ML won't accept money for FS, i don't feel right seeing her again.

[HumptyDumpty]

I saw a particular ML consistently for a few days straight and started from no touching and working my way to FS. Normally when this happens, I would ask them how much they would like so they know that in the end it is only a transaction and i feel comfortable seeing them again in the future. However, this one particular ML wouldn't take any money let alone the $50 for extras. Nothing was negotiated upfront, the session just got a little wild and out of control. She is a young ML with very little experience, very naive i would say. The hard part now, is that i feel guilty and uncomfortable seeing her again.

[AHLUNGOR]

if she doesnt take cash , try flower and chocolate ?

[shootermcgavin]

if she doesnt take cash , try flower and chocolate ?

Sounds like OP wants to keep it strictly as a business transaction. I think flowers and chocolate might send the wrong message, but that's just me.


HumptyDumpty, you could try leaving the $50 tip with the mamasan and letting her know who it's for?

[Babycat]

So stop seeing her then she will understand that's just a transaction. A business. She can move on when she takes the lesson.

[13ru]

Go for a massage with no extras. Then she will think you just like her massage....

[local]

I saw a particular ML consistently for a few days straight and started from no touching and working my way to FS. Normally when this happens, I would ask them how much they would like so they know that in the end it is only a transaction and i feel comfortable seeing them again in the future. However, this one particular ML wouldn't take any money let alone the $50 for extras. Nothing was negotiated upfront, the session just got a little wild and out of control. She is a young ML with very little experience, very naive i would say. The hard part now, is that i feel guilty and uncomfortable seeing her again.

So you have been seeing her consistently for a few days and not paying any extras ever ?
or not paying when you finally got FS ?

[Maxybro]

Why don't you just leave a tip at the end? Do you need to be told how much?
It's not that hard to work out how much the tip is for FS

[losthighway]

I think you have two options, really. You can stop seeing her. Or, you can try to explain that, while you appreciate her generosity, you can't accept it because you're afraid you're going to end up hurting her emotionally.

Whether or not the latter is possible depends, really, on how good her English is and how good of a communicator you are. Even if both are ideal, the first option is in some ways a simpler and better one because it's guaranteed to "work". I'm sure you feel guilty about hurting this girl, but the truth is she was probably going to "fall for" the first nice & regular client she met, and it just happened to be you. It's a little sad but you don't really have anything to feel guilty for, and she'll either get over it and get on with her life, or she'll learn that the massage world isn't for her... and get on with her life in some other industry.

[rhunter]

I'd go and tell her straight up. Rejections are always hard but it's better than leaving her hanging if you disappear.

[kezza]

This..

I'd go and tell her straight up. Rejections are always hard but it's better than leaving her hanging if you disappear.
Then this...

So stop seeing her then she will understand that's just a transaction. A business. She can move on when she takes the lesson.

Good luck, tough, but the right thing to do...

[HumptyDumpty]

Always had a soft spot where I am worried about hurting girls whether they are working girls or not. I pulled out $500 for her but she wouldn't accept it. I think the best thing to do would be to see her again and tip her for a normal plain massage and so she understands that its always gonna be a business and customer relationship. Hurts in the short term but better for the long term.

[Maxybro]

Always had a soft spot where I am worried about hurting girls whether they are working girls or not. I pulled out $500 for her but she wouldn't accept it. I think the best thing to do would be to see her again and tip her for a normal plain massage and so she understands that its always gonna be a business and customer relationship. Hurts in the short term but better for the long term.
You pulled out $500 but she wouldn't accept? Now I know you are full of shit lol

No ML would knock back $500, guaranteed. They do the job to make money not to give out free fs to guys they just met a few days ago.

What's your next bullshit story bro?

[HumptyDumpty]

If you don't want to believe me, its your problem. But thats what happened.

[Maxybro]

If you don't want to believe me, its your problem. But thats what happened.

No I don't believe you, but good luck.

[suka02]

I would force it. here take it or leave it on table/bed. then leave out the door straight away. That is curtesy/appreciation something you receive and must give back in return. if you receive and don't give back, it'll hunt into your dreams lol

[henry_lawson]

If you pay, it's FS and she's a prostitute.
If she declines the cash, it's because that's a boundary a girl new to the industry didn't intend to cross. I don't think you need to worry about her becoming too clingy just yet.
After doing a job that is all about giving, some girls are happy to go a bit further with somebody they relate to, or is kind to them, or isn't too demanding. Full marks to you for being considerate, so don't just ghost her after she's let her guard down a little.

[pooh10]

You can also return the favor to her by seeing her more often than usual to make up for the tip she rejected you off. This way it is a win win for both of you.

[Travelmate]

I have experienced more than half dozen and ongoing.

