Ethical Dilemma

[the wizard]

Sometimes I want to shout from the rooftops my experiences at various shops.
I want to tell friends and even family.

Re telling family, ie nephew this is a bit dicey- He is 23, not very experienced. I want to shout him a session
at say Ginza with a young Jap girl.
Problem is if family find out I'am Roasted..

Maybe just leave him to his own devices, just mention a place and let him make the decision.
Friends not much of a problem

[Littlewonder]

Its a nice sentiment wiz but I think its better left unsaid. I would like to send my sons to a shop with a nice girl get them a lesson on how to look after a lady but its one of those things that would do them and any girls they spend time with a real favour but if the rest of the family and relatives found out shit would hit the fan.

[the wizard]

Its a nice sentiment wiz but I think its better left unsaid. I would like to send my sons to a shop with a nice girl get them a lesson on how to look after a lady but its one of those things that would do them and any girls they spend time with a real favour but if the rest of the family and relatives found out shit would hit the fan.

Thanks Littlewonder, even mentioning a place would incriminate me, they would say of me " he goes to wl's" with the same result.

The brotherhood we have going here should be enough !

[AHLUNGOR]

Sometimes I want to shout from the rooftops my experiences at various shops.
I want to tell friends and even family.

Re telling family, ie nephew this is a bit dicey- He is 23, not very experienced. I want to shout him a session
at say Ginza with a young Jap girl.
Problem is if family find out I'am Roasted..

Maybe just leave him to his own devices, just mention a place and let him make the decision.
Friends not much of a problem

Just introduce him to the forum (without revealing your username) and let him find out himself, just point him to the right direction!!

[DeepImpact]

I would advise you not to do anything. That's really a personal choice for him that he could share with friends but not family and you are going to come out looking like a sleazy uncle if he is horrified by the idea. I would hate for one of my uncles to raise this subject. It could make family gatherings uncomfortable in the future.

[boater]

Sometimes I want to shout from the rooftops my experiences at various shops.
I want to tell friends and even family.

Re telling family, ie nephew this is a bit dicey- He is 23, not very experienced. I want to shout him a session
at say Ginza with a young Jap girl.
Problem is if family find out I'am Roasted..

Maybe just leave him to his own devices, just mention a place and let him make the decision.
Friends not much of a problem

Even if he responds negatively your roasted.

Yes, sometimes you just want to talk - that is what we are here for. Don't risk blowing up your life Wiz because you want to sing.

Boater

[Booster]

I would advise you not to do anything.


Even if he responds negatively your roasted.

Yes, sometimes you just want to talk - that is what we are here for. Don't risk blowing up your life Wiz because you want to sing.

Boater

I think that you shouldn't do anything about this either, but, it also depends on your relationship with your nephew.
If you have a close relationship and always do things together then it would be easier.

Also are you married?
What values and behaviours do you expect of others?
Do you model these values and behaviours?
What are the values and behaviours that he holds?

Also on the other hand, if HE gets found out, would he spill the beans on you?
Would you become the Evil Uncle Who Introduced Our Good Son To The Ways Of Sin And Depravity?:fire:

Just saying.

[Littlewonder]

We live in two worlds one with and one without punting. Its a good idea to keep them separate. When I started punting there were no such thing as these forums what a revelation they are at least we can share our experiences and learn from one another and discuss a subject that is generally taboo amongst friends and family.

Lets face it once you let someone know you punt if they don't like it or accept it they can make life difficult for you, some times you just got to play it safe.

[AHLUNGOR]

We live in two worlds one with and one without punting. Its a good idea to keep them separate. When I started punting there were no such thing as these forums what a revelation they are at least we can share our experiences and learn from one another and discuss a subject that is generally taboo amongst friends and family.

Lets face it once you let someone know you punt if they don't like it or accept it they can make life difficult for you, some times you just got to play it safe.

Yeap, the punting world is like a secret society or you can call it the exclusive private club for the distinguish gentlemen!!

Unlike politics and religion, you can't tell and you can't share with family, friends or work mates, unless they are also your punting buddies!!

Just imagine how much fun you could have if your big brother (blood) takes you out on your 18 birthday and pay for your first FS session as a bd present, and you brothers became instant punting buddies as well as blood brothers and keeping that as a brotherly secret from your parents your wife's and children, and the convenient you could have when you can cover each others back!!

Awesome!!

[Sillyboy]

Few years back a ML friend told me of another ML who screwed around with father and two sons! All 3 used to visit this shop separately unknown to each other and all 3 pursued the same ML who subsequently dated the eldest son and also the father! They found out when she was introduced at a home dinner by the oldest son. Funny enough the shit didn't hit the fan and things were still normal. The oldest son actually broke up with the ML and she ended up dating the younger brother. Needless to say, the old man was delusional for thinking the ML would like him before. What young ML would truly fall for an older man other than for money?

Very weird but true story! Anyway I thought id throw this story in as part of the family discussion haha