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planetsexpress
30-10-2026, 01:35 PM
After my latest mediocre rnt, i've been asking myself that question. When I first started going to shops the excitement of it was huge, over the years the novelty has worn off and I feel like i'm chasing the high of the early days. Every bad punt I'll say is my last but I get drawn back in with the lure of a new shop, new girls, and if I'm lucky maybe 1 in 10 visits is an experience that lives up to ky expectations - the others just leave me wondering why I didnt just DIY and save myself the cash. And with how much prices have increased lately, the cash spent is only getting higher. How do you all feel about this - could you stop whenever you liked? Or are you hooked?
anonymouspunter2
30-10-2026, 01:58 PM
Anyone who answers 'no' is probably lying.
hooked i reckon...all my plans for the weekend seem to involve massages and extras these days.
minimaleffort
30-10-2026, 03:58 PM
After my latest mediocre rnt, i've been asking myself that question. When I first started going to shops the excitement of it was huge, over the years the novelty has worn off and I feel like i'm chasing the high of the early days. Every bad punt I'll say is my last but I get drawn back in with the lure of a new shop, new girls, and if I'm lucky maybe 1 in 10 visits is an experience that lives up to ky expectations - the others just leave me wondering why I didnt just DIY and save myself the cash. And with how much prices have increased lately, the cash spent is only getting higher. How do you all feel about this - could you stop whenever you liked? Or are you hooked?
Mate are you me? Perfectly summed up how I feel 😂 Save for weeks for that punt, get all excited the morning of, have a mediocre experience and say I’m quitting for good. There’s one ML that always delivers though, but hard to stay away from seeking novelty.
MasterPaizuri
30-10-2026, 04:20 PM
Go brothels. Its cheaper.
APuntAWeek
30-10-2026, 04:20 PM
I’ve only been doing this for a year but yeah I gotta say the novelty has worn off. I used to be excited the entire 24 hours leading up to a punt, but that’s worn off and I’m currently taking a break.
andrewv
30-10-2026, 04:21 PM
Sadly, after several years you find that you have seen everything and nothing new brings that excitement of the early days. You find that you've gone through every type of ML/WL and every trick in the book. You have been in many rooms, and it becomes 'just another one'.
Ron the rimmer
30-10-2026, 04:55 PM
I’ve only been doing this for a year but yeah I gotta say the novelty has worn off. I used to be excited the entire 24 hours leading up to a punt, but that’s worn off and I’m currently taking a break.
If this is happening to all you punters I believe you are possibly looking at the cheaper options .
Bit like buying a Chinese car and trying to get a good trade in 5 years down the track . It’s worthless.
Now of course paying for quality these days is difficult for most but personally I try and punt less and make a decision based on an intro rather than a walk in and take what you get.
In saying that I still do occasional walk ins with a 50/50 success rate.
coldtowel
30-10-2026, 08:39 PM
Yeah, I think I’m addicted. Been doing this for about 16 months, after a few years of a sexless marriage. I’d say I’ve had about 200 punts with over 120 women since. Enjoyed most of them, that’s why I keep doing it. Spent far too much. It seems I can’t go without one for more than 3-4 days at the most. Always seem to be thinking about it when I’m not doing it, checking this website every hour. Sometimes I feel bad but then I think fuck it you only live once.
maguro
30-10-2026, 09:16 PM
I do it on and off.
Fortunately the off period is getting longer as the girls and the sessions are getting unexciting.
APuntAWeek
30-10-2026, 11:02 PM
If this is happening to all you punters I believe you are possibly looking at the cheaper options .
Bit like buying a Chinese car and trying to get a good trade in 5 years down the track . It’s worthless.
Now of course paying for quality these days is difficult for most but personally I try and punt less and make a decision based on an intro rather than a walk in and take what you get.
In saying that I still do occasional walk ins with a 50/50 success rate.
Nah I normally frequent Ginza and Adas shops. I do walk in a lot of the time as my schedule is unpredictable, but I wouldn’t say I gravitate towards cheaper options. I too am a fan of quality over quantity.
Linza Giz
30-10-2026, 11:08 PM
I can stop whenever I want. But I have too much disposal income and I pay too much tax so I am trying to spend as much as I can
cum_slow
30-10-2026, 11:44 PM
I can stop whenever I want. But I have too much disposal income and I pay too much tax so I am trying to spend as much as I can
please tell me bro, how can I have so much disposal income ?
lisasweaty
31-10-2026, 05:11 AM
Anyone who answers 'no' is probably lying.
Not only that. Anyone who is on this forum has an addiction to some extent
Linza Giz
31-10-2026, 07:01 AM
please tell me bro, how can I have so much disposal income ?
Just my work bro. I paid off my house and my work pays well. I have shares overseas and sell them but the taxes here are crazy so I like to spend what I have
schloong
31-10-2026, 07:11 AM
Yep I'm addicted.
I gave up the smokes about 6 years ago so my disposable income improved dramatiically. Quite happy with this addiction 'tho & very recently have a new reg which is working out really well so far...
Mr Fugly
31-10-2026, 08:48 AM
I do it on and off.
Fortunately the off period is getting longer as the girls and the sessions are getting unexciting.
Yep I'm addicted.
