View Full Version : General talk Ever dated a working girl? Share your stories.
yjl11
10-08-2014, 12:43 AM
So who here has dated a working girl? It's not the wisest or most practical thing to do, but I have been out with a fee just as a date. had feelings for one girl (the first one i described) more than the other, but those things don't usually end well so i just date them now just for something social, so i take them out for dinner and so on.
Girl number 1
Was a young Korean/Chinese girl, spoke Korean and Chinese, very attractive, we both had great chemistry, she was definitely attracted to me and I was to her, we both complimented each other how each of us looked as good as the KPOP stars. She worked in a low budget shop but man, she was 5* material, around 158cm tall, curvy body, gorgeous face (maybe had some botox but generally didn't seem to have any huge noticeable plastic surgery). Anyways i visited her quite often about twice a week, we DFK a lot and I eventually started having feelings for her, went out on a date to a korean bbq, just some hugs, cuddles and kisses, nothing spectatular, but was a great date. too bad she left Australia permanently now. Didn't get the chance to see her again after that as I think she got sick of being a working girl and wanted to leave it all behind. I actually miss her, would've loved to get the chance to see her again but she left so quickly and suddenly.
Girl number 2
Was a young Korean girl, got DFK from her from first visit which she usually doesn't provide, not as attractive as girl number one but better body. Got her number, we went out to lunch in the city at Darling Harbour, had a nice time, just normal lunch at Thai, kisses and cuddles, typical. Anyways after lunch, just walked around Darling habour, sat around at a park, just hugs and kisses, eventually just walked her home to her place, she showed me her apartment but didn't let me, probably because a roommate was still up there. I was hoping she would allow me in though, cause i was so horny, had blue balls (sore balls) because i had a hard dick almost the whole i was with her.
She just came out of a relationship so i'm sure she is just enjoying herself. I did feel i was a bit forward in my feelings for her, she actually ignored my texts on wechat a few times because of that, but i think i was a bit to forward for the first two weeks of meeting her but we still ok now, i visit her at the shop and she provides me special services and she said she is still happy to go out again with me sometimes. I think i will just have a casual, relationship with her, i will still go on dates, will still have some feelings but nothing too forward or serious.
cleetusvandamme
10-08-2014, 02:36 AM
I have dated a few, had semi-serious relationships with a couple, texted with many who perhaps were just a bit lonely and "fallen in love"with countless beautiful working ladies.
It is always so complicated though. Even when I know better I find it hard not to get jealous if she's still working.
Spending an hour or two with a woman in a working situation, even over a few months is also very different to spending time together in the real world. I've felt deep connections with someone in the room which didn't necessarily transfer to outside the room. And sometimes sexual chemistry can be confused with love.
Have definitely met some wonderful women though...
Good_guy_Greg
10-08-2014, 08:02 AM
I have dated one before, but maybe it was me, maybe it was her, but in the end I figured out she only wanted something material from me in return (not money). Maybe from girls perspective they think we only we want sex in return. Can't blame them. But in the end I wasn't willing to give it and so things died off.
That was a while ago, and now on Friday I met a Korean WL and we totally hit it off. Had lots of laughs, lots of hand holding, and probably could've gone in for a kiss but thought it was too early. Will definitely return to see her and if things transfer to outside the shop, I will update in this thread.
silentholler
10-08-2014, 11:16 AM
I've been in a relationship with a Korean WL who worked at AT and then GF127 a few years ago. We went out for a few months until she had to go back home. Long distance relationship couldn't be sustained. I usually spend my weekends (if she's on day off) in her apartment and she cooks for me and everything. We also went on a few trips. It really felt like a genuine relationship (for me anyway) until she gets a message from a 'client' or whenever I had to pick her up from work at dawn (It's hard because sometimes you see punters coming out and you can't help but think if this guy just screwed her). Even if I thought I convinced myself before that her work doesn't matter, it still gets to you over time. She's obviously a real looker and she really turn heads whenever we go clubbing. One other thing, it was very expensive and I paid for most of our expenses (especially the trips). I just count that as an experience to remember as I've always been curious on how it felt to go out with a WL. Will I do it again? Probably not.
CunningLinguist
10-08-2014, 01:32 PM
I dated quite a few many years ago, these days I prefer not to date them, even if they make the first move, and not because I have a partner just because I'd rather see them for the 1 hour for the fantasy experience only. When I did date them I was the one who called it off after learning what they were really like...
I remember one WL I dated for a while, she was on the rebound and eventually I got sick of her always talking about her ex ...
She was stunning, the sex was good and I slept over her place alot, went to movies dinner etc and she always wanted to pay. Met her friends, there was one guy that was quite jealous as he was trying to get into her pants and never knew she was a WL!
There was a ML that I dated for a while, I used to get free extras during the day when I saw her as a ML and she worked as a stripper at night and I used to get free extras at night in the private rooms! We used to go out also to do various things. I eventually lost interest.
When I was doing this I saw it as an extended fantasy experience, a I would never date these girls with the intention of a long term relationship. I see my 1 or 2 hour sessions with WLs like goingto the movies to live in a fantasy world for a while, and I used to see my dating sessions like installmenets in a Television mini-series!
Leonard
10-08-2014, 02:32 PM
Sorry to burst your bubble kid but if you are visiting a girl in a brothel (regardless of whether you are getting 'free extras' or not, LOL) you are NOT dating her you are just a customer!
There was a ML that I dated for a while, I used to get free extras during the day when I saw her as a ML and she worked as a stripper at night and I used to get free extras at night in the private rooms!
You are the same guy from the other thread that was talking about pick-up strategy and overcoming "pussy power" right? holey moley man are you for real?? what an absolute pretender you are!!!
Intersting stories ! I guess the more you are in love with a WL the more it hurts when you think about her when she is just doing her "job" !
CunningLinguist
10-08-2014, 03:27 PM
Sorry to burst your bubble kid but if you are visiting a girl in a brothel (regardless of whether you are getting 'free extras' or not, LOL) you are NOT dating her you are just a customer!
Since you are on my ignore list I didn't see your post but someone pointed me at this post because you misquoted me again.
You seem to have left off the part where I said:
We used to go out also to do various things.
Hence we have more evidence you are nothing but a bitter troll who has been banned before and is now trying to misquote me and get back at me like a little two year old, quite pathetic really. Why don't you contribute something to the forum instead of trying to start arguments ...
I know, since we are on a sex forum why don't you do an AR ???
Interesting thread! Not sure if i could date a WL. It would feel a bit awkward haha
pepefirstlove
10-08-2014, 05:08 PM
About to date a WL, She's korean.. Any tips for a beginner? We exchanged numerous sms's and talk in the last week also... I know in my head this won't be a long term thing just want the thrill out of it.
Any advice?
Good_guy_Greg
10-08-2014, 05:27 PM
About to date a WL, She's korean.. Any tips for a beginner? We exchanged numerous sms's and talk in the last week also... I know in my head this won't be a long term thing just want the thrill out of it.
Any advice?
Hope it's not the same one as mine lol.
My only advice is to not take it too seriously, and don't give her anything she asks if you are uncomfortable with it.
Sextus
10-08-2014, 06:11 PM
..interesting topic :))
Lovely to know you look in on us from time to time Isis. :prettiness: If you have been dated as a working girl, have you spent too much trying to figure out the guy's headspace?
(But I think probably you kept the two worlds very separate.)
rooter
10-08-2014, 06:17 PM
I've dated hundreds of WLs but for some strange reason my dates always seem to last exactly 1hour.
It's uncanny!
Actually some dates have gone really well and lasted 1hr and 5mins.
And some dates have gone so well we had a second date - which again lasted only 1 hour.
2 dates is the longest relationship I have managed so far.
wilisno
10-08-2014, 06:49 PM
If going out for some social outings like dinner dates, movies, shoppings, short trips are classified as datings, then I have lost count of how many I've had !
My point is, just enjoy the moment, enjoy her company, why complicate matter by thinking too far ? Even she's a normal girl, not a WL, you wouldn't think of a long term relationship after just a few meetings would you ?
AHLUNGOR
10-08-2014, 07:11 PM
If going out for some social outings like dinner dates, movies, shoppings, short trips are classified as datings, then I have lost count of how many I've had !
My point is, just enjoy the moment, enjoy her company, why complicate matter by thinking too far ? Even she's a normal girl, not a WL, you wouldn't think of a long term relationship after just a few meetings would you ?
Absolutely !
WLs , MLs or Mamasans , first and foremost are just a lady !
Treat them well, with mutual respects and admiration, enjoy the company , cherish the moment, just like friends hanging out and have a good time!
No need to think too much and too far out in advance !!
You never thought of marriage or her sexual history every time you dated a girl right ?
They are just another girl !
Cheers
yjl11
10-08-2014, 09:08 PM
If going out for some social outings like dinner dates, movies, shoppings, short trips are classified as datings, then I have lost count of how many I've had !
