How long does it take you to cum?

[ukoyrnez]

So, I seem to be taking longer and longer to cum lately, I realise. An hour is sometimes not enough, let alone two. Not sure if my vitality is up now or what, lol. Time to cutback and let the cravings build up, maybe.

I digress. How long does it take you to reach climax? Quite curious to see the average mileage one can last for.

[chandra_man1]

it all depends on recent activities. range 5 to more than 30 minutes.

[rooter]

How long is a piece of string ?

[the wizard]

So, I seem to be taking longer and longer to cum lately, I realise. An hour is sometimes not enough, let alone two. Not sure if my vitality is up now or what, lol. Time to cutback and let the cravings build up, maybe.

I digress. How long does it take you to reach climax? Quite curious to see the average mileage one can last for.

1 or 2 hrs seems like an awfully long time.
First cum ranges between 5-20m, dependant on how stimulated I am and whom I'm with.
The second cum lasts much longer for me but it can be very tiring leading up to it.

[Sextus]

Yes, tiring. I may be belabouring this point but no-one ever comments on it.

The tiring is caused by the vast mechanical inefficiency of 80+ kg (depending on what you weigh) moving around a 300 gram cock for long periods. You sweat, and you get physically weary doing it.

The car industy would never have got off the ground if they built reciprocating engines as vastly inefficient as ours are. (Because our action is that of a reciprocating engine.)

That is why your hand is so much more efficient at making you come.

[DeepImpact]

How long it takes to cum with a WL would depend on how long the session is booked for. I would aim to cum about 5 minutes before the end so the length of time actually having sex is going to vary. The important point is can you control when you cum and once you decided to cum how long does this take and I would say for me once I decide to cum it would be within 2 minutes.

[jimmyk]

So, I seem to be taking longer and longer to cum lately, I realise. An hour is sometimes not enough, let alone two. Not sure if my vitality is up now or what, lol. Time to cutback and let the cravings build up, maybe.

I digress. How long does it take you to reach climax? Quite curious to see the average mileage one can last for.

I have a similar 'problem' to you ukoyrnez, if you have anytime to read any of my reviews you will notice I hardly ever cum in sessions. For me, I find that I stay hard the whole session, but cannot unload, unless I find a connection with the WL or ML. When I do cum, it is intense and well worth it. maybe cut back on 'flippin the dolphin', this may make you insensitive down there and you won't perform when the time arises

[ukoyrnez]

Lol DeepImpact that's some impressive body control.

I think for me it depends on how much the girl can turn me on. Of course, beating off and too much sex can also cause numbness. So I totally get your experience jimmyk. On average, when there's a good flow, I can finish in 20-30 minutes.

Nothing can compare to how one's first time was - the sheer anticipation and arousal of the mind made me cum in less than a minute of penetration. LOL.

[chandra_man1]

are u cut ?
seems like those without forskin last longer cos the are less sensitive as they are constantly getting their head rubbedwithout the skin to insulate ? so its like having a 24x7 rub which desensitise you

[DeepImpact]

Lol DeepImpact that's some impressive body control.

I think for me it depends on how much the girl can turn me on. Of course, beating off and too much sex can also cause numbness. So I totally get your experience jimmyk. On average, when there's a good flow, I can finish in 20-30 minutes.

Nothing can compare to how one's first time was - the sheer anticipation and arousal of the mind made me cum in less than a minute of penetration. LOL.

Nah Bro, nothing impressive. Just withdraw if you feel like cumming and start again or think of something else to stop yourself from cumming. These are my two tips.

[Littlewonder]

When do you start timing? When the girl returns to the room? when you get a hard on? When you enter the girl?

The other things that effect are how long since you came, how sexy is the girl, how good is the girl at turning you on, how quick or long do you want to last before you come.

Oh the list just goes on and on.

For me these days anything, assuming Start when girl returns from 5 minutes to one hour 45 minutes.

Or from when I enter the girl 1 minute to 45 minutes. All depends on what we both feel like and want. What's normal or average about 5 minutes I guess, never actually sat there and timed the event

[bill_100]

I think that your age has a big impact on this, remember when going through puberty you could almost CUM by looking at a girl.

Everything being equal the level of sex hormones has the most significant effect. As we age these slowly reduce and affect lots of things including the time to CUM.

Other things as mentioned before are how tired you are, period since you last came, your frame of mind.

If anyone is worried about it they should see their GP to exclude any other issues.

Of cousre other things may affect each individual

[Sextus]

Even up until just three years ago, I used to have to pull out and pause to prevent myself coming. I miss that hair trigger feeling where you have to stop yourself.

These days I can fuck until the cows come home, which is good, but if I want to come (and I always do, of course) I have to make a deliberate decision that it is about time to do that. I then have to use thoughts / actions / images to get me there. Very rarely is this not the case.

Are you saying Bill, that the taking of (testosterone, I presume) would get me some or even all of that former sensitivity back? If so, I like.

[retrowolf]

Wow, I definitely have the reverse issue. Hj or bbbj and I can usually last between 5-10 minutes, fs though, if I'm driving I can last as long as I like by changing speed etc, but if the girl is in charge especially in cg or rcg it's all over very quickly. The issue for me though is reload time. Even though I know I could get one out in the first 5 minutes of being with wl or ml, I won't be able to go again in the hour unless its some very good bbbj with cim. This is pretty good with a gf rather than wl because I know once the first one is out of the way I can bang on for an hour, make sure the girl gets what she needs without having to fight back cumming the whole time.

[the wizard]

With a Gf where I have all night, I can last up to 45 m or more and have several cum's.

It's different with a Wl where we have a limited time, I usually cum much faster, but can do it twice or in
one case three times in the hour depending how good she is.
In those instances I wish I could fuck till the cows come home like Bro Sextus.....

[SuperJackass]

I had the same problem when i am tired. Hard to cum.
But when i am in my 100% and with a good
WL I came in 5 mins once. My theory is try to avoid eye contact with the girl when i feel like cuming or rinse my little bro with water. It works on me.
If you wanna come faster, i guess find a good WL and make sure you are not tired. There was once i booked a girl overnight with an asiam agent, since we have such a long night to kill, i feel relexed and no rushing, it actually made me cum faster when there is no rush. Just my two cents opinion.

[rcha086]

All down to the chemistry for me. With one that I get along with, I cum within 5 minutes of sex (not including foreplay; foreplay is extended with girls that I'm really into). Some girls just don't do it for me so for the length of the session, I won't be able to cum (we could be fucking for 40 minutes but nope, can't get over the edge). At this point, I'd have the girl give me a quick BJ and then I would jerk off while she sucks on my nipple. That does it for me for some reason haha.

[Bazzladance69]

Some girls "ooze sex appeal", so I have a heightened need to root them , usually when this happens I can cum in a minute, very frustrating as you want it
to last longer, other times when there appearance is average, & not much of a connection it can take me 10min+.
For me it is all about the connection with the girl, that's why I have regular girls , its great though when you find that super sexy little gem.

[harmony]

Some medications can affect when you cum, including anti depressants