Could you seriously marry a WL?

[Milhouse]

I'm not talking about meeting a girl and finding out she used to be a WL/ML in her past, I'm talking about a girl who was working as a WL/ML when you met her.

A long time ago I came pretty close to marrying a WL, but when it boiled down to it, my main concern was, could I look into my children's eyes and not think of the job their mother used to work as? That was what ultimately stopped me from marrying her. It caused a lot of heart break and even regret, but I just could not pull the trigger on that, knowing I would have to lie to my children for their entire lives.

Would you be able to do it? Do you know any guys who have been able to do it?

[wilisno]

I'm not talking about meeting a girl and finding out she used to be a WL/ML in her past, I'm talking about a girl who was working as a WL/ML when you met her.

A long time ago I came pretty close to marrying a WL, but when it boiled down to it, my main concern was, could I look into my children's eyes and not think of the job their mother used to work as? That was what ultimately stopped me from marrying her. It caused a lot of heart break and even regret, but I just could not pull the trigger on that, knowing I would have to lie to my children for their entire lives.

Would you be able to do it? Do you know any guys who have been able to do it?

How many times you have posted this question ? Under different usernames ? ;) ;) ;)

[grant]

I'm not talking about meeting a girl and finding out she used to be a WL/ML in her past, I'm talking about a girl who was working as a WL/ML when you met her.

A long time ago I came pretty close to marrying a WL, but when it boiled down to it, my main concern was, could I look into my children's eyes and not think of the job their mother used to work as? That was what ultimately stopped me from marrying her. It caused a lot of heart break and even regret, but I just could not pull the trigger on that, knowing I would have to lie to my children for their entire lives.

Would you be able to do it? Do you know any guys who have been able to do it?

You clearly regard the sex industry and the people working in it a shame, but why? You say that you couldn't possibly tell your children that their mother was a sex worker, but I assume you'd have no issues with hiding your punting habits from them. You're judging her the way you're socialised into judging her: some dirty rag we should all be publicly ashamed of.

You regard her as less than a person and I'm glad for her that you didn't end up marrying her.

[Milhouse]

You clearly regard the sex industry and the people working in it a shame, but why? You say that you couldn't possibly tell your children that their mother was a sex worker, but I assume you'd have no issues with hiding your punting habits from them. You're judging her the way you're socialised into judging her: some dirty rag we should all be publicly ashamed of.

You regard her as less than a person and I'm glad for her that you didn't end up marrying her.

Let me ask you this in answer to your question: would you want your daughter working as a ML/WL?

[Midnight_Prowl]

To me WL/ML is no different to any other women.

I would defintely marry a WL or ml anyway anytime. Doesn't make any difference.

My former ML married billionaire couple of weeks ago actually.

[Miyamoto]

I would take a ml/wl a date, if the date went well, I would start dating regularly. If that went well, I would move in together, if that went well I could marry her. Having said that, somewhere along the line I would want her to quit being ml/wl, just because I wouldn't want to share.

[AHLUNGOR]

I'm not talking about meeting a girl and finding out she used to be a WL/ML in her past, I'm talking about a girl who was working as a WL/ML when you met her.

A long time ago I came pretty close to marrying a WL, but when it boiled down to it, my main concern was, could I look into my children's eyes and not think of the job their mother used to work as? That was what ultimately stopped me from marrying her. It caused a lot of heart break and even regret, but I just could not pull the trigger on that, knowing I would have to lie to my children for their entire lives.

Would you be able to do it? Do you know any guys who have been able to do it?

Many older Aussie guys either widowers or divorced who has adult children had married MLs or WLs and lived happily ever after !

I personally know a few real life examples !

But if you are a young man in your twenty and marrying a WL or ml for the first time , it could be quite a different ball game !

Each to his own

Cheers

[Miyamoto]

Let me ask you this in answer to your question: would you want your daughter working as a ML/WL?

Would you want your daughter working as a cleaner? A waitress? The answer for me is no, I would want them to have more ambition, get a secure, high paying job with career opportunities.

[Miyamoto]

Brilliant response and one that I have used myself on numerous occasions as a social experiment on people - both male and female - who try to argue that there is nothing wrong in selling sex. So far, every single one of them bar none has simply shut up and gone back to the drawing board when asked if they'd be fine with their daughter someday working as a prostitute. 'Nuff said!

I think this is a silly argument, I could point out a guy in the street and ask do you want your daughter to have sex with that guy, the answer will probably be no, but she just might bring that guy home to meet you. I think the question is, could you accept your daughters choice (whether it's job, partner whatever)

[garfield]

Brilliant response and one that I have used myself on numerous occasions as a social experiment on people - both male and female - who try to argue that there is nothing wrong in selling sex. So far, every single one of them bar none has simply shut up and gone back to the drawing board when asked if they'd be fine with their daughter someday working as a prostitute. 'Nuff said!