My point is, just enjoy the moment, enjoy her company, why complicate matter by thinking too far ? Even she's a normal girl, not a WL, you wouldn't think of a long term relationship after just a few meetings would you ?
Depends on the context, if I meet up with a female and have no feelings whatsoever and know is just a social, then not really a date. But if i ask a girl out to dinner, and we both have some interest, kiss and hold hands etc, then it's a date for sure. It really depends on how the two people going out look at it, I for one when i ask a girl, i intend it to be a date, and they know it, as there are some feelings involved. Sometimes it doesn't work out, particularly with a working girl and I end up wasting a lot of fking money that way.
wilisno
10-08-2014, 09:16 PM
Depends on the context, if I meet up with a female and have no feelings whatsoever and know is just a social, then not really a date. But if i ask a girl out to dinner, and we both have some interest, kiss and hold hands etc, then it's a date for sure. It really depends on how the two people going out look at it, I for one when i ask a girl, i intend it to be a date, and they know it, as there are some feelings involved. Sometimes it doesn't work out, particularly with a working girl and I end up wasting a lot of fking money that way.
Haha ! You're doomed ! Good luck then ! ;) ;) ;)
yjl11
10-08-2014, 09:21 PM
Haha ! You're doomed ! Good luck then ! ;) ;) ;)
haha thank you for reassuring i am doomed, these days i prolly looking to speed date, cheaper and more efficient. But i just can't help myself sometimes, wasting money i know
Van_Allen
10-08-2014, 10:09 PM
I not so long ago broke up with a really nice (at least I thought so at the time) and popular ML.
The first time I met her was about a year ago in her shop and not much happened apart from the standard R&T but I knew I was instantly attracted to her. A few weeks later I had a second session with her and towards the end of the session I started cracking jokes and she was laughing so much that I took it as a good sign and therefore asked for her number which she gladly gave to me.
That was the last time I saw her in the shop and so we started dating regularly after a while. I met her family that live in Australia and some of her working friends and friends from her college , I would help her with her studies and go on at least one date a week but on average we would meet up say 2-3 times a week at least for drinks. This went on for about nine months.
The sex was great (really do miss that!) and it got to the point where we were very comfortable together and so she decided to go on the pill.
Holidays were planned together (deposits placed unfortunately) and everything seemed rosy until one night we were in Thai Town to grab some dinner walking down the street hand in hand after spending a nice day together when all of a sudden we run into a bloke who looks furious. Turns out this guy thinks he is her boyfriend, I told him I thought the same thing! We both look at her and she's got nothing so I decide to walk away otherwise I honestly would have lost control. She rang numerous times that night but I never picked up the phone. A few days later we did end up talking and she had apparently been cheating on me for about two months with this guy who she met in her shop.
Sorry for the long post, finally good to write this down and vent a little. This ML's really did screw me over and only now am I truly getting over it. I certainly won't be dating anymore ML's in the future.
harmony
10-08-2014, 10:12 PM
Great story Van_Allen
During the 2 months with her did she ever act flaky to suggest she was two timing you ? Or was she totally expert keeping the secret from you ?
How can we protect ourselves from the two timer ?
Van_Allen
10-08-2014, 10:41 PM
Unfortunately she acted exactly the same. I honestly would never have known unless that chance encounter with the other bloke happened. I guess any girl could do the same thing, however ML's have more exposure to men in sexual scenarios that I have now learned my lesson. She gained my trust and then took advantage, she is just a horrible person!
Lancelot
10-08-2014, 10:41 PM
Van_Allen, she introduced you to friends and family so she probably genuinely connected with u in a special way but was it enuff to stop her from 2 timing? obviously not. She choses to keep working in this industry, the money's good, and she may genuinely like the power she has over men and all the benefits that come with someone at your beck and call. it really does our head in.
the doctor.
10-08-2014, 10:44 PM
I suppose a lesson for all.
As normal as we would like to think these girls are, they sometimes are not, possibly playing you from
the onset or later down the track.
They might have the same motivations as non workers, but I assume they are quite strong,
determined, and assertive to enter and remain in this type of industry, though some might not have a choice.
For them there could be a emotion overload.. seeing/knowing/being exposed to so many intimately.
Entering into any liason with them you need to be prepared for possible consequences.
You require a level of caution and have your wits about you... hard when emotions are involved from either one or both.
Lancelot
10-08-2014, 10:53 PM
Good point doc. There was one WL I was sort of seeing, more of a Friends with benefit thing. Weren't dating cause she knew I was not available but we liked hanging out together and the sex was great. But she fell for this guy that was a customer big time. he'd taken her out a few times and I think her feelings just ran away with her. I believed her because one night we were out on the town she got so drunk she just blurted it all out and cried and cried. She didn't even remember what she had said the next morning. "what did I say? what did I say?" So yeah, they do have real feelings cos they are real people.
harmony
10-08-2014, 11:23 PM
"She chooses to keep working in this industry, the money's good, and she may genuinely like the power she has over men and all the benefits that come with someone at your beck and call. it really does our head in."
Great point
Some men feel GOOD about themselves if they have the attention of a few women, wine and dine them, all the while spending HIS money
However, attractive women feel GREAT about themselves, since they also can have the attention of several men, and SHE is wined and dined, and she has the money spent on HER - a much better type of fun
This second scenario is a much more addictive and nice situation to be in, and beautiful women will always have more fun with two timing !
Good_guy_Greg
10-08-2014, 11:24 PM
I not so long ago broke up with a really nice (at least I thought so at the time) and popular ML.
The first time I met her was about a year ago in her shop and not much happened apart from the standard R&T but I knew I was instantly attracted to her. A few weeks later I had a second session with her and towards the end of the session I started cracking jokes and she was laughing so much that I took it as a good sign and therefore asked for her number which she gladly gave to me.
That was the last time I saw her in the shop and so we started dating regularly after a while. I met her family that live in Australia and some of her working friends and friends from her college , I would help her with her studies and go on at least one date a week but on average we would meet up say 2-3 times a week at least for drinks. This went on for about nine months.
The sex was great (really do miss that!) and it got to the point where we were very comfortable together and so she decided to go on the pill.
Holidays were planned together (deposits placed unfortunately) and everything seemed rosy until one night we were in Thai Town to grab some dinner walking down the street hand in hand after spending a nice day together when all of a sudden we run into a bloke who looks furious. Turns out this guy thinks he is her boyfriend, I told him I thought the same thing! We both look at her and she's got nothing so I decide to walk away otherwise I honestly would have lost control. She rang numerous times that night but I never picked up the phone. A few days later we did end up talking and she had apparently been cheating on me for about two months with this guy who she met in her shop.
Sorry for the long post, finally good to write this down and vent a little. This ML's really did screw me over and only now am I truly getting over it. I certainly won't be dating anymore ML's in the future.
Sorry to hear bro, and thanks for sharing with us. I have been through extreme heartbreak too, so I know that feel bro.
Can I just ask, do you really think it was a coincidence that you bumped into the other guy? When I read it I was thinking maybe he had followed the two of you? Maybe he already had suspicions and decided to follow her?
harmony
10-08-2014, 11:28 PM
All the best !
CunningLinguist
10-08-2014, 11:44 PM
Holidays were planned together (deposits placed unfortunately) and everything seemed rosy until one night we were in Thai Town to grab some dinner walking down the street hand in hand after spending a nice day together when all of a sudden we run into a bloke who looks furious. Turns out this guy thinks he is her boyfriend, I told him I thought the same thing! We both look at her and she's got nothing so I decide to walk away otherwise I honestly would have lost control. She rang numerous times that night but I never picked up the phone. A few days later we did end up talking and she had apparently been cheating on me for about two months with this guy who she met in her shop.
Sorry for the long post, finally good to write this down and vent a little. This ML's really did screw me over and only now am I truly getting over it. I certainly won't be dating anymore ML's in the future.
I have heard that among some Thai women there is a cultural thing whereby they like to boast about how many men they are seeing and what sort of gifts etc they can get from them...
rage_face
10-08-2014, 11:55 PM
Great story Van_Allen
During the 2 months with her did she ever act flaky to suggest she was two timing you ?
Thinking about my own recent story, I guess I should've seen the signs when the girl cancelled on study plans at last minute. I gave her the benefit of the doubt as she told me she was sick, but in reality she was just not interested.
So I suppose being flaky is a good indication. I think if someone is really interested in you and wants to see you, they will do whatever it takes to see you, no matter what.
harmony
10-08-2014, 11:58 PM
Great thinking
Leonard
11-08-2014, 12:00 AM
Well a 'relationship' with a WL can follow one of three paths -
1. You can treat her like a whore and date her for the sole purpose of getting cheap sex or free extras or whatever (this is the cunning linguist approach) Its really a terrible way to look at things and the arrangements dont tend to last long because girls obviously prefer to be treated as a human being rather than just a fuck hole
2. you can treat the dates as a bit of fun and a way to spend time with someone whose company you enjoy. A few people in this thread recommmended this and I also reckon its a sensible way to approach a 'date' or social outting together, no expectations just chill out together
3. you can go searching for love and relationships (the GGG and rage face strategy). This is a recipe for heartache. You place all these heavy expectations of loyalty and commitment on the poor girl in the full knowledge that she gets her face sprayed with the cum of a half dozen strange men each day - wtf?!
rage_face
11-08-2014, 12:07 AM
I saw an email on her iPad from her manager during the week, he organised to come to "pick her up from home to take her to lunch to discuss business"
You know what, this is the type of shit I really hate. As guys, we all know what the manager wants. But it seems girls are oblivious to this, or at least pretend to be. They claim that it is "just friends" but we all know what's going on (I mean that the guy is interested, not that she is interested in return).