I gave up the smokes about 6 years ago so my disposable income improved dramatiically. Quite happy with this addiction 'tho & very recently have a new reg which is working out really well so far...
I get back to Sydney every 2 or 3 months, I stick with the same girls everytime I come back:
J Mio
K Jessie
I can't say I am tired of punting, probably because I don't punt near as much as I used to, and I stick with super quality as I have had my fair share of wasters and I work too hard and too long to waste my money on a "sweet thing" that can't wait to kick my ass out of the room..🤣
I am never disappointed with Mio or Jessie.
goodadventurer
31-10-2026, 08:55 AM
I do it for a couple of years now. For some time I found a young oz single mum who gave me BBBJ and swallow regularly, but my stupid ass ruined that relationship. Surprisingly I found her on Locanto where 99.9% of ads are scam. I was depressed and and was punting much more aggressive like once a week (couldn't afford more, haha). Now I do more research before visiting a girl and still my success rate is around 4 to 1. I don't think I can stop it soon.
Shimada
31-10-2026, 09:06 AM
I would say yes , too addicted to a point where I go 3-4 times a week. I really need to stop I have been seeing girls for about 4-5 years now and never more than once a week before but gradually gotten more often really need to quit . Is there a punting Quitline? Haha
goodadventurer
31-10-2026, 09:23 AM
I would say yes , too addicted to a point where I go 3-4 times a week. I really need to stop I have been seeing girls for about 4-5 years now and never more than once a week before but gradually gotten more often really need to quit . Is there a punting Quitline? Haha
Yeah, it called STD, lol.
goodadventurer
31-10-2026, 09:24 AM
I would say yes , too addicted to a point where I go 3-4 times a week. I really need to stop I have been seeing girls for about 4-5 years now and never more than once a week before but gradually gotten more often really need to quit . Is there a punting Quitline? Haha
Yeah, it called STD, lol.
RegularReggie
31-10-2026, 09:25 AM
Somewhere in the middle. I feel like I can stop but recently there's always a new girl that looks interesting :cry:
blidbla86
31-10-2026, 09:39 AM
Sometimes in the past I would have shit punts and think man what I waste of money. I only go to ginza now and haven't felt like that there. As for am I addicted, I go a lot but no I can stop anytime. I have no wife, no gf and a lot of free time so I like the social interaction
goodadventurer
31-10-2026, 09:56 AM
Sometimes in the past I would have shit punts and think man what I waste of money. I only go to ginza now and haven't felt like that there. As for am I addicted, I go a lot but no I can stop anytime. I have no wife, no gf and a lot of free time so I like the social interaction
Mate! with your punting list I afraid if you can stop any time!
firekombi
31-10-2026, 10:30 AM
I do it for a couple of years now.
my success rate is around 4 to 1. I don't think I can stop it soon.
4 good ones to 1 bad one? or 1 in 4 is good?
Sometimes in the past I would have shit punts and think man what I waste of money. I only go to ginza now and haven't felt like that there. As for am I addicted, I go a lot but no I can stop anytime. I have no wife, no gf and a lot of free time so I like the social interaction
No wife, no gf, just loaded and free. What a life. You can stop any time, but I doubt you will or want to.
And I think that is the tricky bit when it comes to addiction...
Then, you suddenly sound like "I am reading this magazine for the articles"
As for me, still new to this "hobby" for the lack of a better term, so I feel there are still much for me to explore. Definitely pricey, definitely good sense of adventure, definitely fitting for mid life crisis.
blidbla86
31-10-2026, 11:33 AM
No wife, no gf, just loaded and free. What a life. You can stop any time, but I doubt you will or want to.
And I think that is the tricky bit when it comes to addiction...
Then, you suddenly sound like "I am reading this magazine for the articles"
As for me, still new to this "hobby" for the lack of a better term, so I feel there are still much for me to explore. Definitely pricey, definitely good sense of adventure, definitely fitting for mid life crisis.
Pros and cons to everything, coming back to an empty house and being alone the majority of the time is pretty isolating and can feel pretty bad. I probably punt as often as I do because I have no relationship or connection with anyone in my life and it temporarily fills that void.
Haha yeah it's funny I say I can stop anytime but atm I don't want to cause there is no reason to, so then people probably think 'that's something someone with an addiction would say' :shout:
lenny888
31-10-2026, 11:50 AM
Use to do once a fn with recent cost increase everywhere hhave had stretches where I go once a month or more
Candy1234
31-10-2026, 12:06 PM
Addicted for sure. Enjoyment not as exciting as back in the early 2010s. The girls back then were so much better in many ways, looks, services and prices. Not much to talk about with the stock these days, shops and girls getting greedy with their pay rise.
New month so I will try to punt only once, twice max, getting expensive!
runningmonkey
31-10-2026, 12:11 PM
im one of those long time luker type. after reading several threads from regular punters, Im curious to know whether you lot get yourselves regularly tested particularly the ones that do regular bbbj? i recently got a bbbj from a pcd girl. initially i opted for cob but because she was so nice to me i got desperate and went bare. Im waiting for 3 weeks to get tested :| this is first ever bbbj punt.
Veets
31-10-2026, 01:03 PM
I think we are all hooked for life
This year I noticed I’m happy to wait for those golden opportunities only and not go out of my way.
