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[darthvader]

Always wondered if i am the only asshole out there leaving my wife at home while i got a rub down from a chubby asian in a dodgy massage establishment?

Married.

Anyone else?

[Digger]

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Always wondered if i am the only asshole out there leaving my wife at home while i got a rub down from a chubby asian in a dodgy massage establishment?

Married.

Anyone else?

Yes, I guess you are, as I am not married or in a relationship; clear conscience!
Although I have been married 2 times; enough is enough!

[RottenLittlePunt]

Always wondered if i am the only asshole out there leaving my wife at home while i got a rub down from a chubby asian in a dodgy massage establishment?

Married.

Anyone else?

I don't see the problem, it's just a massage after all. :cool2:

[bigbob]

Always wondered if i am the only asshole out there leaving my wife at home while i got a rub down from a chubby asian in a dodgy massage establishment?

Married.

Anyone else?
no i do the same not married but in a relationship

[Doa]

Always wondered if i am the only asshole out there leaving my wife at home while i got a rub down from a chubby asian in a dodgy massage establishment?

Married.

Anyone else?

I'm married 30+ never thought about massage for years got involved working in china 1st trip was offered a HJ in Pudong never looked back was "quiet at home on the sex front" my thoughts like yours am I a asshole ??
Spent 10 years traveling there and HongKong I wanted it "my partner did not "so what do u do ?u have to get your mind around the "am I cheating" shit in Asia they all cheat so the question is do u tap your partner on the shoulder or what ever 2 to 3 times a week and get the same answer *****
Or do we go out and find some other way of having your way , those of u who have partners what do we do ??
is "cheating " getting a massage and a tease a flip and a hand job from a massage girl yes or no but can your mental state handle the "cheat factor "
My answer is rub and tug is not cheating you aren't having a relationship for Christ sake just a rub and tug
full service for a married person or long time partner is another can of worms

[harmony]

"was offered a HJ in Pudong"
Sounds like a very interesting story. Could you expand ?

[Woebetide]

Yeah, married. Wife has "retired from the business", so I feel no guilt. Its just a bit of tease and a tug, for gawds sake.

[RottenLittlePunt]

"it's only a tease and a tug" seems to be a common reasoning. Would those same people be ok if they caught their best friend feeling up their missus? Just a thought.

[popeye96]

I'm not judging anyone here, and don't care if you are cheating or not. My view is if you are in a relationship, and you get a R&T or full service, and your Mrs doesn't know about it then yes, you are cheating. Hell, if you even kiss another female, most woman would consider it cheating. So boys, justify it any way you want, but it is still cheating. How would you feel if your Mrs regularly got finger fucked by multiple random dudes?

[FangBanger]

I'm not judging anyone here, and don't care if you are cheating or not. My view is if you are in a relationship, and you get a R&T or full service, and your Mrs doesn't know about it then yes, you are cheating. Hell, if you even kiss another female, most woman would consider it cheating. So boys, justify it any way you want, but it is still cheating. How would you feel if your Mrs regularly got finger fucked by multiple random dudes?

Was going to reply with basically the same thing. If your missus knows about it and has no problem then it's certainly justified but if not then I'm sorry you are cheating guys.

[jaccky]

Yes, its cheating. I'm in a relationship, and I just have to live with that fact. Handjob, full service. It's all on a continuum, all degrees of deception.

[Doa]

"was offered a HJ in Pudong"
Sounds like a very interesting story. Could you expand ?

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[madness]

Married. After more than 10 years of being frustrated at wanting more than my wife I started punting about 18 months ago. Haven't been happier. No need to continually put pressure on my wife - we do it when she wants to and if she doesn't but I really do then there is always a cute little Asian girl ready to help me out. Surprisingly I don't feel much guilt as I am happy with this set-up.

[jaccky]

Part of the prostitutes' function is to save the odd marriage.

[Nomad628]

I'm in the same boat as you madness. Married for 10 years, my wife suffers from mental illness that has seen her hospitalised multiple times. Intimacy was never her strong suit, even less so these days. I find a punt, be it FS or a massage once every 2-3 weeks keeps me in line. I'm sure she knows, but has never said anything. Besides the lack of sex, we have a really strong relationship.

[Atomique]

Your wife sounds like she needs your help


I'm in the same boat as you madness. Married for 10 years, my wife suffers from mental illness that has seen her hospitalised multiple times. Intimacy was never her strong suit, even less so these days. I find a punt, be it FS or a massage once every 2-3 weeks keeps me in line. I'm sure she knows, but has never said anything. Besides the lack of sex, we have a really strong relationship.

[Rob.Kilbey]

I agree with Jakky...I started punting a couple of years ago and try to limit it to once a week, I can imagine it could get addictive not too mention costly.

In comparison to having an affair it's definitely the lesser evil. Women are obviously programmed differently and the more comfortable they are in a relationship the less interest there is with sex., unless you are with a gem,

A couple should be able to sit down and talk about their needs. I provide my partner everything she wants, absolutely everything....I used to nag a little about spicing up activities in the bedroom but the actions never followed.

So yes it's cheating....but this way there is no resentment, no nagging and no outside relationship...do I feel remorse ? Not really, to me it's just getting what u want in life, same as my partner....

[gpeck80]

Sex for men is a biological need. We have to have it. Since feminism came about we have been made to feel guilty about it. Fuck that. We need it. It aint personal. Its a physiological necessity. Men who get sex are healthier physically and psychologically. It is the natural state of being for men. My attitude is if a woman cant accept that, I'll find one who does. That usually puts em in their place.

[Doa]

Sex for men is a biological need. We have to have it. Since feminism came about we have been made to feel guilty about it. Fuck that. We need it. It aint personal. Its a physiological necessity. Men who get sex are healthier physically and psychologically. It is the natural state of being for men. My attitude is if a woman cant accept that, I'll find one who does. That usually puts em in their place.

I wonder how many wife's /partners are having happy endings?Would like to hear from a lady who is "cheating(or what ever u want to call it) on her partner"by getting happy endings from some guy off Craig's List or of those shitty pop up ads that plague most sights.Food for thought.

[RottenLittlePunt]

I wonder how many wife's /partners are having happy endings?Would like to hear from a lady who is "cheating(or what ever u want to call it) on her partner"by getting happy endings from some guy off Craig's List or of those shitty pop up ads that plague most sights.Food for thought.

This usually isn't the same thing unless the man has lost interest in physical intimacy. When either partner strays despite their partner still being interested in them physically, it is worse than if they stray as a result of loss of intimacy. Try remembering your wedding vows (for those who are married), "to have and to hold" refers to intimacy and applies to both parties, not just the guy remaining faithful.