First no cum - is there something wrong with me!?!?!

[MrSeven]

Hey fellow brothers,

So i went to a certain shop tonite and took up another brothers recommendation.. But the girl wasnt my type.

I like a girl to initiate, instead she talked for like 20 mins and kept saying how im too attractive and stupid for spending money.. And just kept staring at me.

Finally got to the bj, it was ok nothing like what i anticipated. I couldnt get ino it and couldnt get hard. We fucked for 5 mins i was half cast for most of it and then stopped. Next thing buzzer went and all she just kept saying sorry and didnt try to finish me off - not that i asked.

She just wasnt for me.. I dont think im into jap girls.

So went to 5 star after feeling like id lost my manhood not cumming and all.
Chose whisky, knew she had good reviews. She sucked me off like a demon it was great!!!! We Went to fuck and i got soft again like immediately after she stopped blowing me!? Fucked her for a bit that was good and got a bit harder but wasnt at 100% hardness. Buzzer went - then asked if she could finish me - she did alright. Hard deep bbbj til i came - and i came rivers. Bjjj to completion.

Any way i left satisfied and good receptionist brother was on. But i cant for the life of me understand whats wrong with me??? Maybe too much wanking??

Can a brother help?

MrSeven

[wilisno]

Hey fellow brothers,

So i went to a certain shop tonite and took up another brothers recommendation.. But the girl wasnt my type.

I like a girl to initiate, instead she talked for like 20 mins and kept saying how im too attractive and stupid for spending money.. And just kept staring at me.

Finally got to the bj, it was ok nothing like what i anticipated. I couldnt get ino it and couldnt get hard. We fucked for 5 mins i was half cast for most of it and then stopped. Next thing buzzer went and all she just kept saying sorry and didnt try to finish me off - not that i asked.

She just wasnt for me.. I dont think im into jap girls.

So went to 5 star after feeling like id lost my manhood not cumming and all.
Chose whisky, knew she had good reviews. She sucked me off like a demon it was great!!!! We Went to fuck and i got soft again like immediately after she stopped blowing me!? Fucked her for a bit that was good and got a bit harder but wasnt at 100% hardness. Buzzer went - then asked if she could finish me - she did alright. Hard deep bbbj til i came - and i came rivers. Bjjj to completion.

Any way i left satisfied and good receptionist brother was on. But i cant for the life of me understand whats wrong with me??? Maybe too much wanking??

Can a brother help?

MrSeven

Too much wanking ! :miao:

[rooter]

Hey man, i could be wrong about this but I have noticed nearly all your posts centre around blowjobs.

Who gives the best bj?, who gives the filthiest bj? etc.

And your ARs seem to involve more bjs than fucking.

Maybe you are just more into blowjobs than fucking.

I am not saying that's good or bad, but its the impression I get from your posts.

[MrSeven]

I think thats the case bro. Dont get me wrong i like to fuck - but i think thats my favourite thing. To be honest it concerns me because unless ur doing 69 its very selfish and one way. I dont think i can change that about me??

[gimpy]

You've probably got the AIDS.

[MrSeven]

Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress

[silverfox1985]

Well. I have problem of not getting hard.

Some good bros in this forum suggested me to stop watching porn and wanking. I have been stopping watching porn for 2mths and trying to wank less and less. Hope this helps

[AHLUNGOR]

Hi Brother Seven,

Don't worry, you'll right tomorrow!

But then again, there could be other obvious reasons too, and I hope you have a good sense of humour...............lol

And this is why:

Top 3 Best Ginza Girls - Cassie/Eli/Prada - BBBJ/DTBBJ

MOST EPIC BBBJ - U Vote!

Hottest WHITE/CAUCASIAN WL's - BBBJ included

TOP 5 GIRLS. For looks and BBBJ/sex

Styles - WHO'S HOTTEST BY FAR - your pick (you didn't say BBBJ here but this is a BBBJ/CIM only shop!!)

Jennifer - Busty, friendly, great bj!

Any shops offer BBBJ in bris?

Fei Fei - WILD BJJJ!!??!! Up there with the best.

[Styles] BBBJ Bar Girls - Who's good for what

Which WL's suck like a hoover?

5 star - Best Deepthroaters??

Keen for some bbbj action.

And last but not least:

Who likes filthy Blowjobs??? I do!

I think the answer to your situation is up there somewhere, is it not ??

Could it be just toooooooo much of a good thing !!


