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MrSeven
13-01-2013, 02:12 PM
Fellow brothers,

I'm about to embark on a very ambitious journey. After many years of quite regular and frequent pleasure to myself through either wanking, porn, or sex. I'm going to try my best to not touch myself for a whole month. Of course there'll still be punting here and there.

But i want to see whether it will help me in a few different ways. Help me to cum quicker, to cum from sex more easily as opposed to oral. To not want oral more than sex. To not want WL's girls who only look and act like pornstars.

Maybe this sounds achievable for some of you. But for someone whos so habitual when it comes to beating off over porn this will be a huge challenge.

I'd appreciate any encouragement you can send my way as its not goin to be easy.

I'll keep you updated on how im going.. When/if i fail.. And let you know by the end of it if its helped my sex life and health improve.

You guys are my accountability.

Day 1... and counting.

MrSeven

splash
13-01-2013, 02:15 PM
I hope this motivates you bro...

I'm on day 10.

11 days to go (my benchmark target is 21... I might go further).

chandra_man1
13-01-2013, 02:50 PM
very easily achievable if you have a fuckbuddy who can milk you dry every 2 days. as long as you have a fuck at least once per week theres no reason why u need to wank. i probably went a whole year without porn at one stage.it also helps if u have busy lifestyle so u are not in front of computer all weekend and after work. just hand your harddisk of porn to someone or hand your whole computer to someone for a whole week so u have no access. u can always use your smartphone to check emails & syd99.

splash
13-01-2013, 02:57 PM
^ I'm going for absolutely no sexual contact... no sex, wank, blowjob, handjob... blow up doll (I don't own one btw), flesh light (I don't own one of those either). I don't know about MrSeven though.

PhoBot
13-01-2013, 03:04 PM
When you break your fast, find a WL who can do COF so you can do a Peter North impersonation.

chandra_man1
13-01-2013, 03:12 PM
^ I'm going for absolutely no sexual contact... no sex, wank, blowjob, handjob... blow up doll (I don't own one btw), flesh light (I don't own one of those either). I don't know about MrSeven though.

treat yourself to a blowup doll and fleshlight when u do come out of max confinement

the wizard
13-01-2013, 03:14 PM
Seven- good on you
I really hope you can exorcise those demons,
with the ultimate results as you wish them to be.

Keep us updated honestly and I might take the Seven test too once the results are in....


ps. what are you gonna do when Cassie comes back in Feb
now that's a hard one.............

splash
13-01-2013, 03:18 PM
treat yourself to a blowup doll and fleshlight when u do come out of max confinement

Going for the REAL thing when I come out of confinement.

Sergaent Brody
13-01-2013, 03:22 PM
I don't know why you want to torture yourself like that ... Life is too short and another end of the world may just be around the corner according to some prophecies ...

the wizard
13-01-2013, 03:28 PM
I hope this motivates you bro...

I'm on day 10.

11 days to go (my benchmark target is 21... I might go further).


Splash-well done, keep it up.

I should start now.....

chandra_man1
13-01-2013, 04:00 PM
should be leaking out chunky comes at the toilet by day 10. by day 21 balls will be size of soccer ball

DeepImpact
13-01-2013, 04:28 PM
The first week will be the hardest so if you get through that you will be fine. Good luck with it.

cmk76
13-01-2013, 07:03 PM
Everytime you think about sex, or get hard, go for a hard jog or punish yourself at the gym. All round hour weight train, it will ease your testosterone levels back down again. If that fails, visit an old aunty, uncle or grandparents and play bridge and ask about the 'good old days!' That should keep your mind of it!

the wizard
13-01-2013, 07:07 PM
I've made my decision, no porn, no wanking, no sex-till Sat.
I know it's a small step, but a step nonetheless
Then if successful will extend-
let all know how I go

MrSeven
13-01-2013, 07:20 PM
Glad to know im not alone in my endeavours brother splash. Day 10 i heard is the hardest. Any particular reason why ur doing it? U must be feeling horny as hell.

U guys had me in fits at work - some of the funniest shit ive read in a long time
Phobot with the peter north line haha and chandra with fleshlight and blow up doll.. Good shit, unfortunatey i aint got either

Hey Wiz nah its definitely not a test of abstinence, once cassies back i plan to be jostling with you at the front door of ginza to be the first in haha ill keep u updated bro

Thanks for encouragement deep

Interesting blackbird.. Did it have any lasting results? Dont wank as much any more?

Interesting

AHLUNGOR
13-01-2013, 10:00 PM
Does this statement has anything to do with your new avatar?? a big tits white girl ??

No wanking/porn for a MONTH!! Who thinks i'll fail?

wilisno
13-01-2013, 10:36 PM
Where the bloody hell were you... splash

Asked MOON N FeiFei:miao::miao::miao:

Hahaha, I heard it too splash ! :miao:

asiafever
13-01-2013, 10:39 PM
I have to go for 5 days without shooting and I'm wondering how to retain my sanity.. a month? I'd have no chance. Good luck..

chandra_man1
13-01-2013, 11:24 PM
Everytime you think about sex, or get hard, go for a hard jog or punish yourself at the gym. All round hour weight train, it will ease your testosterone levels back down again. t!
actually if u go and have a fuck after a hard jog of say an hour, it is insanely intense when u shoot. marathon runners get their second wind when adrenaline kicks in and they just keep going mad with their running. give it ago if u still have the energy after a big run.

glass
13-01-2013, 11:49 PM
Look up yourbrainonporn and yourbrainrebalanced. Some other members here also mentioned this before.