All about luck.
All of them quit industry
All of them are student holding bachelor or master degree in Australia and oversea.
None of them are seeking citizenship through this relationship.
Amazing.

They somehow work as ML.
And not accept money for FS.

[Lenka_X5]

My experience indicates it goes both ways. Some ML and strippers go full service to earn extra $$$.

Think Pixie (ex ML) and Makayla (ex Stripper) from Stiletto.

[john12]

I saw a particular ML consistently for a few days straight and started from no touching and working my way to FS. Normally when this happens, I would ask them how much they would like so they know that in the end it is only a transaction and i feel comfortable seeing them again in the future. However, this one particular ML wouldn't take any money let alone the $50 for extras. Nothing was negotiated upfront, the session just got a little wild and out of control. She is a young ML with very little experience, very naive i would say. The hard part now, is that i feel guilty and uncomfortable seeing her again.

Was it a RnT place or a legit place? Most legit places have no private rooms

[ksteve_m28]

My 2 cents...

I believe you do like her or at least enjoy her that you went a few days straight.
My suggestion is to buy her a gift.... in the range of $100-150..(pendant, earring)
See her and give it to her .. have your session again..maybe you lucky another fs.
But give her the gift, since she does not want the money last time, tell her this is equivalent to the money you pay at other establishment... give her the names of the 10 shops... show that you are professional Punter and punt weekly (and like the Chinese saying, you are a bird with no leg, you wont stop), hopefully she accept her fate internally and give up any hope clingy to you. Then she understand this is just business and if you are lucky you continue fs with her, ML.

Steve.

[Ilovetits]

If you don't want to believe me, its your problem. But thats what happened.

Haha bro humptydumpty may be you can PM the girl's details and let me find it out whether it is only happen just for you or not

[Bigtitlover]

Sounds like you hit the jackpot!!! Many here would love to be in your shoes

[vinegarstroke]

Haha bro humptydumpty may be you can PM the girl's details and let me find it out whether it is only happen just for you or not

I knew someone would make this post, just a matter of time.

[rooter]

Humpty Dumpty sat on a bed.
Humpty Dumpty got some free head.
So much free fucking
The dream of all men.
But Humpty isn't going back there again.

[kaankaant]

Sounds like you hit the jackpot!!! Many here would love to be in your shoes

Damn straight - this sounds like a dream situation... or something from a porno...

[HumptyDumpty]

Humpty Dumpty sat on a bed.
Humpty Dumpty got some free head.
So much free fucking
The dream of all men.
But Humpty isn't going back there again.

HAHA...
except there was no head:cry:

[lockhart]

Was the session a "protected" one...and who provided the condom ?

If OP pulled out the condom from his wallet then the girl show know she met a professional punter and she is willing to face any consequence may cause should the relationship develop further.

If ML provided the condom you can work it out...

If BBFS then she really fall for you . OP's next move has to be well thought of .....

[HumptyDumpty]

Was the session a "protected" one...and who provided the condom ?

If OP pulled out the condom from his wallet then the girl show know she met a professional punter and she is willing to face any consequence may cause should the relationship develop further.

If ML provided the condom you can work it out...

If BBFS then she really fall for you . OP's next move has to be well thought of .....

It was definitely protected.
I am quite worried about unprotected after seeing some of my mates catch STIs.
It was awkward but I walked out to the convenience store and bought condoms and also a couple of drinks so when I walk back in, it doesn't seem to bad.
I'm pretty sure the mamasan knows whats going on but still can't be too obvious.

[AHLUNGOR]

It was definitely protected.
I am quite worried about unprotected after seeing some of my mates catch STIs.
It was awkward but I walked out to the convenience store and bought condoms and also a couple of drinks so when I walk back in, it doesn't seem to bad.
I'm pretty sure the mamasan knows whats going on but still can't be too obvious.

Interesting , so you sort of making out with the ml, got to the point when FS was in the card, no money was discussed and then neither of you had the Dom. So you got dressed, went out to the store to buy Dom and drinks while she was waiting for you inside the room.

You came back, got naked again , no BJ but you got hard again anyway and completed the deeds !

Envy !!

[HumptyDumpty]

Interesting , so you sort of making out with the ml, got to the point when FS was in the card, no money was discussed and then neither of you had the Dom. So you got dressed, went out to the store to buy Dom and drinks while she was waiting for you inside the room.

You came back, got naked again , no BJ but you got hard again anyway and completed the deeds !

Envy !!

It was difficult to stop and not go inside without the condom, took lots of training whilst punting overseas.
I have made mistakes many times in my years of punting but after been to vietnam, malaysia, china and indonesia, i think protection is very important.
With previous experiences, the girl would go outside and ask other girls for condoms or maybe they have them in their own bags outside but this girl would not budge.
Luckily there were convenience stores very close by.
P.S. wasn't that easy to get hard again and needed an hour extension