[Article] Being Unable to Compartmentalize Sex is a Liability

[illidanstormrage]

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/07/07/being-unable-to-compartmentalize-sex-is-a-liability/


Today, I’m going to discuss men who are at a distinct disadvantage when it comes to living a life of long-term, consistent happiness. They are the men who lack the ability to have completely casual sex.

From the posts I've read recently and overall I do figure some punters do have trouble compartmentalizing sex, myself included.

So yeah have a read of the article and post what you think! Compartmentalization of sex is something girls do very well.

I doubt most guys could imagine themselves doing what WL does on a regular basis or thinking wow she has a hard job.

The WL's/ML's that choose to do their job (I think it's more so out of necessity) but still choice nonetheless. Can only do it because they can compartmentalize sex quite easily.

That's something that guys but especially punters should be on point with.

[harmony]

Interesting article brother
Keep them coming !

"Over the course of my life, I’ve had sex with a lot of women over a period of more than 20 years.
I’ve fallen in love with a grand total of three of them"

The whole concept of "oneitis" is a very important one, that a lot of men are never taught about, and they suffer as a result

It should be noted, also, that one issue the author does not talk about, is what happens when the lady has sex with you, and falls in love

Again, thank you illidanstormrage for posting an interesting and thought provoking article !

[Oneonone]

First of all I thing a wl has a hard job!

As a punter I try and make it enjoyable for the wl

I have found over the years that in most cases the ladies like to be treated nice and given the chance to enjoy themselves.

For me I like GFE and the girls I see respond positively to any attention I give them.

So my advice or summary is always treat the lady nicely and you will be rewarded.

[uglyphil]

First of all I thing a wl has a hard job!

As a punter I try and make it enjoyable for the wl

I have found over the years that in most cases the ladies like to be treated nice and given the chance to enjoy themselves.

For me I like GFE and the girls I see respond positively to any attention I give them.

So my advice or summary is always treat the lady nicely and you will be rewarded.

I concur. I enjoy the session much much MUCH more if the lady has a good time as well.

Unfortunately, I have been told by several of my regulars that I am the exception the rule in this regard. Too often punters instead treat the ladies with contempt, attempt to bargain the price down or try to do things which the ladies have stated are unacceptable, especially those that visit the ladies at night time (i.e. when drunk or high). These losers and lower forms of life do themselves no favours and (by extension) make the rest of us look bad as well.

Pisses me off that there are boys (because real men do not treat any lady in such a way) out there who still think it is OK to treat women in this way.

[uglyphil]

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/07/07/being-unable-to-compartmentalize-sex-is-a-liability/



From the posts I've read recently and overall I do figure some punters do have trouble compartmentalizing sex, myself included.

So yeah have a read of the article and post what you think! Compartmentalization of sex is something girls do very well.

I doubt most guys could imagine themselves doing what WL does on a regular basis or thinking wow she has a hard job.

The WL's/ML's that choose to do their job (I think it's more so out of necessity) but still choice nonetheless. Can only do it because they can compartmentalize sex quite easily.

That's something that guys but especially punters should be on point with.

Not convinced that all women do this well. Like most things this is a skill that is learned by necessity in this profession. WLs may be better at it, purely because they have to be.

On the whole most men I have met are quite happy to simply have one night stands and walk away, no matter the feelings of the girl involved. At least, while young this certainly seems to be the case for most men.

Especially if they play League ;)

[Oneonone]

I concur. I enjoy the session much much MUCH more if the lady has a good time as well.

Unfortunately, I have been told by several of my regulars that I am the exception the rule in this regard. Too often punters instead treat the ladies with contempt, attempt to bargain the price down or try to do things which the ladies have stated are unacceptable, especially those that visit the ladies at night time (i.e. when drunk or high). These losers and lower forms of life do themselves no favours and (by extension) make the rest of look bad as well.

Pisses me off that there are boys (because real men do not treat any lady in such a way) out there who still think it is OK to treat women in this way.

Well bro unfortunately all we can do is what we think is right and encourage other bros to do the same, there are some lovely ladies out there and if you treat them right they will reward you ten fold.

[CunningLinguist]

I don't suffer from this syndrome, so haven't bothered to read the article, my advice to all punters is to treat a punt like going to the movies, enjoy it, get lost in the moment, suspend reality, fall in love, but once the time is up come back to reality.

Also I agree with treating WL's properly, I always give good BFE, and mostly it pays off. But once the time is up ...

Eg. recently I was with a ML and after a while we clicked and before I knew it I was giving her DATY, then DFK, then ... And all I wanted was a simple massage with a HE.

[uglyphil]

Well bro unfortunately all we can do is what we think is right and encourage other bros to do the same, there are some lovely ladies out there and if you treat them right they will reward you ten fold.

**nods** - true words Ooo :)

[rcha086]

I find it easy to compartmentalise sex. I love my wife (still am in love with her as much as I was when I first met her) but what can I say, I'm a closet pervert and going punting satisfies my cravings. I guess it makes me a good liar too, though I do portray myself to her and people I know as a terrible liar.

For me, I can make love to my wife and still want to be in her company after. I can't say the same for the WLs that I punt with, even my regulars whom I've developed casual relationships with. I fuck and cum, make small talk, but soon after I have the urge to jump in the shower and get out. I never fail to get this feeling. I've booked hotel rooms overnight for punts but never end up making it past 2am; I always end up going home before the sun comes up.

[rcha086]

Unfortunately, I have been told by several of my regulars that I am the exception the rule in this regard. Too often punters instead treat the ladies with contempt, attempt to bargain the price down or try to do things which the ladies have stated are unacceptable, especially those that visit the ladies at night time (i.e. when drunk or high). These losers and lower forms of life do themselves no favours and (by extension) make the rest of us look bad as well.

Pisses me off that there are boys (because real men do not treat any lady in such a way) out there who still think it is OK to treat women in this way.

I get the same too. To be honest, my first generalisation of punting was that it was a seedy, perverted thing to do. I had my first punt at Stilettos after a long period of no sex, and I realised how it doesn't have to feel seedy and misogynistic. I'm a big believer in karma too, so it only made perfect sense to me that in order to receive, we should give. A lick for a suck, a thrust for a grind!

[harmony]

"I had my first punt at Stilettos"

What a way to start your punting !
Sounds like the title of a book