Also i now no longer settle for less I’ll happily walk or repeat a visit to an already proven quality punt
I’m happier and so is my wallet
goodadventurer
31-10-2026, 02:22 PM
4 good ones to 1 bad one? or 1 in 4 is good?
I would say three average, one really bad, and one really gooood! The good ones keep me going.
Wank_Somemore
31-10-2026, 02:31 PM
I'm hooked but not in Australia. In the last few years I've just been a sex tourist in Thailand, Vietnam, Sth Korea and Japan. The type of services just ain't available in Sydney. I only visit shops in Sydney because my big brain didn't think straight.
Like another punter said, the quality (both looks and/or service) just isn't what it used to be. Girls are just greedy and want the most money for least amount of work. For example Gigi at Dreamgirls wanted $200 on top of $100 shop fee for FS. I said thats more than Ginza and so I rejected it. She bagan haggling with me but I felt so offended already and just gave me the minimum that I paid for. She wasn't too happy later and gave me black face. in the last dozen or so punts, only Milin at SBM had me repeat her services. In the past I had a few girls that I would repeat on rotation but not anymore.
ironmonk
31-10-2026, 03:08 PM
Yeah, it called STD, lol.
HPV or genital warts could sideline one for a long time!
maguro
31-10-2026, 03:19 PM
Addicted for sure. Enjoyment not as exciting as back in the early 2010s. The girls back then were so much better in many ways, looks, services and prices. Not much to talk about with the stock these days, shops and girls getting greedy with their pay rise.
New month so I will try to punt only once, twice max, getting expensive!
All we need is a few expensive dud punts to kick the addiction.
These days I have to pay $150 for a few minutes of DATY.
Back then there was no limit to how much you want to DATY and it followed with FS.
ergoproxy
31-10-2026, 03:34 PM
Addicted? For sure. But with somewhat in control still. I go once or twice every 3 or 4 weeks now.. as opposed to 2-3 times per week. Expensive hobby. But I’ve always had one anyway.
Sometimes in the past I would have shit punts and think man what I waste of money. I only go to ginza now and haven't felt like that there. As for am I addicted, I go a lot but no I can stop anytime. I have no wife, no gf and a lot of free time so I like the social interaction
I feel you bro. Hahahaha
Social interaction
Sometime I go crazy with the same girl and mutiple visit and hours
Pros and cons to everything, coming back to an empty house and being alone the majority of the time is pretty isolating and can feel pretty bad. I probably punt as often as I do because I have no relationship or connection with anyone in my life and it temporarily fills that void.
Haha yeah it's funny I say I can stop anytime but atm I don't want to cause there is no reason to, so then people probably think 'that's something someone with an addiction would say' :shout:
Bro can dm you? We’re on the same page. Fuck life especially having day off nothing to do that’s why I keep punt
maguro
01-11-2026, 01:19 AM
Bro can dm you? We’re on the same page. Fuck life especially having day off nothing to do that’s why I keep punt
That makes three of us.
blidbla86
01-11-2026, 08:03 AM
Bro can dm you? We’re on the same page. Fuck life especially having day off nothing to do that’s why I keep punt
Haha sure i don’t mind
GoldfishMan
01-11-2026, 08:30 AM
Just my work bro. I paid off my house and my work pays well. I have shares overseas and sell them but the taxes here are crazy so I like to spend what I have
How do you avoid paying the tax by spending the money? Doesn't sound like you get paid in cash.
Jeaso
01-11-2026, 11:29 AM
Addicted? For sure. But with somewhat in control still. I go once or twice every 3 or 4 weeks now.. as opposed to 2-3 times per week. Expensive hobby. But I’ve always had one anyway.
Yea that's me too these days, just try to go once or twice every 3-4 weeks, still keeps it semi exciting, and I just stick with the ones I know that can deliver, or use this forum if I am wanting to try someone new who comes highly recommended.
But definitely had my post-nut clarity moments of like ...''should've gone to Ginza, that would've been way cheaper in comparison.''
Trix69
01-11-2026, 12:33 PM
I find this as well..
I use to wonder why do i spend more when a brothel is cheaper & easier tbh.
andrewv
01-11-2026, 01:45 PM
From reading the comments here, it seems that going to massage shops and brothels is not only a sexual outlet but to connect with a human female for an hour. It's an emotional need. Some blokes here have no family or social contacts, while I guess many others are in a robotic marriage that expired long ago.
Correct me if I am mistaken. I wonder if any men here would reply and say: "I am in a happy relationship which is very exciting sexually, but I also need to go to shops every now and then for variety." ☹️
Linza Giz
01-11-2026, 02:29 PM
How do you avoid paying the tax by spending the money? Doesn't sound like you get paid in cash.
I can't say how I'm doing it on a public forum bro. But it's nothing illegal or anything like that. I can just say that the more I spend. The less tax I pay. Because I use the salary money to pay for all legit expenses that then lowers my tax rate. I have a good accountant let's just say that
Hedonisticfun
01-11-2026, 03:13 PM
Addicted ?!?! Most likely , realistically part of my lifestyle . Still have a social life , hobbies and a share mix with punting. Never married , single , had past relationships but I think a monogamous relationship is not for me .. I get bored too easily and repetitive , predictable routines definitely drive me nuts. Sex is there with breathing , sleeping and eating , can't do without though am particular with who .
firekombi
01-11-2026, 05:32 PM
No wife, no gf, just loaded and free. What a life.