Most important thing is to never lose your cool about it. If you do, it's game over!
3. you can go searching for love and relationships (the GGG and rage face strategy).
Bro wtf, when did I say we should search for love and r'ship with a WL?
harmony
11-08-2014, 12:09 AM
Fair point
rage_face
11-08-2014, 12:13 AM
"You know what, this is the type of shit I really hate."
Exactly bro. Even if this manager is married, I am sure he want to go up to her bedroom in a heartbeat if she gave him the right signals
And sometimes an indecisive woman can give out the wrong signals, or doesnt mind just a fleeting episode with another guy she has known for a while
I actually dont care about the iPad email, unless I get some more evidence that doesnt make sense, or makes me really suspicious
Its all about the flaky behaviour, and a good woman will not ever give you flaky behaviour, if you keep her happy
Forget her birthday, however, and its game over
Because some other guy will be sending her an email/card for her birthday
Yeah I wouldn't worry too much about stuff from him. What's more important is how she replies and deals with it.
loaded
11-08-2014, 12:45 AM
Well have I got a story for you...
Girl number 1 - was a Korean ML, we met when she first arrived in Aus and we seem to click instantly. I saw her regularly for a year, exchanged Kakao contacts firstly and then phone numbers. When visiting her at work it was very passionate, GFE and many times turning to PSE. We then started seeing each other outside of her work and so I stopped seeing her there. We started out with dinners, movies, trips away etc. I met her friends (mostly ML), she told her family in Korea about me, I stayed at her placed, she cooked and took care of me. The sex was amazing!! There was always something suspicious though...apart from telling me she loved me really early in the relationship, she told me she wanted to marry me, which I found scary and doubted how genuine she was. What I did find out was there were others on the side...I was at one stage her first choice and then she changed and was 'busy with work' which I found out later was when she was meeting up with other guys she had met through work. As I started to question her about things, she told me one day abruptly it was over and she stopped loving me. It was hard to let go but time and life goes on. We still are 'friends' and we catch up monthly as friends...
Girl number 2 - was a Korean ML. I met her about a month after I broke up with girl number 1. She had broken up with her boyfriend a few months earlier whom she was madly in love with, and so we had a connection with our stories. She gave me her Kakao contact really early in the piece and was telling me she missed me and asked me out to dinner. We went on a few dates over the next few weeks and shared lots of personal stories. She was a good distraction for me, keeping me from thinking about my ex and I did the same for her. But we never went all the way. We had a serious chat about her becoming my gf and then it turned weird. She told me she couldn't date me cause of where she worked and where we had met. Also said that how could I date a girl that continued to work as a ML. She said if I really wanted to take care of her I would have to help pay for her uni fees and take care of her. She put the figure between 5-10K. I said I'd think about it...and she said if I did, she'd resign the next day from work. This is where it gets interesting...although my best friend told me not to go along with it...I said I'd help her, she said she was shocked that I would help, she resigns from work and is grateful. The following week she has an encounter with her ex, she calls me and tells me the story the next day and tells me she still has feelings for him even though he's got a fiancé. Week after that she says she's back with her ex, just until he gets married...how weird? And no I didn't give her any money.
What have I learned? In both cases they are normal people with feelings and challenges just trying to survive in a country with no family and limited friends. They can be very caring and generous. But just like any other female can lie and deceive you. I won't let this stop me from my next challenge...it's the thrill of the chase that keeps me going.
Seems to me after reading all these interesting stories that most of them don't have a happy ending. :(
loaded
11-08-2014, 09:20 AM
Seems to me after reading all these interesting stories that most of them don't have a happy ending. :(
That's because it's all fantasy and not reality.
rooter
11-08-2014, 09:45 AM
Seems to me after reading all these interesting stories that most of them don't have a happy ending. :(
If you want a happy ending date a ML, not a WL ;)
Van_Allen
11-08-2014, 01:27 PM
If you want a happy ending date a ML, not a WL ;)
If it was only that easy :(
Lancelot
11-08-2014, 02:52 PM
Think rooter meant a happy ending is what u normally pay for with a ML. Unless like me I find it hard to finish with a happy ending which is why I prefer to see WLs. That is what u meant right rooter?
rooter
11-08-2014, 03:06 PM
Think rooter meant a happy ending is what u normally pay for with a ML. Unless like me I find it hard to finish with a happy ending which is why I prefer to see WLs. That is what u meant right rooter?
Exactly. It was just a joke; and a really average one at that ;)
RoyalFlush
11-08-2014, 03:16 PM
I not so long ago broke up with a really nice (at least I thought so at the time) and popular ML.
The first time I met her was about a year ago in her shop and not much happened apart from the standard R&T but I knew I was instantly attracted to her. A few weeks later I had a second session with her and towards the end of the session I started cracking jokes and she was laughing so much that I took it as a good sign and therefore asked for her number which she gladly gave to me.
That was the last time I saw her in the shop and so we started dating regularly after a while. I met her family that live in Australia and some of her working friends and friends from her college , I would help her with her studies and go on at least one date a week but on average we would meet up say 2-3 times a week at least for drinks. This went on for about nine months.
The sex was great (really do miss that!) and it got to the point where we were very comfortable together and so she decided to go on the pill.
Holidays were planned together (deposits placed unfortunately) and everything seemed rosy until one night we were in Thai Town to grab some dinner walking down the street hand in hand after spending a nice day together when all of a sudden we run into a bloke who looks furious. Turns out this guy thinks he is her boyfriend, I told him I thought the same thing! We both look at her and she's got nothing so I decide to walk away otherwise I honestly would have lost control. She rang numerous times that night but I never picked up the phone. A few days later we did end up talking and she had apparently been cheating on me for about two months with this guy who she met in her shop.
Sorry for the long post, finally good to write this down and vent a little. This ML's really did screw me over and only now am I truly getting over it. I certainly won't be dating anymore ML's in the future.
Van, If you are NOT looking to marry this ML then why not just keep the good thing going? You are getting free condomless sex from her. Unless you are taking this relationship seriously..
I wasn't looking for love in all the wrong places, but sometimes, shit happens. It was the best of times, it was the worst of times. That is all.
rage_face
11-08-2014, 10:18 PM
Van, If you are NOT looking to marry this ML then why not just keep the good thing going? You are getting free condomless sex from her. Unless you are taking this relationship seriously..
Obviously it sounds like emotions were involved. I think it is one thing to date a ML/WL and understand that their job involves them having to be with other men, but it is a totally different thing to date them outside of work and find out that they are dating others outside of work too.
hikhik
11-08-2014, 11:07 PM
I've dated hundreds of WLs but for some strange reason my dates always seem to last exactly 1hour.
It's uncanny!
Besides for being amusing, Rooter has the right idea. Enjoy the punt and leave the WL where you found her.
A couple of thoughts come to mind when I consider dating a WL.
Firstly I don't believe there is a WL that truly desires to work in this line of work. And that the reason the WL does this work is financial. (not really rocket science).
In my experience, any person who struggles financially, would prefer a life of financial security. One way for the WL to achieve that is to hook up with a client. In order to drive this process, claims of love and offers of free sex are high on the agenda.
Finally, I believe that a person who thinks this way will always be on the lookout for a 'better' option, hence the all too common two timing.
Am I being a hypocrite in how I view a WL yet still am happy to pay for the service. I don't think so. I'm just being realistic.
rage_face
11-08-2014, 11:16 PM
Besides for being amusing, Rooter has the right idea. Enjoy the punt and leave the WL where you found her.
A couple of thoughts come to mind when I consider dating a WL.
Firstly I don't believe there is a WL that truly desires to work in this line of work. And that the reason the WL does this work is financial. (not really rocket science).
In my experience, any person who struggles financially, would prefer a life of financial security. One way for the WL to achieve that is to hook up with a client. In order to drive this process, claims of love and offers of free sex are high on the agenda.
Finally, I believe that a person who thinks this way will always be on the lookout for a 'better' option, hence the all too common two timing.
Am I being a hypocrite in how I view a WL yet still am happy to pay for the service. I don't think so. I'm just being realistic.
I think you're spot on. I would also like to add that different people have different degrees of emotional attachment. While some may be able to leave their emotions at the door and after the 60 minutes is up, others find it hard to avoid building an emotional bond.
