Girls with partners

[Shimada]

recently saw a popular WL who used to be my regular with someone so when I saw her next I asked her about it and she told me she has a boyfriend and she said he knows about her job but doesn’t like it.

I’m just curious, how do you have feelings for someone and not get jealous in this line of work? I only ask because a regular of mine wants to date outside and wondering what is like and how do their boyfriends cope with this job.

Just to be clear no judgment ! Just curious as if I should date her

[Double_Adapter]

Mate, I reckon it ain't any different to separating work from home. And that's why this WFH horseshit is so fucked up...it conditions cunts to blur the two.

If she's working in an RnT, she's working. Being paid to suck cocks or get pounded doesn’t automatically mean she's emotionally invested in every punter. She can shag a fat ugly punter without wanting to wake up beside the cunt every morning.

Same as couples into open relationships, swinging or partner swapping. They can fuck other people and still go home together, have dinner, watch Netflix and actually give a fuck about each other. Sex is the activity. Relationship is the feelings.

Jealousy kicks in when you confuse the two. If she clocks off, comes home, chooses you, spends her free time with you and is emotionally invested in you, some bloke she saw at work ain't automatically your competition.

But don't bullshit yourself as some cunts simply couldn't handle the mind fuck....and that's fair enough.
If you date a sex worker, you either accept her job or you don't. There's no prize for pretending you're cool with it while quietly losing your fucken mind every day.

So the question ain't - How do I stop being jealous?
It's - Can I accept this is her job without secretly expecting her to change it for you?

If yes, crack on. If not, stay the fuck out of it. Otherwise three months later you’ll be in here carrying on like a pork chop because your chick is seeing punters from Aus99.

[Shimada]

That makes sense but also I am doubtful if the same punters keep seeing her I find it hard to believe there’s not emotional connection I’m sure they have favourites but I’ve never worked like this before so hard to say if they can or can’t turn off that connection.

Cause for me even if I didn’t like the WL if I see her too often I get attached. Good for thought I guess thanks for your opinion.

[Ron the rimmer]

Mate, I reckon it ain't any different to separating work from home. And that's why this WFH horseshit is so fucked up...it conditions cunts to blur the two.

If she's working in an RnT, she's working. Being paid to suck cocks or get pounded doesn’t automatically mean she's emotionally invested in every punter. She can shag a fat ugly punter without wanting to wake up beside the cunt every morning.

Same as couples into open relationships, swinging or partner swapping. They can fuck other people and still go home together, have dinner, watch Netflix and actually give a fuck about each other. Sex is the activity. Relationship is the feelings.

Jealousy kicks in when you confuse the two. If she clocks off, comes home, chooses you, spends her free time with you and is emotionally invested in you, some bloke she saw at work ain't automatically your competition.

But don't bullshit yourself as some cunts simply couldn't handle the mind fuck....and that's fair enough.
If you date a sex worker, you either accept her job or you don't. There's no prize for pretending you're cool with it while quietly losing your fucken mind every day.

So the question ain't - How do I stop being jealous?
It's - Can I accept this is her job without secretly expecting her to change it for you?

If yes, crack on. If not, stay the fuck out of it. Otherwise three months later you’ll be in here carrying on like a pork chop because your chick is seeing punters from Aus99.

I used to see a girl at a high end massage place. Aussie girl which I generally prefer.
She had a BF who was an absolute dick head and he would pick her up at the end of her shift. In her car of course 😂
They had a baby and of course the relationship came to an end as the money ran out and of course unless you’re a weirdo that enjoys paying to see pregnant girls then so that comes to an end as well .
No future for working girls that have partners . They parted company not long after the birth
Very sad for both of them and the child more importantly

[trampslikeus55]

I used to see a girl at a high end massage place. Aussie girl which I generally prefer.
She had a BF who was an absolute dick head and he would pick her up at the end of her shift. In her car of course 😂
They had a baby and of course the relationship came to an end as the money ran out and of course unless you’re a weirdo that enjoys paying to see pregnant girls then so that comes to an end as well .
No future for working girls that have partners . They parted company not long after the birth
Very sad for both of them and the child more importantly
Not just the sex industry gents. Seems that 60% of the population fall into that basket. 😎

[maguro]

recently saw a popular WL who used to be my regular with someone so when I saw her next I asked her about it and she told me she has a boyfriend and she said he knows about her job but doesn’t like it.