Pros and cons to everything, coming back to an empty house and being alone the majority of the time is pretty isolating and can feel pretty bad.
What I thought of as bragging turned out to be more of a cry for help, maybe not, but...
That is how I tend to over read things.
May you find good counsels in the comforting bosoms of your fav WLs.
sloaneranger
01-11-2026, 08:23 PM
Yeap I’m definitely addicted. I used to punt 1-2 a month but more recently have been 4-5 times a week and sometimes drop in as part of my bedtime routine. I’ve been in a happy long term relationship for decades but unlike some, I don’t think sex makes or breaks a relationship and neither does my other half. Truthfully I just appreciate I live in a city where I can legally fuck as many 18-23 year olds as my heart desires but it does get boring sometimes. Money always a consideration but since my early days of seeing high end privates, $1-2K a week now goes a lot further since switching to mostly brothels.
I try to see different girls each time and rarely repeat but I know it’s become a problem when I look at the roster of certain shops and realise there is hardly anyone I haven’t already fucked.
That said, to me it’s just a fancy wank to empty the balls, not for companionship and whilst I agree standards used to be way higher across the industry there are a few places which get good quality girls and I’m sure I’ll stop eventually either due to my age or due to a dip in quality. Take Ginza for example, when I started there it was mostly C girls which just dont appeal to me. Now it’s full of J girls which I have always liked and convinced this won’t last forever and when Japans economy eventually turns a corner they’ll be gone and we’ll all be craving the good times.
As someone else mentioned I find punting overseas much more exciting due to the novelty value but feel blessed living in Sydney as it’s better than 99% of the rest of the world.
BiggieSmalls
01-11-2026, 09:47 PM
to me it’s just a fancy wank to empty the balls, not for companionship
Hahaha, that’s a brilliant way to think of it.
andrewv
01-11-2026, 10:00 PM
How much were you paying the single mum each time for BBBJ and swallow?
I do it for a couple of years now. For some time I found a young oz single mum who gave me BBBJ and swallow regularly, but my stupid ass ruined that relationship. Surprisingly I found her on Locanto where 99.9% of ads are scam. I was depressed and and was punting much more aggressive like once a week (couldn't afford more, haha). Now I do more research before visiting a girl and still my success rate is around 4 to 1. I don't think I can stop it soon.
Bigscotty
01-11-2026, 10:46 PM
Been addicted for years now. As long as you dont catch feelings by having regulars and its in your budget then I dont see the problem. Its just an expensive hobby.
blidbla86
02-11-2026, 11:00 AM
What I thought of as bragging turned out to be more of a cry for help, maybe not, but...
That is how I tend to over read things.
May you find good counsels in the comforting bosoms of your fav WLs.
Thanks mate don't worry though, no cry for help I'm ok, I'm not in a position where I should complain about anything haha
Jeaso
02-11-2026, 11:14 AM
From reading the comments here, it seems that going to massage shops and brothels is not only a sexual outlet but to connect with a human female for an hour. It's an emotional need. Some blokes here have no family or social contacts, while I guess many others are in a robotic marriage that expired long ago.
Correct me if I am mistaken. I wonder if any men here would reply and say: "I am in a happy relationship which is very exciting sexually, but I also need to go to shops every now and then for variety." ☹️
Yea that would be me, hence why I prefer to see regulars and just chat and laugh away, even been tempted to just pay for the hour and hangout, although haven't done that yet. But definitely a sucker/simp in some ways at times, in saying that, I could just as easily go on dates and do the same thing but somehow feel they have more pressure on them than punting.
mikeitto
02-11-2026, 01:25 PM
I'm bored,not addicted
MasterPaizuri
02-11-2026, 01:40 PM
I wonder if any men here would reply and say: "I am in a happy relationship which is very exciting sexually, but I also need to go to shops every now and then for variety." ☹️
This is me
Im happy and have a partner.
Sexually I am satisfied and get it whenever I feel like it from her. Anything i want, she does (except threesomes) and the sex is crazy good
The one issue is, she doesnt have big tits. Theyre C cups which are great, but by no means does she have them like Polla or Soda do.
So I started this to stick my cock in between big juicy oiled up tits and fuck them without risking STD's
I got the idea from Paizuriguy on Reddit. IYKYK
Only took 6 months to begin requesting FS and bending every ML with a nice ass to go along with big tits over the massage tables and cumming inside them (with dom on) every chance i got
I've reigned it in now as I have my 2 go-to ML's who are quite liberal with me...and while i havent punted in over 2 months......
But seeing new girls pop up on rosters definitely makes me crave some variety. Thrill of the unknown
Addicted. Kind of yes. But more just craving variety rather than connection
edging
02-11-2026, 02:29 PM
Good thread for some self-reflection..
Yes, I think I'm addicted. Been punting for around 2 years now.. started with Kings Court, then E&B privates, then 108 Mirage, and these days mostly Ada's massage shops.
Honestly, it feels like a bottomless pit that never gets filled.
I wonder if any men here would reply and say: "I am in a happy relationship which is very exciting sexually, but I also need to go to shops every now and then for variety." ☹️
I'm happily married, but there were certain desires like oral and etc. that weren't being fulfilled in my relationship.. and that's where it all started. I somehow convinced myself that punting was therapy for my mental well-being.. lol.