:shout::shout::shout:

[MrSeven]

Haha yeh probably. I think ive brainwashed myself with porn. Maybe ill try going of it too.
Nice wrap of all my posts ahlungor - im guessing u didnt write that off memory?

[AHLUNGOR]

Hey man, i could be wrong about this but I have noticed nearly all your posts centre around blowjobs.

Who gives the best bj?, who gives the filthiest bj? etc.

And your ARs seem to involve more bjs than fucking.

Maybe you are just more into blowjobs than fucking.

I am not saying that's good or bad, but its the impression I get from your posts.

Haha, brother rooter,

I think we doctors have cum up with the exact diagnosis on brother Seven's situation, but I hate it when you stole my thunder, my post just took much longer to cut and paste man!!!!!

You're too quick and too good mate!!

Cheers

:cool2:

[AHLUNGOR]

Haha yeh probably. I think ive brainwashed myself with porn. Maybe ill try going of it too.
Nice wrap of all my posts ahlungor - im guessing u didnt write that off memory?

I did remember the last one off the top of my head though, you filthy little Blow Jobee ............haha

[cisco]

All the thread were there, i will see the answer. Whats next?

[MrSeven]

Hhahha ahlungor. I like to write a good "head"line bahaha.

[Clinton]

It happens sometimes. As long as it is less than half of the time, there is nothing wrong with u. Just don't let it get into your mind, next time you punt because it could reinforce itself.

The baby member who talked about AIDS is totally insane. It is not fun to scare people like that.

[AHLUNGOR]

There was one day recently (within the last month), I went to the pub, had a beer, then went to a shop and had a session with one of my regular MLs, had a nice massage as usual and then just a quickie HJ. She is usually very good with her hands and always gave me a very happy ending, but for some unknown reasons, I couldn't cum that day and she was going to try a few other tricks on me..............that could have been great but her next booking was already waiting as we had over run so we just left it at that.............lol

A couple of weeks later, back for another session and we both laughed at what happened last time, didn't try to do too much too differently and I cum right when she wanted me to. Mission Accomplished !!

There you go, it happens, and no names mentioned of course...........haha

And this is not a review, although its a true story

Cheers

:smile:

[igloo]

Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress


Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress

Generally speaking I like getting a bj from a WL more than sex with a WL. Actually I do enjoy both, but If I had to choose its BJ all the way!!

The bj can be great/filthy/sensual/deep/loving etc... even a combination. Then if she has given it her best I will have developed some temporary feelings or whatever and can fuck her in a way that is better for both of us.

I don't enjoy the sessions where its lie down, on with rubber, short, mechanical unenthusiastic bj then legs open and fuck. This seems to be more common at Cauc shops (my experience), but that was all I knew for most of my life.. Then one nite I was holed up at some Sydney hotel (for work) and pulled out the daily telegraph, called a girl and a walking disaster turned up, for some reason I paid and after 3 minutes with her sniffling and trying to get me hard by telepathy I got up called the boss said this wasn't right...refund all but $50 and rang the next advert.

As luck or fate would have it, I spoke to a Japanese chick (who I now know is Chinese) got her to promise promise promise she would send what she described and 25 minutes later Sakura from the old Tokyo Cats lobbed up in an overcoat covering a white vinyl jumpsuit... She sucked my cock and balls dry for my first and third shot We fucked brilliantly for the second> I was really happy.

As she was leaving Sakura told me to come to the shop coz she had friends... and that was that good bye Charlie. I got addicted to doubles... I was never dished up a unenthusiastic girl and was copping blowjobs from 3-4 chicks a week plus the most exciting sex of my life when I was home... I was coming so much that each shot was 1/4 of what usually came out

Over time I found that going from bbbj to condom application for f/s became more and more of a hassle with flaccidity... So if there was a delay or sometimes even without a delay I went soft, it was off with the dom and back to suction, and back to wood. Definitely a mental thing because in my mind I was not going up in excitement but rather going down a level. So the fix (for me) was stick to bj to completion. Plus I was weaning myself off the doubles. Doubles can be a mugs game where 2 girls each do half as much a they would normally do, but at TC it was romper stomper, debauchery like the Roman Empire times, the effort was squared fantasy sessions, the likes of which I had never experienced before or since.....

Lots of positives came from this, in particular I got into the habit of discussing the need for anyone I saw to be skilled and actually enjoy, or pretend to enjoy sucking cock. One thing I found was that from this time on, if I was with a regular WL say 4 or 5 times and then on the sixth said I want to fuck you today ..there was something supercharged about that sex.

