MLs messing with your head

[noname_random]

Hey bros

Long time lurker, thought its about time I do my first post.

Seems like recently a lot of other bros have got burnt by their MLs playin mind games or watever .....

Just wondering if other bros have stories / moves / mind games these ML tried to pull, that you'd like to share, so other bros dont get sucked in.

Any advice is appreciated too, thanks bros !

[Babycat]

Wow, such a mind game. Should be quiet for a while and see her reaction. Women like texting and attention catching, but when they have them, they like to become queen Elsa. But they're not much patiently if they really like you, and your game.

[traveller1]

Give her another chance, see her again in the shop then ask her again.

[AHLUNGOR]

Hey bros

Long time lurker, thought its about time I do my first post.

Seems like recently a lot of other bros have got burnt by their MLs playin mind games or watever .....

Just wondering if other bros have stories / moves / mind games these ML tried to pull, that you'd like to share, so other bros dont get sucked in.

Any advice is appreciated too, thanks bros !

May be you should start by sharing some of your own experiences instead ?

[sukeong]

Really? What type of mind games are you talking about OP? Any examples?

[woods23]

Enjoy the moment ...best tip I got from the guys here.
You will end up getting hurt at the end :(

[Longan]

Yeah just enjoy the moment. Or you can mess with THEIR heads. One time i went to ML, I asked if I could massage her. Ended up giving her a part 2 after the massage. Role reversal! Yes I was the MD (massage dude). No doubt she was mind fucked.

[eyo1032]

Mind games makes it more fun, surely, no? : )

[6sixty9nine]

Ha ha ha Longan you sound like a right chancer. Smooth moves. Onya mate

[Nejums]

Don't play that shit. I'm upfront about my personal situations with all my MLs. Everybody knows I'm a father of two.

[cuteguy]

Enjoy the moment ...best tip I got from the guys here.
You will end up getting hurt at the end :(

You're dead right. Go in and have your massage. If you really want to meet girls, try somewhere else. It won't get too complicated for you.

[Nejums]

Normal girls can be just as messed up...

[noname_random]

Hi guys thanks for the input.

I go punting with no intention to chase these chicks... but if theres chance for freebie extras I wouldnt say no lol.

Long story short shes the one showing shes keen, gift, txt and every session progress with more service.

that got me hooked a bit and seems like once she know that, she dont bother replying. a bit annoying but im over it, shouldnt hav got attached in the first place.

at the end of the day we are all $$ dollar bills to them. they try get u hooked so u keep going back.

its not good having your head messed with, but going forward just gotta block it out thats all.

[Palooka]

After see hundreds or thousands of dicks it would have to mess up their head in some way.
Its called Prostitute traumatic stress disorder.

[CunningLinguist]

Hey bros

Long time lurker, thought its about time I do my first post.

Seems like recently a lot of other bros have got burnt by their MLs playin mind games or watever .....

Just wondering if other bros have stories / moves / mind games these ML tried to pull, that you'd like to share, so other bros dont get sucked in.

Any advice is appreciated too, thanks bros !

I find it is best to stay one step a head ...

[Alan86]

There's a lot of past threads on this site you should look up. Where punters tell their stories of dating MLs/WLs.

Personally, I think it's just a bad idea to begin with. I wouldn't bother with it unless I really knew the girl for a while, and could really trust her and knew she was coming from a place of honesty.

I say this not to talk badly against MLs, of course they are wonderful people much of the time. But I'm just saying that the situation is such that it's easy to get manipulated in the first place. If you do meet the wrong girl.

There's so many non-MLs to date, but if you really do fall for one and want to get serious, I'd suggest you must never see her in the shop, or have any sort of money entering the picture.

[woods23]

You're dead right. Go in and have your massage. If you really want to meet girls, try somewhere else. It won't get too complicated for you.

They are there to make money nd we there to have fun .
Go in there get many extras as possible nd make the session enjoyable for both of you !
The Reality is she's getting great serivces from us nd she get to keep our money :surprise:
You can't win we will always be the loser :(

[Longan]

Should be quiet for a while and see her reaction. Women like texting and attention catching, but when they have them, they like to become queen Elsa. But they're not much patiently if they really like you, and your game.
Yes, this is good advice. When I started getting into the dating game, this was one of the first things I learned. If women like you, they will make the effort to text, see or be with you.

There was this one girl that was showing all the wrong signs (not replying to texts etc) even though we hang out quite a bit. One day, things progressed (at least I thought at the time) and she came over to my place. Started messing around and eventually she got to the point where she was naked. Just as we were about to have sex, she stopped, put back her clothes and said she didn't feel like it. At the time, that really messed with my mind. I knew I was being played with and learnt it the hard way. Women can be so cruel sometimes.

[CunningLinguist]

Yes, this is good advice. When I started getting into the dating game, this was one of the first things I learned. If women like you, they will make the effort to text, see or be with you.

There was this one girl that was showing all the wrong signs (not replying to texts etc) even though we hang out quite a bit. One day, things progressed (at least I thought at the time) and she came over to my place. Started messing around and eventually she got to the point where she was naked. Just as we were about to have sex, she stopped, put back her clothes and said she didn't feel like it. At the time, that really messed with my mind. I knew I was being played with and learnt it the hard way. Women can be so cruel sometimes.

FMD she had big balls to do that ...