Unfortunately people are a bit double standard when it comes to their daughters. Theres many older people who married a WL/ML due to a few factors, but to them they wouldn't mind someone younger, pretty and sexy and can give them a nice blow every night. For them, life is too short to give this a miss.

[Anaheim]

How many times you have posted this question ? Under different usernames ? ;) ;) ;)

lol He has hasn't he? He must be waiting for an answer from the RIGHT person, whoever that is. :)
at least he gets the discussion going...and going...and going...

[grant]

Let me ask you this in answer to your question: would you want your daughter working as a ML/WL?

You miss the point. What I'm saying is that it's not the line of work this woman has chosen that bothers you, it's the public attitudes towards it that does. What you don't realise is that you submit to these attitudes and make them your own without thinking about it, which reinforces the shitty perceptions of the industry and those that work within it. If you yearn for the day that you can marry a woman you love, who happens to have a history of working in the sex industry without judgement directed at either your wife or yourself, you would do what you can at a small scale to improve the situation. Be honest about the fact that you want to marry a woman because you love her and that what she does or has done for a living should not be reason for anyone to regard her as less than human.

I'm surprised that some of us still submit ourselves to these public perceptions considering the what might happen to some of us if we were publicly exposed as punters. I'm not referring to what might happen to those in committed relationships but more generally about how those who visit sex workers are perceived. You wouldn't want your family and colleagues to know because they'll never look at you the same. You've done nothing wrong, they've just been convinced that punters deserve low social standing. If you feel this is unjust, why insist on regarding sex workers in a similar manner to how the public regards you as a punter?

I was almost going to not reply, being worried that I might be pissing in the wind but some of these replies made me think otherwise.

[Working Lady]

could I look into my children's eyes and not think of the job their mother used to work as? That was what ultimately stopped me from marrying her. It caused a lot of heart break and even regret, but I just could not pull the trigger on that, knowing I would have to lie to my children for their entire lives.

Shame on you.
Same as you judged working girls by their job, you can be judged by your saying.
You will never be welcomed.

Hope you get married with a woman to be a good mother of your children as you wish, instead of getting married with a love of your lifetime.
Then you may keep punting until your children know about your double-sidedness.

[AHLUNGOR]

Shame on you.
Same as you judged working girls by their job, you can be judged by your saying.
You will never be welcomed.

Hope you get married with a woman to be a good mother of your children as you wish, instead of getting married with a love of your lifetime.
Then you may keep punting until your children know about your double-sidedness.


Don't worry about him sister !

He obviously has been burnt once or twice pretty bad by WLs, so his point of view and opinions towards WLs can be understandable - each to his own, and there is no right or wrong answers or rules.

Peace and be respectful to all :



Ok boys, an update. I ended up "lending" her that $5000, as I felt partly sorry for her situation. I had a suspicion it wasn't for her studies, but I could see she was in dire financial situation. Anyway, we continued dating and I'd sleep over at her place at times, then one day she asked me for $3000 more for her studies (remember the initial cost was $8700).

.................

[wilisno]

There are lots of professions we wouldn't want our sons and daughters to be in too, at least we wouldn't look down upon those we found pleasure in ! That's what I call double standard !

[illidanstormrage]

You need a heavy dose of the red pill brother Milhouse. Look up 'Hypergamy'.

http://therationalmale.com/

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/

You can trust a woman to be a woman just as sure you can trust a man will be a man.

I wouldn't advocate marrying any woman unless you want her to be the mother of your children and have thoroughly vetted her and her family. Also have been with her at least 2 to 3+ years or longer.

By that time if you have actually been living together for a while you would be in de facto relationship/marriage from a legal standpoint anyway.

Marriage isn't much of a commitment on the girls part as they can get a divorce any time they want and really fuck you over. I did learn something from a wise person on youtube of all places. There is a price to pay for everything...

Sometimes the price of having a kid can be very high. You could end up losing everything in a divorce possibly even your kid and that's what happened to the guy, he lost his house, etc but kept custody of his kid which he was grateful for. Hopefully that won't happen to you. I'm not even being cynical but just the reality that should be acknowledged first and respected.

Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kI3MwwWYC3Q

[whoiam]

Whatever who are u with, All marriage need to be serious. That's responsible for that girl and Uself. If you r ready to lead her step out of the four wall world. Forget abt her history, I know it's difficult but u have to overcome it. Throw ur double standard into the bin. Whatever who she was, once she married wiz u, she is ur wife, just a normally married woman. Plz treat her Nicely she will appreciate u in the future life! Wish u r going well.

[bfe]

No Milhouse, I will never knowingly marry a former or current whore.

The problem is not so much the profession, but the fact that they are wl suggests that they have loose morals and are prone to manipulating men.

Alot of politically correct men will tell you not to judge and they are right. Personally I hate to judge but fact of the matter is, there are plenty of women in this world. Only men who really dont care, or men who do not have the ability to find a normal woman would marry a whore.

