Marriage : Do or Don't??

[khuntong]

Hi guys, just wanna ask for your humble opinion, do you believe in marriage?? Please elaborate your answer... I'm getting married next year or the year after, and I love my girlfriend and all, but the idea of getting married is still freaking me out sometimes..

Any input / reply will be highly appreciated..

[CunningLinguist]

You can always get divorced ...

[timtam]

Bro
Marriage doesn't end your life. It moves your life to the next level.
You can't be single for the rest of your life, some people chose this path. But when you are older you want to settle down and build your home and with your family. Nothing is more fun and enjoyable than coming home to your family.
Marriage doesn't stop you from having fun and it is not the end of your life.

[Marco]

Make sure have prenup before that
Lol

[CunningLinguist]

Bro
Marriage doesn't end your life. It moves your life to the next level.
You can't be single for the rest of your life, some people chose this path. But when you are older you want to settle down and build your home and with your family. Nothing is more fun and enjoyable than coming home to your family.
Marriage doesn't stop you from having fun and it is not the end of your life.

And you can still punt, so best of both worlds, you can't lose ...

[the_boss_king]

i think if you found someone whom is truly special, and can't live without then do it.
you only have one life, and why spend it with someone who doesn't make you feel those things.
you'll know deep down whether or not its the right decision its just upto you to be brave enough to realise it.
hope that helps.

[CunningLinguist]

Make sure have prenup before that
Lol

i reckon prenup marriages are doomed to fail!

[rooter]

Well I've never gotten married.
I wouldn't say I believe in it or not believe in it - the thought of getting married has just never occurred to me.
If you like this girl and you want to create a life together with her then go for it.
Marriage has made a lot of people happy - and miserable too.
If it's what you want then I would say to take the leap of faith and go for it.
If it doesn't work out you can always end it
And getting married doesn't mean you have to give up punting- most punters are married.
You should definitely avoid affairs though - they always get messy.

[khuntong]

Bro
Marriage doesn't end your life. It moves your life to the next level.
You can't be single for the rest of your life, some people chose this path. But when you are older you want to settle down and build your home and with your family. Nothing is more fun and enjoyable than coming home to your family.
Marriage doesn't stop you from having fun and it is not the end of your life.

Yup, I agree bro timtam.. I'm planning on getting married, and I love her to bits.. I wanna marry her, but I don't think we're ready for that stage just yet. I'm 27, she's 26.. We're both not OZ, so average people who get married are 21-25 years old.. We tend to have little fights, and we both could be really childish. We might ignore each other for a whole day sometimes just because of little matter.


Make sure have prenup before that
Lol

Hahaha... That is never gonna happen when I'm getting married bro.. I don't have much to offer anyway.. Lol..



i think if you found someone whom is truly special, and can't live without then do it.
you only have one life, and why spend it with someone who doesn't make you feel those things.
you'll know deep down whether or not its the right decision its just upto you to be brave enough to realise it.
hope that helps.

Thanks bro king.. She is really special for me bro.. We have been together for two and half years now, and I love her more and more..
I'm not too coward to realise that I wanna spend the rest of my life with her, but I also don't wanna rush things and then regret the outcome. I told her this one time we had a fight, and she asked me this : "How long do you want me to keep waiting?" Come to think of it, she's probably right.
What If I'm never gonna be ready for marriage?

[khuntong]

Well I've never gotten married.
I wouldn't say I believe in it or not believe in it - the thought of getting married has just never occurred to me.
If you like this girl and you want to create a life together with her then go for it.
Marriage has made a lot of people happy - and miserable too.
If it's what you want then I would say to take the leap of faith and go for it.
If it doesn't work out you can always end it
And getting married doesn't mean you have to give up punting- most punters are married.
You should definitely avoid affairs though - they always get messy.