Initially, I went to Kings Court thinking I'd just sit in a spa with sexy ladies, enjoy some touching, LFK and a happy ending. No sex meant I was still being a good boy.. haha.
Then came E&B privates.. still no sex, just happy endings. About a year later, one girl got me so excited that I finally crossed that line and had sex.. and there was no looking back.
Fast forward to today.. I was recently doing the maths and realised I've probably spent $25K in 2 years, easily 100 punts!
Now I crave at least one punt every week.. and even that's evolving. It's no longer just about sex or a happy ending. I want more passionate, intimate, proper GFE encounters.. DFK, cuddling, chemistry, everything.
The scary thing about desire is that satisfying it doesn't always make it disappear.. sometimes it just teaches you to want more.
I genuinely think I'm addicted. No major regrets, but definitely not proud of it either.
Do I want to become sane again? Absolutely. But do I have the willpower? Honestly, I don't know.
Has anyone here been through something similar and managed to get it under control? Any advice? Please help me..
And here's the ridiculous irony.. even while writing this confession, part of my brain is wondering who gives the best passionate DFK in Sydney massage shops.. which shop, which girl? Please tell me..
amadeus
02-11-2026, 03:53 PM
Yes, always chasing that high of the first time...
firekombi
02-11-2026, 04:38 PM
This is me
Im happy and have a partner.
Sexually I am satisfied and get it whenever I feel like it from her. Anything i want, she does (except threesomes) and the sex is crazy good
The one issue is, she doesnt have
I'm happily married, but
I guess we are happy but... not 100% happy.
coolspotz
02-11-2026, 04:56 PM
Good thread for some self-reflection..
I'm happily married, but there were certain desires like oral and etc. that weren't being fulfilled in my relationship.. and that's where it all started. I somehow convinced myself that punting was therapy for my mental well-being.. lol.
Initially, I went to Kings Court thinking I'd just sit in a spa with sexy ladies, enjoy some touching, LFK and a happy ending. No sex meant I was still being a good boy.. haha.
Then came E&B privates.. still no sex, just happy endings. About a year later, one girl got me so excited that I finally crossed that line and had sex.. and there was no looking back.
Fast forward to today.. I was recently doing the maths and realised I've probably spent $25K in 2 years, easily 100 punts!
Now I crave at least one punt every week.. and even that's evolving. It's no longer just about sex or a happy ending. I want more passionate, intimate, proper GFE encounters.. DFK, cuddling, chemistry, everything.
The scary thing about desire is that satisfying it doesn't always make it disappear.. sometimes it just teaches you to want more.
I genuinely think I'm addicted. No major regrets, but definitely not proud of it either.
Do I want to become sane again? Absolutely. But do I have the willpower? Honestly, I don't know.
Has anyone here been through something similar and managed to get it under control? Any advice? Please help me..
And here's the ridiculous irony.. even while writing this confession, part of my brain is wondering who gives the best passionate DFK in Sydney massage shops.. which shop, which girl? Please tell me..
I am in a similar boat as you and but not as deep down the rabbit hole. I only go once a month but the scary thing is that I am craving for the GFE experience.
You will need to find an activity or something that you like doing that will occupy your sparetime....
genuinelather
02-11-2026, 05:37 PM
Addicted and feeling empty because most sessions turn out to be the same routine. It's the thought of "next one will be different" that keeps me on the treadmill
goodadventurer
02-11-2026, 06:11 PM
How much were you paying the single mum each time for BBBJ and swallow?
You won't believe it, so I prefer not to say. I was on clouds for a couple of months. I don't know why she was doing that so cheap, she so young and beautiful. I was really depressed when I ruined it. the funny thing was the swallow happened by accident the first time and then she kept doing that.
Bonttyy
03-11-2026, 03:04 PM
Currently abstaining because it is way too easy to get addicted. I’m not good at moderation.
uplatelately
04-11-2026, 11:12 AM
You won't believe it, so I prefer not to say. I was on clouds for a couple of months. I don't know why she was doing that so cheap, she so young and beautiful. I was really depressed when I ruined it. the funny thing was the swallow happened by accident the first time and then she kept doing that.
tell us more! Need to know how you ruined it... did you fart while whe was blowing you?
Linza Giz
04-11-2026, 11:57 AM
tell us more! Need to know how you ruined it... did you fart while whe was blowing you?
Usually guys ruin it by being themselves. At first people can put up a front and act cool but after a few meets all that drops and the girls see into our souls and they find nothing there but emptiness and darkness. The ones that also have the same emptiness inside confuse it for kinship or fate and they start developing feelings but both hearts are made of recycled cardboard... And we all know what happens to cardboard when it rains.
MrSeven
04-11-2026, 05:44 PM
Hey brothers,
I can honestly say I was hooked to punting for 15 years at least. Going every one to two weeks. There’d be periods when I had a girlfriend and went less, but i was addicted for sure. Now in my early 40s, I just don’t feel the need to go as much any more. I have some regulars who know what I like and do a good job and I see them occasionally. Not sure if this gradual pull back happens to many blokes. Now at my age I know what I want and i do my research or go off recommendations before spending the money. I’m more cautious parting with money now despite making more than I ever have. It’s weird. Maybe it’s just maturity.