Yes we are punters, in a sense we are no different from whores. But still you do not have to punish yourself and marry a whore. Live the double standard the way these whores do. Keep punting but find yourself a normal woman. Just because you punt, it does not mean you have to turn a hoe into a housewife. Let one of the bros on here who dont mind wifing a whore do that.

[wilisno]

No Milhouse, I will never knowingly marry a former or current whore.

The problem is not so much the profession, but the fact that they are wl suggests that they have loose morals and are prone to manipulating men.

Alot of politically correct men will tell you not to judge and they are right. Personally I hate to judge but fact of the matter is, there are plenty of women in this world. Only men who really dont care, or men who do not have the ability to find a normal woman would marry a whore.

Yes we are punters, in a sense we are no different from whores. But still you do not have to punish yourself and marry a whore. Live the double standard the way these whores do. Keep punting but find yourself a normal woman. Just because you punt, it does not mean you have to turn a hoe into a housewife. Let one of the bros on here who dont mind wifing a whore do that.
So it's ok to punish your wife by not letting her know you're a frequent punter ? So you can live a double standard live of being a good husband at home ?

[ouch]

Yep surely could

[bfe]

So it's ok to punish your wife by not letting her know you're a frequent punter ? So you can live a double standard live of being a good husband at home ?

Thats what I said

[AHLUNGOR]

No Milhouse, I will never knowingly marry a former or current whore.

The problem is not so much the profession, but the fact that they are wl suggests that they have loose morals and are prone to manipulating men.

Alot of politically correct men will tell you not to judge and they are right. Personally I hate to judge but fact of the matter is, there are plenty of women in this world. Only men who really dont care, or men who do not have the ability to find a normal woman would marry a whore.

Yes we are punters, in a sense we are no different from whores. But still you do not have to punish yourself and marry a whore. Live the double standard the way these whores do. Keep punting but find yourself a normal woman. Just because you punt, it does not mean you have to turn a hoe into a housewife. Let one of the bros on here who dont mind wifing a whore do that.

You clearly show No respect to all the working ladies and have a serious attitude problem against them !

I just like to point out that prositution is not only the oldest profession in human history, it is also a legal industry in most free world countries including Australia !

[wilisno]

Thats what I said
That's all good, nobody can comment on what one thinks, just that a lot of guys still dare to look down upon WL's moral standard while theirs is no better or even worse !

[Mepunt]

I reckon I would.. But yes, probably wouldn't tell anyone. Wouldn't worry me that she was a WL but society would still judge. Same reason I don't share my punting habits with anyone.

[wilisno]

I reckon I would.. But yes, probably wouldn't tell anyone. Wouldn't worry me that she was a WL but society would still judge. Same reason I don't share my punting habits with anyone.
Fair and honest comment ! ;) ;) ;)

[gentlescream]

I think I could if she was an escort that was working towards something like a degree or what not to get herself to a better position in life.

But if it's a dead-end type situation for her...well, I admit opinion may change as I grow older and I've found nobody else, but at the moment, not really finding myself taking that road.

[icecool]

No WL/ML are not wife or girlfriend material. Once the girl who get into this Business they would never quit . You heard of the saying Once a prostitutes always a prostitute.
Once the girls start in this field they alway will go back to it when the money was a problem even if they are married They will judge every guys like a Dollars signs . Anyone who married or dated a WL/ML will understand this . They will have lots of guys or ex clients as friend which they will always keep in contact as soon something go bad with your relationship them they will just move on to the next guy just like that . listening to them about how some guys fuck them and how much money guys are willing to spend on them as a Escot will just drive you insane . please avoid them if you don't wants a bad marriage .

[wilisno]

Another generalization !

[AHLUNGOR]

No WL/ML are not wife or girlfriend material. Once the girl who get into this Business they would never quit . You heard of the saying Once a prostitutes always a prostitute.
Once the girls start in this field they alway will go back to it when the money was a problem even if they are married They will judge every guys like a Dollars signs . Anyone who married or dated a WL/ML will understand this . They will have lots of guys or ex clients as friend which they will always keep in contact as soon something go bad with your relationship them they will just move on to the next guy just like that . listening to them about how some guys fuck them and how much money guys are willing to spend on them as a Escot will just drive you insane . please avoid them if you don't wants a bad marriage .

Too much generalisation and stereotype there mate, I am not arguing that it didn't happen but definitely Not true across the board. Each individual lady will be different !!

Especially with MLs, many of them becoming their own boss and now a shop owner! just in this forum, I can easily count a dozen or so success stories !

Just give them some room and privacy and most importantly some respects !

