't the good looking ones either. You notice the women and girls outside are far more attractive AND somebody is fucking them for free, ALSO sex with a non-SWer is far more rewarding. How can you justify $300/hr aside for being a cuck?

so dont punt with the non good looking ones if thats what your gripe is

[holi_day]

Depending on your age and libido, 2-3 times a week could be overdoing it to your self. Also depending on your financial you may at some point find it hard to justify the expense.

Take a break, slow down and cut porn stimulation. Only punt when you crave for it. It gives much greater satisfaction and momentum.

[HUMPDAY]

I'm just finding it hard to find a regular actually.

I do have niche tastes though so that's entirely on me. like Asian Milfs preferably Viet but they seem to be as rare as (insert noun here)

[trampslikeus55]

I'm just finding it hard to find a regular actually.

I do have niche tastes though so that's entirely on me. like Asian Milfs preferably Viet but they seem to be as rare as (insert noun here)
Try Sugar at LSM or 512A King Rockdale. Not sure what floats your boat but she is a very good Vietnamese milf. I think you need to be a regular to get the full menu, but I never really tried that hard. I think she is attractive without being stunning. Guess late 30's but may be more. Very well kept body and very sexy out of her gear. Massage is passable. 😎

[Franker]

I hit that wall a few times before

[Warden]

Yes Newbie , had the same stale feeling but got it back after about a fortnight of no punting and stuck with various preforming regulars than hit and miss (more miss) new tryouts.

As to finances have gone over the $100k mark this year alone , not including hotels for callouts but as stated before at my age (late 60s) just part of my lifestyle now . Like gambling , don't punt if you can't afford it .

Take that holiday , come back refreshed and punt occasionally

Wow! what a lifestyle.. I have always wondered, with that kind of finances, how can you resist the illusion of getting something special with a number of regulars? I know this is a very dangerous ground and I have no illusions but at times it feels that the trap might catch me.
Any wisdom that you can share?

[Warden]

I did 2 punts a weeks 2-3 years ago. Sometimes 2 sessions per visit to my regular.

However I deliberately cooled off more than a year ago. I have better self-control now. I only punt occasionally.

I don't take risk with dud punts with new girl or new shop. Always the same 2 girls and same 2 shops.

The most important thing is CONTROL. If you lose it you'll lose a lot.

I went as far as deleting Wechat so that the girls or mamasans won't be able to contact me.

It is easy said than done. It takes a lot to be able to kick the punting addiction.

Have you ever went to therapy? This is a genuine question and if you have some good advice I believe a number of us in this forum might use it well now or in the future

[maguro]

Have you ever went to therapy? This is a genuine question and if you have some good advice I believe a number of us in this forum might use it well now or in the future

I would love to go to a therapy if you finance it.

[maguro]

Have you ever went to therapy? This is a genuine question and if you have some good advice I believe a number of us in this forum might use it well now or in the future

I don't have good advices except to meditate, pray, exercise and read the bible more often.

[Warden]

I don't have good advices except to meditate, pray, exercise and read the bible more often.

Thank you for this advice anyway :)

[Double_Adapter]

I don't have good advices except to meditate, pray, exercise and read the bible more often.

WTF! I'm getting spooked with really weird creepy paranormal vibes, bro… this is very Sibon like. It feels like the cunt's spirit never actually left Aus99 and has just been roaming and lurking in the shadows waiting for the next poor bastard to possess.

[GoldfishMan]

WTF! I'm getting spooked with really weird creepy paranormal vibes, bro… this is very Sibon like. It feels like the cunt's spirit never actually left Aus99 and has just been roaming and lurking in the shadows waiting for the next poor bastard to possess.

You should realise by now none of these "spirits" ever leave this forum.