It's kinda like walking in the street and seeing a homeless person beg for money. Some will be strong enough to resist, while others will have enough sympathy to offer some coins.
assoholic
11-08-2014, 11:48 PM
Interesting topic... Haven't date any WL but wouldn't mind to date one hot Jap WL...
^ or Korean. Just for a bit of fun. ;)
Mr. Who
12-08-2014, 09:52 AM
I agree that almost all of the WLs do the job for the money as a desperate choice. But let's not forget the fact that many of them did not enter this industry just to be financial independent. Many of them became a WL so that they can experience what a luxury life feels like. I have full respect to those who were just working to survive and quit as soon as they are able to afford tuition fee etc. I wouldn't have a problem to date someone like that. But it is a completely different story for those that are willing to get fucked on a daily basis so that they can afford a Gucci.
And if you spend some time talking with them, it is pretty easy to tell which category they fall into.
CunningLinguist
12-08-2014, 07:17 PM
Some girls just want to pay the investment property off sooner, or have nicer holidays etc, they are usually older MLs ...
They choose to do it.
AHLUNGOR
12-08-2014, 07:30 PM
I don't know enough WLs to know why they do what they do ! Milo is probably a typical very smart cookie who had a clear direction on what she wanted to do, what she wanted to achieve and how to be financially self sufficient to reach her goals ! Love that girl, hope she found long lasting happiness now !
On the RnT side, I knew a few MLs along the way who worked hard to put themselves through college (note : it's college and university - not the English visa schools !), Maggie, Mia and Cici to name just a few!
But then again , on the other end of the scale you have lots of WLs and MLs who never went to school , just work and money !
Not that any of you really care right ??
I agree that almost all of the WLs do the job for the money as a desperate choice. But let's not forget the fact that many of them did not enter this industry just to be financial independent. Many of them became a WL so that they can experience what a luxury life feels like. I have full respect to those who were just working to survive and quit as soon as they are able to afford tuition fee etc. I wouldn't have a problem to date someone like that. But it is a completely different story for those that are willing to get fucked on a daily basis so that they can afford a Gucci.
And if you spend some time talking with them, it is pretty easy to tell which category they fall into.
The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.
rage_face
12-08-2014, 08:28 PM
The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.
You've piqued my curiosity.
wilisno
12-08-2014, 08:45 PM
The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.
Excellent comment ! :miao:
xboyx
12-08-2014, 10:18 PM
I talked to a WL recently, she's 21 year old, we talked about many things, she said she need to send money to her parents in Korea. She asked me how much I need to send to my parents, I said "none", she was surprised. She's fucken 21 year old and her parents wanted her to send them money!!!??? that made me realise that she (and perhaps many other ML/WL) goes into this industry for the financial hardship, in a way I feel sorry for her. I think most of us here grow up in a different family background comparing to the ML/WL where they were somehow forced into working as WL/ML. Taking a serious relationship with them means you're going to have to deal with this later on. You can love her as much as you like, but it's better not to go deep into the relationship with a WL/ML otherwise your life and career will be heading south.
slangman69
12-08-2014, 10:23 PM
The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.
Hahahaha, this guy has fallen for the old "I crave sex, I love the taste of your cock" routine.
rage_face
12-08-2014, 10:26 PM
I talked to a WL recently, she's 21 year old, we talked about many things, she said she need to send money to her parents in Korea. She asked me how much I need to send to my parents, I said "none", she was surprised. She's fucken 21 year old and her parents wanted her to send them money!!!??? that made me realise that she (and perhaps many other ML/WL) goes into this industry for the financial hardship, in a way I feel sorry for her. I think most of us here grow up in a different family background comparing to the ML/WL where they were somehow forced into working as WL/ML. Taking a serious relationship with them means you're going to have to deal with this later on. You can love her as much as you like, but it's better not to go deep into the relationship with a WL/ML otherwise your life and career will be heading south.
I'd take it with a grain of salt. It's always possible they could be lying as to why they need the money.
slangman69
12-08-2014, 10:38 PM
On the topic of the thread, I was in a relationship with a girl who used to work at La Petite Aroma.
We had a session where we ended up having a really great conversation, making each other laugh a lot. We ended up talking longer than we spent doing sex stuff and when the time was up she said she felt bad that I had "wasted my time" and asked that we exchange numbers. Out of curiosity I agreed to it.
After that she started texting/calling me a lot and I found her to be an extremely funny, charming and all round delightful young lady. A couple of weeks passed and she kept bugging me about meeting up for a drink and I at first thought it was a bit weird but eventually, again out of curiosity, met up with her.
When out with her I found out that she had just moved to Sydney from Melbourne with her daughter and didn't know anybody in Sydney (which explained why she was so persistent in getting me to hang out with her).
I hung out with her a whole bunch over the next couple of months and I eventually moved in with her. We always said we'd keep things non-exclusive and we broke up around two years later when she needed to move back to Melbourne and I didn't really want to.
CunningLinguist
12-08-2014, 11:33 PM
I'm guessing at least you had 2 good years together, that's all that matters.
When you lived together, how did you feel when shame came home, knowing that she had just taken 10 cocks at work?
Well he likes ladyboys so he is probably used to the taste of other mens cum ...
slangman69
12-08-2014, 11:35 PM
I'm guessing at least you had 2 good years together, that's all that matters.
When you lived together, how did you feel when shame came home, knowing that she had just taken 10 cocks at work?
To be perfectly honest, on rare occasions I would feel a little jealous about other guys getting to enjoy her body/company, but I knew what I was getting into in the beginning and I am a pretty open and relaxed about things, so it was no biggie. The thought that worried me that occasionally entered my head was that she was kissing &/or providing unprotected services on customers, however she always said she would never provide those services and I trusted her, so that was enough for me.
We always got tested at the same time as well, as according to her that's the done thing if you're in a relationship with someone who is a sex worker. We were both always clean.
rage_face
12-08-2014, 11:42 PM
Emotionally it would be tough to handle and control all the feelings and not everyone can do it, so you did well to last 2 years.
Agree. It would've involved a lot of trust as well. Kudos.
slangman69
13-08-2014, 12:07 AM
It wasn't really that hard... I mean, I'm pretty open minded about things in general and I don't really believe in monogamy anyway. Like I think it's fucked up to shut yourself off to the idea of romantic love outside of a special one and it's fucked up to expect somebody else to do that for you, so it wasn't some big emotional thing that I had to deal with or anything like that.
There is always going to be minor feelings of jealousy if you're being completely honest with yourself, much like you would feel a little bit jealous if some friends went out and forgot to call you, but it's no massive thing and just fleeting thoughts.
Hahahaha, this guy has fallen for the old "I crave sex, I love the taste of your cock" routine.
Where did you get that bizarre idea? You're way off base with both my friendship with her (which is based more on shared ideas and interests) and the reasons she does what she does.
Women are capable of choosing sex work without being in desperate financial straits or because they want handbags. They don't have to be either damaged or nymphos. For the vast majority of these women, sex is a job, which pays relatively well and has a bunch of convenient aspects to it. Most can take or leave the sex, despite whatever fantasies we might have about whatever kegel exercises they're doing when we think they're having an orgasm!
slangman69
13-08-2014, 12:28 AM
Where did you get that bizarre idea? You're way off base with both my friendship with her (which is based more on shared ideas and interests) and the reasons she does what she does.
Women are capable of choosing sex work without being in desperate financial straits or because they want handbags. They don't have to be either damaged or nymphos. For the vast majority of these women, sex is a job, which pays relatively well and has a bunch of convenient aspects to it. Most can take or leave the sex, despite whatever fantasies we might have about whatever kegel exercises they're doing when we think they're having an orgasm!
Settle down cowboy, I was joking.
TROLL
13-08-2014, 12:33 AM
Interesting read. I think.sex.would be great but I.wouldn't be able to handle the jealousy on my side.
EatmyhairyassholeBitch
13-08-2014, 07:47 AM
Seems to me after reading all these interesting stories that most of them don't have a happy ending. :(
Haha, nice one!
Good_guy_Greg
13-08-2014, 08:10 AM
Call me crazy but I see some ups for dating a WL/ML. I've done it and I've also tried to date people I meet through friends, and online dating.
There's a lot of BS to go through when you meet someone in person or online dating. You have to guess if they like you or not, you can't act too fast, or you can't act too slow. People on online dating will readily ignore you if they think they have found someone better. Not to mention, all the dates you go on can cost $$$ and lead to nothing.
With WL/ML, you get to pick from many and it's more upfront. Being in a room naked gives you privacy and makes you both more relaxed to have fun. Visit her a second time, get her number, and ask her out. She knows what you want, and you know what she wants. There's a lot less BS than the 'traditional' ways.
What do you want? What does she want? You've met for sex and money, but how do you know that's what you're actually after in the longer run?
AHLUNGOR
13-08-2014, 11:21 AM
Call me crazy but I see some ups for dating a WL/ML. I've done it and I've also tried to date people I meet through friends, and online dating.