Cheers

[solowang]

No WL/ML are not wife or girlfriend material. Once the girl who get into this Business they would never quit . You heard of the saying Once a prostitutes always a prostitute.
Once the girls start in this field they alway will go back to it when the money was a problem even if they are married They will judge every guys like a Dollars signs . Anyone who married or dated a WL/ML will understand this . They will have lots of guys or ex clients as friend which they will always keep in contact as soon something go bad with your relationship them they will just move on to the next guy just like that . listening to them about how some guys fuck them and how much money guys are willing to spend on them as a Escot will just drive you insane . please avoid them if you don't wants a bad marriage .

sounds like you've been burned before bro

but seriously i think a bad marriage can happen with any girl.. maybe just a higher failure rate with WL/MLs

[wilisno]

MLs or WLs, I know quite a few that are happily married, with kids too !

As a matter of fact, I've just been invited to a first month ceremony of their baby, our Chinese tradition to celebrate when the baby reaches one month old. ;) ;) ;)

[MAX FAKE]

MLs or WLs, I know quite a few that are happily married, with kids too !

As a matter of fact, I've just been invited to a first month ceremony of their baby, our Chinese tradition to celebrate when the baby reaches one month old. ;) ;) ;)

That's fantastic.

[Mr Crash and Burn]

MLs or WLs, I know quite a few that are happily married, with kids too !

As a matter of fact, I've just been invited to a first month ceremony of their baby, our Chinese tradition to celebrate when the baby reaches one month old. ;) ;) ;)

you might be the godfather!!

[bfe]

MLs or WLs, I know quite a few that are happily married, with kids too !

As a matter of fact, I've just been invited to a first month ceremony of their baby, our Chinese tradition to celebrate when the baby reaches one month old. ;) ;) ;)

Yes the ml or wl are happily married....Meanwhile the poor husband is clueless to the fact that every man and his dog has used his wife in every possible way (and she liked it too!). Or maybe he doesn't care because he knows thats the highest quality of woman he will ever get... A basic whore :)

[wilisno]

Yes the ml or wl are happily married....Meanwhile the poor husband is clueless to the fact that every man and his dog has used his wife in every possible way (and she liked it too!). Or maybe he doesn't care because he knows thats the highest quality of woman he will ever get... A basic whore :)
Have you had this experience that you're talking about ? Or have you seen some of your friends having this experience ? Or you just think it should be like that ?

[wilisno]

you might be the godfather!!
Yes ! That's the best feeling one can have, feeling like the godfather in a session with a lovely girl : Just when I thought I was out, they pulled me back in ... said Al Pacino. ;) ;) ;)

[dufour]

Yes the ml or wl are happily married....Meanwhile the poor husband is clueless to the fact that every man and his dog has used his wife in every possible way (and she liked it too!). Or maybe he doesn't care because he knows thats the highest quality of woman he will ever get... A basic whore :)

I think thou dost protest too much ....
Therapy is in order I suggest :)

[icecool]

sounds like you've been burned before bro

but seriously i think a bad marriage can happen with any girl.. maybe just a higher failure rate with WL/MLs
Sorry bad marriage is the wrong word for this . I should say bad emotional marriage with the thought of so many guys fucking them is a terrifying emotional pain . At least in a normal marriage you won't have to put up with this though . Most of the mind of the WL has been alter to see every guy as money . Put it this way . Just says you are use having so many guy paying you to have sex with you would think of yourself a high demand . So in the back of their mind they know they can always move on to the next guy if thing is not going well with you . Most of the time is money . Because they are so used to the easy money
They will always go back to it as a way out .

[goulash]

Fuck I hate these sort of threads.

The "oh no I couldn't ever..." Responses seem to stem from either:

1. You're insecure
2. You don't regard WLs as regular people
3. You frown upon sex work
4. You think a wife should be a virgin

Next

[garfield]

No WL/ML are not wife or girlfriend material. Once the girl who get into this Business they would never quit . You heard of the saying Once a prostitutes always a prostitute.
Once the girls start in this field they alway will go back to it when the money was a problem even if they are married They will judge every guys like a Dollars signs . Anyone who married or dated a WL/ML will understand this . They will have lots of guys or ex clients as friend which they will always keep in contact as soon something go bad with your relationship them they will just move on to the next guy just like that . listening to them about how some guys fuck them and how much money guys are willing to spend on them as a Escot will just drive you insane . please avoid them if you don't wants a bad marriage .

This is not true, I certainly know of a girl who has the industry for good. She only went in due to her circumstances and she worked hard and studied hard to get out.

[wilisno]

Fuck I hate these sort of threads.

The "oh no I couldn't ever..." Responses seem to stem from either:

1. You're insecure
2. You don't regard WLs as regular people
3. You frown upon sex work
4. You think a wife should be a virgin

Next
That's what Good_Guy_Greg, or aka Milhouse at the moment, do ! He just starts a controversial thread then stays behind and laughs at the responses. That's why he got banned so many times I guess ! ;) ;) ;)

[icecool]

Yes but as things get out hand like money problems ect .because they have done it before they will always go back to it as an option.
It is a scientific fact that when a girl have sex with a guy . they release bonding chemical in the brain as with guys with just get additions.
so could imagine , what it has done to the girls barin after fucking hundred of guys .

