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garfield
17-04-2016, 04:59 PM
Not to disclose any personal info here but just interested to learn if you actually know your ML / WL in real person.

For example, there's a few I know of not just just their real name and contact numbers, but friends in Facebook and other chat forums, know where they live and their friends and relatives (including bf or husband or parents).

Did you come across any?

wilisno
17-04-2016, 05:48 PM
Not to disclose any personal info here but just interested to learn if you actually know your ML / WL in real person.

For example, there's a few I know of not just just their real name and contact numbers, but friends in Facebook and other chat forums, know where they live and their friends and relatives (including bf or husband or parents).

Did you come across any?
I know a lot of them in real persons ! ;) ;) ;)

woods23
17-04-2016, 06:38 PM
I know a lot of them in real persons ! ;) ;) ;)
We are not surprised you know a lot :)

I only know 1 lol.
But that's enough no more lol

CunningLinguist
17-04-2016, 08:25 PM
I used to know some but these days I prefer not to. Finding out too much info may change your feelings towards them ...

woods23
17-04-2016, 08:40 PM
I used to know some but these days I prefer not to. Finding out too much info may change your feelings towards them ...

Agreed with u 100% . It can get very complicated lol.

dufour
17-04-2016, 08:41 PM
Yes I do know a few and had pleasure of invited into their real lives.

Nejums
17-04-2016, 09:08 PM
I think it's not worth the headache. Especially if you're married...

New2Punting
17-04-2016, 10:18 PM
Knowing them well did anyone try to offer them some rewards outside the service place? Eg..if u asked a girl at rnt to do fs outside the massage parlour?

Travelmate
18-04-2016, 03:31 AM
i know a few.. in very detail.
then
what is the big deal?

DrFeelGood
18-04-2016, 04:58 PM
Yes I do know of a few, but I'd rather not be part of any of it.

rooter
18-04-2016, 07:41 PM
Punting is punting.
You pay your money and you enjoy the company of a gorgeous girl for that wonderfully brief 30 mins or 45 mins or 1 Hour.
And that's it.

rcha086
19-04-2016, 01:06 AM
Have never. Yes, I've been on the occasional date and met them outside of their work, and we get to talking, but it never gets to the point where I look at photos of their friends and family, let alone meet them. I don't think I can ever bridge the gap into the personal when it comes to a sex worker. Not just for my privacy but hers too.

cisco
19-04-2016, 01:22 AM
The less we know the better for us bra

NaughtyBoy13
19-04-2016, 09:21 AM
Have never. Yes, I've been on the occasional date and met them outside of their work, and we get to talking, but it never gets to the point where I look at photos of their friends and family, let alone meet them. I don't think I can ever bridge the gap into the personal when it comes to a sex worker. Not just for my privacy but hers too.

Thats true :) the same for me ! It happened once.

dufour
19-04-2016, 09:34 AM
Have never. Yes, I've been on the occasional date and met them outside of their work, and we get to talking, but it never gets to the point where I look at photos of their friends and family, let alone meet them. I don't think I can ever bridge the gap into the personal when it comes to a sex worker. Not just for my privacy but hers too.

Maybe your missing out big time ... remember they are normal people too
Looking for normal relationships incl friends ..
"Bridge the gap" - does that include .... going out to lunches and dinner/ beach trips/ getting birthday and Christmas presents/ staying overnight / meeting her friends and going to movies and dinner all together / meeting her mum ....

NaughtyBoy13
19-04-2016, 10:52 AM
Maybe your missing out big time ... remember they are normal people too
Looking for normal relationships incl friends ..
"Bridge the gap" - does that include .... going out to lunches and dinner/ beach trips/ getting birthday and Christmas presents/ staying overnight / meeting her friends and going to movies and dinner all together / meeting her mum ....
Not that easy because WLs alway worry about their family or their friends know about their job :)

dufour
19-04-2016, 11:28 AM
Not that easy because WLs alway worry about their family or their friends know about their job :)

Well been done with 5 in my case
Wilisno would be more :)

luvmica
20-04-2016, 08:20 AM
Not that easy because WLs alway worry about their family or their friends know about their job :)
And I would be worried about my own privacy too

rcha086
20-04-2016, 08:50 AM
Maybe your missing out big time ... remember they are normal people too
Looking for normal relationships incl friends ..
"Bridge the gap" - does that include .... going out to lunches and dinner/ beach trips/ getting birthday and Christmas presents/ staying overnight / meeting her friends and going to movies and dinner all together / meeting her mum ....

Bridging the gap into the personal - I mean meeting her social network like her friends and family; could be in person, or on social media. I give gifts, we go out to dinners, we go on trips and stay overnight, we watch movies and concerts and do activities, but ONLY together.

I could be missing out. I definitely treat my WLs well, and BECAUSE I treat them like regular people, I feel I would be imposing into their personal lives. It's not a profession that you would normally want your friends and family to know; although she would know I would not say anything, I'd feel they would always have that worry in their minds that if something was to go wrong or we have a disagreement, I could just go contact their friends/family and deal out all her dirty laundry, so to speak. Basically what I'm trying to say is, I respect her privacy and in turn, I'd expect her to do the same for me.

NaughtyBoy13
20-04-2016, 09:21 AM
And I would be worried about my own privacy too

Yeah you might :)