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asiafever
13-12-2012, 10:21 PM
We have already established that Roger's is virtually my second home. When I saw he had found a Japanese girl I was 2 parts sceptical and 8 parts ecstatic.
Japanese girls work for me. I have dated 4 for a combined 3-4 years of my life, and had 'encounters' with several more, but none since 2004.. But each relationship left me broken man. When we seperated they took a piece of my heart with them. Stunningly beautiful girls with a femininity that could melt the polar ice caps. I rang the shop and sure enough Stephanie was available. I booked and raced towards Rydalmere.
I love music. I love rap, rock, metal, dance, soul, pop, reggae, I love it all, and much of my life seems to have had a soundtrack put to it. My time living in Japan and hanging out with musos in particular holds strong memories. We would go out 3-4 nights a week, drinking, watching bands, singing karaoke, whatever, but these guys and gals weren't 'usual'. We'd listen to Eagles, Billy Joel, Beatles, Gunners, Led Zep, Stevie Ray all in one session. Good times. In fact possibly the best times. Anyhow, while driving I switched on the radio. Normally I am a cd man, but as I switched from station to station a song came on. Somebody I used to know I believe it's called. Not my usual cup of tea but somehow I felt like listening to it.
I arrived, rang the buzzer, a new hostess who was quite cute and very well mannered ushered me in and introduced me to stephanie. She is tall, very slim, bleached hair. Pretty-ish without blowing you away with beauty. Up the stairs we went and in to the room. Showered and on the bed. Stephanie and I exchanged small talk about Japan, she turned on her ipod. This is where things turned, how should I put it, surreal.
Her entire ipod was a soundtrack to my 2 years in Japan. It was like she had delved into the far reaches of my rather small brain and extracted memories. As I lay there receiving without doubt the best cbj of my life listening to Hotel California, I wondered if indeed I had entered some bizarre space/time continueum and was back 10 years ago with Aoi the sexy blonde sister of my friend (another story for another day..) who would sing that song at EVERY Karaoke session. After a few minutes of this and me writhing like a snake Stephanie got on for some cowgirl. She felt good, she smelt wonderful, then came "Hard to say I'm sorry" by Chicago. Instantly I was transported to 2004 and my last visit there, and the unparalleled beauty of Rinoa. She was a model/actress/singer and I was besotted. To me, she was the pure embodiment of beauty and grace and all that was to love in a girl. She loved that song, and even quoted it to me when we had 'the talk' of how our relationship could not work over the distance. Rinoa broke my heart, but in the sweetest possible way.
Stephanie quickly snapped me out of my reminiscence by asking if I wanted to try doggy or side-on. We moved into side-on. We moved rhythmically, her breathing getting a little louder, I kissed her neck, fondled her breasts, it was delightful. Then it happened again. "Honesty" by Billy Joel. Suddenly I was back in a karaoke bar with all my best friends in Japan, and on my arm was the sweet Harumi. She was typical Japan, yet not. Perfect figure, cute face, yet she carried more sass than the typical Japanese girl, mostly to do with a tough upbringing when her father died young. We had a special bond, while neither of our second languages were particularly good, we would sit and talk for hours, just enjoying each others company. She was also a singer, and this night in that bar, she sang this song for me, we were there celebrating/commiserating the end of my relationship to a two-time backstabbing bitch, and Harumi's rendition of this song brought tears to eyes. It was her way of reaching out to me to tell me she had feelings for me. It was beautiful. I love her still to this day.
Back to the present. Snap out of it.
Stephanie pulled me closer, wrapping her arm over her shoulder and grabbing my head in to her neck, like she sensed my drifting, she wanted me there, with her. I asked her for her favourite position, she replied in a breathy voice "This.. I could stay like this all night, please don't stop..". She had my undivided attention now. We would stay like that another 20 minutes or so. Faster, slower, deeper, shallower. It was as if my mind had been cleansed and I was ready for her now.
After finishing, and catching breath, her ipod had one more trick up it's sleeve. My heart rate dropped and clarity returned to my foggy brain, then from my right Paul McCartney offered "Yesterday..". Profound, I thought. The last tie I had seen the girl I nearly married, Tomoko, this was playing in the car as I drove away from the airport. I have never forgotten it. It was the last time I saw her.
Showered and said goodbyes. Stephanie has been here 10 years, so her english is very good and she's not straight out of Tokyo. Even now, 10 hours later, I am still trying to grapple with those 45mins and what they meant. Maybe I am over-analysing things. Maybe Stephanie's destiny for today was to exorcise some demons from my past. Who cares? She was great value and worth the visit. Sometimes we just have to stop looking too far in to things that may or may not be there and enjoy a special moment.

cmk76
13-12-2012, 10:33 PM
The past will remain in the past, while the future, as we know it, is in the present right in front of us. That was simply a 'beautiful' report. Thanks for taking me there.