[wilisno]

Yes but as things get out hand like money problems ect .because they have done it before they will always go back to it as an option.
It is a scientific fact that when a girl have sex with a guy . they release bonding chemical in the brain as with guys with just get additions.
so could imagine , what it has done to the girls barin after fucking hundred of guys .
Yes, no girls in this modern age only has sex with one guy, as simple as that !

[icecool]

what make you think you are so sure of this . Sure there might be girls sleeping with 5 or 10 guys .
For WL we can talking about Hundred or even thousand they conditioned to do it for money .

[wilisno]

what make you think you are so sure of this . Sure there might be girls sleeping with 5 or 10 guys .
For WL we can talking about Hundred or even thousand they conditioned to do it for money .
So you're looking down on people because of their profession, and draw conclusion that should be how it is !

How many prostitutes you've seen in your punting carreer ? So you can't be trusted you will be a good husband or partner ? Because you will always go back to punting ?

There are good and bad people in all walks of life, we can't condemn the good with the bad !

[icecool]

So you're looking down on people because of their profession, and draw conclusion that should be how it is !

How many prostitutes you've seen in your punting carreer ? So you can't be trusted you will be a good husband or partner ? Because you will always go back to punting ?

There are good and bad people in all walks of life, we can't condemn the good with the bad !

There are good and bad people in all walks of life i once use to think like that . No Bros I am not looking down on them . In fact some of them are more nicer than the one you meet in real street. but what i was try to point out the Pyscological that it has on the woman who work in this field . you see sometime women do thing without control it base on their emotions. yes i have seen many WL but when i was in relation i never seen any . It is also this australia culture that made women so high value that to get a fuck in normal life it so hard as compare to women it so easy to get a fuck . that why it easier just paid and get a fuck . without go though this dating process . and you might end up with a sexual harssement case aaginst even the women think that you try to fuck you. if they are upset with you

[wilisno]

There are good and bad people in all walks of life i once use to think like that . No Bros I am not looking down on them . In fact some of them are more nicer than the one you meet in real street. but what i was try to point out the Pyscological that it has on the woman who work in this field . you see sometime women do thing without control it base on their emotions. yes i have seen many WL but when i was in relation i never seen any . It is also this australia culture that made women so high value that to get a fuck in normal life it so hard as compare to women it so easy to get a fuck . that why it easier just paid and get a fuck . without go though this dating process . and you might end up with a sexual harssement case aaginst even the women think that you try to fuck you. if they are upset with you
You said it yourself, when you are in a relation, you never fuck around, that makes you a righteous man ?

The same thing with WLs, many of them work for a short term, then get out and never fuck around again, why they still have to be looked down upon ? They get psychological damage, maybe, but that's not from working this job, it's from being looked down upon !

What I'm trying to point out is, have some respect for our fellow human beings, especially those who gave us pleasure and services, or business transactions whatever you call it. Don't criticize them while we're no better as long as we have had a punt !

[dufour]

They get psychological damage, maybe, but that's not from working this job, it's from being looked down upon !

What I'm trying to point out is, have some respect for our fellow human beings, especially those who gave us pleasure and services, or business transactions whatever you call it. Don't criticize them while we're no better as long as we have had a punt !

This is possibly the most thoughtful and considerate comment I have ever seen on this forum !!
Big thumbs up ....

[icecool]

No Bros you got it all mixed up . i am not look down them at all .Business is business we paid we got the services no dsiputed here .it is job but the damage has been done while on the job . the Topic is weather you will married them . i ask you this have marry or will marry them ???.I like to see you marry them them i got no Dispute here

[icecool]

what consideration it is a business you paid then you the sex . without paying no sex simple as that

[wilisno]

No Bros you got it all mixed up . i am not look down them at all .Business is business we paid we got the services no dsiputed here .it is job but the damage has been done while on the job . the Topic is weather you will married them . i ask you this have marry or will marry them ???.I like to see you marry them them i got no Dispute here
If all your comments here is not looking down on them, I don't know what is !

I'm not in the market to marry, but definitely this won't be a reason I would decline.

On the other hand, if you have or one day you have a wife and she cheats on you, then you know what damage has been done, there's a good chance it'll happen, it's called karma, then I got no Dispute.

[wilisno]

what consideration it is a business you paid then you the sex . without paying no sex simple as that
You've finally got it !!!

It's a transaction between a consumer and a provider, no one is better than the other. Psychologically damaged while on the job, or psychologically damaged doing punting !

[garfield]

You've finally got it !!!

It's a transaction between a consumer and a provider, no one is better than the other. Psychologically damaged while on the job, or psychologically damaged doing punting !

Haha. Psychologically damaged doing punting. I like it. Perhaps we all are.

[jamesbond007]

Maybe some punters already are and they don't know it?

[uglyphil]

It is a scientific fact...

You have a very odd definition of "fact".

Nothing you have said is factual, it is entirely opinion.