There's a lot of BS to go through when you meet someone in person or online dating. You have to guess if they like you or not, you can't act too fast, or you can't act too slow. People on online dating will readily ignore you if they think they have found someone better. Not to mention, all the dates you go on can cost $$$ and lead to nothing.
With WL/ML, you get to pick from many and it's more upfront. Being in a room naked gives you privacy and makes you both more relaxed to have fun. Visit her a second time, get her number, and ask her out. She knows what you want, and you know what she wants. There's a lot less BS than the 'traditional' ways.
That's very true and I suppose once a man and a woman had fucked, there's not too much you can hide, right ??
I think if any brother who is interested in seeing a WL/ML outside, just keep it simple, treat the lady like any other girl, coffee, dinner, movie, karaoke or whatever, and if the date leads to your place or hers then congratulations !! along the way, you just gonna make sure that you actually enjoy the company and not just thinking about the sex later. easier said then done though, once either or both parties started to develope some feelings and emotions, it gets complicated !!
Good luck to all and enjoy it while it last
Cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeers !
hikhik
13-08-2014, 11:45 PM
She's fucken 21 year old and her parents wanted her to send them money!!!??? that made me realise that she (and perhaps many other ML/WL) goes into this industry for the financial hardship, in a way I feel sorry for her. I think most of us here grow up in a different family background comparing to the ML/WL where they were somehow forced into working as WL/ML.
Spot on xboyx. Different cultures have different expectations and responsibilities. I'll never forget the first time that I was in Singapore, and saw these massive long lines at a few places in town. Only later someone explained to me that this is where people queue to send money home to family.
And let's not forget the hugely different attitudes to working as a WL. Perhaps taboo in western culture, but less so in Asian cultures.
hikhik
13-08-2014, 11:49 PM
[QUOTE=AHLUNGOR;533147]That's very true and I suppose once a man and a woman had fucked, there's not too much you can hide, right ??/QUOTE]
That doesn't sound right.
Good_guy_Greg
14-08-2014, 08:05 AM
What do you want? What does she want? You've met for sex and money, but how do you know that's what you're actually after in the longer run?
I want sex and a girlfriend experience outside of her work. She wants companionship, money or citizenship. From my experience anyway, that is what most WLs I see want.
I think if any brother who is interested in seeing a WL/ML outside, just keep it simple, treat the lady like any other girl, coffee, dinner, movie, karaoke or whatever, and if the date leads to your place or hers then congratulations !! along the way, you just gonna make sure that you actually enjoy the company and not just thinking about the sex later.
This is very important. Do not look down on them because of their job. Outside of their work, they are just like any other girl, treat them with respect.
rage_face
15-08-2014, 09:27 PM
mmm I've been dating a WL for a couple of months. Were just about to move in together when I finally woke up. Walking down the street with her and a guy makes a comment "dirty old bastard", and I'm only 43, well she is 25 and it has been one heck of a ride, exhausting!
I wouldn't let some random stranger's opinion affect what you want to do. My only concern is whether she will continue working as a WL after you move in. That may cause some difficulties.
Max Impact
15-08-2014, 10:13 PM
Yeh, I agree. Fuck what others think. Guys and girls are probably jealous of her attractiveness (I assume she is attractive).
But surely you would want to support her enough that she doesn't work.
TMC (free cage girl)
15-08-2014, 10:34 PM
I had a date with Therapist (TMC). We went to French Japanese restaurants in CBD.
when she finish work 1st day. I asked her to go to dinner. It was my first time with Date with WL. we stay there around 3 hours.
It was nice dinner. Therapist looks very elegant so I can't take her cheap restaurants. because of cheap restaurants use cheap oil and salt.
It' not good to take that place. I order Vintage champagne Moet Chandon Millesime Blanc 1999 for welcoming drink.
If i get girl on the street or somewhere in night club or bar. I will ask them to go to Kebab shop and feed them and fill up stomach and take them to go to my place.
My first date with therapist cost me $1500 for dinner. It's worth more than $1500
Max Impact
15-08-2014, 11:26 PM
And I had my way with her just before you had dinner! Could you smell pirate on her?
TMC (free cage girl)
15-08-2014, 11:34 PM
And I had my way with her just before you had dinner! Could you smell pirate on her?
I never hug and kiss and Sex with my product.
i am dirty man. I had a many Latin girl before and sometime still. Therapist is very clean and fresh, so can not touch clean girl.
TMC customer likes only Clean and fresh product!!!
Pussy HUnter
19-08-2014, 04:58 PM
mmm I've been dating a WL for a couple of months. Were just about to move in together when I finally woke up. Walking down the street with her and a guy makes a comment "dirty old bastard", and I'm only 43, well she is 25 and it has been one heck of a ride, exhausting!
In Asia we call going through hotel reception with a small brown body in tow "the walk of shame". You get used to it after a while.
This wasn't the "gem" WL was it?
Oneonone
19-08-2014, 06:10 PM
I have dated a few unfortunately its always ended up in tears, Mine!
TMC (free cage girl)
19-08-2014, 06:56 PM
I have dated a few unfortunately its always ended up in tears, Mine!
tears give you moisture to your mind. all human does same things for whole life. over 30 age we have capacity of keep the data in your life.
your spring season coming soon. get the new girl for fun again!:cool2:
TMC (free cage girl)
20-08-2014, 04:47 PM
I have plan to see another JPA tonight!!!
my 2nd time In Sydney.
Maybe Happy Yamada JUICE again!:cool2:
Max Impact
21-08-2014, 12:18 AM
I have dated a few unfortunately its always ended up in tears, Mine!
Yes, I know the feeling. If she works then you need big pockets to stop her.
But if you can handle her working it easy. I can't handle her working though.
wilisno
21-08-2014, 09:03 AM
;) ;) ;) .
TMC (free cage girl)
21-08-2014, 12:22 PM
Yes, I know the feeling. If she works then you need big pockets to stop her.
But if you can handle her working it easy. I can't handle her working though.
full time boy friend is 5-7 days in a week
part time boy friend is 2-4 days in a week
casual boyfriend is 1 or 2days in a week
if you are casual boy friend, she can keep work as WL. still you can fuck her 1 or 2 shot a week and nothing negative for both side.
also, you can punt and you can take her Nice place.
once i ask the couple in the pub, are you guys dating now? they said Yes, we just had a nice dinner and having good time.
I bought jug of beer for them.
they looks lovely, but the buy looks like full time boy friend. for me It's very sad.
because she drink beer as man...........
Max Impact
21-08-2014, 01:44 PM
That's a very sad story Yamady. She drank the beer that was meant for him.
TMC (free cage girl)
21-08-2014, 06:23 PM
Date :20th of July
Location : Drive around CBD and I sleep in Blue Hotel
Cost : I spend $125K for agency, $3K for flight. $400 for room.
Service : DTBBBJ CIMSW CFS DATY DILDO COSTUME SESSION AF ....I think more option!
Service2 : Only for TMC Club member from November!!
Age : 20 age
BODY : Busty and SLIM: 40kg. 160cm.
Skin : White pearl, soft and well look after her self.
personality: Hot and Ice. cat and tiger.(when star the session, i lost my control)
Yesterday, I wake up as fresh sea monkey. When i get up from bed,It's already got sign from my boy call penis. my boy was looks like good condition.
I went to running for 1 hour with 2kg of weight for both hand. When i was running I always try keep thinking positive. I image Summer time and i feel fresh air from ocean.but i always image about SEX finally. i was thinking about kangaroo and Koala position and up side down helicopter position. frying skyfish position etc.......
I comeback to my house and I bump the thread and i went to see my girl friend. because she cooked miso soup and rice ball for lunch. i finish miso soup and i try to have a miso soup, but my arm was hitting the bowl and miso soup fall on the carpet!! my girl was very angry. she slap my face and she went to bed room.
I call my dog from out side garden, his name jonny boy!! he eat miso soup from carpet and extra cleaning. his is very lovely. I just say Hi to my girl and said sorry for the miso soup and i left my property.
I heading to Airport to pick up Eri!!! I asked my assistant to clean up car 2days ago. he clean up the car properly, i was feeling New man when i was on the way. when i pick up her at Airport. she was wearing red colour of Leather jacket with chunky sunglasses. sounds like a smoke on the water!! every one watching her and I gave my business card to the one guy! because he looks like a want to book her as TMC Club Member.
We went to see My Boss and we had a great greeting each other. She asked me to take beach. I heading to Coogee beach and take her to the Hotel.
I recommend her to nap little bit, because her boss arrive night time.
Eri: i dont want to sleep. i want to talk with you more.
Yamady: ok,
Eri: why are you holding the Black colour of paper bag?
Yamady:It's my stuff. it's ok.
Eri: I wanna see in side of the bag.
Yamady:I don't want show you for free,hahaha
Eri: what you want to me to do?
