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the wizard
26-04-2013, 09:47 AM
When you see a Wl for the first time, is the connection, orgasms etc faked.
Dont forget they are professionals and the best of the best can really make you feel like a king.
That's why I like retries, and try to develop that small connection and the whole session/sessions become more geniune.
Some times you can click instantly with the newbies.
Other times it might take several sessions before you find that genuiness
Any thoughts

jellyshots
26-04-2013, 09:59 AM
Definitely for a first time WL. Happens a little less with ML. Saying that, once you are a shop regular, the girls talk and sometimes the mamasan/papasan gives the girl a heads up before the booking starts. If you recognise that this is the norm, you can build a connection before she gets into her acting groove.

wilisno
26-04-2013, 12:12 PM
Try some young outcall girls, most of them can not fake orgasm, they are sensitive and real !

Ethanhunt
26-04-2013, 12:29 PM
For WL or even new gf/one night stand, unless I feel that shudder and the expressions look real, I assume its fake. I can't imagine that a busy wl, working a long day shift multiple times a week would have any real o's. being a male, it would be tough after the third session in one day let alone 10 or more in a day.

the wizard
26-04-2013, 02:09 PM
For WL or even new gf/one night stand, unless I feel that shudder and the expressions look real, I assume its fake. I can't imagine that a busy wl, working a long day shift multiple times a week would have any real o's. being a male, it would be tough after the third session in one day let alone 10 or more in a day.

Yes that is understandable and i asked a girl if she did and could cum each session,
she said it was easy for her and it didn't affect her stamina, whereas us guys would feel worn out after several shots and pumping.
I'm also referring to Gfe genuine or faked whether with a newby or existing girl.
Can it be all a act with some, they can be smiling and thinking "oh not him again"....

Andyboy
26-04-2013, 02:56 PM
Nah, they all come for real! They usually tell me they've been totally I satisfied by the 10 blokes before me and was waiting for the andyman to work his magiks :)

sei
26-04-2013, 08:33 PM
I don't think its a question of stamina for women, its more about just turning her on :)

Stooge
26-04-2013, 08:57 PM
I get put off by the fake talk. "Oh yes your so big." "You are making me cum darling".

Its easy to tell if a girl is enjoying the sex for real. Her sound. Her moan. Her movement. Her wetness. Shoving your face into her pussy while you give her DATY.

It can be difficult to make a woman cum if you are not in tune with her. It often only happens over time. (Not just foreplay as well).

Its the quiet ones that bother me. I think I'm doing it right. Most of the signs are there but i'm not quiet sure I'm doing it quiet the way she likes it to get her off.

Getting a little feedback about whats working and how she likes it will help both of us out.

CunningLinguist
27-04-2013, 04:53 PM
Try some young outcall girls, most of them can not fake orgasm, they are sensitive and real !

I agree.

When you are experienced you get to know if a girl is faking or not.
The obvious fakes are a real turn off though.
You don't have to be with a young outcall to experience a real orgasm though.
If you have a connection with an older regular WL you may get the real thing also.
You do need to be sensitive and be aware of the feedback you are getting, and to respond to it.
I reckon some punters who are less aware may be missing out if they take things to fast and are just trying to tick off positions with the girl.

karlasyd
27-04-2013, 05:13 PM
I don't think its a question of stamina for women, its more about just turning her on :)

totally agree with sei on this...

There are a lot of guys out there, get in the room, shower and starfish-ed. I understand that you guys would wanted to be served after a long day and seek for a release. I don't know about other girls, but for me, I would appreciate if the guy tells me if I did the right thing, if I hit the spot. Most guys would like to have girls responded to them but I think most girls are the same too. It all depends on how you do things, how both of you clicked, and have you get the right button. :smile:

Revvedup
27-04-2013, 07:22 PM
I don't think its a question of stamina for women, its more about just turning her on :)

This is a must, if any of you punters out their think a girl is having an orgasm every time with you in a cash exchange scenario you are genuinely naïve and obviously have not had much experience with a long term partner/girlfriend.

I'd rather a woman be dead silent then pull the fake noises out, it is a total turn off.

the wizard
27-04-2013, 07:33 PM
totally agree with sei on this...

There are a lot of guys out there, get in the room, shower and starfish-ed. I understand that you guys would wanted to be served after a long day and seek for a release. I don't know about other girls, but for me, I would appreciate if the guy tells me if I did the right thing, if I hit the spot. Most guys would like to have girls responded to them but I think most girls are the same too. It all depends on how you do things, how both of you clicked, and have you get the right button. :smile:

Quite a good point, I found it a little difficult recently, because of the language barrier.
I couldnt tell honestly if i was hitting the right spot, other than the obvious body reactions.( real or faked)
Its great to get that genuine feed back from both sides...

karlasyd
27-04-2013, 07:45 PM
the wizard, I think you can use 'Yes' or 'No' to hint your girl whether she is doing the right thing. lol... if she drives you crazy, you can say 'yes,yes,yes,yes,yes...' lol... I'm sure most girls will get that... lol...

sei
28-04-2013, 07:24 AM
the wizard, I think you can use 'Yes' or 'No' to hint your girl whether she is doing the right thing. lol... if she drives you crazy, you can say 'yes,yes,yes,yes,yes...' lol... I'm sure most girls will get that... lol...

