Do I have the ED problem?

[silverfox1985]

Sometimes I have problem to erect with WLs or random girls, is that an ED? It works totally fine in other occasions as well wanking while watching porn. I do not last long either, like 5 mins. Very frustrated...I definitely don't want to take medicine unless it is necessary.

PS: I have a foreskin covering the entire penis (not phimosis). If I want to get my penis exposed, I have to manually retract my foreskin and it really feels uncomfortable when it touches my underwear. I did have the circumcision (may be a dorsal slit)when I was 4 or 5, but it did not move the entire foreskin and still left a large portion of it. I dont want to get circumcised coz I heard it may damage the nerves etc..

Hope someone can help!

[AHLUNGOR]

Sometimes I have problem to erect with WLs or random girls, is that an ED? It works totally fine in other occasions as well wanking while watching porn. I do not last long either, like 5 mins. Very frustrated...I definitely don't want to take medicine unless it is necessary.

PS: I have a foreskin covering the entire penis (not phimosis). If I want to get my penis exposed, I have to manually retract my foreskin and it really feels uncomfortable when it touches my underwear. I did have the circumcision (may be a dorsal slit)when I was 4 or 5, but it did not move the entire foreskin and still left a large portion of it. I dont want to get circumcised coz I heard it may damage the nerves etc..

Hope someone can help!

Well brother,

I am no expert in this but sounds like you dick head/helmet is currently not exposed?? And if you feel uncomfortable when it touches your underpants that means you dick is still sensitive.

Just curious, when you are full erected, is your helmet showing at all or is it still covered by the fore skins?

If it does, mate, you are missing out on a lot of pleasure, you may have to get it fixed, that may also explain the 5 min, if your helmet is always exposed when soft like most people, it should be less sensitive and perhaps then you can enjoy longer lasting sex.

I could be wrong, there must be other brothers with more knowledge in this medically,

Good luck

Cheers

[DeepImpact]

Bro there was recently a show on SBS called Insight where they debate current issues - below is the link.

There are some stories about adult circumcision. There don't appear to be any regrets from those that have had it done. If it could solve your issue you will regret waiting so see a doctor but watch the program out of interest first. Hope this helps and good luck with everything
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ge3hC-nlx24

[silverfox1985]

My helmet is fully exposed during a full erection

[handbanana]

It could be some form of performance anxiety? Or over use?

[mannykay]

Hey man, I had the same problem with the ED. It's porn. Stop watching porn and especially stop jacking off to porn. You're basically training your brain to get off to virtual 2D sex, so when you get to the real thing your brain goes derp.
I find that when I stop porn for at least 1-2 weeks, my meat sword goes harder than a flagpole, much more sensitive and I cum much more easily.

Source: Me
http://yourbrainonporn.com/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=FMJgZ4s2E3w

EDIT: correct video - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

[silverfox1985]

Hey man, I had the same problem with the ED. It's porn. Stop watching porn and especially stop jacking off to porn. You're basically training your brain to get off to virtual 2D sex, so when you get to the real thing your brain goes derp.
I find that when I stop porn for at least 1-2 weeks, my meat sword goes harder than a flagpole, much more sensitive and I cum much more easily.

Source: Me
http://yourbrainonporn.com/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=FMJgZ4s2E3w

Many thanks!! mate, this is helpful. I hope my problem is only a psychological one.

[mannykay]

No problem. It should be a psychological one. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

EDIT: 1985, I assume you're 27?

EDIT 2: I'm also fully circumcised (since 2yrs old) and have no issue with the nerves. Don't believe the rhetoric by anti-circumcision people. Most of them aren't circumcised. Just get it done by a certified professional. Mine was done in the Westmeads Children's Hospital by a proper surgeon since it was a medical issue. My 9 yr old nephew just had his done by a Middle Eastern private doctor, and it wasn't pretty.

EDIT 3: Sorry, disregard the Youtube link I gave before - I was supposed to link this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

[DeepImpact]

My helmet is fully exposed during a full erection

I am pretty sure that the exposure is related to when you are not erect. If you have been circumcised the foreskin is removed so if you still have it whilst soft then there might be some left to remove. Speak to a doctor as you have nothing to lose really and everything to gain by getting this problem resolved.

[Jj999]

I am circumcised and of course the head is exposed everytime.

The doctor at Sydney hospital said, if you are circumcised, the risk for STD is lower.
So I guess, it is a good thing to do.

Never heard of nerves damaged.

And I never heard of circumcised-penis' head not exposed if it's not erect.
You can ask a doctor, maybe yours is not done properly.

[silverfox1985]

I am circumcised and of course the head is exposed everytime.

The doctor at Sydney hospital said, if you are circumcised, the risk for STD is lower.
So I guess, it is a good thing to do.

Never heard of nerves damaged.

And I never heard of circumcised-penis' head not exposed if it's not erect.
You can ask a doctor, maybe yours is not done properly.

the circumcision at my early age might just be a dorsal slit without moving the most of the foreskin (I do have a scar on my foreskin so they definitely did something back that time)

[silverfox1985]

Hey man, I had the same problem with the ED. It's porn. Stop watching porn and especially stop jacking off to porn. You're basically training your brain to get off to virtual 2D sex, so when you get to the real thing your brain goes derp.
I find that when I stop porn for at least 1-2 weeks, my meat sword goes harder than a flagpole, much more sensitive and I cum much more easily.

Source: Me
http://yourbrainonporn.com/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=FMJgZ4s2E3w

EDIT: correct video - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

Mate, after watching these videos, I have started my quit porn campaign

[mannykay]

Good stuff man. ALOT harder than it sounds. I fell off the wagon in all my attempts. Never was fully able to quit porn but I find that if I abstain from porn and jacking off at least week prior, then I'm as hard a diamonds, cum like a civil rights riots hose and hump like a jackhammer.
Let us know how it goes or if you if you need any advice.

[kumichou]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU After watching this, I've decided to stop watching porn for 90 days. Probably going to punt more instead. No ED issues but I'm curious of the other benefits. Anyone else decided to stop watching porn after watching this video.

[silverfox1985]

Should I quite masturbation tooo?

[mannykay]

Quitting jerking off would make the reboot quicker and effective, but the main culprit is the porn. Keep masturbation to a minimal if you really have to - once in a blue moon is fine in my case. First few days are always the hardest. Hang in there. Also refrain from fantasising about porn while your at it. You want to erase the images that have been polluting your brain.
God I sound like such a fundamentalist Chistrian. I can assure you its for health benefits, tested and proven!

[mannykay]

After watching this, I've decided to stop watching porn for 90 days. Probably going to punt more instead. No ED issues but I'm curious of the other benefits. Anyone else decided to stop watching porn after watching this video.

My thinking is that you'll be much more sexually aggressive and would feel substantially more pleasurable. Like a starving man being given a fat juicy steak.
I spent 2 weeks in Thailand with my family, no porn or masturbation. When I finally got a chance to slip out and head to PatPong by myself, I fucked the WL so hard I could've killed her.

[silverfox1985]

Quitting jerking off would make the reboot quicker and effective, but the main culprit is the porn. Keep masturbation to a minimal if you really have to - once in a blue moon is fine in my case. First few days are always the hardest. Hang in there. Also refrain from fantasising about porn while your at it. You want to erase the images that have been polluting your brain.
God I sound like such a fundamentalist Chistrian. I can assure you its for health benefits, tested and proven!

I've been stopping watching Porn for a month now, but masturbate a lot, like every two days, sigh..

gonna pay a visit to some WL tomorrow to see how things go?