Privacy of the ask

[domo]

On a busy weeknight i turned up early for my massage, was shown to a room to wait, the ML i booked was a bit late also which i did not mind so i had a bit of fun listening to what others ask for/request a message and sometime a bit more.

I'm amazed that;
* some people request to have a shower before the massage and they allow it :).
* amazed how quiet some people are, no chit chat no nothing (many ML's think this is quite boring and just give the standard service at the end).
* how others try and say they saw their ML a week or two ago but the loyalty card says otherwise. (really no point lying as they can tell as the ML's name is on the card per visit, just say you visited and saw 'x' )
* some even negotiate extras even before the door is closed and the massage is paid for. (like really good way to keep it low key guys).

Main point i'm getting at is, keep ya trap shut about 'extras' until the session starts and you have your privacy, give them the correct amount or just enough for the initial massage else it may look like a sting, if you want to pay upfront just split it and leave it on the table for them when they come in after paying for the session.

And chat to them, when many of them are doing 12 hour shifts, they get a bit bored. wouldn't you??

[AsianAddict]

Why wouldn't you want a massage before the shower? Surely the ML would also like you to be clean instead of sweaty and smelly?
It's also a good way to get relaxed and ready for the massage :)

[DirtySanchez]

Nothing wrong with showering before a massage. All full service places make you shower first even if you just had one before you left home and as AA points out some guys can can be very smelly and the ML would prefer a clean client.

Also I am not surprised about some people being quiet. There can be many reasons. Sometimes I'm tired and just want to lie down have my massage and close my eyes. Sometimes I don't feel like talking all through a session. Some ML's talk all day and some don't want to talk. It's never the same and you go with the flow. You can't and won't click with all of them.

Some ML's let their boredom take over the session no matter what you do or say. Maybe their last client was horrible who knows.

[flamejob]

I much prefer to shower before the massage so as to make it more pleasant all round. i have been in some shops where you can hear a dude talking fucking loud which can be distracting. unfortunately, some places have thin walls or walls that don't reach the ceiling so even the quieter talkers can be heard.

[lazcuba77]

me too ,i would rater take a shower b4 massage ,make me feel better n ML appreciate too.
about the walls that don't reach the ceiling thats really annoying coz u can hear n can bee hearing too.
thats my only problem with ilovemassage lutwiche.
other way i wait to see how the ML goes tru the session ,if she start chat n is friendly i just go with the flow
but sometimes am really tired coz a heavy week n fell sleep,thats depends.

[domo]

Was more meaning the intro before the massage, not the massage itself.

[ThomasT2015]

This place must have very poor privacy . Mate you can hear everything . What if next room have some action going on ?

[domo]

Nah, the door was not closed so it was hallway noise. Like a said, wait before the ask when you know your voice won't travel to the front of the shop though he open door ;)