Im on my 21st day today without orgasm and 31st day with no porn.

Im more social now and flirt with girls much more. Im more out going and more confident. My little bro is more dead now though but so much more sensitive.

Its been a fucking tough ask. Gl to you. Will be punting very soon.

dannyboy
14-01-2013, 10:07 AM
its not really natural to hold anything in, it will find a way out, more then likely wet dreams..

gimpy
14-01-2013, 02:47 PM
once you get to a month you'll have a savage case of the blue balls if you become aroused for any reason.

baby_boo
14-01-2013, 03:07 PM
go watch 40 Days and 40 Nights, u will be like that main char

splash
14-01-2013, 05:08 PM
Where the bloody hell were you... splash

Asked MOON N FeiFei:miao::miao::miao:


Damn I booked Fei Fei in the Penthouse first Thursday of the new years! You forgot? She knows... Moon knows I'm around too...

ANYWAYS... Day 11, I keep myself occupied... calling people out and people calling me out... then there's gym, going Hard As a Motherfucker on that bitch too...

I just decided to make a whole bunch of changes and give myself a whole bunch of challenges this year. That's the reason why I'm doing what I am doing.

And it isn't hard if you keep yourself occupied... but I gotta say, the morning glories these last few days are harder than titanium. I just gotta keep telling myself to keep it up (the challenge I mean)... 10 days till benchmark. Looks like I will go over that because I have plans on day 21 and damn busy that weekend too...

I sound like I'm bragging now... I promise I will make them with the two.. :D

MrSeven
15-01-2013, 07:51 PM
Day 4..... Struggling..... Already!?!?

black knight
15-01-2013, 08:17 PM
Unfortunately I can't last more than several days.
Your doing OK , keep it up-sorry I mean keep going

MrSeven
15-01-2013, 09:34 PM
I feel ur pain black knight. Okay, going for a run. Thatll help.

the wizard
15-01-2013, 09:41 PM
Seven, I'm on day 3- feeling fine
only problem Hoshi might be rostered on Sat......oh no !!

splash
15-01-2013, 10:16 PM
Don't give up guys!

Give yourself a date, and reward yourself with a punt for abstaining and overcoming the odds... going the distance where only a few men have successfully done so... then that punt would be probably the most rewarding punt you have ever done.

MrSeven
15-01-2013, 10:40 PM
Wiz your doing well but day 3 was good for me too, day 4 i started to get the urge at night. Just finished a jog around the block and a shower, that took away the urge. If hoshis on ur stuffed man haha.. Maybe let her known uve been saving yourself for her! Might work in your favour. I gotta wait a whole friggin month for my girl to come back. Fukkk, this feels like forever.

What would be a reasonable day/date splash.. How far ahead?

splash
16-01-2013, 05:41 AM
Everyone's different... I could do 10 days with no problems in the past, so I decided to stretch it out to 21 days as a benchmark, if I can go over that, even better.

dannyboy
16-01-2013, 10:11 AM
If you still punt it should be easy, if all your avoiding is looking at and jerking off to porn you should make a month easy, just punt once per week..

splash
16-01-2013, 06:06 PM
That takes away the challenge at least for me... it is absolutely no sexual contact as I have stated above, I don't know if MrSeven and the other guys are doing the same.

Only going to aim for a good 24 Days and I can celebrate!!!!!

Sextus
16-01-2013, 06:41 PM
That takes away the challenge at least for me... it is absolutely no sexual contact as I have stated above, I don't know if MrSeven and the other guys are doing the same.

Only going to aim for a good 24 Days and I can celebrate!!!!!

The literal pain you feel from blue balls comes from the unused ongoing production of sperm being suicided by the body as they age, and along with the seminal fluid, being absorbed back into the body.

It is very unhealthy to retain all this fluid inside you, and in fact, too much restriction from the natural release of it, restriction on an ongoing basis, is associated with prostrate disease - in all its forms. (So don't lay flat out too much ;)) The body expects us to want to release this stuff as fast as it can make it, which is very fast indeed, and the body cannot understand why it is being betrayed, hence the physical consequences.

There is no virtue in trying to restrict yourself this way, there is no point to it, and it is also bad for the body's physiology - hence the pain signal we feel. There is a vas deferens between healthy balls and distressed ones. :D

If you want to restrict yourself on something, eat less food instead, that would be good for you and you'd get slimmer and like the sight in the brothel's mirror a lot more!

retrowolf
16-01-2013, 08:02 PM
I make it to the 2 week mark from time to time but then just a hug from a female friend is enough to leave me in agony blue balling. I do try to have stints of no wanking to encourage me to have physical contact with other people (ie punt more), but when there is no money it needs to be done.