Hi Karlasyd  very good idea! it's not hard to get into it if he is really enjoying it!

Booster
28-04-2013, 07:33 AM
The obvious fakes are a real turn off though.
I agree, major turnoff, she's like OMG OMG, and I haven't done anything yet.


I reckon some punters who are less aware may be missing out if they take things to fast and are just trying to tick off positions with the girl.
I like to tick off the positions, one WL kept saying, "I've never done it like that before".


can't imagine that a busy wl, working a long day shift multiple times a week would have any real o's. being a male, it would be tough after the third session in one day let alone 10 or more in a day.

I don't think its a question of stamina for women, its more about just turning her on :)
Most women do not orgasm during sex.

Womens HealthMag: Up Your Big-O Odds (http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/best-orgasm)

NetDoctor: Are you having trouble reaching orgasm? A guide for women (http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm)

I would think that most women would not orgasm with a casual punter, there's no real connection.
There would be a psychological barrier, cause you kind of paid to stick your dick in her, and that's your interest, not hers.

the wizard
28-04-2013, 11:12 AM
I would think that most women would not orgasm with a casual punter, there's no real connection.
There would be a psychological barrier, cause you kind of paid to stick your dick in her, and that's your interest, not hers

Maybe thta's why I like seeing my favorites as there is a connection and that orgasm becomes soo real...

CunningLinguist
28-04-2013, 11:18 AM
Most women do not orgasm during sex.

Womens HealthMag: Up Your Big-O Odds (http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/best-orgasm)

NetDoctor: Are you having trouble reaching orgasm? A guide for women (http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm)


Maybe Sei and Karla can share with us how often they orgasm with punters ??

rooter
28-04-2013, 11:43 AM
Wiz, if you are asking can a WL fake being happy to see you and fake an orgasm then the answer is of course YES.
(Actually all women can do it: wives, girlfriends, fuck buddies, one night stands etc)
But that doesn't mean that all WLs do do it, or that they do it all the time.
A lot of WLs are of course genuinely happy to see you and genuinely do orgasm.

wilisno
28-04-2013, 12:20 PM
Wiz, if you are asking can a WL fake being happy to see you and fake an orgasm then the answer is of course YES.
(Actually all women can do it: wives, girlfriends, fuck buddies, one night stands etc)
But that doesn't mean that all WLs do do it, or that they do it all the time.
A lot of WLs are of course genuinely happy to see you and genuinely do orgasm.
Well said !

cmk76
28-04-2013, 10:45 PM
I agree.

When you are experienced you get to know if a girl is faking or not.
The obvious fakes are a real turn off though.
You don't have to be with a young outcall to experience a real orgasm though.
If you have a connection with an older regular WL you may get the real thing also.
You do need to be sensitive and be aware of the feedback you are getting, and to respond to it.
I reckon some punters who are less aware may be missing out if they take things to fast and are just trying to tick off positions with the girl.

couldn't agree more...

able
28-04-2013, 11:05 PM
It's safer to assume they are faking it.

Less expectation = bigger surprise

sei
29-04-2013, 01:49 AM
I agree, major turnoff, she's like OMG OMG, and I haven't done anything yet.


I like to tick off the positions, one WL kept saying, "I've never done it like that before".



Most women do not orgasm during sex.

Womens HealthMag: Up Your Big-O Odds (http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/best-orgasm)

NetDoctor: Are you having trouble reaching orgasm? A guide for women (http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm)

I would think that most women would not orgasm with a casual punter, there's no real connection.
There would be a psychological barrier, cause you kind of paid to stick your dick in her, and that's your interest, not hers.

Hi Booster, i can't speak for all women, only myself and if i am turned on, it doesn't matter how long my day has been i can still enjoy myself..that being said i am not turned on by everyone i have been with for one reason or another so there have been many times where i simply have not reached climax. If i wish, i know how to get myself there eventually :)

hikhik
29-04-2013, 02:35 AM
The obvious fakes are a real turn off though.


Awful habit that some of the WL have. I understand the basis of the habit, I too get more into the groove if my partner is enjoying herself, but NOT when it is an obvious fake.

IExperiment
29-04-2013, 03:53 AM
totally agree with sei on this...

There are a lot of guys out there, get in the room, shower and starfish-ed. I understand that you guys would wanted to be served after a long day and seek for a release. I don't know about other girls, but for me, I would appreciate if the guy tells me if I did the right thing, if I hit the spot. Most guys would like to have girls responded to them but I think most girls are the same too. It all depends on how you do things, how both of you clicked, and have you get the right button. :smile:

I am a starfish for the first 5 minutes minutes :) but I do make it up get on top do my work after to finish the session.