Here IS a fact - you are speaking out your ass.

See what I did there? :p

Thumbs up to wilisno, AH and several others in this thread :)

[icecool]

Bros . You begin to sound like a politician . You Brag on about about how good something,even defend it . but you just won't do it yourself . In this case you won't marry them full stop . Yeah right won't be a reason for not marry them . It is just an excuse

[icecool]

Bro i am going to be nice to you . Next time before you make comment please do a reasearch . When i said it is fact then i mean it is a fact that
Here is Facts about sex the effect has on a women and a men .
A key hormone released during sex is oxytocin, also known as the ‘cuddle hormone’. This lowers our defences and makes us trust people more, says Dr Arun Ghosh, a GP specialising in sexual health at the Spire Liverpool Hospital.
However, the problem is that the body can’t distinguish whether the person we’re with is a casual fling or marriage material — oxytocin is released either way. So while it might help you bond with the love of your life, it’s also the reason you may feel so miserable when a short-term relationship ends.
Men, on the other hand, instead of getting a surge of bonding hormone receive a surge of simple pleasure.
‘The problem is that when a man has an orgasm, the main hormone released is dopamine — the pleasure hormone. And this surge can be addictive,’ says Dr Ghosh.
That’s why so many more men tend to suffer from sex addiction.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2031498/Sex-Why-makes-women-fall-love--just-makes-men-want-MORE.html

[wilisno]

Bros . You begin to sound like a politician . You Brag on about about how good something,even defend it . but you just won't do it yourself . In this case you won't marry them full stop . Yeah right won't be a reason for not marry them . It is just an excuse
What a kid ! Do you think when you tell someone to get marry, he should just go and get marry ? Now I'm telling you to go and get marry with a non-WL girl, go ! Otherwise you're just bragging, it's just an excuse !

Childish !

[wilisno]

Bro i am going to be nice to you . Next time before you make comment please do a reasearch . When i said it is fact then i mean it is a fact that
Here is Facts about sex the effect has on a women and a men .
A key hormone released during sex is oxytocin, also known as the ‘cuddle hormone’. This lowers our defences and makes us trust people more, says Dr Arun Ghosh, a GP specialising in sexual health at the Spire Liverpool Hospital.
However, the problem is that the body can’t distinguish whether the person we’re with is a casual fling or marriage material — oxytocin is released either way. So while it might help you bond with the love of your life, it’s also the reason you may feel so miserable when a short-term relationship ends.
Men, on the other hand, instead of getting a surge of bonding hormone receive a surge of simple pleasure.
‘The problem is that when a man has an orgasm, the main hormone released is dopamine — the pleasure hormone. And this surge can be addictive,’ says Dr Ghosh.
That’s why so many more men tend to suffer from sex addiction.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2031498/Sex-Why-makes-women-fall-love--just-makes-men-want-MORE.html
I'm not going to be nice to you anymore. What a lot of craps !

Next time when you try to comment on anything, check what you're talking about !

Addiction of sex ? Yes, it happens in all sorts of things you do. Addiction of food, you'll become a chef ? Gym junkies, you'll become Arnold Schwarzenegger ? Chilli is known to be addictive too, you'll grow chilli on your head ?

The fact is, on the contrary, most WLs after they have quit the industry, they might not even like sex anymore ! They're so desensitized that they won't feel aroused without love. As opposed to your twisted logic of them fucking around due to addiction of sex !

[AHLUNGOR]

http://38.media.tumblr.com/74d4d62b8f10145e0a015486cdd50a28/tumblr_nu14n6fLO31t1bekoo1_500.gif


She won't give a damn what's been said here !!

[Sextus]

Chilli is known to be addictive too

wow - I din't know that. I have ground chilli on just about every meal. I also sprinkle it on cheese and tomato sanwiches, and I use it on wedges and chips instead of salt. I go though many bottles of it per annum.

I must be addicted to its bite. Is it bad for you like most addictions? Sorry to be off topic.

[wilisno]

wow - I din't know that. I have ground chilli on just about every meal. I also sprinkle it on cheese and tomato sanwiches, and I use it on wedges and chips instead of salt. I go though many bottles of it per annum.

I must be addicted to its bite. Is it bad for you like most addictions? Sorry to be off topic.
Yes, I've read it somewhere, it says eating chilli produces a hormone similar to getting high using drugs or having sex ! ;) ;) ;) Do you think you have to marry a chilli plant ? ;) ;) ;)

[illidanstormrage]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Gl2QnHNpkA

As long they love you right?

[rooter]

Would a WL seriously marry you or me? LOL!!!