Good luck!

MrSeven
17-01-2013, 12:10 PM
Ok boys i confess. I gave in on day 4 at midnight. Couldnt sleep. Was so horny. Popped down to 5 star to try summer and while i didnt find her overly attractive she gave good service. I popped my load after a few minutes of bbbj. Best unleash! Pent up u know. But good news is.. I still havent wanked to porn and its been over a week now.

dannyboy
17-01-2013, 12:25 PM
Well your still on the program, its was only not to wank to porn..

dom.peter80
17-01-2013, 01:13 PM
if you're having problems cumming or keeping hard, the trick is to masturbate regularly without looking at porn or any material, to close your eyes and focus on something really dirty

splash
17-01-2013, 06:28 PM
LOL... At 14 days, I have to say...

This is not for the faint of heart... I've been moody as fuck the last few days, at times depressed, and I was annoyed at the slightest things, things returned to normal this afternoon.

My ego tells me I must hold on.

If you are on it this program, ask yourself why? I don't wish this on no man!

mannykay
18-01-2013, 12:55 AM
I've found that wanking is ok, as long as you're not watching porn. That stuff is like a drug.
Just don't over do it.

the wizard
18-01-2013, 07:30 AM
looks like I'll be caving in on Saturday....

MrSeven
18-01-2013, 11:48 AM
Hoshi here u come wizman!!!

the wizard
19-01-2013, 05:23 PM
Hoshi here u come wizman!!!

I'm starting again from Tomorrow !
- blame Samiko

MrSeven
19-01-2013, 05:25 PM
Samiko eh? U love the jap girls. U know how i feel about them wiz

the wizard
19-01-2013, 05:28 PM
Samiko eh? U love the jap girls. U know how i feel about them wiz

Seven - don't give up on them........

TempoBingu
18-07-2014, 12:44 AM
While regular spaced out jerk offs are in fact a vital mental/physical release once it becomes chronic it starts to work in the opposite direction.

Just to legitimise this on a personal level - as I spend a lot of time studying the urge to rub one, two, then seven out is overpowering. Excessive jerking off can lead to sciatic/lower back pain and even affect one's concentration. In my particular case it also fucked with my posture because I was hunched over my computer screen like some sort of horny gremlin punishing my genitals for getting excited.

The whole 'punish yourself by doing a vicious bodyattack' is a good philosophy. Its just a shame that I lack the moral constitution to really stick by that promise.

GL to anyone still trying this complex form of self-flagellation

HotSha19
18-07-2014, 01:43 AM
Fellow brothers,

I'm about to embark on a very ambitious journey. After many years of quite regular and frequent pleasure to myself through either wanking, porn, or sex. I'm going to try my best to not touch myself for a whole month. Of course there'll still be punting here and there.

But i want to see whether it will help me in a few different ways. Help me to cum quicker, to cum from sex more easily as opposed to oral. To not want oral more than sex. To not want WL's girls who only look and act like pornstars.

Maybe this sounds achievable for some of you. But for someone whos so habitual when it comes to beating off over porn this will be a huge challenge.

I'd appreciate any encouragement you can send my way as its not goin to be easy.

I'll keep you updated on how im going.. When/if i fail.. And let you know by the end of it if its helped my sex life and health improve.

You guys are my accountability.

Day 1... and counting.

MrSeven
u sure even i give 99.9% discount? include a full hour fantasy of urs?

hehe im just joking
but to give you a tip seing a gay porn would help lol :P

astro boy
18-07-2014, 09:52 AM
u sure even i give 99.9% discount? include a full hour fantasy of urs?

hehe im just joking
but to give you a tip seing a gay porn would help lol :P
Ill take your advice. ...

croney
18-07-2014, 06:41 PM
I would fail for sure. I waited seven days before my last punt and was toey as f....
I don't have back front or side probs. I like to be comfortable at all times ha ah

HotSha19
18-07-2014, 06:46 PM
Ill take your advice. ...

does it work? cause my ex also get turn off when he saw it lol

ouch
19-07-2014, 05:08 AM
I find wanking and going to rnt shops is doing the public a health preservation service. . Cos while the sacks are empty I can keep my temper under control with a lot more ease during my working week . When dealing with people who struggle with common courtesy or common sense. Experience has taught me neither are common here in Australia. Now that I think about it I may put it to my accountant as a business expense... See what he says. I'll offer my good argument. and he will say fuck off idiot... In a polite accountant like manner

AHLUNGOR
19-07-2014, 10:45 AM
I find wanking and going to rnt shops is doing the public a health preservation service. . Cos while the sacks are empty I can keep my temper under control with a lot more ease during my working week . When dealing with people who struggle with common courtesy or common sense. Experience has taught me neither are common here in Australia. Now that I think about it I may put it to my accountant as a business expense... See what he says. I'll offer my good argument. and he will say fuck off idiot... In a polite accountant like manner



I did exactly that brother!

But only in legit shops so I could get a receipt and most of the times are for foot massage !

I always thought those are legitimate business expenses while travelling on company business, is it not?.........haha

Cheers