I’m just curious, how do you have feelings for someone and not get jealous in this line of work? I only ask because a regular of mine wants to date outside and wondering what is like and how do their boyfriends cope with this job.

Just to be clear no judgment ! Just curious as if I should date her

I saw the boyfriend of a WL came to the massage shop at the end of her shift to fetch her. He apparently didn't mind her working in massage shops. Why kill a gold goose if she could bring in good money? Maybe he didn't have a job at all?

Your story is to be expected. Most of the ladys in massage shops either have husbands in China or boyfriends here or have kids and divorced.

There was a review somewhere written by a punter about how incredilbly young and beautiful a massage girl he just met. Obviously he was smitten by her. This girl just told me a few days ago she has 2 kids one 10 and another 12. However She looked like she was in her early 20s. Chinese women normally can look a lot younger than her age.

Most Asian punters are smart enough to avoid falling for a WL or a ML because of their unknown backgrounds. At worst you may fall for a married girl with a husband and 2 kids in China.

[ohiololsss5]

Just to be clear no judgment ! Just curious as if I should date her

Dm me her details so I can try her out to make sure shes a good fit for you lmao

[ironmonk]

Dm me her details so I can try her out to make sure shes a good fit for you lmao

Me too, Shimada bro we can all share

[El Loco Abreu]

To me, there are only two types of guys who date WLs: those who have no other choice and those who are milking the woman for money.

[Shimada]

Point made and i agree best not to be silly of me. The free sex would’ve been nice though

[Adeanna.Allie]

Bro you can check https://transreels.com/

[holi_day]

All WLs have boyfriends or partners. even you ask and they say no.

[Vegopus]

I was balls deep inside a wls pussy when her phone rang.
She told me later that it was her bf and she couldn't answer the phone because he doesn't know what she does.
Apparently she was using him for a visa.

[blidbla86]

I dated a WL for a couple of years, no jealously at all, they're just normal people everyone has to earn a living and it's just a job.
We would often hang out with other WLs from the shop and their boyfriends, all the partners knew what their jobs were, was no big deal.
Some of them are just doing the job cause they can't speak English well enough and lack the confidence to get a regular job here.

[Sinkie]

Let’s cut the BS here. Getting fucked daily by 10 ugly strangers in a foreign country for a living is not normal at all by any angle. Sorry mate I have to disagree. So many other jobs out there to make a proper living especially if they come from a good country like Japan. That said, I do appreciate their life decisions.

[Sinkie]

All WLs have boyfriends or partners. even you ask and they say no.

Yeah most of them have, from my experience. They’re young, decent-looking, and surrounded by men. Why the fuck would they be single? Most of the partners back home are unaware of what they do though.

[secret0]

Let’s cut the BS here. Getting fucked daily by 10 ugly strangers in a foreign country for a living is not normal at all by any angle. Sorry mate I have to disagree. So many other jobs out there to make a proper living especially if they come from a good country like Japan. That said, I do appreciate their life decisions.

'A good country like Japan'. Just like Australia.
Overall the countries and those at the top in them are doing great, but most of the regular people are struggling and scraping to get by.

[Massagecreep]

Just like Australia these days.
Back to the topic - girls with boyfriends. I have seen plenty of MLs who have normal jobs, like childcare or nursing, and work a few days a week for the extra $$. These girls are quite normal. Many have BFs but I generally believe those who say no BFs because I think they couldn’t lie about the ML work.
I have met other MLs and WLs who are addicted, whether it be sex or drugs or both. They don’t hide what they do.
My summary is that there is no ‘normal’ - there is a whole range of circumstances. Different to the rest of the female population because of what they do, but that doesn’t necessarily define who they are

[Franker]

Dont do it its not worth it

[DevilJin]

Don’t be weak , at the end of the day they are getting dicked down like no tomorrow.

Doesn’t matter if they come home to you many girls out there bro don’t be silly.

[holi_day]

Yeah most of them have, from my experience. They’re young, decent-looking, and surrounded by men. Why the fuck would they be single? Most of the partners back home are unaware of what they do though.

No, most of the cases, their partners fully aware what they do for work.
Many of their partners even willing to marry them to sponsor their Visa.

[konfuzion]

I know girl started wl job because bf cheating lots. I know her bf he also punter on this forum. He found what she doing from this forum 555. This forum the best 555. She got shocked did not look at him. She moved stuff out and blocked him. I think she back in Taiwan now. She block me to