Yamady:If you see my stuff.we have to open this,
Eri:ok!i can do that!!( She looks like a very curious)
I show her in side of my black paper bag. I bought Frapin Extra Grande Champagne Cognac for her boss.
but she asked me to open and she said she want to drink. i open this and I got ice and we start drink together!!
She only taste it and she looks like drunk, what the cute japanese doll!!! her stoking is extra fine and i got little bit horny.
She seat next of me and touching my cheek and neck and ear by her nails.
I asked her,
yamady: what is more than Sex appeal for Love?
Eri: she said I know
Yamady:I never had a sex and i never touch woman.
Eri:are you gay?
Yamady: Yeno!(yes and no) hahaha
Eri:what that meaning?
Yamady:I only fuck with dog, I know hot fuck as dog.
I like this girl. so funny and very young!!!
:cool2:
I lift up her and bring to the bed. i took off all silk and cotton and etc............... I grab her chine by 3 finger and massive DFK!!!chu! chu! chu!:love:
I cover my boy,It's call penis by rubber(XL size) I tried to insert my boy. her pussy splash a lot of water!!!
Eri : iku iku iku iku kimocheee kimochee.............
she start soft bite her under lip and her eyes was very very moistured.
I put my penis in to her pussy( only for 3cm because She is very tight!!! I didn't want make big hole!!! )
She said.
Eri: can i BBBJ?
Yamady:If you want to...
Eri:hahaha
She said BBBJ, but This is DTBBBJ. I feel like a listening (Ram Jam - Black Betty at CBGB) or I bet on black colour but it was on the line of black colour between red color!!
after 2 mins...........done,,,,, but ,,,, it was not finished!!! i thought it's finished but not.........
she grab my both hand on the bed and she still sucking my penis. i couldn't move she still sucking!!!! OMG!!! What she doing!!!
I shot her mouth 5mins ago!!! but she looks like still not finish. i got a lot of sweat my body.
Have you had a experienced after CUM IN MOUTH, Girl doe CIMSW for 10mins!!!
Sorry again for TMC CLUB MEMBER. I'm like a pool:cry:
broownwallaby
21-08-2014, 07:49 PM
Agree rage_face
Flaky to me means a few things - she not being available for you to see (particularly when you only give her short notice), turning her phone off, not answering your sms until the next day etc etc
Current gf has not given me one flaky moment, but she loves dressing in really tight jeans, and loves to walk in a sexy way. Just her nature
I also couldnt help but think today, when she let me use her iPad
Her email app said there were a few emails unread
Couldnt help myself and clicked on the icon, after all my gf uses my date of birth as her password, so the iPad is like half mine. LOL
I saw an email on her iPad from her manager during the week, he organised to come to "pick her up from home to take her to lunch to discuss business"
I am pretty sure they went out for lunch
No subsequent incriminating emails from this manager to suggest anything dodgy going on, but just shows you that you have to keep your eye on a woman you are seeing
Even if you do trust her
come on... what's wrong with her manager picking her up to have lunch to discuss business? Surely she is entitled to do that??
Oneonone
21-08-2014, 08:04 PM
I have dated a few working ladies one for 10 years unfortunately I can't agree they always end with a happy ending.
To be fair though I have survived them all and had a good time along the way.
As for sharing well some things are best left to die and its time to move on
TMC (free cage girl)
21-08-2014, 09:35 PM
I have dated a few working ladies one for 10 years unfortunately I can't agree they always end with a happy ending.
To be fair though I have survived them all and had a good time along the way.
As for sharing well some things are best left to die and its time to move on
I recommend you to go same massage shop casually. they looks like not earn money much so maybe good to pic up nice and tight one.
This is my tip for pic up girl. you chose best girl from the line. give tip for another girls. around $5-$20 for each girls.
what is the benefit to give tip for other girl
1 your ML,will appreciate to you. you looks after other girl. (many problem each girl in the shop)
2.your ML will confident about her self.
3.if your main ML has left the place, you can pick up other girl easy
4.you looks wealthy person
5.ugly girl has good heart, maybe friend of you chosen the ML:cool2:
Max Impact
21-08-2014, 09:49 PM
It gets sooo complicated. I'm sure rooter has the right philosophy and saves himself much heartache and money.
I just can't help myself.
TMC (free cage girl)
22-08-2014, 03:09 AM
It gets sooo complicated. I'm sure rooter has the right philosophy and saves himself much heartache and money.
I just can't help myself.
If you need any help for pick up girl, i can drive George Street with you. My new car for two pair only. 2 man and 2girls. but girls must Fresh.
how about we go to new eye glasses first? or we can have a meeting at my friend's sauna? after the sauna we get fresh mind, so easy to negotiate with girls!!
xzy61187
22-08-2014, 02:36 PM
Happy endings are overrated, I do want to hear a happy ending story among all the crash and burn stories tho lol
TMC (free cage girl)
22-08-2014, 03:07 PM
Happy endings are overrated, I do want to hear a happy ending story among all the crash and burn stories tho lol
I always happy, if i dont want to see the girl. I dont see her again. If i want to call the girl and spend time together.
if you can manage the the, no waste money and time, If you enjoy it, I had a sex with girl in sauna. I was like a training for SEX!:cool2:
yjl11
22-08-2014, 09:23 PM
u are lucky man get to date so many girls, im just a young poor guy trying to make money and use any spare money for punting/sex. haha
Max Impact
22-08-2014, 10:46 PM
If you have time and money the sky is the limit in Sydney.
yjl11
22-08-2014, 11:09 PM
just a uni grad looking for employment haha.....if get stable job, will be on a rampage across sydney
TMC (free cage girl)
23-08-2014, 12:38 AM
just a uni grad looking for employment haha.....if get stable job, will be on a rampage across sydney
ok! you can enjoy without money. if you met the girl at your private, who talk about money, Dont spend money to that girl!! just go to massage and forget about it!
With out money what you can do is meet good friend and socialize with who has same hobby. if you find good friend, stay with them. you can try whatever you like to at private.
after you make 5 million, you will know what is good to spend time! If you looking for job, try whatever you like to do, no matter about certificate or any paper work.
Good luck!:cool2:
Archimboldo
24-08-2014, 07:59 AM
I've never dated a working lady, but I'm in love with one and it's bad. Not because she's a hooker, but because we both have lives outside the shop. Neither of us can sacrifice those lives for each other and she doesn't want to be the other woman, so we've stopped seeing each other.
The thing about having sex in a brothel is that most of the time it's really fun and you know there are no strings. But I've found out that sometimes it's a fast track to being close in other ways. If you can't handle where that might end up, take it from me that you've gotta keep it under control. Don't push a girl for more unless you both have lives that can support that. If so, go for it, but I doubt it happens very often. This thing was one in a million and it was set up all wrong, so god knows how often it can turn out right.
If you're looking for more than sex, brothels are probably not a good avenue, but congrats if you do and can make it work!
goulash
24-08-2014, 09:03 AM
Every punter falls for a working girl at least once in his punting career. When it's reciprocated then the fun starts. And the heartache begins unless, of course, she's a good girl and is working to survive, not for LV, fortune or to feel like a goddess.
Every working girl falls for a punter at least once in her working career. And for her then it's hell working and she goes on a spiral of self-loathing, service suffers to the point where she'll confront you at work or at home, disappear to another city or lie about her working to her beau and then fit in one or two shifts a week at a cheap 24 hour high turnover shop just to make ends meet.
Punters get addicted to sex. Working girls get addicted to sex, too. It's hard to stop punting, and it's hard to stop working.
TMC (free cage girl)
24-08-2014, 01:41 PM
Every punter falls for a working girl at least once in his punting career. When it's reciprocated then the fun starts. And the heartache begins unless, of course, she's a good girl and is working to survive, not for LV, fortune or to feel like a goddess.
Every working girl falls for a punter at least once in her working career. And for her then it's hell working and she goes on a spiral of self-loathing, service suffers to the point where she'll confront you at work or at home, disappear to another city or lie about her working to her beau and then fit in one or two shifts a week at a cheap 24 hour high turnover shop just to make ends meet.
Punters get addicted to sex. Working girls get addicted to sex, too. It's hard to stop punting, and it's hard to stop working.
I don't think WL are addicted of Sex. punter are addicted of Sex. If who addicted of Sex like me. How many time they visit shop per week?
I'm Addicted of SEX, I having Sex every day(7 days per week). i do 2 shot or 3 shot in a day sometime. human likes Sex, after the dinner everyone wants SEX.
I might pick up WL in night club or street before. but I think normal girls are same as WL. having SEX almost every day. My south american friend having sex whole day,
especially Sunday from morning to evening. WL work for money, punter likes Sex with out relationship.