Sextus
14-12-2012, 04:00 PM
AsiaFever has relationships with Japanese girls pretty enough to be models.

This sounds like you must have inherited a genetic gift or two yourself.

If you love those Japanese girls still, I feel, after reading this, I could very easily do so as well. Japanese girls are humanity's gift to the world. Full stop.

The review above is really nicely themed in the way it weaves in the signifcant past, and the self- reflection that music, sex and angelic femininity causes in us.

(The latter two I had my own experience of recently and detailed in my AR of Alysha at Styles.)

Cmk76 on one hand claims he is "short, beige and funny looking" (Impressing girls with money or personality thread 8 th Dec. 2012) and on the other hand reveals he had a long relationship with a WL gorgeous enough to charge $600 per hour (?) (Relationship with a WL?" thread.) The equation isn't adding up.

I feel he must be just a little more of an oil painting than he is letting on to us, and then claiming it is entirely personality. While I concede the latter, I'm looking for him to concede the former - and let us 6 out of 10 ers off the hook.

asiafever
14-12-2012, 05:56 PM
When I was younger sextus I wasn't as ugly as a bucket full of smashed crabs. I had (and still have) an athletic physique but it was certainly my personality that helped!

Ilovegirls
14-12-2012, 09:02 PM
Wow. Thanks for sharing. That was beautiful.

Sextus
14-12-2012, 10:52 PM
When I was younger sextus I wasn't as ugly as a bucket full of smashed crabs. I had (and still have) an athletic physique but it was certainly my personality that helped!

asiafever, "a bucket full of smashed crabs" is a killer image. he he he...

Well look, I use what I have got too. I'm just over 50 now, but with exercise and healthy eating it keeps my waist at 32".

And lately, due to cmk_76's sage writings, I have been laying on the charm with the wl's, and it is working in persuading them into things.

So success = confidence, which works within the WL world and outside of it too.

cmk76
15-12-2012, 11:53 AM
AsiaFever has relationships with Japanese girls pretty enough to be models.

This sounds like you must have inherited a genetic gift or two yourself.

If you love those Japanese girls still, I feel, after reading this, I could very easily do so as well. Japanese girls are humanity's gift to the world. Full stop.

The review above is really nicely themed in the way it weaves in the signifcant past, and the self- reflection that music, sex and angelic femininity causes in us.

(The latter two I had my own experience of recently and detailed in my AR of Alysha at Styles.)

Cmk76 on one hand claims he is "short, beige and funny looking" (Impressing girls with money or personality thread 8 th Dec. 2012) and on the other hand reveals he had a long relationship with a WL gorgeous enough to charge $600 per hour (?) (Relationship with a WL?" thread.) The equation isn't adding up.

I feel he must be just a little more of an oil painting than he is letting on to us, and then claiming it is entirely personality. While I concede the latter, I'm looking for him to concede the former - and let us 6 out of 10 ers off the hook.


Dear Sextus,

Your comment of 'gorgeous enough to charge $600 per hour' may have been misconstrued, conjuring images of a Victoria's Secret model. My ex gf at the time was always a geeky, clumsy uni girl whom I adored and appreciated. I don't think gorgeous is a word that is befitting to a stylish, astute businesswoman that she was.

I should correct my statement too and say that the agency had set her at an entry level rate of $660 an hour. (agencies paid gst. as most transactions were done by card) She got 60% from that. Deciding to go solo, she charged her private clients $600 an hour, and further discounts for more hours booked. As far as her qualities or sexual skills are concerned, it did not reflect the rate that she was given. Her intelligence, poise and demeanour were very professional and offered very real companionship. Her ability to hold and understand conversational topics regarding law, business, current events and even politics. All of this, in her early 20's.

She had once asked me, (prior to getting into the industry), what I thought her rate could potentially be. I don't remember what I had said; only that she was offended by the amount. I underestimated her and her capabilities. She had proved me wrong, and went on to be financially successful, saving enough money for other business opportunities.
She led on that she didn't want to be like all the other 'girls' that offer everything under the sun all inclusive for the hour! That was why her wily skills and cunning charm have saved her from not doing the deed with clients she was not attracted to. Her motto was, the more you pay, the less you get.

There were 2 types of clients that would see her,

1. The monthly 1 or 2 hourly punters, who would just want to have sex and nothing more. Many of these were 'wannabe' high flyers who had promised everything under the sun, dropping names, flashing money and so on. They were up to their necks in debt, and played the 'victim' card as well, hopefully to secure further sexual services either for free or at a discounted rate. Ages between 25-40+ ( I didn't mind these type of clients, as I know that all they want is sex, however filthy or innocent it may be)

2. The regular overnighters, weekenders, long weekenders, holiday makers (usually on a fortnight basis) who want companionship and nothing more. Most wanted an emotional connection and further commitment for a permanent relationship. All of them were very well set up, and needn't to work for the rest of their lives. 50-70+ (These type of clientele I wasn't too comfortable with, especially when she was away and not having sex?!)