I guess everyone deals with things in their own way, I have compartmentalized punting and that together with the fact that punting was mostly blowjobs (things change) made it easy for my Swiss cheese like consience to deal with whatever it needed to deal with.

As you say it probably is a little selfish, but but at the end of the day at $150 or so for the hour it is about you, but the good girls become your regulars and things change there as well.

Nothing wrong with you, Gimpy on the other hand needs a bullet.

[santos]

NO. nothing wrong. i am the same with you...:sweat:

[Littlewonder]

90% of good sex is in the mind so getting hard is mostly in the mind particularly as you get older the thing is not to think about failure just be positive think of the things you like the things that turn you on and picture the girl as the greatest prettiest thing you have ever been with think how lucky you are to be with that girl and why you picked her and dont be selfish look after her it always works for me.

[the wizard]

90% of good sex is in the mind so getting hard is mostly in the mind particularly as you get older the thing is not to think about failure just be positive think of the things you like the things that turn you on and picture the girl as the greatest prettiest thing you have ever been with think how lucky you are to be with that girl and why you picked her and dont be selfish look after her it always works for me.


Good advice Littlewonder, if is something does not go to plan, stay upbeat and positive, don't be hard on yourself and the girl, don't dwell on it, try to make the best of the moment.
It can be a mind game
If you start to worry then your "never gonna finish the business"

I only need to have a young beautiful naked body next to mine, on top, below and I'm happy

I'm easily pleased !!!!!

[jellyshots]

Maybe it's an intimacy thing. I enjoy BBBJ way more than CIP with condomn on but if the girl lets me DFK while covered CIP, everything works out fine. When I do FS, I bring my own condomns (Crown) so I don't have to put up with the crappy rubber glove ones - and to prevent the WL complaining if we happen to go through a few during our session.

[MrSeven]

i wish i was easily pleased wiz... makes punting a whole a lot easier for you im sure...

[DeepImpact]

Maybe the girls just weren't that attractive to you.

[Mr Crash and Burn]

It has only happened to me once. It was with the famous FeI Fei and try as she did, my mind wasn't there. I had been punting lots in a few days and had earlier in the night been out with an .ML and the end wasn't what I was expecting.
So Bro Seven, it was mostly that your mind was elsewhere and or you have been going to hard recently.

[the wizard]

Unfortunatley porn addiction can do this to you, you can never be satisfied and the body just doesn't respond because the girls are not sexy enough.

It's worse when your with your partner/wife- if they are not glamours like in porn it may be difficult to keep hard and cum.
A friend of mine has had this same problem, met a girl, but when it came to sex, he always struggled to cum and remain hard.
He had this unrealistic view of what she should have been like- body and personality wise due to watching too much porn..
She just did not do it for him sexually, yet she was a really nice girl.
They have since broken up- she just couldn't handle the situation.

[cisco]

Too much porn and probably sex will make you numb and not excited anymore

[MrSeven]

U boys are spot on. Too much porn and sex - ive had way too much of both way too frequently lately.
Thats why i want the girl to act and look like a pornstar. Ive "porn"washed my mind. Fuck!!!??

My ex made herself look like a pornstar for me and even still sometimes i just couldnt get hard. Plus i take awhile to cum so she used to get frustrated. She knew i liked oral more than sex and said i was sick for being like that. Still she learned to blow me like no ther girl. Would dress up in lingerie on saturday mornings especially and would wake me up with the best motherfuckin bj ever. Little busty asian minx she was. Too bad she was mental.

[chandra_man1]

what is the most consecutive days u have done with either wanking or fucking ? too many days cant remember ?

[MrSeven]

Too many bro - sometimes its daily for me

[chandra_man1]

lol daily!!
you're an ironman. ultra-marathon. i would try to keep it under 4 shots per week. In traditional chinese medicine they reckon you should only have one shot per week. each shot you have depletes your energy, so don't waste it by wanking.

[MrSeven]

1 shot per week?? im gonna be like a dog on heat, frothing at the mouth every time i see a hot pussy walk past me.. not that pussys walk but you know what i mean

ok i'll try it bro... no shots.. no fucking.. no wanking.. for a whole week.. hope this doesnt kill me

[chandra_man1]

personally i don't abide by the one shot per week. if i had it my way it be 2 shots per day. but to compromise all these theories i keep it to 3 or 4. never go for more than 6 a week. everyday gotta keep a mental count

[MrSeven]

Ok ill test it out brother. The hardest thing is boredom + horniness. Together theyre monumnentally hard to control or overcome haha "overcum"

[jj12345]

Isn't then opposite problem when holding back? Get so horny that when time comes it's too hard to last?

