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IntrepidDog
05-11-2026, 05:21 PM
How often do you guys get offered phone numbers of MLs? Do you guys keep in contact or what?

Personally i find it a bit odd, and usually don't message them at all after the fact. Kind of shys away from the customer/provider experience.

Is this a tactic for repeat or do you guys have actual genuine interactions outside of bang bang tug tug session

Would be fun to discuss.

PMH
05-11-2026, 06:17 PM
How often do you guys get offered phone numbers of MLs? Do you guys keep in contact or what?

Personally i find it a bit odd, and usually don't message them at all after the fact. Kind of shys away from the customer/provider experience.

Is this a tactic for repeat or do you guys have actual genuine interactions outside of bang bang tug tug session

Would be fun to discuss.

I have asked and been asked for contact details from MLs, only a handful.

The MLs that have asked for my details, I only ever give them my burner phone / secondary WeChat. When I asked them why they want my details, the universal reply is they considered me to be a good customer and just wanted my repeat business - and it works. If I haven't been to see a regular for a while, and they messsage to say "hi", I'll probably pop in for a visit I would have otherwise initiated.

I've also had a few MLs get my details off the shop phone and contact me. Again, for repeat business.

The ones I've asked for were to arrange out of shop rendezvous. Sometimes paid, sometimes not paid. Although there was never any up-front negotiation on fees. Some meet ups are like dates with no hook up (I usually pay for food and drinks etc), others are purely hook up. One particular fond memory was a Chinese ML who lived out Ipswich way - I would see her in the shop and pay normal rates, but on her days off, she'll message me and I'll head out west for a lunch time shag and then she'd feed me homemade dumplings! Those sessions were unpaid. She said she lived with a "housemate" but then one say she let slip that she's living with her husband for PR purposes...didn't go back after that. Don't need the drama!

Fun times to be had, but for me, I keep a level head and know exactly what I am willing and not willing to give.

Bundy Boy
05-11-2026, 11:03 PM
I’ve been given girl’s private phone numbers so they could bypass their agencies who arrange the meets and take a big cut of their earnings; and ML’s who will also work from home on their off- roster days. If I liked the girl and enjoyed the experience then I’ll contact them; the price is normally no different.

I’ve only ever once been contacted out of the blue; that was from a massage parlour simply asking discretely if I was interested in returning again.

IntrepidDog
06-11-2026, 09:30 AM
I’ve only ever once been contacted out of the blue; that was from a massage parlour simply asking discretely if I was interested in returning again.

There was one time i gave it to an ML upon her request. From her word she said she wanted to be wanted to 'support' me... because i was a lot younger than her.. a couple of weeks later i got a text from an unknown number saying she had a 'surprise' for me

Too much unknown factors and honestly didn't even remember her name so i chickened out and never responded. One can only wonder what that surprise was lol...

JJBeck
06-11-2026, 09:55 AM
Hopefully it was not a bread in the oven surprise