[wilisno]

FMD she had big balls to do that ...
Maybe she just wanted to see if he insisted, so she could enjoy her power of seduction ! ;) ;) ;)

[sukeong]

Yes, this is good advice. When I started getting into the dating game, this was one of the first things I learned. If women like you, they will make the effort to text, see or be with you.

There was this one girl that was showing all the wrong signs (not replying to texts etc) even though we hang out quite a bit. One day, things progressed (at least I thought at the time) and she came over to my place. Started messing around and eventually she got to the point where she was naked. Just as we were about to have sex, she stopped, put back her clothes and said she didn't feel like it. At the time, that really messed with my mind. I knew I was being played with and learnt it the hard way. Women can be so cruel sometimes.

Woah this ml is sassy wicked. But if she wasnt replying to your texts and yet you were still willing to hang out with her then I can see why she thinks you are a chump. Sorry for the harsh words

[Longan]

Woah this ml is sassy wicked. But if she wasnt replying to your texts and yet you were still willing to hang out with her then I can see why she thinks you are a chump. Sorry for the harsh words
Not a ML, just a girl I knew at the time. I was new to the game so yes I was a bit of a chump. I had to masterbate to get it out of the system and she seemed to enjoy the sight of that so I do think she somehow gets off on having the power to seduce someone, which is pretty twisted IMO.

[CunningLinguist]

She watched you rub one out ?

[Longan]

She watched you rub one out ?
Well yeah, we were both in same room afterwards. We were meant to be "studying" together that day. She got back to studying. I had to rub one out. And she gave me the occasional glance while I was at it. Kind of awkward situation to be in to be honest...

[Mitch2]

F**kin hell.
The stuff some people do and live in..
I been through alot, but new and surprising things just keeping surprise me.

[CunningLinguist]

Crikey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Longan]

Haha what would you guys have done in that scenario?

[Mr Bastard]

Hi guys thanks for the input.

I go punting with no intention to chase these chicks... but if theres chance for freebie extras I wouldnt say no lol.

Long story short shes the one showing shes keen, gift, txt and every session progress with more service.

that got me hooked a bit and seems like once she know that, she dont bother replying. a bit annoying but im over it, shouldnt hav got attached in the first place.

at the end of the day we are all $$ dollar bills to them. they try get u hooked so u keep going back.

its not good having your head messed with, but going forward just gotta block it out thats all.

Thats the first time I have ever heard a ML trying to get you hooked by spending money on you buy giving you a gift.........

[Mr Bastard]

Hi guys thanks for the input.

I go punting with no intention to chase these chicks... but if theres chance for freebie extras I wouldnt say no lol.

Long story short shes the one showing shes keen, gift, txt and every session progress with more service.

that got me hooked a bit and seems like once she know that, she dont bother replying. a bit annoying but im over it, shouldnt hav got attached in the first place.

at the end of the day we are all $$ dollar bills to them. they try get u hooked so u keep going back.

its not good having your head messed with, but going forward just gotta block it out thats all.

Thats the first time I have ever heard a ML trying to get you hooked by spending money on you buy giving you a gift.........sounds like a prank post........

[Palooka]

Haha what would you guys have done in that scenario?
I would have told her to F off and ask her to drive me to the nearest brothel.
And then told her i forgot my wallet and can i borrow so money from her.

[Shoryureppa]

The question I have to ask is...

If you date a WL, do you expect her to stop working as a WL & ride off with you into the sunset? Or, for her to keep working as a WL?

From the WL I've seen, there's only 1 I would consider dating. But, how do you know if they're being genuine or faking their personality... You never truly do.

[Mr Bastard]

The question I have to ask is...

If you date a WL, do you expect her to stop working as a WL & ride off with you into the sunset? Or, for her to keep working as a WL?

From the WL I've seen, there's only 1 I would consider dating. But, how do you know if they're being genuine or faking their personality... You never truly do.

I agree with you there mate, and I guess the WL's face the same dilemma when they meet someone they actually like, do they pursue it, punters and workers are living very similar lives?

Does she trust her punter-want-to-be-boyfriend not to be running around punting elsewhere as most of the punters in this forum I assume, very much like to do.

And with the ML's especially, do they think the punter is being nice just to gain extras and more sexual favours?

It is a CLUSTER-FUCK of cloak and dagger behaviour worthy of a novel to rival an Espionage plotted Best Seller

Thoughts of someone whom thinks too much.........

[Shoryureppa]

I agree with you there mate, and I guess the WL's face the same dilemma when they meet someone they actually like, do they pursue it, punters and workers are living very similar lives?

Does she trust her punter-want-to-be-boyfriend not to be running around punting elsewhere as most of the punters in this forum I assume, very much like to do.

And with the ML's especially, do they think the punter is being nice just to gain extras and more sexual favours?

It is a CLUSTER-FUCK of cloak and dagger behaviour worthy of a novel to rival an Espionage plotted Best Seller

Thoughts of someone whom thinks too much.........

I wonder how the 2 would've started dating..

After a few sessions are you like, "so... want to date?"

[aussiegaigin]

Thats the first time I have ever heard a ML trying to get you hooked by spending money on you buy giving you a gift.........sounds like a prank post........

I had an ML a couple of years ago who seemed keen on me. Always promising to invite me home for dinner, but whenever I was available, she had some excuse to put it off...flat mate at home that night, etc. Didn't bother me that much as I was not over-interested in dating her.

But when I booked her in the shop the day before, she would cook meals for me and bring them in and we'd have lunch together in the shop, or I would take it home if she got busy. She was a good cook too.