Niceguy11
04-11-2026, 08:41 PM
I was hooked and addicted to punting but have rarely punted over the past 2 years. Had maybe 2 - 3 punts since January 2025. It just doesn't appeal to me anymore. I still check rosters, get excited for 5 seconds then lose interest. Have saved a tonne of $$ despite hanging out with friends and going to social events.
Hedonisticfun
05-11-2026, 10:48 AM
I was hooked and addicted to punting but have rarely punted over the past 2 years. Had maybe 2 - 3 punts since January 2025. It just doesn't appeal to me anymore. I still check rosters, get excited for 5 seconds then lose interest. Have saved a tonne of $$ despite hanging out with friends and going to social events.
Had my period of lack of appeal for about a fortnight before I got back into it , just needed to taper off a bit .. I still have hobbies , active social life but relish in the fact I have a stable of regular MLs and WLs that provide the services I want without all the hassle of dating and time wasting / buildup to get sex which is a given certainty . Same $$$ which would have been wasted on a girlfriend / wife and ending up with manogamous , repetitive and / or limited sex . To each their own
HubbaBubbaRay
05-11-2026, 11:23 AM
Not anymore, I stick to a a single handful of regulars now. I can't risk trying out new experiences given how expensive this shit is.
Niceguy11
05-11-2026, 02:07 PM
I had good regulars but just got to the point where I lost interest. Maybe it’s old age or boredom. I have no idea. It might sound cliche but hanging out with friends and having other hobbies have helped me quit punting.
maguro
05-11-2026, 02:43 PM
I had good regulars but just got to the point where I lost interest. Maybe it’s old age or boredom. I have no idea. It might sound cliche but hanging out with friends and having other hobbies have helped me quit punting.
This is a breath of fresh air and both enlightening and encouraging to read.
Thanks to the summer months with sunlight and longer daylight there are great movies and concerts to go to, good books to read in the park, fishing and sport to indulge in etc etc. Anything and everything to help us beating the devil we know what it is.
It's a healthier and more fulling life. Not to say more money to save for raining days and for tougher days ahead.
Juggman
05-11-2026, 04:20 PM
Anyone who answers 'no' is probably lying.
Thanks for starting this thread.
I would agree with this and confess. When I was in a relationship with a widowed milf for a few years, there was zero punting. As soon as we called it quit, I walked straight back to the nearest AMP. What a fucken idiot I was!
Every time I walk pass a decent looking Asian milf with sizeable melons on the street, my mind starts to wonder which AMP I should pay a visit then and there to satisfy the urge. It's just becoming so distracting, time consuming, and very costly. To me it is like going to a pub for a fag and a drink after work. I'm grateful I managed to stop this crappy habit a while ago especially the smoking part.
I too have had my fair share of dud punts and sessions at some very mediocre cum dumps over the years that I am not proud of and regretting. I also started to find the deed less and less appealing, but then as soon as I read someone's review of a decent visit at a parlour on this forum, the feeling starts to get the better of me again. I think I should get some help.
My latest thing is to see a Viet milf/gilf ML. The drive and time it takes to visit one in Cabramatta or Warwick Farm have been the deterrent so far. I should go and get it over and done with soon and enjoy the year end festivities.
KakeyA
05-11-2026, 04:28 PM
I can stop whenever I want. But I have too much disposal income and I pay too much tax so I am trying to spend as much as I can
Wait Giz, that doesn't make sense to me. I'd say all of us are punting with post tax funds. If you have too much disposable income (post paying tax), and you are paying too much tax, then are you claiming punting as some sort of business expense to offset on the tax you have to lower the tax you pay? That is a great rort if you can do it, but I was not aware that the ATO, especially under Albo and Chalmers, are allowing paying for sex work as a legitimate business write off?
If you have some special insight, I'd love to try it but I run a business with my wife, so I even if the ATO did allow it, I would not be game enough to try to claim that as an expense, even if I say, it wasn't me, it was the client that wanted to go and I waited in the waiting room
Oosuki
05-11-2026, 08:30 PM
I think i am... i use to do it get my rocks off but now i go for the emotional/mental value... probably need to get out and meet people Been going through the same rotation since i dont want to risk duds, maybe its so easy since its within my budgets but i could realistically save a lot more
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GoldfishMan
06-11-2026, 05:50 AM
I can't say how I'm doing it on a public forum bro. But it's nothing illegal or anything like that. I can just say that the more I spend. The less tax I pay. Because I use the salary money to pay for all legit expenses that then lowers my tax rate. I have a good accountant let's just say that
Hah... I know what you're getting at. You don't have a good accountant. What you have is good luck (for not being caught), and I wish you more good luck. I don't have no beef with you.
Me personally, I don't have the balls to do it loll...
Indi69r
06-11-2026, 07:04 AM
Find 2 or 3 keepers💦 , and don't bother waisting your time looking for others..
98% of em ..😂.
#1 ..can't fuk wat so ever, boring.🥱.