Paying for sex cost money
Love is free
But once in love..... you realise paying for sex is cheaper
wilisno
25-08-2014, 11:54 PM
Paying for sex cost money
Love is free
But once in love..... you realise paying for sex is cheaper
Haha ! Food for thoughts ! ;) ;) ;)
password thief
26-08-2014, 12:37 AM
Snooping through your GFs e-mails to see who she's talking to?
pfffffft ... pathetic
Agree rage_face
Flaky to me means a few things - she not being available for you to see (particularly when you only give her short notice), turning her phone off, not answering your sms until the next day etc etc
Current gf has not given me one flaky moment, but she loves dressing in really tight jeans, and loves to walk in a sexy way. Just her nature
I also couldnt help but think today, when she let me use her iPad
Her email app said there were a few emails unread
Couldnt help myself and clicked on the icon, after all my gf uses my date of birth as her password, so the iPad is like half mine. LOL
I saw an email on her iPad from her manager during the week, he organised to come to "pick her up from home to take her to lunch to discuss business"
I am pretty sure they went out for lunch
No subsequent incriminating emails from this manager to suggest anything dodgy going on, but just shows you that you have to keep your eye on a woman you are seeing
Even if you do trust her
Max Impact
26-08-2014, 12:55 AM
Paying for sex cost money
Love is free
But once in love..... you realise paying for sex is cheaper
Toooo True!!
joiedevivre
26-08-2014, 10:37 AM
Maybe better to just practice on WL or ML for when you get a girlfriend that doesn't work in the sex industry.
Kenchoubg
26-08-2014, 04:23 PM
I dated with a korean wl b4. One day, i went to her shop and picked another 1st date wl.(i thought my girl was in school at that time). No water in bathroom, so the wl asked the staff to fix it. A girl coming and that was my gf. So surprised for both of us. My gf came to that shop with that wl for the first day because they are friends and they knew each other b4 in korea. She asked me to be nice with her friend and left. After that day, we broke up. Idk why she could work as a wl and i could not be in her shop as a customer. Ggwp!!!!
Lancelot
26-08-2014, 05:14 PM
They can be VERY possessive. Go figure. It logical to them that once u start dating them all other girls in her vicinity are now out of bounds. I can understand that. I just go punt somewhere else. If u r getting benefits why stuff it up when u can still punt, just respect her space. She loses face if she can't "keep" her man I think.
pepefirstlove
26-08-2014, 05:24 PM
Every punter falls for a working girl at least once in his punting career. When it's reciprocated then the fun starts. And the heartache begins unless, of course, she's a good girl and is working to survive, not for LV, fortune or to feel like a goddess.
Every working girl falls for a punter at least once in her working career. And for her then it's hell working and she goes on a spiral of self-loathing, service suffers to the point where she'll confront you at work or at home, disappear to another city or lie about her working to her beau and then fit in one or two shifts a week at a cheap 24 hour high turnover shop just to make ends meet.
Punters get addicted to sex. Working girls get addicted to sex, too. It's hard to stop punting, and it's hard to stop working.
I think I fall into that category.
CunningLinguist
26-08-2014, 08:44 PM
I dated with a korean wl b4. One day, i went to her shop and picked another 1st date wl.(i thought my girl was in school at that time). No water in bathroom, so the wl asked the staff to fix it. A girl coming and that was my gf. So surprised for both of us. My gf came to that shop with that wl for the first day because they are friends and they knew each other b4 in korea. She asked me to be nice with her friend and left. After that day, we broke up. Idk why she could work as a wl and i could not be in her shop as a customer. Ggwp!!!!
You should have siezed the moment and asked for a threesome :)
xzy61187
26-08-2014, 08:51 PM
I have to say this is one of best threads here!
xzy61187
26-08-2014, 08:54 PM
Toooo True!!
Touché couldn't have said it better myself
I've dated 4 since I started punting.
Pros
Free sex with someone you really think is attractive (you did pay for it once upon a time).
She's good in bed compared to non-working girls.
Cons
Dealing with her work, it'll be difficult for both parties involved and both deal with it differently.
Her industry is usually hard to leave.... be prepared for disappointment on that if you aren't rich.
Aside from that, I feel it's actually quite similar to normal dating, you hang out, you enjoy the other persons company, you somewhat picture the future.
Max Impact
27-08-2014, 03:12 PM
Just last night lol. Did anyone see a pirate in Sydney last night with a stunning young girl clinging onto his arm?
the_boss_king
27-08-2014, 07:41 PM
ive dated a few working girls and in all honesty none of em have worked out due to several reasons.
some might of been jealousy, and the fact that a lot of em do meet up with other customers to you just don't know that.
also a lot of em need financial support whether fir there families, studies or just to support there current lifestyles.
other factors that came into play were issues with visa and meeting family and friends and some of em didn't even speak good english.
not that its a bad thing but sometimes you or they might interpret things differently which causes misunderstandings.
don't get me wrong some relationships do workout, i gotta couple mates who are currently married to ex working girls and along as there happy, I'm happy for them.
password thief
27-08-2014, 07:52 PM
ha dating a WL is one thing but marrying one.... ? n'aaaah!
A WL is a lot like a rental car in that regard - fine to rent for a few days and take for a spin but you wouldnt ever buy a former rental car because you know its been thrashed and has all sorts of issues under the bonnet!
ive dated a few working girls and in all honesty none of em have worked out due to several reasons.
some might of been jealousy, and the fact that a lot of em do meet up with other customers to you just don't know that.
also a lot of em need financial support whether fir there families, studies or just to support there current lifestyles.
other factors that came into play were issues with visa and meeting family and friends and some of em didn't even speak good english.
not that its a bad thing but sometimes you or they might interpret things differently which causes misunderstandings.
don't get me wrong some relationships do workout, i gotta couple mates who are currently married to ex working girls and along as there happy, I'm happy for them.
TMC (free cage girl)
29-08-2014, 11:25 AM
i will start date with 2 porno girl and me! I hope we love each other!!
If not love, i just need them for session! yeah, ONLY SEX is fine!!:cool2:
TMC (free cage girl)
01-09-2014, 04:40 AM
Hey WL are still people. There are issues with any relationship, as a 50% marriage divorce rate shows. A friend has been married to an ex WL for a few years now, has a daughter and there happy. To most WL it is just work and when their goal is attained they stop working, well this is my experience. To think these girls are addicted to sex as some think is right for very few girls.
i think so. but if you married with WL. some point of life is little bit hard to understand and manage. but it's depend on the partner, how he can manage wife and how he can look after wife.
if partner has good heart to support her at the being of relationship, WL can change the vision of life. I'm not say WL is bad for marry . but, If who dont know the knowledge of money, It's hard to back to normal life. it's hard lecture them for manage family financial.
how many people crazy about money? it's everyone i think!, if you ask peoples, many people says what status about is always relate with money.(job position, income estate share etc...)
also many people not appreciate for money.because we manage money by digital technology.
money is just number, if you spend your number you will lose your status??? this is bullshit. but many people understand this way! how many stingy about money? i hate them hahaha:cool2:
they just keep money by digital number and not appreciate money. money is cash!! i always keep 2K by $100 note with money clip. I don't use 2K every day but when i use money i always appreciate to the person. Say always to thank you to them.
i hope WL understanding about money. when customer say Thank you to WL. WL must appreciate to customer. That i always lecture to My girls. Therapist always appreciate. that's why i like her very much.
we just already lost control about money by technology. your friend is good person, he look after the girl a lot. I can understand your friend having good time with family now. The girl has good heart and could understand your friend of heart.I hope every WL has good heart and relate with customer.
I think If WL work for addicted of SEX, who find good partner it will be fine. i know many addicted of SEX girl. they always get wet easy and they always ask me 2 or 3 shot a night!
but Young Girl get a lot of money by this job, who don't have knowledge of money, who might be crazy about money and if the girl spend all of money, she will start this job again, because the person only know how to make money is by this job.
same as unisef, if we can give them education or knowledge of money, they don't need financial support from us. They can help each other and they can manage.
I have cheap heart. suddenly donate and give change for every one. because of no reason to say no.
What we can do is we can buy time by money. same as use taxi. (aske driver for direction, you can control taxi driver ex; change direction ,stop by Mcdonald. stop for toilet etc... you don't need to do in the taxi)
If you need for Fresh! best way is punting! fuck with girl stress out, or having GFE is good to have sometime.
If i know everything of my GF or WF, or SGF 1.2.3 maybe i don't want to stay with them.............
Raybo
01-09-2014, 02:03 PM
Whats the old saying...if it flys, floats or fucks, rent them, don't buy them.
TMC (free cage girl)
01-09-2014, 02:45 PM
Whats the old saying...if it flys, floats or fucks, rent them, don't buy them.
I only expect to get from woman is SEX!! BBBJ and CIM is always include!!
Because I always use rubber so if i cum in condom. my sperm sometime stay in urethra. I always ask girl to take sperm but mouth.:cool2:
jediknight4ever
02-09-2014, 05:05 PM
I dated one WL before, like a few months after I broke up with my ex-gf.
She was about 8 years older than me but really petite with a nice rack.
We'd go out canoeing and to the blue mountains, movies and so and so.
We'd always have natural sex, sometimes when it's 'safe' she'd let me come inside.
She's married to an Aussie guy just for visa purposes. Apparently I got her pregnant
and she went to get an abortion before I even knew what was going on.