[Sextus]

eating chilli produces a hormone similar to getting high using drugs or having sex ! ;) ;) ;) Do you think you have to marry a chilli plant ? ;) ;) ;)

I don't need to marry a chilli plant - I'm already married to the bottle! :D :D
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l5/waveflows/Chilli_zpsvtebratb.jpg (http://s92.photobucket.com/user/waveflows/media/Chilli_zpsvtebratb.jpg.html)

I've been meaning to recycle these. I eat chili 24 / 7 . Now you tell me I'm generating sex hormones doing it? No wonder it's addictive! :grimace:

[illidanstormrage]

Would a WL seriously marry you or me? LOL!!!
Rooters brings a very important point just because a girl is a WL or ML doesn't mean they don't have standards or OPTIONS. The fact a girl works in the sex industry doesn't make her more attainable.


She's a genuine backpacker and a total newbie and a bit of a party girl.
I love the way she told me a story that went something like "in Cairns so many guys were coming up to me and every guy was buying me drinks ... I always had 2 drinks in my hands ... I don't know why".
She has just no fucking clue how gorgeous and sexy she is.

Most of these girls are aware of their value and will probaly milk any guy that isn't clued into reality and doesn't have that many options outside prostitution but more likely they would say no I'm not interested.

[wilisno]

Would a WL seriously marry you or me? LOL!!!
That's the point, some people think they are superior to another human being !

[wilisno]

" Chilli is known to be addictive too "

Our Singapore CHILLI was Highly Addictive :love:

Just ask AlexLim:miao:

That too ! ;) ;) ;)

[uglyphil]

Bro i am going to be nice to you . Next time before you make comment please do a reasearch .

1. I am not your bro. I don't know you and you don't know me. Frankly with your demeaning attitude I like it like that.

2. I don't give a flying fuck if you are nice to me or not. Being "nice" does not lessen the amount of BS that is spilling from your fingertips.

3. Removed, and I apologise.

4. Before you comment, learn to understand the difference between a small study with a small group of participants, compared to an actual scientific study conducted over a long period of time with a wide range and high number of participants conducted in a way so that it will bear the brunt of scientific rigour and peer evaluation.

Which that particular study didn't.

5. Learn to understand that finding ONE article (without references, I might add) on the Internet, that is over 4 years old, does NOT a strong basis for "fact" make.

wilisno pegged you in his next post #61


Would a WL seriously marry you or me? LOL!!!

And bravo! Once again rooter cuts through ALL the BS with very little effort. We are no better than WLs and I reckon a lot of them would be conscious of this..

And good on 'em.

The original question is bullshit.

Would I marry a WL?

If I was in love with her, then of course! If marrying someone I love is my goal then I would be stupid not to.

But how many of us actually know a WL well enough (or them us) to even be aware that we love them?

Having said that, while the circumstances are rare, they of course do happen. And best wishes to all concerned :D

[Sextus]

3. Before you make a comment, learn to spell.

That is an irrelevant remark and low. It adds nothing to the points you made in your argument uglyphil and I think perhaps you only made it in haste. But if it bothers you could you take up the debate with him in Chinese and see how you do.

This forum is full of genuine voices like ice cool's and Christmas that shine through their grammar or spelling, in fact sound all the more genuine for it.

[MAX FAKE]

There are a number of members here that seem to wait around all day to pounce on anyone who dares to be politically incorrect.

Give it a rest guys, we get it, WL are human beings that should be treated equally.....WE GET IT UGLYPHIL.

Everyone is free to have their opinion, there is no need to attack someone's views if they don't agree with yours.

Society has a negative attitude towards WL and punters, that is fact. However if you live most of your life inside the fantasy world of a punting forum then you will start to think that fucking 10 guys a day for a job is normal and likewise marrying a WL is ok. In the real world it is not, right or wrong that is how it is.

[uglyphil]

"lesson the amount of BS" and then "learn to spell" - seriously?? Oh the irony!
:D

LOL, that is ironic. Thanks for pointing it out. Now fixed :)

[uglyphil]

Everyone is free to have their opinion, there is no need to attack someone's views if they don't agree with yours.

I wasn't, as a matter of fact, attacking his opinion. I was attacking that he is presenting his opinions AS facts :)


Society has a negative attitude towards WL and punters, that is fact. However if you live most of your life inside the fantasy world of a punting forum then you will start to think that fucking 10 guys a day for a job is normal and likewise marrying a WL is ok. In the real world it is not, right or wrong that is how it is.

So by the same argument, it is not right to marry a punter either? As both groups are held in such low esteem by "society"?

[Azzkikr]

There are a number of members here that seem to wait around all day to pounce on anyone who dares to be politically incorrect.

Give it a rest guys, we get it, WL are human beings that should be treated equally.....WE GET IT UGLYPHIL.

Everyone is free to have their opinion, there is no need to attack someone's views if they don't agree with yours.

Society has a negative attitude towards WL and punters, that is fact. However if you live most of your life inside the fantasy world of a punting forum then you will start to think that fucking 10 guys a day for a job is normal and likewise marrying a WL is ok. In the real world it is not, right or wrong that is how it is.

Well Said!

[wilisno]

There are a number of members here that seem to wait around all day to pounce on anyone who dares to be politically incorrect.

