Fav ML about to leave industry

[otokosg]

Today I was in a bit a of shock after my fav ML told me she's thinking about leaving the industry, with a few possible options:

1. continue working in the same shop (where she's been working for nearly 2 years), but no longer provide extra
2. move to a legit shop
3. find a new job outside of massage (cafe or cash reg at supermarket etc)

My first thought was that I wouldn't be able to see her nude again, and that really got me depressed, so the session didn't go well, and I ended up leaving the shop 10 mins early. She seemed to sense my sadness and said "I haven't made up my mind yet, it's all just a thought" before I left. But this was little comfort to me, as it's natural for any ML to want to leave the industry at some point.

So I did a bit of analysis, and it appears possible outcomes for the above situations would be:

1. I still have a chance to convince her to give me some special treatment, but I doubt she will choose this option, as experience tells me no ML can last long in a non-legit shop if she chooses to provide no extra (even those who are willing to give non-nude HJ wouldn't stay long)

2. I can continue see her in the legit shop, but would it be an insult to her if I try to touch her or ask her to stealthily give me a hj?
I don't know how I can hide the lust with her hands on me :)

3. would it be possible to continue see her after the ML has completely left the industry? (e.g going out for dinner, or have a cup of coffee etc)
I think there is a very slim chance I might be able to keep in touch with her, but my fear is that if we were seen by my or her friends, how do we explain our relationship? just a friend? (there is a significant age gap, so it's kinda hard to explain how we came to know each other).
Also in this situation, I guess it would be absolutely impossible to ask her to do me any "favor" any more?

Hmm, maybe my best choice is to simply find another regular ML :(

Any comments are appreciated.

[HumptyDumpty]

Today I was in a bit a of shock after my fav ML told me she's thinking about leaving the industry, with a few possible options:

1. continue working in the same shop (where she's been working for nearly 2 years), but no longer provide extra
2. move to a legit shop
3. find a new job outside of massage (cafe or cash reg at supermarket etc)

My first thought was that I wouldn't be able to see her nude again, and that really got me depressed, so the session didn't go well, and I ended up leaving the shop 10 mins early. She seemed to sense my sadness and said "I haven't made up my mind yet, it's all just a thought" before I left. But this was little comfort to me, as it's natural for any ML to want to leave the industry at some point.

So I did a bit of analysis, and it appears possible outcomes for the above situations would be:

1. I still have a chance to convince her to give me some special treatment, but I doubt she will choose this option, as experience tells me no ML can last long in a non-legit shop if she chooses to provide no extra (even those who are willing to give non-nude HJ wouldn't stay long)

2. I can continue see her in the legit shop, but would it be an insult to her if I try to touch her or ask her to stealthily give me a hj?
I don't know how I can hide the lust with her hands on me :)

3. would it be possible to continue see her after the ML has completely left the industry? (e.g going out for dinner, or have a cup of coffee etc)
I think there is a very slim chance I might be able to keep in touch with her, but my fear is that if we were seen by my or her friends, how do we explain our relationship? just a friend? (there is a significant age gap, so it's kinda hard to explain how we came to know each other).
Also in this situation, I guess it would be absolutely impossible to ask her to do me any "favor" any more?

Hmm, maybe my best choice is to simply find another regular ML :(

Any comments are appreciated.


Thats a bummer.
Make use of the upcoming Valentine's Day and get her number or we chat so you can keep in contact and convince her to privately service you even after she quits.
Even better, turn it into a FB relationship.

[Maxybro]

Just move on and find another regular. All ML will eventually move on, sooner or later. We can't expect them to stay in the industry just to satisfy our needs.
If there is a big age gap like you say, then realistically you have very little chance of any other form of relationship, especially if nothing has happened after 2 years of visit.

[Bigtitlover]

ahh fuck feel sad just reading this OP. This happened to me back in 2013 with one of my favourite MLs from midas. I was seeing her regularly for a few months, 2-3 times a week. She was honestly the best imo, She use to get me so HORNY!!! on her last dad she gave me a T2 set as a parting gift. She told me she is quitting for good, so there really wasnt much i could do but embrace the last session i had with her.

I think you should just move on. See her as many times as possible before she quits!!!!!!

[aussiegaigin]

You are just another customer remember. If this girl doesn't offer you some encouragement to keep in touch (eg her contact details), she just wants to move on; you should do the same.

Your next "favourite" might be even better

[des888]

Yes all my regulars in the past I've had outside contact some I didn't ask but I'm confident I could have. If you really feel that much for her try and ask for contact info doesn't hurt

[kaankaant]

You are just another customer remember. If this girl doesn't offer you some encouragement to keep in touch (eg her contact details), she just wants to move on; you should do the same.

Your next "favourite" might be even better

Couldn't have said it better!

Sure it sucks now, but you'll get over her mate. It's hard not to to get attached to someone you like but there's plenty of others out there. Being a WL is a finite proposition, it's not like it's a long term career. They all have to move on sometime. Make the most of the time you have left with her and then start looking for the next gem.

[otokosg]

thanks for your kind replies.

I do have her contact info, so in situation 2 & 3, if I manage to keep in touch with the ML, would it be highly inappropriate/insulting (damaging to the relationship) if I make a move on her (e.g asking for favors/touching).

I know some bros have so-called FWB, but my fear is that this is rare and you need to walk a fine line to make sure it doesn't become awkward.

[Maxybro]

thanks for your kind replies.

I do have her contact info, so in situation 2 & 3, if I manage to keep in touch with the ML, would it be highly inappropriate/insulting (damaging to the relationship) if I make a move on her (e.g asking for favors/touching).

I know some bros have so-called FWB, but my fear is that this is rare and you need to walk a fine line to make sure it doesn't become awkward.

So you've had her contact details? What are you waiting for? Make a move, what is there to lose?

Alternatively, you can tell us where she works so we can visit her and maybe if she suddenly gets so busy she will delay retirement.

[123brainer]

thanks for your kind replies.

I do have her contact info, so in situation 2 & 3, if I manage to keep in touch with the ML, would it be highly inappropriate/insulting (damaging to the relationship) if I make a move on her (e.g asking for favors/touching).

I know some bros have so-called FWB, but my fear is that this is rare and you need to walk a fine line to make sure it doesn't become awkward.

I don't think it will be inappropriate/insulting if you make a move on her. Test the waters and see where it goes. If nothing comes of it so be it, if something happens, fun times and enjoy the ride.

If any of your friends see you with her say she's a friend. I think you should be proud to be seen with a younger hotter woman. To me it means you're desirable and successful.

On the other hand if you're seen with her by your partner/wife (if you have one) you'll be f..... just a thought....

Either way, I feel your pain...

[HumptyDumpty]

thanks for your kind replies.

I do have her contact info, so in situation 2 & 3, if I manage to keep in touch with the ML, would it be highly inappropriate/insulting (damaging to the relationship) if I make a move on her (e.g asking for favors/touching).

I know some bros have so-called FWB, but my fear is that this is rare and you need to walk a fine line to make sure it doesn't become awkward.


You can put it this way. If you make a move on your crush and you fail, its a very similar situation. Always give it a go but make sure its at the right time.
If you don't try you won't know. And if you don't try, you may regret later on.

If unfortunately it does fail, its a catalyst to force you to man up and move on. I know its difficult thinking about it and the prospects of losing a potential ML that could be a friend. But if you continue as fiends, the chances of getting anything out of it is very little, so might as well make a move now.