Anyway long story short, she feel in love with me and had this crazy idea that if
I married her daughter and become her son in law then she could see me every week.
When I told her about my new gf, she was very hurt and had a melt down.
So she said she doesn't want to see me for a while and I haven't seen her
since beginning of the year.
It does kind of feels like I'm in this Japanese Mother-In-Law AV Fantasy.
I wonder if she'd still let me have my way with her if I agreed to date/marry her daughter. :bad_egg:
I dated one WL before, like a few months after I broke up with my ex-gf.
She was about 8 years older than me but really petite with a nice rack.
We'd go out canoeing and to the blue mountains, movies and so and so.
We'd always have natural sex, sometimes when it's 'safe' she'd let me come inside.
She's married to an Aussie guy just for visa purposes. Apparently I got her pregnant
and she went to get an abortion before I even knew what was going on.
Anyway long story short, she feel in love with me and had this crazy idea that if
I married her daughter and become her son in law then she could see me every week.
When I told her about my new gf, she was very hurt and had a melt down.
So she said she doesn't want to see me for a while and I haven't seen her
since beginning of the year.
It does kind of feels like I'm in this Japanese Mother-In-Law AV Fantasy.
I wonder if she'd still let me have my way with her if I agreed to date/marry her daughter. :bad_egg:
Is it bad if I ask how does the daughter compare?? quite the interesting read this one.
Oh and do you mind me asking how old are you btw?
Blaq9
02-09-2014, 07:04 PM
There is an old Sicilian saying ;
Femmina piccante pigliala per amante. Femmina cuciniera pigliala per mugliera.
Translates roughly as;
A woman that's hot/sext take her as your lover.
A woman that can cook take her as your wife.
CunningLinguist
02-09-2014, 08:02 PM
I dated one WL before, like a few months after I broke up with my ex-gf.
She was about 8 years older than me but really petite with a nice rack.
We'd go out canoeing and to the blue mountains, movies and so and so.
We'd always have natural sex, sometimes when it's 'safe' she'd let me come inside.
She's married to an Aussie guy just for visa purposes. Apparently I got her pregnant
and she went to get an abortion before I even knew what was going on.
Anyway long story short, she feel in love with me and had this crazy idea that if
I married her daughter and become her son in law then she could see me every week.
When I told her about my new gf, she was very hurt and had a melt down.
So she said she doesn't want to see me for a while and I haven't seen her
since beginning of the year.
It does kind of feels like I'm in this Japanese Mother-In-Law AV Fantasy.
I wonder if she'd still let me have my way with her if I agreed to date/marry her daughter. :bad_egg:
You should have gone for the threesome :)
Lancelot
02-09-2014, 10:35 PM
Wow. That's pretty out there. How old is daughter? Was that for visa also?
TMC (free cage girl)
03-09-2014, 05:13 PM
There is an old Sicilian saying ;
Femmina piccante pigliala per amante. Femmina cuciniera pigliala per mugliera.
Translates roughly as;
A woman that's hot/sext take her as your lover.
A woman that can cook take her as your wife.
Grande blaq9!!
bella donna for ponpino! bella figa for bocca chicho!!
hard to understand woman. but we understand we likes SEX!!
we should have a soprao concert every day!!!:cool2:
AHLUNGOR
04-09-2014, 09:47 AM
Grande blaq9!!
bella donna for ponpino! bella figa for bocca chicho!!
hard to understand woman. but we understand we likes SEX!!
we should have a soprao concert every day!!!:cool2:
Great idea, love it !
Lets sing: O Sole Mio !!
jediknight4ever
04-09-2014, 12:10 PM
The daughter's around 18-20, quite tall and more like her bio dad.
She's about 40 but doesn't look it, if her daughter looked more like her
then I'd probably reconsider.
I'm Malcolm in the middle :grimace:
faruk
06-09-2014, 08:28 AM
The daughter's around 18-20, quite tall and more like her bio dad.
She's about 40 but doesn't look it, if her daughter looked more like her
then I'd probably reconsider.
I'm Malcolm in the middle :grimace:
what nationality is she? I can't picture a korean doing this.
TMC (free cage girl)
09-09-2014, 09:04 PM
all woman from east to west.
young girl is good to dating!
jediknight4ever
21-09-2014, 03:17 PM
what nationality is she? I can't picture a korean doing this.
She's Chinese, I think her crazy rating overshot her hotness.
croney
21-09-2014, 10:04 PM
I took one to a sporting event a while back. Had a lot of fun. Very defensive of her private life which I can understand. How would she know I wasn't some deranged psycho stalker. I'm working on her and every now and then we get together off site
DarkZero01
21-09-2014, 10:25 PM
I envy all you guys for able to date wl.
Getting free roots and overnight just becareful they dont suck you dry :thirst:
vvillie
21-09-2014, 10:37 PM
I envy all you guys for able to date wl.
Getting free roots and overnight just becareful they dont suck you dry :thirst:
Free roots and overnight? Sounds just like a regular girlfriend to me. Nothing to be envious about :P
DarkZero01
23-09-2014, 04:05 PM
Free roots and overnight? Sounds just like a regular girlfriend to me. Nothing to be envious about :P
At least they have skills to please you in bed
:grimace:
wilisno
01-10-2015, 07:26 PM
Hi Isis, long time no hear ! Surprised to see you online ! ;) ;) ;)
croney
01-10-2015, 08:28 PM
Yes I have. And no I wont
Hey wilisno :-) good spotting! I've just been enjoying a bit of a squiz on here.....it's been too long!
Morning isis..
Been a while. Hope you're doing well and not breaking too many hearts.... ;)
x11
Sextus
02-10-2015, 02:43 PM
Ha ha Isis, feel free to resume intercourse with us on the forum! :shout:
loaded
02-10-2015, 02:59 PM
I envy all you guys for able to date wl.
Getting free roots and overnight just becareful they dont suck you dry :thirst:
It depends on the girl...but they are real people and not sex machines. Their work doesn't define them.
Well hellooooo x11 and Sextus!
Well hellooooo x11 and Sextus!
You had me at hello.... *blush*
Lol
AHLUNGOR
06-10-2015, 11:48 AM
Well hellooooo x11 and Sextus!
Hi there sister Isis !
Welcome back !
long time no hear !
Mhughs
07-10-2015, 12:31 PM
This is one of the best thread I've read! Keep the stories coming! Haha
I'm so jealous some of you actually dated a WL 😔
garfield
07-10-2015, 02:22 PM
This is one of the best thread I've read! Keep the stories coming! Haha
I'm so jealous some of you actually dated a WL ?de14
All you have to do is ask.
illidanstormrage
07-10-2015, 02:35 PM
WL's are just girls at the end of the day. All the same rules apply they just have a fuck ton of experience having sex with guys/girls and getting paid for it which brings certain complications.
They will generally be a lot more guarded/skeptical when it comes to real intimate relations especially with any "clients".
Travelmate
07-10-2015, 07:39 PM
This is one of the best thread I've read! Keep the stories coming! Haha
I'm so jealous some of you actually dated a WL
There is nothing special about this at all.
Once she cook me dinner, I got key to her house, stay overnight, have shower together, or have sex.
And it may surprise you, sometimes it is not costing as much as everyone think.
One day, we both mentally "wake up" and move on.
And stay as "normal friends" afterwards.
She is already rich as she is.
She does not require to work as ML or WL.
She can have enough money to buy houses and invest and start her business.
This is true life story.
Bose0412
14-10-2015, 06:24 PM
In a predicament. I use to question how could some of you guys could fall for a wl or ml. Just do your deed and your done.. Walk away was always the plan. I got a girls number at first it was just curtacy to reply now I'm hooked.. What's the best way to get her out of my system.
Should I stop seeing her or keep paying till I get bored
loaded
14-10-2015, 06:33 PM
WL's are just girls at the end of the day. All the same rules apply they just have a fuck ton of experience having sex with guys/girls and getting paid for it which brings certain complications.
They will generally be a lot more guarded/skeptical when it comes to real intimate relations especially with any "clients".
Totally agree
loaded
14-10-2015, 06:37 PM
In a predicament. I use to question how could some of you guys could fall for a wl or ml. Just do your deed and your done.. Walk away was always the plan. I got a girls number at first it was just curtacy to reply now I'm hooked.. What's the best way to get her out of my system.
Should I stop seeing her or keep paying till I get bored
I assume you mean hooked doing more than texting?
I generally say the best way to move on is to find the next one...we always want something new and better.
Depending on what your goal is, the lines blur when you continue to see them at and outside work.
garfield
14-10-2015, 06:57 PM
In a predicament. I use to question how could some of you guys could fall for a wl or ml. Just do your deed and your done.. Walk away was always the plan. I got a girls number at first it was just curtacy to reply now I'm hooked.. What's the best way to get her out of my system.
Should I stop seeing her or keep paying till I get bored
If you can't control then best stop seeing her. It's really up to you.
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