. #2.. don't like to be fucked good .😈
#3 ..wouldn't know anything about massaging.💆
💯When U find the 2 or 3 keepers . .. Be nice about it.. and ask for there number and keep in touch with them..
anonymouspunter2
06-11-2026, 11:55 AM
I had good regulars but just got to the point where I lost interest. Maybe it’s old age or boredom. I have no idea. It might sound cliche but hanging out with friends and having other hobbies have helped me quit punting.
Just curious how old are you? Or age bracket..
Linza Giz
06-11-2026, 02:24 PM
Wait Giz, that doesn't make sense to me. I'd say all of us are punting with post tax funds. If you have too much disposable income (post paying tax), and you are paying too much tax, then are you claiming punting as some sort of business expense to offset on the tax you have to lower the tax you pay? That is a great rort if you can do it, but I was not aware that the ATO, especially under Albo and Chalmers, are allowing paying for sex work as a legitimate business write off?
If you have some special insight, I'd love to try it but I run a business with my wife, so I even if the ATO did allow it, I would not be game enough to try to claim that as an expense, even if I say, it wasn't me, it was the client that wanted to go and I waited in the waiting room
Yeh mate it's a bit random you have to have shares overseas. Have your house cars etc all paid off. I can't really talk more about it but I'm doing alright for myself
Linza Giz
06-11-2026, 02:25 PM
Hah... I know what you're getting at. You don't have a good accountant. What you have is good luck (for not being caught), and I wish you more good luck. I don't have no beef with you.
Me personally, I don't have the balls to do it loll...
All good mate they say silence is deadly but in my case it's probably healthy... You could be working for the man.. or worse you could be albo trying to entrape me haha
Linza Giz
06-11-2026, 02:26 PM
I just want to put it on the record that I did not have sexual relations with that woman
firekombi
06-11-2026, 04:42 PM
I just want to put it on the record that I did not have sexual relations with that woman
are you hinting at what kind of money you got? wow.
:big_smile:
Linza Giz
06-11-2026, 06:58 PM
are you hinting at what kind of money you got? wow.
:big_smile:
It's a old Bill Clinton quote. I'm old and my jokes ain't that funny sorry
firekombi
06-11-2026, 10:01 PM
It's a old Bill Clinton quote. I'm old and my jokes ain't that funny sorry
yeah, I was asking whether you got presidential money?
Linza Giz
07-11-2026, 09:56 AM
yeah, I was asking whether you got presidential money?
Not enough to have my face on any mountains.
Double_Adapter
07-11-2026, 03:28 PM
Not enough to have my face on any mountains.
....not even on a pair of D cups?
Linza Giz
07-11-2026, 06:45 PM
....not even on a pair of D cups?
Those mountains I would love to have my face on, in or even just around haha
new-punter69
07-11-2026, 07:03 PM
Good thread for some self-reflection..
Yes, I think I'm addicted. Been punting for around 2 years now.. started with Kings Court, then E&B privates, then 108 Mirage, and these days mostly Ada's massage shops.
Honestly, it feels like a bottomless pit that never gets filled.
I'm happily married, but there were certain desires like oral and etc. that weren't being fulfilled in my relationship.. and that's where it all started. I somehow convinced myself that punting was therapy for my mental well-being.. lol.
Initially, I went to Kings Court thinking I'd just sit in a spa with sexy ladies, enjoy some touching, LFK and a happy ending. No sex meant I was still being a good boy.. haha.
Then came E&B privates.. still no sex, just happy endings. About a year later, one girl got me so excited that I finally crossed that line and had sex.. and there was no looking back.
Fast forward to today.. I was recently doing the maths and realised I've probably spent $25K in 2 years, easily 100 punts!
Now I crave at least one punt every week.. and even that's evolving. It's no longer just about sex or a happy ending. I want more passionate, intimate, proper GFE encounters.. DFK, cuddling, chemistry, everything.
The scary thing about desire is that satisfying it doesn't always make it disappear.. sometimes it just teaches you to want more.
I genuinely think I'm addicted. No major regrets, but definitely not proud of it either.
Do I want to become sane again? Absolutely. But do I have the willpower? Honestly, I don't know.
Has anyone here been through something similar and managed to get it under control? Any advice? Please help me..
And here's the ridiculous irony.. even while writing this confession, part of my brain is wondering who gives the best passionate DFK in Sydney massage shops.. which shop, which girl? Please tell me..
I totally agree man! I've been reading your reviews for sometime now. Out of curiosity - what are the things you have tried? I have thought of therapy and all but I feel like I should talk to a friend who's been through it to relate it better. WHat are your thoughts?
PS: I've been punting for around 3 years but stick to ~150 a month(1 visit). But me mind is pushing me to go heavier every single time I visit now and upgrade to a full service.
mikeitto
07-11-2026, 08:50 PM
Addicted and feeling empty because most sessions turn out to be the same routine. It's the thought of "next one will be different" that keeps me on the treadmill
That's my issue. Chasing the excitement from a few fantastic punts in the past. Most are meh, but then one will be truly awesome.
ColesBag
08-11-2026, 05:04 PM
I had good regulars but just got to the point where I lost interest. Maybe it’s old age or boredom. I have no idea. It might sound cliche but hanging out with friends and having other hobbies have helped me quit punting.
That's fair enough, punting should go in phases or impulses rather than a structured planning of punts. That's where the boredom sets in.