Give it a rest guys, we get it, WL are human beings that should be treated equally.....WE GET IT UGLYPHIL.

Everyone is free to have their opinion, there is no need to attack someone's views if they don't agree with yours.

Society has a negative attitude towards WL and punters, that is fact. However if you live most of your life inside the fantasy world of a punting forum then you will start to think that fucking 10 guys a day for a job is normal and likewise marrying a WL is ok. In the real world it is not, right or wrong that is how it is.
That's correct, everyone is free to have their opinion, and this is a forum, so everyone is free to have their counter opinion !

Nobody said the job is a normal job, and we can't change the attitude of the society, but at least we know punters and WLs are in the same situation, don't live in the fantasy that punting is normal, and prostitution is not ! Moreover, punters are the reason why there is such a profession as prostitution !

[uglyphil]

That is an irrelevant remark and low.

One of the rare occasions you are correct sextus.

icecool, you have my unreserved apologies for this remark, I have since edited it out of my original comment.

[uglyphil]

That's correct, everyone is free to have their opinion, and this is a forum, so everyone is free to have their counter opinion !

Nobody said the job is a normal job, and we can't change the attitude of the society, but at least we know punters and WLs are in the same situation, don't live in the fantasy that punting is normal, and prostitution is not ! Moreover, punters are the reason why there is such a profession as prostitution !

Well said :)

[DeepImpact]

I eat chili 24 / 7 . Now you tell me I'm generating sex hormones doing it? No wonder it's addictive! :grimace:

Fortunately for you there is a cure to Chili addiction that is cheap, effective and almost immediate. Just rub some on your dick. You won't have a feeling of excitement about Chili for long after that.

[DeepImpact]

There are lots of different scenarios when it come to WL's and possible relationships.

What if one girl did the job for a couple of days, saw 10 guys and realised this job wasn't for her, regretted it and never went back to it. Is that situation going to result in a different answer from guys who said they wouldn't want to be in a relationship with one as it could be different to someone who did the job for 5 years and saw a few thousand guys.

It's especially different if it is a current WL or not as I doubt most guys could handle that in real life as opposed to a hypothetical question.

When it comes to the past sexual history of girls in our life to be honest I have always preferred to be in the dark about it as it's probably best not to know - one less thing to think about. I remember the first time I was with one girl she asked me how many girls I had been with before and I really hate that question. I had to pretend I was thinking about it and started to count them on my fingers and thought it's best not to run out of fingers and an answer under 10 would seem to be acceptable given she volunteered it was 2 for her.

[wilisno]

There are lots of different scenarios when it come to WL's and possible relationships.

What if one girl did the job for a couple of days, saw 10 guys and realised this job wasn't for her, regretted it and never went back to it. Is that situation going to result in a different answer from guys who said they wouldn't want to be in a relationship with one as it could be different to someone who did the job for 5 years and saw a few thousand guys.

It's especially different if it is a current WL or not as I doubt most guys could handle that in real life as opposed to a hypothetical question.

When it comes to the past sexual history of girls in our life to be honest I have always preferred to be in the dark about it as it's probably best not to know - one less thing to think about. I remember the first time I was with one girl she asked me how many girls I had been with before and I really hate that question. I had to pretend I was thinking about it and started to count them on my fingers and thought it's best not to run out of fingers and an answer under 10 would seem to be acceptable given she volunteered it was 2 for her.
Fair comment.

It's true that some girls I've seen I'm sure I've seen more girls than she had seen men, especially those who worked in the incall/outcall places.

As 5* said, many girls who had worked for over 5 years are also happily married by now, I know that for a fact ! Some had gone home to Malaysia and have kids too ! From the photos they constantly post on wechat moment, I can see that they are living a happy and normal family life !

[mrzhang]

Ya treat it like any other.. Just circumstance, let the gods decide, doesn't matter how you met.. If there is something more a meant to be then doesn't matter what she does I say.. All hurdles can be overcome.. Proof and strength of character for both ya and wl.. Live for present and future not past and hold it against them..

[jamesbond007]

I had a mate once, also a punter, who demanded honesty in his relationships. He told his new girlfriend he had sex with close to 300 different girls (298 paid visits), when she told him she had 10 previous sex partners, he could not handle it and called her a slut!!!! Double standards, different standards, what a confused little world we live in.

[Mr Bastard]

Yep.........................

[flamejob]

but I just could not pull the trigger on that, knowing I would have to lie to my children for their entire lives.

Would you be able to do it? Do you know any guys who have been able to do it?

I'm tipping you won't be telling your kids about your punting habits either. I think worrying about what to tell the kids is neither here nor there. My girlfriend was offered a job in a massage parlour. she already provided me with great massages, kick ass blowjobs and all manner of other shit. I just couldn't get my head around her doing that with other guys. She told me that she had no intention of working in it anyway, which was a relief because the jealousy would have totally fucked me up.