[MrSeven]

yeh maybe for some jj.. def not for me.. holding back for ages just means ill cum rivers as opposed to streams

[gimpy]

i think you're slowly transitioning to gay. george michael and david bowie both said it was a slow transition. they didn't just wake up gay one day. it was a gradual process.

[chandra_man1]

Mrseven can perhaps go to Oxford st and put his seven incher into a gloryhole and get a free bj. if its good maybe will bat for the other team

[MrSeven]

MeSeven knows what he wants. And its pussy... As opposed to cock n balls.

[the wizard]

i think you're slowly transitioning to gay. george michael and david bowie both said it was a slow transition. they didn't just wake up gay one day. it was a gradual process.
i didn't know david was gay ?......

[wilisno]

i didn't know david was gay ?......
Hahaha, I didn't know he wasn't ! ;) ;) ;)

[razelio]

Its not an uncommon problem;

Sometimes I find it easier to keep an erection with slow sex than fast sex.

Consider visiting your doctor, some viagra might help, I'm 27yo but I need it, take it at least 30 mins before hand, makes your boners a bit harder for up to 24 hrs, so you might want to punt twice or go to a ML aswell.

Makes me a bit comfortable to hear someone else has the same prob, especially when I started punting, I had a really difficult time getting it up and didn't use viagra.

*Oh yeah, exercise and don't masturbate for a day or so before going in, some of the younger guys wank before going in to last longer, but I don't need any help going for longer that's for sure. I gotta concentrate to make myself cum.

[black knight]

My problem is cumming to soon, getting it up isn't a problem- so 30min sessions are a no no or me as it doesn't give me
enough time to get it up again.
I'm thinking of going to AMI, you know the company with the nasal spray to prolong orgasm, but I know I'll be screwed over by them.

[MrSeven]

They're frauds. Dont waste your money.... Seriously black knight. Better off spending it on punting. I rately cum quick. Must suck for you...

[guailo]

I reckon its mostly in the mind, with some physical aspect. Been through a period when I couldn't get it 100% hard and even then simply cannot come. Doctor reckoned nothing wrong with me physically, but suggested I take to the gym. Took his advice and it helped. Stuck to the gym for a while and abstained from sex or anything related for a few weeks (which was not difficult as I had no interest anyway). First sex after that was glorious!

[retrowolf]

Im in the same boat OP, I hate latex and will take a HJ over covered sex. Don't get me wrong, I would never go BBFS but as soon as a rubber goes on I start going limp. BBBJ is the best thing for me, it's a happy medium and gets me over the line every time. Actually I'd take that over BBFS from a girlfriend, although I know it's selfish (I'm happy to make up for it by spending hours DATY for them though).

Don't be too concerned, at lest you know what you like. I had a friend who struggled for ages before he worked out that the only thing that could get him off was being tied up. Another female friend could only climax if hot wax was being dripped onto her clit. We are all wired up differently, know what you like, enjoy it and then be open to doing the same for your partner and life will be good.

[bill_100]

Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress

I agree with you Mr Seven, that was a puerile and unneccessary comment. One really wonders at the mentality of some members here and the stupid commentys that are made!

MrSteven I think that it was the obvious lack of chemistry between you and the girl that was the cause. Unless it happens often (where you should see your GP) just ignore it.

[the wizard]

Your right bil, if chemistry is lacking, or something
Just doesn`t feel right that would be enough to cause
perfornance issues. Has happened to me.
As you say " if it persists see a doctor "

[garfield]

Try oriental herbal doctor that would subscribe traditional medicine to improve your system and libido. They are not the viagrstyle that work straight away bit aim to improve your chi and organ function, better in the long run.

[LongJohnSilver]

Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress

Unless the girl's pussy is as tight as a virgin's, BJ and HJ will always feel better on the little bro and make you want to cum quicker. In fact, for pure feeling, what can beat a HJ with plenty of lube?

[Cracker38]

I'm guessing the girl just wasn't really doing it for you, or you have punted so much you have killed all the excitement and its no longer interesting to you.

[action_hunter]

MeSeven knows what he wants. And its pussy... As opposed to cock n balls.

Maybe next time take the 2 best WL in the shop. Works a treat....mmm got me thinking now.