LinenCotton
08-11-2026, 05:33 PM
Ive spent around around 30k mostly on high end privates from S&B and IS. Massive money regrets but its helped with a lot of other mental health issues in my life
firekombi
08-11-2026, 06:42 PM
Ive spent around around 30k mostly on high end privates from S&B and IS. Massive money regrets but its helped with a lot of other mental health issues in my life
30k within what time frame?
PeachTea
08-11-2026, 11:53 PM
That's fair enough, punting should go in phases or impulses rather than a structured planning of punts. That's where the boredom sets in.
Easier than having to make it for the same train each time as well
Herewegoagain
10-11-2026, 01:35 PM
After covi i stop drinken n feel jus wanna fuck alla time but no enuf money but fuck reglar evry coupla weeks big boobies chubby thai milf slut ashley i bin fucken her reglar couple years now she alays gaggen 4 it the slut a good root. im is 71.
Linza Giz
10-11-2026, 03:17 PM
After covi i stop drinken n feel jus wanna fuck alla time but no enuf money but fuck reglar evry coupla weeks big boobies chubby thai milf slut ashley i bin fucken her reglar couple years now she alays gaggen 4 it the slut a good root. im is 71.
Damn bro ... You must be the result of multiple rounds of inbreeding.
Gogomez
10-11-2026, 04:10 PM
I have definitely had to practice restraint haha
LinenCotton
10-11-2026, 10:29 PM
30k within what time frame?
Last 2 years…. I was an addict.
Herewegoagain
11-11-2026, 04:35 AM
Damn bro ... You must be the result of multiple rounds of inbreeding.
That rude. Why u maken persnol comment? Just stick 2 topic
Linza Giz
11-11-2026, 10:10 AM
That rude. Why u maken persnol comment? Just stick 2 topic
Sorry bro. I didn't meant to hurt your feelings your posts are so emotional I now have emotional damage
Mark Cassin
11-11-2026, 11:03 AM
That rude. Why u maken persnol comment? Just stick 2 topic
I wish I could write like that.
I'm mindful that shops, friends, family can match me to my posts - would lead to some difficult conversations.
A lot of cop shows have forensics matching writing to suspects.
If I could knock out those comments no one would match it - maybe that's what's going on here and perhaps AI could do a rewrite for me?
coldtowel
11-11-2026, 12:10 PM
I wish I could write like that.
I'm mindful that shops, friends, family can match me to my posts - would lead to some difficult conversations.
A lot of cop shows have forensics matching writing to suspects.
If I could knock out those comments no one would match it - maybe that's what's going on here and perhaps AI could do a rewrite for me?
Unless your real name is Mark Cassin, I reckon you’re pretty safe.
firekombi
11-11-2026, 10:52 PM
Last 2 years…. I was an addict.
that is like $300/wk. If you do high-end, then that is like once every fortnight.
I wouldnt say that is not addiction, but in light of mental health (as you mentioned), and cardio health and prostate health, money is probably not the biggest problem.
DawnX
12-11-2026, 02:17 AM
Thanks for starting this thread.
I would agree with this and confess. When I was in a relationship with a widowed milf for a few years, there was zero punting. As soon as we called it quit, I walked straight back to the nearest AMP. What a fucken idiot I was!
Every time I walk pass a decent looking Asian milf with sizeable melons on the street, my mind starts to wonder which AMP I should pay a visit then and there to satisfy the urge. It's just becoming so distracting, time consuming, and very costly. To me it is like going to a pub for a fag and a drink after work. I'm grateful I managed to stop this crappy habit a while ago especially the smoking part.
I too have had my fair share of dud punts and sessions at some very mediocre cum dumps over the years that I am not proud of and regretting. I also started to find the deed less and less appealing, but then as soon as I read someone's review of a decent visit at a parlour on this forum, the feeling starts to get the better of me again. I think I should get some help.
My latest thing is to see a Viet milf/gilf ML. The drive and time it takes to visit one in Cabramatta or Warwick Farm have been the deterrent so far. I should go and get it over and done with soon and enjoy the year end festivities.
Hey Mr Juggman, does this Viet milf has good set of tits. Can you share her details with me please?
Juggman
13-11-2026, 04:58 PM
Hey Mr Juggman, does this Viet milf has good set of tits. Can you share her details with me please?
Hey DawnX,
Why are you interested?
Yes, she did have a decent set if you are referring to the Viet widowed milf I was in a brief relationship with for a few years. She is not a working lady, just someone I met and got hooked up but am not sure what has been happening with her since we called it quits.
And I haven't seen a Viet milf ML at all because I have been too lazy to get out to Cabramatta and surrounding areas to try one.
OScarOS
13-11-2026, 11:16 PM
After my latest mediocre rnt, i've been asking myself that question. When I first started going to shops the excitement of it was huge, over the years the novelty has worn off and I feel like i'm chasing the high of the early days. Every bad punt I'll say is my last but I get drawn back in with the lure of a new shop, new girls, and if I'm lucky maybe 1 in 10 visits is an experience that lives up to ky expectations - the others just leave me wondering why I didnt just DIY and save myself the cash. And with how much prices have increased lately, the cash spent is only getting higher. How do you all feel about this - could you stop whenever you liked? Or are you hooked?
I though I was hard to please having 2-3 good punts out of 10 but then I saw you. 1 in 10 seems low even for my standards.
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