Hahaha, thanks for the input bro rooter.. I've heard more marriage couples getting divorced lately than happily married.. My older brother is one of the failed ones...
My customer at the cafe I'm working told me that I have to surrender if I wanna have a happy married life...
Yeah, affairs is the last thing I wanna have, even for now when I'm not married yet.. An affair will leave too much traces to cover up... :D :D

[gggb]

Hahaha, thanks for the input bro rooter.. I've heard more marriage couples getting divorced lately than happily married.. My older brother is one of the failed ones...
My customer at the cafe I'm working told me that I have to surrender if I wanna have a happy married life...
Yeah, affairs is the last thing I wanna have, even for now when I'm not married yet.. An affair will leave too much traces to cover up... :D :D

Bro, sounds like you want to get married and keep punting, tell me if I'm off base here. Which IMO is perfectly fine, whatever makes you happy, makes you happy.

Things to consider is the damage being in a marriage vs dating if she finds out/doesn't accept you punting. I'm sure both will have an emotional toll, but marriage can lead to a huge financial toll. Also if she is the spiteful type, you may need to consider that too. In short I'm saying consider and be prepared for all scenarios. A little bit of thought can save you a huge surprise later.

As other brothers said, marriage isn't the end of your life or anything, it's just another stage/step in life. It's your choice if you want to take your life there.

[pluto]

You can always get divorced ...

As much as I respect that choice, one doesn't go into a marriage thinking that there's a way out.

The way I put it, if you're going to get married be absolutely certain that it's for life. That's unless you find out they're an axe murderer/kiddy fiddler or something really disgusting which you'd hope you'd find out before making that commitment to someone in front of all your family and friends that you'll be there for them no matter that.

And no, it's not the end of life. In fact it's the beginning of something fantastic IMHO and if you want to keep punting, then that's a personal choice.

[Max Impact]

Well I've never gotten married.
I wouldn't say I believe in it or not believe in it - the thought of getting married has just never occurred to me.
If you like this girl and you want to create a life together with her then go for it.
Marriage has made a lot of people happy - and miserable too.
If it's what you want then I would say to take the leap of faith and go for it.
If it doesn't work out you can always end it
And getting married doesn't mean you have to give up punting- most punters are married.
You should definitely avoid affairs though - they always get messy.

This is why bro Rooter can punt one or sometimes two times a day. No alimony or child support (I'm guessing)!

[khuntong]

Bro, sounds like you want to get married and keep punting, tell me if I'm off base here. Which IMO is perfectly fine, whatever makes you happy, makes you happy.

Things to consider is the damage being in a marriage vs dating if she finds out/doesn't accept you punting. I'm sure both will have an emotional toll, but marriage can lead to a huge financial toll. Also if she is the spiteful type, you may need to consider that too. In short I'm saying consider and be prepared for all scenarios. A little bit of thought can save you a huge surprise later.

As other brothers said, marriage isn't the end of your life or anything, it's just another stage/step in life. It's your choice if you want to take your life there.

Thanks for the input bro..
I've never really thought about giving up punting, as I'm having the best time while I punt, either FS or only RnT...
Maybe one day after marriage, I'll give up and start thinking about building a family (since I love kids), but let's cross the bridge when we come to it.. It's a bit too soon to say..

I know most punters are happily married or at least in a relationship, so I thought I could get some useful advice from them... :D :D

[khuntong]

As much as I respect that choice, one doesn't go into a marriage thinking that there's a way out.

The way I put it, if you're going to get married be absolutely certain that it's for life. That's unless you find out they're an axe murderer/kiddy fiddler or something really disgusting which you'd hope you'd find out before making that commitment to someone in front of all your family and friends that you'll be there for them no matter that.

And no, it's not the end of life. In fact it's the beginning of something fantastic IMHO and if you want to keep punting, then that's a personal choice.

Hahaha, my girlfriend is probably one of the most innocent girls in Sydney bro. She works hard, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't go to pubs, and always does the right thing (abiding the rules)... So I think I'll be fine, but thanks for your concern...

I also think of marriage as sacred ceremony, only once in a lifetime, despite what the reality show me...

[CunningLinguist]

Hahaha, my girlfriend is probably one of the most innocent girls in Sydney bro. She works hard, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't go to pubs, and always does the right thing (abiding the rules)... So I think I'll be fine, but thanks for your concern...

