is ML/WL asking you out indirectly?

[xboyx]

hey guys, if a ML/WL says she's hungry, and ask where would you go after the session? is that a hint she's asking you out? I've had a few occasions this happen (with different girls) but I don't know if it's just the "common conversation" that the girls talk to clients. Obviously they see many clients in a day so they probably often talk about the same things with different clients. It's hard to be a "special one" as they see many men a day.

[Nejums]

You're reading too much into it.

[xboyx]

You're reading too much into it.

lol I guess I did. Have you been in that situation sometimes?

[Nejums]

Food is generally an easy topic to try and keep a customer receptive in a conversation. This does two things: she lets you think that she's attentive to the service she is providing you, but also alluding to her showing interest in you in hopes that you will return.

Of course, there is the chance that she is genuinely interested, but more often than not it wouldn't be the case. If you're curious, just ask. Doesn't hurt, right? I'm kidding, nothing good will come of it.

[ChulSoo]

It's always mind games on this as well for most, or some cases. Put it this way, since last week, former Mimi from ChristineCBD had been wanting to hang out for dinner since the last second session I had with her. Its easy enough to know that ever since she has joined up at other agency (now several), the mind games continued for a few days hence then to lure me to the new workplace. Charms and lures are all good and all, but too obvious to some punters. So, in the end she and her sister Amy, as her stage name goes (actual cousin, however), whom also works in that workplace in Pyrmont ends up agreeing to have dinner in the city instead (away from their workplace, and not in their friggin room or hotel). I wouldn't mind paying for some cheap dinner, but an unplanned session not within my ... empty 'punting' budget, is not.

And it also took a short while to get it into those girls heads: "it's just dinner, okay? Just friends. Nothing more, nothing less.understand?"

Basically, I concur with Nejums. That, and amongst many other reasons and/or hypothesis other veteran punters will or may mention in addition, or objection.

[Alan86]

It may be, it may not be. It could mean she's interested in you, but could also mean she's just plain starving!

This leads on from the other thread I just read.

Anyways, there's only one way to really find out, is there?

[Starfire]

I've not had offer for food though I've had a 'we should go see a movie sometime' comment made to me though haha

Though I am tempted to ask them to go out to get food

[cuteguy]

I had a ML ask if I had dinner and when I indicated that I hadn't she stated that she was hungry. Luckily, I was her last for the night and I offered to take her out for dinner. She accepted my invitation and we had dinner together. She really enjoyed the meal. Therefore, the girl might be genuine in some cases and really wants to go out with you.

[Starfire]

I had a ML ask if I had dinner and when I indicated that I hadn't she stated that she was hungry. Luckily, I was her last for the night and I offered to take her out for dinner. She accepted my invitation and we had dinner together. She really enjoyed the meal. Therefore, the girl might be genuine in some cases and really wants to go out with you.

And how that turn out? What happened after that night?

[cuteguy]

And how that turn out? What happened after that night?

The dinner was fine and I drove her home. We have become very good friends now and chat on a regular basis.

[Drudeboy]

The girls often don't eat until after they are finished work (can't be sure the food will have time to settle before they are next required for action). I remember once when the girl had to run out for a quick spew, then returned and apologised saying she'd eaten just before I walked in because it had been quiet for some time before (Thankfully she'd cleaned up well). Just Friday night I was having a legit Thai massage and I was the last customer before the store closed at 8:30 and the girl kept talking about food - it turned out she hadn't eaten all day and was starting to get a little delirious - no offer came out of it as the store owner picked the girls up when the shop closed. But other times it can be more leading and usually in the context of a lot of other questions about what you like which is more them sussing you out as potential boyfriend material (b.t.w. if you visit a particular shop a lot then be sure the girls are swapping notes and will try to catch you out if you're bullshitting them - especially Chinese and Korean Girls - tell one something and you may as well tell the whole shop!).

[aussiegaigin]

I got talking to an ML about food during a session, and afterwards she took me down to a chinese take away a few doors down from the shop and bought a couple of dishes for both of us. She gave me her phone number and if I rang her the day before a visit she would cook something for me that night and bring it in with her. If I booked the same day, she would get me some take away before I got there. And of course there was usually a Y meal as well.

She kept promising to invite me to her home for dinner, but she couldn't organize a time when her flat mate wasn't there.

[cuteguy]

I got talking to an ML about food during a session, and afterwards she took me down to a chinese take away a few doors down from the shop and bought a couple of dishes for both of us. She gave me her phone number and if I rang her the day before a visit she would cook something for me that night and bring it in with her. If I booked the same day, she would get me some take away before I got there. And of course there was usually a Y meal as well.

She kept promising to invite me to her home for dinner, but she couldn't organize a time when her flat mate wasn't there.

Was she Thai?

[aussiegaigin]

Was she Thai?

No, Chinese.
I don't like Thai food that much LOL