It was an interesting insight into a small window of this world. I knew that it was way beyond what I could handle. It left me dumbfounded, broken hearted, confused, and resorting back to my punting lifestyle. I know that there was a lesson to be learned from it.

As for me, I am, and will always be, short, beige and funny looking! I will take your 'feeling that I must be just a little more of an oil painting' as a compliment. Thank you kindly, sir!

AHLUNGOR
15-12-2012, 12:18 PM
Dear Sextus,

Your comment of 'gorgeous enough to charge $600 per hour' may have been misconstrued, conjuring images of a Victoria's Secret model. My ex gf at the time was always a geeky, clumsy uni girl whom I adored and appreciated. I don't think gorgeous is a word that is befitting to a stylish, astute businesswoman that she was.

I should correct my statement too and say that the agency had set her at an entry level rate of $660 an hour. (agencies paid gst. as most transactions were done by card) She got 60% from that. Deciding to go solo, she charged her private clients $600 an hour, and further discounts for more hours booked. As far as her qualities or sexual skills are concerned, it did not reflect the rate that she was given. Her intelligence, poise and demeanour were very professional and offered very real companionship. Her ability to hold and understand conversational topics regarding law, business, current events and even politics. All of this, in her early 20's.

She had once asked me, (prior to getting into the industry), what I thought her rate could potentially be. I don't remember what I had said; only that she was offended by the amount. I underestimated her and her capabilities. She had proved me wrong, and went on to be financially successful, saving enough money for other business opportunities.
She led on that she didn't want to be like all the other 'girls' that offer everything under the sun all inclusive for the hour! That was why her wily skills and cunning charm have saved her from not doing the deed with clients she was not attracted to. Her motto was, the more you pay, the less you get.

There were 2 types of clients that would see her,

1. The monthly 1 or 2 hourly punters, who would just want to have sex and nothing more. Many of these were 'wannabe' high flyers who had promised everything under the sun, dropping names, flashing money and so on. They were up to their necks in debt, and played the 'victim' card as well, hopefully to secure further sexual services either for free or at a discounted rate. Ages between 25-40+ ( I didn't mind these type of clients, as I know that all they want is sex, however filthy or innocent it may be)

2. The regular overnighters, weekenders, long weekenders, holiday makers (usually on a fortnight basis) who want companionship and nothing more. Most wanted an emotional connection and further commitment for a permanent relationship. All of them were very well set up, and needn't to work for the rest of their lives. 50-70+ (These type of clientele I wasn't too comfortable with, especially when she was away and not having sex?!)

It was an interesting insight into a small window of this world. I knew that it was way beyond what I could handle. It left me dumbfounded, broken hearted, confused, and resorting back to my punting lifestyle. I know that there was a lesson to be learned from it.

As for me, I am, and will always be, short, beige and funny looking! I will take your 'feeling that I must be just a little more of an oil painting' as a compliment. Thank you kindly, sir!

Haha, Brother cmk.

Thanks for the insight of a seemingly very smart and cunning high class escort. Lots of books and movies and TV series had been made to reflect certain success stories not dissimilar to the one you just described. Not trying to stereotype here, but how many successful business women today (lawyers, senior executives etc.) had moonlighted as an escort in their younger years to put themselves through law school, Uni etc.

If we view the sex industry no different than your run of the mill hospitality industry, then we are all sweet, and of course, the only difference is, if you have a daughter, you would want something different for your love ones.

usual two cents

Cheers

:smile:

cmk76
15-12-2012, 03:41 PM
Haha, Brother cmk.

Thanks for the insight of a seemingly very smart and cunning high class escort. Lots of books and movies and TV series had been made to reflect certain success stories not dissimilar to the one you just described. Not trying to stereotype here, but how many successful business women today (lawyers, senior executives etc.) had moonlighted as an escort in their younger years to put themselves through law school, Uni etc.

If we view the sex industry no different than your run of the mill hospitality industry, then we are all sweet, and of course, the only difference is, if you have a daughter, you would want something different for your love ones.

usual two cents

Cheers

:smile:

Ahlungor,

You have not been named the wise dragon for aesthetic reasons. Once again, you have presented a thought challenging question. I am not there yet, for I do not have a family of my own but as for loved ones (cousin, aunty, niece, friend's daughter), I suppose I would try to understand why have they chosen this path to sustain their living needs.

slowmotion
18-12-2012, 07:21 PM
Saw Stephanie this week for an hour. Unfortunately, we did not click. She is nice and but has a K-doll princess attitude. No DATY, No DFK but her CBJ is quite good. Her English is good after having been in Australia for over 10 years. I probably enjoyed the music more than the session ... so definitely wont see her again.

chandra_man1
18-12-2012, 10:40 PM
no DFK no DATY. GTFOOH