uglyphil
17-08-2015, 06:21 PM
We have all heard stories (I am sure) or have been asked to leave a given shop because of our nationality.
I have had several ladies not see me in certain shop because I am caucasian (their reasoning ranged from they prefer asians to their belief that all white men have big dicks and didn't want to be hurt). I want to point out that on EVERY occasion this has happened the lady or owner has not been abrupt or rude (and in most cases they seem more embarrassed than me).
I hold no grudge against the ladies who do this. Their job can be extremely demanding and seeing only those people that they feel comfortable with is (IMO) highly important for them to carry out their business the best they can.
However, it might be handy to have a list of shops (or PWLs) who do not see certain nationalities, whatever the reason. It would save both the punters' embarrassment at being refused service and the shops wouldn't have to deal with the fallout either. For example, I do not want to book a lady only to turn up at the shop and be asked politely to leave. Of course, peeps on this forum may also think that this is just opening up a huge can 'o' worms, in which case the mods should shut it down. I leave that up to them.
I reiterate...this is NOT a thread for discussing the pros, cons, seeming bigotry or whatever of this practice. Nor is it a thread to "name and shame" shops or ladies. As I stated, I believe that in a job such as prostitution these ladies should have every tool at their disposal to make themselves feel safe. All I am asking for here is for people to name shops that have done this so we can make our lives easier.
So my suggestion, name the shops and then the nationalities they prefer.
I have had several ladies not see me in certain shop because I am caucasian (their reasoning ranged from they prefer asians to their belief that all white men have big dicks and didn't want to be hurt). I want to point out that on EVERY occasion this has happened the lady or owner has not been abrupt or rude (and in most cases they seem more embarrassed than me).
I hold no grudge against the ladies who do this. Their job can be extremely demanding and seeing only those people that they feel comfortable with is (IMO) highly important for them to carry out their business the best they can.
However, it might be handy to have a list of shops (or PWLs) who do not see certain nationalities, whatever the reason. It would save both the punters' embarrassment at being refused service and the shops wouldn't have to deal with the fallout either. For example, I do not want to book a lady only to turn up at the shop and be asked politely to leave. Of course, peeps on this forum may also think that this is just opening up a huge can 'o' worms, in which case the mods should shut it down. I leave that up to them.
I reiterate...this is NOT a thread for discussing the pros, cons, seeming bigotry or whatever of this practice. Nor is it a thread to "name and shame" shops or ladies. As I stated, I believe that in a job such as prostitution these ladies should have every tool at their disposal to make themselves feel safe. All I am asking for here is for people to name shops that have done this so we can make our lives easier.
So my suggestion, name the shops and then the nationalities they prefer.