I also think of marriage as sacred ceremony, only once in a lifetime, despite what the reality show me...

Sounds like you are in love ...

[khuntong]

Sounds like you are in love ...

I wouldn't even think of making this thread if I wasn't bro CL.. Lol.. But being in love is not the same as getting married, is it??

[Nathan2392]

I wouldn't even think of making this thread if I wasn't bro CL.. Lol.. But being in love is not the same as getting married, is it??

Being in love is a stepping stone to getting married to your gal. It celebrates your love with her. But it all depends on you as well. Marriage is a two way street that will eventually lead to a one way street as you grow over the years with each other.

[password thief]

Ignore this bitter old fool OP. He's just angry and cynical because either (a) he's been rejected by every girl he's ever made a move on or (b) he's had his heart ripped out abd trodden by a girl he loved


You can always get divorced ...


And you can still punt, so best of both worlds, you can't lose ...

[Mr. Who]

Oh please, not again...

[Licker]

Ignore this bitter old fool OP. He's just angry and cynical because either (a) he's been rejected by every girl he's ever made a move on or (b) he's had his heart ripped out abd trodden by a girl he loved

Well, I had been waiting when you'd show your true skin, you Crazy PW thief Monkey. :grimace:

[tarl1975]

Interestingly or sadly. That's what my girlfriend was like. Yet, one month before the marriage, graphic details of how her ex was having sex with her started to spread and how satisfied her ex was. What's worse, I knew her ex. It was her ex's and his friend who was spreading the stories. Yet I was told that there was never a sexual relationship between them. I was even told that she was a virgin. I stopped punting after I met her. Well... now... I have been punting for many many years... and those graphic details have been sitting in my head for all these years.


Hahaha, my girlfriend is probably one of the most innocent girls in Sydney bro. She works hard, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't go to pubs, and always does the right thing (abiding the rules)... So I think I'll be fine, but thanks for your concern...

I also think of marriage as sacred ceremony, only once in a lifetime, despite what the reality show me...

[CunningLinguist]

I wouldn't even think of making this thread if I wasn't bro CL.. Lol.. But being in love is not the same as getting married, is it??

Only you can decide!
It really depends on alot of things ...
One thing is for sure though if you never give it a go you may end up like some of the weirdos that populate the forum from time to time between bannings that is.

[Max Impact]

See post two. End.

[negi]

if you can get a wife, like i know some Japanese girls does, worship and totally love her husband, even understand a guy's need of sometimes goes punting and not giving you hardtime (ofcourse as long you respect her and do it discretely)....get married..............if Not..........DON'T!

[bigzig]

Interesting thread.

If you already live together, then who cares, marriage is just a BS piece of paper anyway.

What should be more of an issue is the punting while married. I don't know how the others do it, in terms of hiding cash away etc. And do you do DATY and BBBJ? What if you get an STD? So many issues.

Personally, if I was to ever marry, I'd quit punting. I don't know if you can have a successful marriage while punting?

[AHLUNGOR]

This is very simple, if you want a family then you should get married !

Raising children outside of wedlock is not good!

[TMC (free cage girl)]

This is very simple, if you want a family then you should get married !

Raising children outside of wedlock is not good!

I want to marriage with JAV PORNO ACTRESS.
Because.......

-JAV Porno actress has skill for SEX
-If JPA getting older after marriage, she can have surgery for keep good condition of body!
-JPA has very good heart ( i only know 5-10 JPA)

It's better than marriage with normal WL and just good lookin girl.:cool2:

p.s If you marriage with JPA. Body slide every day!!!:cool2:

you only need spend money for New massage bed every years!!

[mask]

for you to ask this question means you still have doubts.
Only when you are 110%, then you should get married.
This will be one of the biggest decisions you will make in your lifetime.

[TMC (free cage girl)]

for you to ask this question means you still have doubts.
Only when you are 110%, then you should get married.
This will be one of the biggest decisions you will make in your lifetime.

I like Kids and rubber sex. should i marriage her?